Taurus man stop texting

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I knew a taurus man not that long only a month, on the 2nd date we have a great conversation, and time. I was sleepover at his place, but no sex though. Weird I know. He is truly an affectionate man I ever met. Like people is saying about taurus people. Unfortunately after the 2nd date has finished, he doesn't initiate text anymore as before (although before he is also reply my text so short, he said he doesn't like texting, because he does that a lot when he works, and I understood), when I text him then he will respond my texts.

I am just curious about taurus man's behaviour who disappeared, since he is my 1st taurus man who I dated. Could anybody please give any thoughts?

Thanks!
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After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
Superb, thanks a lot! No worries about this guy. ;D

You know him for just a month, right? If yes, then too soon to tell he isn't interested unless your second date was like two weeks ago and he never initiated till now.

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Yes, I knew him just for a month, the 2nd date was 2 weeks ago, and after the 2nd date I am the one who initiated contact even though only once a week since in my opinion after the 2nd date the guy disappear means he’s not interested. Correct? 😄

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After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
Superb, thanks a lot! No worries about this guy. ;D

You know him for just a month, right? If yes, then too soon to tell he isn't interested unless your second date was like two weeks ago and he never initiated till now.


Yes, I knew him just for a month, the 2nd date was 2 weeks ago, and after the 2nd date I am the one who initiated contact even though only once a week since in my opinion after the 2nd date the guy disappear means he’s not interested. Correct? 😄



I really don't know lol. Too many variables but depends how he responded to you when you initiated like was he enthusiastic/engaging or distant and polite. Also if they are busy they would keep you informed so that you would know work/family etc,...is keeping them too busy from asking you out and not disinterest. Imo, if a guy is interested, they would start to make a habit of calling/texting you as often as possible and start to bring a structure to the relationship.



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Lol, love is complicated hahaha. Thanks a lot Gemini girl! 😉

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After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
And then he thinks you didn’t because he didn’t meet your expectations and you weren’t interested...

And after she said not true he ghost again...
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After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
And then he thinks you didn’t because he didn’t meet your expectations and you weren’t interested...

And after she said not true he ghost again...

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The cycle of dating................
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After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
And then he thinks you didn’t because he didn’t meet your expectations and you weren’t interested...

And after she said not true he ghost again...


The cycle of dating................
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Modern age yea!
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omg I swear this just like my posts. Taurus traits really get us confused. what I can say from my current and on going experience with my beautiful Bull (1year) is this is normal and not usually anything to worry about. I swear i'm still trying to get a grip of his "hot and cold" personality. honestly its nothing. its just what they do. they re-energize, they handle other business, they are not multi taskers, they focus on one thing at a time with patients and they expect or don't even consider the "space" an issue. what they say is what they mean. if he is responding then everything is ok and you just need to find something else to focus on while he handles his personal business and returns back to you.

I have posted about this a handful of time since I started dating my bull

I have also most recently called him on it and basically it came back to bite me in the butt because I was making it into something wrong when there was nothing.

the thing is he is not on a leash and he is allowed to place space between you if he has other things to do. what you consider important to you is not the same as him and there has to be understanding when it comes to this. from what I understand Taurus are the sweetest and most caring signs, venus and Taurus are one. so if there was something wrong he would say it.

I say don't withdrawal. still be sweet, still reach out if you have something to really say he will respond when he is aware. they are horrible with phones especially texts, mine goes all day without checking his phone and here I am on it 24/7.

good luck
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After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
Superb, thanks a lot! No worries about this guy. ;D

You know him for just a month, right? If yes, then too soon to tell he isn't interested unless your second date was like two weeks ago and he never initiated till now.


Yes, I knew him just for a month, the 2nd date was 2 weeks ago, and after the 2nd date I am the one who initiated contact even though only once a week since in my opinion after the 2nd date the guy disappear means he’s not interested. Correct? 😄



I really don't know lol. Too many variables but depends how he responded to you when you initiated like was he enthusiastic/engaging or distant and polite. Also if they are busy they would keep you informed so that you would know work/family etc,...is keeping them too busy from asking you out and not disinterest. Imo, if a guy is interested, they would start to make a habit of calling/texting you as often as possible and start to bring a structure to the relationship.



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if they are busy they don't always keep you informed, why would they. they are handling business. if they need you they will keep you informed, if they made plans with you and it effects you they will keep you informed. but they are kinda private people in general even with the people they love and are comfortable with they don't open up easy about personal things and they don't really communicate well about unimportant things when it pertains to what you need to know. no offense but im dating a one, hes a Taurus Sun and Moon, with tons of Earth signs. im learning these and we have hand some arguments on my impatient behavior towards this
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After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
Superb, thanks a lot! No worries about this guy. ;D

You know him for just a month, right? If yes, then too soon to tell he isn't interested unless your second date was like two weeks ago and he never initiated till now.


