Taurus Woman Suddenly Cold and Distant

Hi Taurus People! I'm a Cancer Woman (lesbian) and I'm interested in this straight taurus woman. We are officemates, I was in a relationship when we started to get friendly which she knows (the relationship ended already as well), we started to become close during the start of December because we attended a team building for our office, after that we started to talk always and exchange text messages when we are not in the office every day; She would update me and send me pictures. She would bring me a sandwich or hot chocolate for breakfast, well she treat me to a breakfast one time, she even brought a medicine for my cough, then we went out for drinks with our officemates twice and during those 2 occasions we were holding hands under the table the whole time we are drinking, and she is also touchy with me like touching my face and teasing me. (During these moments I haven't told her yet that I liked her)

Now, she's on vacation we havent seen each other for a week but we are still constantly texting and communicating. Last friday she went out with a friend, after that we were texting during the night she asked me if i'm not getting tired talking to her then I said no because I like talking to her, then she told me that she just wanted to be friends, that's when I told her straight up that I like her and I know she's sensing that I like her already but I don't want to say it over text message, after that conversation she still continues to open up about her frustrations in her job and disappointments, then we did videocall because she wanted to see a cutie (that's what she said) she's kind of flirty I must say because she also told me that she just wanted to hug me and all and she's apologizing because she is messed up sometimes. The next morning we did videocall again, and she's still sweet and told me she misses me. Come afternoon, she started to act cold and distant, her text messages are limited and it's like she's ending the conversation and it continued until today and sometimes she won't respond even she's online on her facebook messenger. Though we had a conversation about a supposed to be trip with my parents and ex girlfriend, then I brought it up just a while ago and she asked right away if the girl will come (i sense she is concern or maybe jealous?)

Anyway, sorry for the long introduction but I just wanted to ask especially the Female Taurus, what is your interpretation about her? what should I do? I like the girl. Her birthdate is May 4, 1997. Thank you so much in advance for your honest answers.

She is straight.

She told you she only wants a friendship.

Sounds like she's curious and probably just likes your company as well. And that would make sense if she was jealous to then start acting cold. Careful with Taurus women, something like that can be taken as great offense and they can stay mad for a long time.

Also when she warms back up to you, you should probably be direct on what's going on in your relationship. Does she really just want to be friends? If so why is she continuing flirting. If she's just a flirty person, you should probably draw some boundaries. If she actually wants something more you need to establish what that is.

There is not enough information given here to determine what her feelings are.

She could be just straight, and you're just friend-zoned. Her behavior isn't uncommon for most Taurus women.

1. Nurturing- brought medicine for your cough.

2. Generosity -treating you to breakfast, bringing you a sandwich.

3. Affectionate- Hugging.

All Taurus Traits.

If she has a Venus in Aries or Gemini, she may not be aware that she is flirting.

Or

She could be interested.

Flirt back and be just as affectionate, see how receptive she is to this.

Posted by FireStarter

Sounds like she's curious and probably just likes your company as well. And that would make sense if she was jealous to then start acting cold. Careful with Taurus women, something like that can be taken as great offense and they can stay mad for a long time.

Also when she warms back up to you, you should probably be direct on what's going on in your relationship. Does she really just want to be friends? If so why is she continuing flirting. If she's just a flirty person, you should probably draw some boundaries. If she actually wants something more you need to establish what that is.

Hi! Well she told me “lets just stay the way we are previously” so I guess she just wants friendship? But I still don’t get it why would be all flirty with me send messages like she wants to hug me. What should I do? i’ve been direct to her that I like her. This is my first taurus woman that is why I cant read her. Thank you!

Posted by TaurusBull1977

There is not enough information given here to determine what her feelings are.

She could be just straight, and you're just friend-zoned. Her behavior isn't uncommon for most Taurus women.

1. Nurturing- brought medicine for your cough.

2. Generosity -treating you to breakfast, bringing you a sandwich.

3. Affectionate- Hugging.

All Taurus Traits.

If she has a Venus in Aries or Gemini, she may not be aware that she is flirting.

Or

She could be interested.

Flirt back and be just as affectionate, see how receptive she is to this.

Well when she told me that we should stay friends the way we are previously we kind of flirty with each other and she even said sorry because she flirted with me and that she really did those because she wants to.

Uhm can I ask? Is it normal for a taurus woman to behave flirty in the morning then cold? Or maybe she just really wants us to stay what we are previously?

I guess we just stick to friendly then?

Thank you so much.

I’m going to give a past experience as an example. When I was younger there was a guy who I was not interested in at all, also he had a girlfriend. But he made me feel good about myself and he respected me. He gave the best hugs and we would hold hands, but we were only friends and I didn’t want anything more. A Taurus is all about the senses, maybe you made her feel warm and fuzzy, but she wasn’t interested in anything more. Idk if that makes sense, but that’s my two cents.