Taurus man; patience

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Why is it the taurus men story is always the same? Women stuck in the friend zone, left to wonder, assume and speculate what his thoughts are; confusion is the result of his actions and words or lack there of. Finally after months, even years of a woman's patience, persistence, consideration, neglect, deprivation and emotional exhaustion, the taurus man is the victim. Victim in terms of, now he will be EXTRA guarded, on top of the normal GUARDED, when the next woman comes along and signs up for his journey to no where. Never mind that the last woman waited a half a decade hoping he would get his tail in gear. Ladies take heed to all of the warnings you read regarding the extreme degree of patience it takes to deal with MANY taurus men. Patience spanning beyond your average progression of a relationship. Know that the friend zone is a long term slot with them until you move on and then he MAY act as though you were more special than he displayed the entire time he was your priority. Did I mention, at this point he is now the victim?
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Posted by RainDancer88
Never experienced this. He made it clear from our first date that he wanted me, and only me. He jumped in head first, and he stays consistent. No other women, he works diligently and spends time with his family and me or both... He is always there no matter what.

He can take his sweet time all he wants and he comes freely.

^Someone up there said "Enjoy the journey and stop sweating the destination"



This. I can relate to this.
My experiences with Taurus men were always clear as day. Never experienced this hot/cold behaviour, or uncertainty. They always made clear about what they want. Straightforwardness, consistency. These guys often stick to what they want. Yes, they can be slow to react sometimes, but I never doubted their feelings towards me cause they were loud and clear about that from the first days of relationship.
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I am a Libra "seeing" a Taurus man. My ascendant is Scorpio and Venus in Libra. I was actually quite confused by this growing up -- Taurus men are always attracted to me. I am more sincere then the average Libra sun person, but I'm still a social, talkative Libra. Taurus is attracted to Libras air element which relates to his brain where he thinks; it relates to his security consciousness.

But enough about me; I "was" courting this Taurus, but he is so slow -- and I'm a Libra, we like it slow too but damn! Chased me for a while, talked about living with me at one point in life, had me all smitten -- then the disappearing act they are famous for. I already know I am his favorite but he is still looking for other women, though he said he wanted to live with me and even convinced me to get intimate with him. But after that, he disappeared, again. What is funny, (?) I still love him -- it is just, I'm a strong woman who does not like to wonder around and waste time thinking ilrastionally. I am understanding with him that I have not seen other people but continue with school and wait for him to turn around.

Whats wrong with taking it slow? Taurus isn't taking it slow, he isn't taking it at all because he takes long to decide, even more than a Libra.