Yes, I knew him just for a month, the 2nd date was 2 weeks ago, and after the 2nd date I am the one who initiated contact even though only once a week since in my opinion after the 2nd date the guy disappear means he’s not interested. Correct? 😄



I really don't know lol. Too many variables but depends how he responded to you when you initiated like was he enthusiastic/engaging or distant and polite. Also if they are busy they would keep you informed so that you would know work/family etc,...is keeping them too busy from asking you out and not disinterest. Imo, if a guy is interested, they would start to make a habit of calling/texting you as often as possible and start to bring a structure to the relationship.






if they are busy they don't always keep you informed, why would they. they are handling business. if they need you they will keep you informed, if they made plans with you and it effects you they will keep you informed. but they are kinda private people in general even with the people they love and are comfortable with they don't open up easy about personal things and they don't really communicate well about unimportant things when it pertains to what you need to know. no offense but im dating a one, hes a Taurus Sun and Moon, with tons of Earth signs. im learning these and we have hand some arguments on my impatient behavior towards this
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OMG you are the best. Thanks a lot! Taurus man who I dated is taurus sun and moon, just like what you have mentioned! That's definitely just like him. He's bad in texting, bad in communicate, but he shows his affection through his actions rather than words, and he even said that he doesn't like texting because he spent his whole time typing and texting during his works so he hates it a lot.

I do not withdrawal, but I just let it go, if he returns then I will be welcoming him, but now I stopped to contact him, and I do what I have to do. Thanks for your super advice!

Anyway, based on your experience, how long your man disappear? (oops sorry, stupid question haha)
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Actually, kudos to you for not having sex with him yet.

Also, ignore the muthafucka, he’s not interested, and this has so little to do with you and more to do with him if anything.

He wants to be a little pussy and ghost? Bye bitch. When he’s a grown up and can tell you I’m sorry it’s not working out he can get your respect.

Ignore him now so that he thinks that he’s the one getting ghosted instead. Ha!
Lol, what a super respond ever. Thank you Sodapop! 😄
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After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
Superb, thanks a lot! No worries about this guy. ;D

You know him for just a month, right? If yes, then too soon to tell he isn't interested unless your second date was like two weeks ago and he never initiated till now.


Yes, I knew him just for a month, the 2nd date was 2 weeks ago, and after the 2nd date I am the one who initiated contact even though only once a week since in my opinion after the 2nd date the guy disappear means he’s not interested. Correct? 😄



I really don't know lol. Too many variables but depends how he responded to you when you initiated like was he enthusiastic/engaging or distant and polite. Also if they are busy they would keep you informed so that you would know work/family etc,...is keeping them too busy from asking you out and not disinterest. Imo, if a guy is interested, they would start to make a habit of calling/texting you as often as possible and start to bring a structure to the relationship.






if they are busy they don't always keep you informed, why would they. they are handling business. if they need you they will keep you informed, if they made plans with you and it effects you they will keep you informed. but they are kinda private people in general even with the people they love and are comfortable with they don't open up easy about personal things and they don't really communicate well about unimportant things when it pertains to what you need to know. no offense but im dating a one, hes a Taurus Sun and Moon, with tons of Earth signs. im learning these and we have hand some arguments on my impatient behavior towards this
OMG you are the best. Thanks a lot! Taurus man who I dated is taurus sun and moon, just like what you have mentioned! That's definitely just like him. He's bad in texting, bad in communicate, but he shows his affection through his actions rather than words, and he even said that he doesn't like texting because he spent his whole time typing and texting during his works so he hates it a lot.

I do not withdrawal, but I just let it go, if he returns then I will be welcoming him, but now I stopped to contact him, and I do what I have to do. Thanks for your super advice!

Anyway, based on your experience, how long your man disappear? (oops sorry, stupid question haha)

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usually just a couple of days, max we went a week without seeing each other.

he won't text consistently all day with me, and honestly what really could be said all day anymore now that we have been together a year. but he did text me all the basics. the "good mornings, the I miss you's, have a good day, how was your day" so I should have known he was just taking care of Mind, Body and soul bit I just made it into something was wrong with me, he was mad at me, he is withdrawing from me, negative negative negative.

I am working on being better because I see where my traits are really the more negative ones, and I don't want to be the girl that overthinks negatives when in reality there is nothing wrong.

just keep your self busy when your taurus does the things without you. and keep in mind that you also can do these things too naturally as a person of fire.