
ariesdames
@ariesdames
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Posted by Sofia87Yes, correct.
He hasn't initiated texting at all since your second date ?

Posted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleSuperb, thanks a lot! No worries about this guy. ;D
After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...

Posted by ariesdamesHmmmm he doesn't sound too interested then .. sounds like he's trying to be nice by texting u back when u text him 😕Posted by Sofia87Yes, correct.
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Posted by Sofia87I thought so, then I won’t contacting no more. 😉 thanks a lot Sofia87!Posted by ariesdamesHmmmm he doesn't sound too interested then .. sounds like he's trying to be nice by texting u back when u text him 😕Posted by Sofia87Yes, correct.
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Posted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleYes, I knew him just for a month, the 2nd date was 2 weeks ago, and after the 2nd date I am the one who initiated contact even though only once a week since in my opinion after the 2nd date the guy disappear means he’s not interested. Correct? 😄Posted by ariesdamesPosted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleSuperb, thanks a lot! No worries about this guy. ;D
After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
You know him for just a month, right? If yes, then too soon to tell he isn't interested unless your second date was like two weeks ago and he never initiated till now.
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Posted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleLol, love is complicated hahaha. Thanks a lot Gemini girl! 😉Posted by ariesdamesPosted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleYes, I knew him just for a month, the 2nd date was 2 weeks ago, and after the 2nd date I am the one who initiated contact even though only once a week since in my opinion after the 2nd date the guy disappear means he’s not interested. Correct? 😄Posted by ariesdamesPosted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleSuperb, thanks a lot! No worries about this guy. ;D
After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
You know him for just a month, right? If yes, then too soon to tell he isn't interested unless your second date was like two weeks ago and he never initiated till now.
I really don't know lol. Too many variables but depends how he responded to you when you initiated like was he enthusiastic/engaging or distant and polite. Also if they are busy they would keep you informed so that you would know work/family etc,...is keeping them too busy from asking you out and not disinterest. Imo, if a guy is interested, they would start to make a habit of calling/texting you as often as possible and start to bring a structure to the relationship.
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Posted by saweetz1988I am! Hahaha. I’m an Aries woman who finds that being “patient” is definitely complicated. Ew, nightmare. Lol.
are you an Aries?
be patient please.
lol


Posted by AgentP911No problem if he is not interested, thanks a lot AgentP911!
He’s NOT interested.
You stayed at his home on date two?? Aside from only knowing him for a few hours, you didn’t put out. He’s moved on to a somewhat easier target.
Stop texting him.

Posted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleAnd then he thinks you didn’t because he didn’t meet your expectations and you weren’t interested...
After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...

Posted by GemitatiThe cycle of dating................Posted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleAnd then he thinks you didn’t because he didn’t meet your expectations and you weren’t interested...
After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
And after she said not true he ghost again...
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Posted by ariesdamesModern age yea!Posted by GemitatiThe cycle of dating................Posted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleAnd then he thinks you didn’t because he didn’t meet your expectations and you weren’t interested...
After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
And after she said not true he ghost again...
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Posted by tizianiNo-go, then back off. Thanks a lot!
Sounds like a no-go.