Taurus doesn't like to express his feelings, but recently, mine has gotten all sensitive because of work and that he thinks I'm leaving him. I am not. He is about at the victim stage, but not quite -- I can tell. And frankly, he has quietly broken my heart like 4 million times due to his unclear ways, and it can't even happen anymore... Now its his turn...So far it hasn't happened, because I keep on picking him back up. Its weird when a Taurus man, who is considered a strong, masculine person is continuously leaning on a Libra woman for love, though it would be considered the friend zone. I am too reliable for my own good. I refuse to hurt him...Then again, I did read somewhere that Taurus men tend to marry Libra women very often. Libra is much to endearing. Okay, I think I just ranted...Thanks for making this, LeoGurlz
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I am a virgo who dated a Taurus for two an half months. Yes, we were in love and everything would be good at times. But there was those times in our relationship were he was so hard headed (his way or high way, very loving and had my back for anything as while as my child who was not his). But he went into depression a lot thought the relationship and it was very hard trying to make it would.. I felt like he kept me guessing if it was me.. if I wasn't doing enough for him..I tried many times to talk to him about my feelings.. he would say nothing or just say hes not man enough and I deserve better..I seriously didn't like hearing that and only wanted to be with him.. I loved what we had.. He was so stuck in his ways and would never let me into his life fully.. I felt like he shut down a lot and I would argue a lot with him about it. I couldn't understand how he would not let me in and we had been together for two years..I think what really did is that he didn't have his life together and I know there are things he wanted to do but just wasn't able to right now because he lost his job.. A year later of up and down rollercoster he starts working but I still felt like he didn't seem interested in us anymore..I asked him recently what is he expecting from our relationship..does he see up with him in the future.. He flipped out and was like oh I never thought about u guys like that before..Which hurt deeply! I was stock..I said I dont' want to get married or move in together right now.. Im just asking so we are on the same page.. he like I don't know ..while we are always together..while I felt that he was a great guy..loving,caring, vey supportive, but left me guessing to much on where he stand.. He would tell me while I do a lot for u and that should be good enough..the hard things about our relationship was him communicating he would not say much but did everything for me.. I have been very patient with him but I didn't like that he could not tell me yes or no if he saw us moving in together or growing together..leaving me guessing where things where going..The comment above said somethinga bout Bull wanting to own their own things like house he was sooo like that.. he's like I need to get my own things (house, finical things, car, etc) before anything..I was like why can't we do that together/ I had my own place, money and car.. he lived with his parents because he lost his job.. I told him one day that he was driving my crazy because he would not open up
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about things..he would ask me where I was going and who I was with but he didn't like me asking him..He would say stop questiong me..lol I would go out with him and his family but he never wanted to take me around his friends non wanted to hang out with my friends but came to my family gathering..I got tired of the games and I told him I wasn't happy.. this had been maybe the third time..hoping that he would open up and try to make us work on things..I told him one day Why are we together if your never going let me in??...He didn't say nothing.. He stayed quit then said he wanted to be single..Anyways, we broke up..Im so lost and confuse.. how could he just lose or let us go we had something wonderful—?? I feel like shit... I still talk to him but he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship and wants to be single.. He said he will talk to me but he doesn't want to hear about us because Im only making it harder on him..wtf! He said we tried to work things out but he's not happy and neither I am. He once told that his exs are all crazy.. I think I might now know why because he is a bull and will not buge.. I love him but I hate who is becoming now 🦇 He said there's nothing I can do or say this time he wants to be single and maybe in future things might change..what should I do—??
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Listen to the bull. You just said he sounds like he needs things -- he probably doesn't feel comfortable in his current live style if he hasn't made up his mind about you. I can see this doesn't appear fair to you, but he doesn't sound like he is being completely unreasonable. Give him some time and don't take it too personally. I am good with Taurus men -- they don't like feeling useless. By bringing up touchy topics, they tend to either clam up, or get upset. And you said he does many things for you but he doesn't say much back; thats how most Taurus do. Don't even look for a Taurus to say a lot of mushy stuff like that, he probably won't, unless you guys are in it long term. Never take Taurus men seriously unless he is taking you seriously -- otherwise, you get left wondering; he is the bull, and bulls like working behind the scene. They don't feel the need to explain their constant reasoning. I know Taurus can be somewhat flighty too, but listen to him; he doesn't want to date right now because he probably doesn't want you down his back while he is working himself out.
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Posted by RainDancer88
Never experienced this. He made it clear from our first date that he wanted me, and only me. He jumped in head first, and he stays consistent. No other women, he works diligently and spends time with his family and me or both... He is always there no matter what.

He can take his sweet time all he wants and he comes freely.

^Someone up there said "Enjoy the journey and stop sweating the destination"



This. I can relate to this.
My experiences with Taurus men were always clear as day. Never experienced this hot/cold behaviour, or uncertainty. They always made clear about what they want. Straightforwardness, consistency. These guys often stick to what they want. Yes, they can be slow to react sometimes, but I never doubted their feelings towards me cause they were loud and clear about that from the first days of relationship.



Ditto.

