Taurus, what does your silent treatment mean? (Page 3)

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Jennie725
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5 Years

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I am a Leo and I have been seeing a Taurus man off and on for 5 years.

We took a break a break for 3 months at the end and he came back to me in late October. Everything was great. Communication was open.

Well this past Saturday he informed me he got a girl pregnant from when we were separated. I was devastated because we had been talking about having a baby together.

I was hurt and jealous because it wasn't me. I couldn't leave because I had drinks that he made me some drinks. In his house there are 4 bedrooms but only his has a bed. I went in there and cried my eyes out. He came in and held me. I told him everything would work out. He would be okay. We had sex that night and he kept saying that I belonged to him and no one else could have me.

I woke up the next morning asleep in his arms. I got up and got dressed. I walked into the bedroom and let him know I was leaving and I'd lock the door behind me.

He got up, hugged me and said I'll get with you later.

Well, normally later means later that day or the next. I didn't hear anything.

I finally texted him last night and said I wanted to be with him but I wanted more from him than ever before. I asked him to please respect me enough to give me a yes or no answer.

He responded with what do you mean you want more from? I replied I wanted to more to him than a friend or booty call. I told him I wanted to be there for him.

He replied. Oh okay. Since then nothing.

Should I just close this chapter and move on? I love this man with every ounce of my being.

If I can't have him it won't be the end of my world I will recover and move on. All I want is an answer to put me out of my misery

Help
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Jennie725
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5 Years

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Why do I want him and does he do that is good in my life? He completes me. I feel safe and secure with him and he makes me think outside the box. He challenges is me. I smile when I hear from him. When he's in his Taurean mood I leave him alone.

I understand he's about to become a new father. I understand this will be with another person that will be in his life for the rest of his life. I'm ready to take it on that's if he's willing to take me on. It doesn't sound like it but I told him I feel about him. All I'm asking is for the truth about how he feels about me. Do you want me or not?
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Jennie725
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5 Years

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He does make me feel good about myself. He makes me want to be a better me. But not for him but for myself. He wants to see me reach out and touch the sky. He believes in me more than I believe in myself.

He makes me laugh and smile and shine. He does make me cry once in awhile but it's out of frustration.

I know his answer isn't the best. I'm expecting a big fat NO if he ever responds back.

I know a relationship with a woman who isn't the mother of your child is difficult. It's not a pony ride and I know this.

Maybe he doesn't think I'm strong enough. That's fine then tell me that and I will leave you alone.
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Sadboi
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6 Years

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Posted by Jennie725

I am a Leo and I have been seeing a Taurus man off and on for 5 years.

We took a break a break for 3 months at the end and he came back to me in late October. Everything was great. Communication was open.

Well this past Saturday he informed me he got a girl pregnant from when we were separated. I was devastated because we had been talking about having a baby together.

I was hurt and jealous because it wasn't me. I couldn't leave because I had drinks that he made me some drinks. In his house there are 4 bedrooms but only his has a bed. I went in there and cried my eyes out. He came in and held me. I told him everything would work out. He would be okay. We had sex that night and he kept saying that I belonged to him and no one else could have me.

I woke up the next morning asleep in his arms. I got up and got dressed. I walked into the bedroom and let him know I was leaving and I'd lock the door behind me.

He got up, hugged me and said I'll get with you later.

Well, normally later means later that day or the next. I didn't hear anything.

I finally texted him last night and said I wanted to be with him but I wanted more from him than ever before. I asked him to please respect me enough to give me a yes or no answer.

He responded with what do you mean you want more from? I replied I wanted to more to him than a friend or booty call. I told him I wanted to be there for him.

He replied. Oh okay. Since then nothing.

Should I just close this chapter and move on? I love this man with every ounce of my being.

If I can't have him it won't be the end of my world I will recover and move on. All I want is an answer to put me out of my misery

Help


You deserv better !! Wow you still with him .

? I would Just leave him..!
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TaurusBull1977
@TaurusBull1977
16 Years1,000+ Posts

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When I give someone the silent treatment...I'm preparing myself to emotionally disconnect from you. I'm quite vocal during any argument, so a silent treatment following an argument isnt necessary.

My motto...

When I'm pissed off, it's because I'm emotionally invested.



When I go silent....chances of a reconciliation happening is pretty slim....and I'm no longer invested.
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Sadboi
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6 Years

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Posted by TaurusBull1977

When I give someone the silent treatment...I'm preparing myself to emotionally disconnect from you. I'm quite vocal during any argument, so a silent treatment following an argument isnt necessary.

My motto...

When I'm pissed off, it's because I'm emotionally invested.



When I go silent....chances of a reconciliation happening is pretty slim....and I'm no longer invested.


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