Posted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_salePosted by ariesdamesPosted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleYes, I knew him just for a month, the 2nd date was 2 weeks ago, and after the 2nd date I am the one who initiated contact even though only once a week since in my opinion after the 2nd date the guy disappear means he’s not interested. Correct? 😄Posted by ariesdamesPosted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleSuperb, thanks a lot! No worries about this guy. ;D
After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
You know him for just a month, right? If yes, then too soon to tell he isn't interested unless your second date was like two weeks ago and he never initiated till now.
I really don't know lol. Too many variables but depends how he responded to you when you initiated like was he enthusiastic/engaging or distant and polite. Also if they are busy they would keep you informed so that you would know work/family etc,...is keeping them too busy from asking you out and not disinterest. Imo, if a guy is interested, they would start to make a habit of calling/texting you as often as possible and start to bring a structure to the relationship.
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Posted by sagittariusxoOMG you are the best. Thanks a lot! Taurus man who I dated is taurus sun and moon, just like what you have mentioned! That's definitely just like him. He's bad in texting, bad in communicate, but he shows his affection through his actions rather than words, and he even said that he doesn't like texting because he spent his whole time typing and texting during his works so he hates it a lot.Posted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_salePosted by ariesdamesPosted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleYes, I knew him just for a month, the 2nd date was 2 weeks ago, and after the 2nd date I am the one who initiated contact even though only once a week since in my opinion after the 2nd date the guy disappear means he’s not interested. Correct? 😄Posted by ariesdamesPosted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleSuperb, thanks a lot! No worries about this guy. ;D
After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
You know him for just a month, right? If yes, then too soon to tell he isn't interested unless your second date was like two weeks ago and he never initiated till now.
I really don't know lol. Too many variables but depends how he responded to you when you initiated like was he enthusiastic/engaging or distant and polite. Also if they are busy they would keep you informed so that you would know work/family etc,...is keeping them too busy from asking you out and not disinterest. Imo, if a guy is interested, they would start to make a habit of calling/texting you as often as possible and start to bring a structure to the relationship.
if they are busy they don't always keep you informed, why would they. they are handling business. if they need you they will keep you informed, if they made plans with you and it effects you they will keep you informed. but they are kinda private people in general even with the people they love and are comfortable with they don't open up easy about personal things and they don't really communicate well about unimportant things when it pertains to what you need to know. no offense but im dating a one, hes a Taurus Sun and Moon, with tons of Earth signs. im learning these and we have hand some arguments on my impatient behavior towards thisclick to expand

Posted by HankJWimbletonWell said, thanks a lot! Whatever happens, let it be.
I think the keyword for solving this problem is called 'patience'. That is, if you are too shy to ask him directly.

Posted by SodapopLol, what a super respond ever. Thank you Sodapop! 😄
Actually, kudos to you for not having sex with him yet.
Also, ignore the muthafucka, he’s not interested, and this has so little to do with you and more to do with him if anything.
He wants to be a little pussy and ghost? Bye bitch. When he’s a grown up and can tell you I’m sorry it’s not working out he can get your respect.
Ignore him now so that he thinks that he’s the one getting ghosted instead. Ha!

Posted by ariesdamesusually just a couple of days, max we went a week without seeing each other.Posted by sagittariusxoOMG you are the best. Thanks a lot! Taurus man who I dated is taurus sun and moon, just like what you have mentioned! That's definitely just like him. He's bad in texting, bad in communicate, but he shows his affection through his actions rather than words, and he even said that he doesn't like texting because he spent his whole time typing and texting during his works so he hates it a lot.Posted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_salePosted by ariesdamesPosted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleYes, I knew him just for a month, the 2nd date was 2 weeks ago, and after the 2nd date I am the one who initiated contact even though only once a week since in my opinion after the 2nd date the guy disappear means he’s not interested. Correct? 😄Posted by ariesdamesPosted by Whiskey_in_a_barrel_for_saleSuperb, thanks a lot! No worries about this guy. ;D
After a date, you don't wait for a guy to text you. You start to ignore him as soon as he drops you home, till he initiates. Then if he does text, in your mind you know you were busy ignoring him all these hours/days/weeks...
You know him for just a month, right? If yes, then too soon to tell he isn't interested unless your second date was like two weeks ago and he never initiated till now.
I really don't know lol. Too many variables but depends how he responded to you when you initiated like was he enthusiastic/engaging or distant and polite. Also if they are busy they would keep you informed so that you would know work/family etc,...is keeping them too busy from asking you out and not disinterest. Imo, if a guy is interested, they would start to make a habit of calling/texting you as often as possible and start to bring a structure to the relationship.
if they are busy they don't always keep you informed, why would they. they are handling business. if they need you they will keep you informed, if they made plans with you and it effects you they will keep you informed. but they are kinda private people in general even with the people they love and are comfortable with they don't open up easy about personal things and they don't really communicate well about unimportant things when it pertains to what you need to know. no offense but im dating a one, hes a Taurus Sun and Moon, with tons of Earth signs. im learning these and we have hand some arguments on my impatient behavior towards this
I do not withdrawal, but I just let it go, if he returns then I will be welcoming him, but now I stopped to contact him, and I do what I have to do. Thanks for your super advice!
Anyway, based on your experience, how long your man disappear? (oops sorry, stupid question haha)
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I am just curious about taurus man's behaviour who disappeared, since he is my 1st taurus man who I dated. Could anybody please give any thoughts?
Thanks!