"If I'm doing this with you, I'm not doing this with anybody else." and every action has backed that up. Like I said, if you hafta wonder, something's not right.
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Mind you guys, however, Taurus men are known for doing this. I have had another male Taurus friend who texts me every morning -- reliable and consistent, rich and good paying job -- although I keep telling him I'm uninterested because I don't want to be with a guy who keeps sweating me. This Taurus friend is so bullheaded and will not take no for an answer even though I am even fussy with him. Its when they are consistent they are ready for it. It may not be easy to understand this because your bull charged at you like the color red. The Taurus guy that I have a thing for charged and then did the disappearing thing. I agree though, something isn't right! But I was actually so confused by this that I read over other comments from hundreds of women with Taurus guys and they said they often do this. The fact is that Taurus is usually a provider and not all Taurus men have what they want but still want some lovin'.



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I know this is an old post but what the heck... 🙂

I am an Aries (34) woman and my companion is a Taurus (48) man. We have known each other for 10 years dating for 3 years, and I will say it's been the best three years of my life! I can say so much, but I will try to KIS...No, my bull and I have not solidified a commitment however, he is always available and consistent in my life, financially, emotionally and physically. A mature Taurus man shows his adoration and affection by his actions, and presence in your life! You have to let people be people (not take advantage of you), but learn him and understand that some people express their LOVE Language in different forms! Learn each other and go by his actions. As you'll grow he will also express himself at the most delicate moments that you'll share. My bull is very direct and straight to the point, so you can also ask him...beware, we as woman don't want to hear the truth (most times) and be sure if you ask he will tell you in a "matter of fact" way.

My point...although we have not solidified a commitment, I am loyal to him and he to me! Being "Friends" first is everything to a lot of bulls, and truly it's not a bad position to be in (contrary to what some say) if you know your worth and keep your independence things will get better. I'll give you an example: A couple months back I mentioned to my bull that we had never been out of the Country together. His response was a smart comment jokingly, and okay...this week he surprised me and told me he put down the deposit for a Cruise in 2017. I'll tell you this too and I am not afraid to admit it...not once has he told me he loves me (although I know he does), did it bother me after year 2 yes it did, but based on his constant efforts in anything I would vent about need or want and love of myself, I gained more awareness in his love language. When he is ready to tell me he loves me he will. If you let the status quo of the world's love...of what should be said and how it should be done, your love will have many challenges.

I sometimes express it this way to my family and friends, when we talk about relationships in general and sometimes direct questions about what is acceptable and not...I tell them my bull is an intricate part of my life, but he is not my whole world! If that point comes we will know. But right now we continue to have our own lives and work toward our own dreams, and if/when they are meant to come completely together they will. Of course, you don't want to hear it...be patient to the extent that YOU are willing to take...or more on! You have to believe in yourself and your self-worth, don't make it ALL about him! But also know, if you are patient so will be rewarded! The bull always have something brewing in the background for his love! Just my thoughts and opinions! Good luck to you and your bull!
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I am a Virgo woman 4 years ago I met my Taurus on a dating app. Best first date last 8 hours after three dates one long kiss he put my ass in the friend zone. I went in the friend zone with the intentions of convincing him later. Four years later he is my best friend the one I take my heart too when the world has been mean to me. He calls me "The Best Person he knows" I call him my Kungoza (my teacher). I spend nights in his arms (no sex no kissing) just holding and loving. We make fun of each other and laugh until we cry. We have never had an argument and have never disrespected each other. He briefly got a girlfriend and I thought I was going to die. I cried on his shoulder about him breaking my heart and he nursed me through the pain. They broke up but we are still we have always been soulmate friends. I lost my job and he started putting money into my account I had to make him stop. He will kill a brick and drown a drop of water over me and I will do the same. I have no explanation for our relationship I love this man in a way words cannot explain. He has restored my faith in men and he has taught me about friendship, life, and love. I have never had sex with him and I only kissed him once. When we go out he loves how men stop him and tell him how beautiful I am. He takes pictures of me when I am not looking and out of blue send them to me to make me laugh. He is by no means homosexual he is a man's man when he stays at my house he fixes things without me ever asking. I have stopped trying to figure him out I have just come to accept our friendship. He sits in the bathroom while I bathe and talks to me. If you have an answer to this love puzzle I would truly like to hear it.
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Kwid,

I was fine with everything (no sex no kissing), everything sounded normal till I read the last line where you said he talks to you in the bathroom while you bathe?

