What is sex to you?

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by missBovine on Saturday, September 17, 2005 and has 22 replies.

Understanding What Sex Means to You

Sex can be seen as a physical expression of intimacy, love, or connection. For many, it is a way to feel close to a partner, express emotions, or explore personal desires. Its meaning varies greatly among individuals based on personal beliefs, experiences, and cultural background.

Profile picture of missBovine
@missBovine
21 Years

Just one very simple question that needs some simple responses. 🙂

What is sex to you?

I just want simple and genuine responses from different people here. If you are not out to share on this or thinks that it is too personal, then you don't have to. I hope it is not too offensive or discriminating. Cheers!

Profile picture of Tiamat
@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Never too offensive or disciminating when you have scorpios,tauruses and a certain crab around.Sex is a physical,emotional and spiritual bond between lovers thats alot of fun in the process.

Profile picture of Tiamat
@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

lol,im not much of a around the bush beater.Probably so but...I don't want to sound like a slut or somethin'.I scare myself sometimes when I think about my teenage experiances.

Profile picture of sunshine101562
@sunshine101562
21 YearsLibra

Hi Miss Bovine,

Well Libra here, and I enjoy sex much more when there are feelings and emotional attatchment. When that is the case, it is not just about sex for me or orgasm. Its that emotional/spiritual connection that is felt when two people come together as one (no pun intended). Don't really care for sex for sex sake, not very fullfilling.

Sunshine...

Profile picture of taurusgoddess
@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Hot-Sweaty-Raunchy-Monkey sex following an evening with intellectual yet playful conversation leading to this steamy event. Sex with lots of sensual teasing and kissing all over. Lots of eye connection, whispers and the feeling that is is natural and relaxed and almost scary time because you know you can't feel this good all of the time. SEX.

Profile picture of maymaid
@maymaid
21 YearsTaurus

MissBovine, if I say I'm naive, will you believe me? :-)
Well, in bedroom, I'm not his girlfriend anymore.
I bring his sex fantasies to become real as far as it's not too kinky.

Profile picture of missBovine
@missBovine
21 Years

Tiamat: Something I would say too actually. I like you for being "simple" and "genuine." Appreciated it lots! And kudos for being the first poster! 🙂 You're a Scorpio, aye?

excess: Why don't you share with us your "vision?" 😉

sunshine101562: You elaborated on what was in my mind.

taurusgoddess: I almost want you for myself... *LOL*

haffo: And how about you? Do you mind sharing?

maymaid: Aren't we all naive some ways or another? I think naivety is a very subjective thing. Depends from which perspective you're looking at.

When I started this thread, I was actually wondering if there were any differences of how different signs think of sex and expect from it. And actually between genders too. But unfortunately, not many replies here to come with a conclusion. 😢

Profile picture of haffo
@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Hey MissBovie!

I've shared this information before, and I will put it here again.

For me sex is more like a game. A game of defiant women who is being teached in hard way to be sumbissive by dominant man. Dominating is biggest driving force here. The game probably will look like a rape rather than just sex. A woman will think long time like this: "Was that a rape or just sex?". And she will be right in both.

Profile picture of haffo
@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Sex would probably go beyound the limits of the woman and her wishes. It may not go by libido stuff. Some pain, scared state and things like that will make them give up. Hahaha.

Profile picture of sunshine101562
@sunshine101562
21 YearsLibra

Haffo,

LOL...you sound like one of my ex boyfriends...he was a virgo. Whats your sign— Im referring to your first post...not sure what you meant in the last one?

Profile picture of tauruschic
@tauruschic
20 Years1,000+ Posts

It is great if you have feelings for the person, it intensifies how you feel about them, it is an emotional connection. I love all the sensuality that goes into it... not all the time though sometimes there's needs to satisfy... fast, no fuss 😛

Profile picture of YummyMummy
@YummyMummy
20 YearsScorpio

*ponders*

I think people tend to put too much emotional attachment into sex...Sex should be fun as well as deep and passionate...sure it's a feeling of oneness...but for me it's much more personal if i kiss someone...

Call me crazy...but too much emphasis is put on penetration i find...whereas it's the mental and then physical foreplay that sets the body ablaze...this is JUST me though!!!

Call me cRaZy
*mwah*