Most Taurus men are sexual beings, they don't avoid sex generally. He is probably not into it may be because you lead him away every time he tries to bring in some romance. Have you done that? That would probably scare him off, cuz he does not want to come off as a creep to you after being soo close for 4 years.
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Posted by Kwidprowkwow
I am a Virgo woman 4 years ago I met my Taurus on a dating app. Best first date last 8 hours after three dates one long kiss he put my ass in the friend zone. I went in the friend zone with the intentions of convincing him later. Four years later he is my best friend the one I take my heart too when the world has been mean to me. He calls me "The Best Person he knows" I call him my Kungoza (my teacher). I spend nights in his arms (no sex no kissing) just holding and loving. We make fun of each other and laugh until we cry. We have never had an argument and have never disrespected each other. He briefly got a girlfriend and I thought I was going to die. I cried on his shoulder about him breaking my heart and he nursed me through the pain. They broke up but we are still we have always been soulmate friends. I lost my job and he started putting money into my account I had to make him stop. He will kill a brick and drown a drop of water over me and I will do the same. I have no explanation for our relationship I love this man in a way words cannot explain. He has restored my faith in men and he has taught me about friendship, life, and love. I have never had sex with him and I only kissed him once. When we go out he loves how men stop him and tell him how beautiful I am. He takes pictures of me when I am not looking and out of blue send them to me to make me laugh. He is by no means homosexual he is a man's man when he stays at my house he fixes things without me ever asking. I have stopped trying to figure him out I have just come to accept our friendship. He sits in the bathroom while I bathe and talks to me. If you have an answer to this love puzzle I would truly like to hear it.
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Posted by Kwidprowkwow
I am a Virgo woman 4 years ago I met my Taurus on a dating app. Best first date last 8 hours after three dates one long kiss he put my ass in the friend zone. I went in the friend zone with the intentions of convincing him later. Four years later he is my best friend the one I take my heart too when the world has been mean to me. He calls me "The Best Person he knows" I call him my Kungoza (my teacher). I spend nights in his arms (no sex no kissing) just holding and loving. We make fun of each other and laugh until we cry. We have never had an argument and have never disrespected each other. He briefly got a girlfriend and I thought I was going to die. I cried on his shoulder about him breaking my heart and he nursed me through the pain. They broke up but we are still we have always been soulmate friends. I lost my job and he started putting money into my account I had to make him stop. He will kill a brick and drown a drop of water over me and I will do the same. I have no explanation for our relationship I love this man in a way words cannot explain. He has restored my faith in men and he has taught me about friendship, life, and love. I have never had sex with him and I only kissed him once. When we go out he loves how men stop him and tell him how beautiful I am. He takes pictures of me when I am not looking and out of blue send them to me to make me laugh. He is by no means homosexual he is a man's man when he stays at my house he fixes things without me ever asking. I have stopped trying to figure him out I have just come to accept our friendship. He sits in the bathroom while I bathe and talks to me. If you have an answer to this love puzzle I would truly like to hear it.



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my first thoughts exactly. i'm not sure though that he knows it himself though... or if he's going through a denial phase. my advice? if yall are really as close as you claim, you gotta talk to him about this and make a move. when and if you make a move, that'll determine where he's at with you.

he may be scared of ruining a great thing (if he's straight), but also if he is straight, he'll either react to it willingly or obviously, hold back and stop you. i'm not saying to grab his junk either, but go in for a kiss first, and if he reacts to that well, slowly move down to his junk. you know how it goes. at this point, if you can't accept this friendship aspect, you're only going to be hurting yourself until you move on but at least making a move will offer you some closure.
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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
I know we can be slow but if I had a naked Virgal in front of me I wouldn't just be standing there watching!!!!

@Kwidprowkwow - I think you're going to have to be the one to initiate things, if that's what you want. As @The_Mad_H8R said he may not want you to think that he was just using the friendship as a way to get into your pants. So yes, either tell him you want to be together or grab his junk.
exactly this. if i had a naked virgo girl that i was attracted to (key word there) showering in front of me, i would not hesitate to jump into that shower with them for some play time.
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there is no way any heterosexual man is going to watch a woman bathe and not be at half mast.

i say in the closet.

maybe if they just met he might hide it but it's been four years. he's already kissed her and immediately friendzoned her. they sleep in the same bed and he's not gone for a grope. either he is a eunuch or likes the peen. and that's ok. a lot of us like the peen.
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Posted by jeane
there is no way any heterosexual man is going to watch a woman bathe and not be at half mast.

i say in the closet.

maybe if they just met he might hide it but it's been four years. he's already kissed her and immediately friendzoned her. they sleep in the same bed and he's not gone for a grope. either he is a eunuch or likes the peen. and that's ok. a lot of us like the peen.
lol ya we do!!!
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Posted by lnana04
I'm wondering if Kwid might have suspected he's gay too, which is why she mentioned her's not?

I actually don't get gay. Earth signs can seem to have an on/off switch, so sometimes, even with the men it seems, if they've made up their mind and boxed someone somewhere, they can withstand a lot, I'd think.

He probably really values the friendship.

i definitely can withstand a lot, but whats confusing to me is they kissed and he didnt go for more? tho this has happened to me in the past, and at the moment, i didnt go for more because i was SHOCKED that it even happened. i regret not going for more at the time, but it was tough to because i was sure as hell in the friendzone with that girl. sometimes u can be great friends with someone, and be extremely attracted, but not f'n know at all if u'll ever exit that friend zone.

its sad that the comments are to grab the dudes junk, shoot i even said it, and that is assault, but at the same time, sometimes, those kinda moves really offer all the answers. i still think they should talk about it first and she should make a PHYSICAL move. we all have made physical moves in the past and it wasn't automatically seen as assault. it can be an ice breaker too. SO MUCH GREY AREA IN THIS ISH. IT'S NOT ALWAYS BLACK AND WHITE FOLKS.
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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
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Posted by jeane
there is no way any heterosexual man is going to watch a woman bathe and not be at half mast.

i say in the closet.

maybe if they just met he might hide it but it's been four years. he's already kissed her and immediately friendzoned her. they sleep in the same bed and he's not gone for a grope. either he is a eunuch or likes the peen. and that's ok. a lot of us like the peen.


A lot of men in my generation arent like that. Trust me, they get less hot blooded male the younger they get... click to expand



There’s not being aggressive then there is not acting on a naked woman you’re close with right in front of you.

If he doesn’t like dudes he must be punching himself in the face every night. click to expand
The best sex I ever got was a guy in his 30s. The feminization of men in their early to mid 20s and younger is real. click to expand
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I've notice this too...
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Smh people truly don’t understand how some of us bulls work we all don’t think with our dicks people we have a mind and heart that controls our dicks. Op I believe that Taurus is virgos guardian angel and you may have just found yours by the things you wrote. To me it sounds like he really respects/values you the way some taurus will and wouldn’t think of crossing any boundaries with you that may make you see him in a negative way. I dated a Virgo who I really liked and respected and never made any moves on her that I felt would be going out of line of our friendship. And that’s what she really liked about me and why she gave me a chance over the others that were pursuing her. She liked that I never wanted anything more than her company while she knew the others just wanted to get into her panties. I believe certain types of bulls just really respect women they like especially a virgal to the point of where we come off as not interested or “gay” I’ve been there when that’s not the case at all. We just respect that person a lot and don’t want to be seen by them as anything less than a gentleman. We hold them in high regard and won’t risk losing them completely because we were horny and thinking with our dicks.
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@kwidprowkwow:





Should we all start spamming her inbox letting her know we read this and for her to ask him if he's gay? click to expand

Give her two more hours and then we'll spam the inbox. I mean it was a pretty strong first post so I need to know what happened. click to expand
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hang on....aren't you guys supposed to be...err...patient?
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@kwidprowkwow:





Should we all start spamming her inbox letting her know we read this and for her to ask him if he's gay? click to expand



Give her two more hours and then we'll spam the inbox. I mean it was a pretty strong first post so I need to know what happened. click to expand


hang on....aren't you guys supposed to be...err...patient? click to expand

Maybe I've got a vested interest in going back to talking about naked Virgals? click to expand
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makes sense
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Why is it the taurus men story is always the same? Women stuck in the friend zone, left to wonder, assume and speculate what his thoughts are; confusion is the result of his actions and words or lack there of. Finally after months, even years of a woman's patience, persistence, consideration, neglect, deprivation and emotional exhaustion, the taurus man is the victim. Victim in terms of, now he will be EXTRA guarded, on top of the normal GUARDED, when the next woman comes along and signs up for his journey to no where. Never mind that the last woman waited a half a decade hoping he would get his tail in gear. Ladies take heed to all of the warnings you read regarding the extreme degree of patience it takes to deal with MANY taurus men. Patience spanning beyond your average progression of a relationship. Know that the friend zone is a long term slot with them until you move on and then he MAY act as though you were more special than he displayed the entire time he was your priority. Did I mention, at this point he is now the victim?

The only thing I can think of is that they are still observing and testing. click to expand
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5 years of friendzone was simply a man that wasn’t interested.
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Why is it the taurus men story is always the same? Women stuck in the friend zone, left to wonder, assume and speculate what his thoughts are; confusion is the result of his actions and words or lack there of. Finally after months, even years of a woman's patience, persistence, consideration, neglect, deprivation and emotional exhaustion, the taurus man is the victim. Victim in terms of, now he will be EXTRA guarded, on top of the normal GUARDED, when the next woman comes along and signs up for his journey to no where. Never mind that the last woman waited a half a decade hoping he would get his tail in gear. Ladies take heed to all of the warnings you read regarding the extreme degree of patience it takes to deal with MANY taurus men. Patience spanning beyond your average progression of a relationship. Know that the friend zone is a long term slot with them until you move on and then he MAY act as though you were more special than he displayed the entire time he was your priority. Did I mention, at this point he is now the victim?



The only thing I can think of is that they are still observing and testing. click to expand



5 years of friendzone was simply a man that wasn’t interested. click to expand

5 years...

I'd have to get myself a pair of glasses. click to expand
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Yep that long. Not my best decision in life but hey I lived to see better days 😂😂😂
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Posted by Parkourler

We are like Rapunzel. We want our dream woman, we go through like ie a lot of woman, we have hyperspecific criteria in our head, and if you dont make the cut, you will be quietly layed of. We are waiting for that woman
to come into our life, and thats why we get superfast, super persistent af when she shows up. We want to be kissed awake.

i wish that were true! Mine was super persistent and now he' s MIA. So i guess i was only the perfect girl for like a month..
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We are like Rapunzel. We want our dream woman, we go through like ie a lot of woman, we have hyperspecific criteria in our head, and if you dont make the cut, you will be quietly layed of. We are waiting for that woman
to come into our life, and thats why we get superfast, super persistent af when she shows up. We want to be kissed awake.

i wish that were true! Mine was super persistent and now he' s MIA. So i guess i was only the perfect girl for like a month.. click to expand
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what was his venus?
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Posted by jeane
Posted by boxcarmirnta
Posted by Parkourler

We are like Rapunzel. We want our dream woman, we go through like ie a lot of woman, we have hyperspecific criteria in our head, and if you dont make the cut, you will be quietly layed of. We are waiting for that woman
to come into our life, and thats why we get superfast, super persistent af when she shows up. We want to be kissed awake.

i wish that were true! Mine was super persistent and now he' s MIA. So i guess i was only the perfect girl for like a month.. click to expand

what was his venus? click to expand
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taurus. His mars is aries. Moon scorpio. Rising libra bleh!