What is sex to you?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by missBovine on Saturday, September 17, 2005 and has 39 replies.

Understanding What Sex Means to Different People

Sex can be viewed as a physical act, emotional connection, or expression of love. Its meaning varies greatly among individuals based on personal beliefs, experiences, and cultural backgrounds. For some, it is about intimacy and bonding, while for others it may be purely physical. Everyone's perspective on sex is unique and valid.

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@missBovine
21 Years

Just one very simple question that needs some simple responses. 🙂

What is sex to you?

I just want simple and genuine responses from different people here. If you are not out to share on this or thinks that it is too personal, then you don't have to. I hope it is not too offensive or discriminating. Cheers!

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@Elliot of the High Scorpios
20 Years1,000+ Posts

I'd be happy to (attempt to) answer missBovine!

If Scorpios part in the zodiac is to transcend the personal-ego, and Scorpios rule the section of the zodiac dealing with sex, death, and power, then that explains what sex is to me:

It's transcending ones own body into a completely new body, reaching out and becoming one with it, getting caught up in the meaning of life and experiencing it at its most raw level and highest degree!! Death of the personal-ego, non-association with your own self, because at the climax of sex, one is said to surrender of themselves to their partner. Translation, you're murdering your partner sexually (hence the screaming and bewilderment that it all brings).

To be overly promiscuous is like being killer, you're shallow and you're empty and you're heartless. Obviously then, the Act of Sex in it's Highest Form must be:
-Long (How long can your partner fight and sustain the act for your pleasure? 2 minutes lol or forever?
-Intimate (Scorpio rules Intimacy in the zodiac too, things have to be deep, to a point that true feelings cannot be associated with just words, but expressed through sex)
-And plenty more of the traits that are associated with great sex! If you think about it deeply, you'll see that the pleasure of sex really does not lie all in the act, but what led up to the act, not the achievment, but the achieving (just like everything else in Life)!

PSYCHOLOGICAL: Each person has a different style of sex based on who they are deeply inside. Studies show that the Human Psyche is the biggest driving factor in the human sex drive. Fears, loves, memories, sensations and all else that lie silently in the Underworld of Man (The Unconscious Self) come alive at the climax of sex. How great is that haha? It makes sense does it not!?

SPIRITUAL: All forms of 'enlightened thinkers' and scientists of the human body all equate that humans desire to be closer to Spirit as they know it, and that sex is the surest form of that Elevation and Transformation (Orgasm being the strongest transformational force of the human body). So, what this means is the more your partner is in touch with the Universe or Nature so to speak, the more alive (Tantric) the sex will be. A sex of higher consciousness and higher awareness.

That's what I've learned, and of course, I'm always open to learn more about this here topic lol (the more people I learn to please, the better 🙂), thank you for listening.

Take Care,
Elliot!

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@MellowDee
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Hi everyone. Qbone could you qualify what you mean when you say that Vorgo sex is mind sex. I don't really understand what you mean. I remember hearing a something about Virgo's main sexual organ being their brain. What does this mean?

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@looneybird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Sex is definitely between the ears. What is the importance of body? Only till it is alive? Where as mental waves travel to etermity..they cross all the boundaries and can make a connection with anyone. Even leading to pulsating down to earth..SEX.

Haffo cool it. Yeah we all know abotu the tussle between you and Q. But one doesnt have to stoop so low and drag in the kids issue...Kids are he only angels on this earth..leave them outta this stupid brick-a-bat.

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@looneybird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Ahem Beware Looney the defender of Q is here.

well Haffo it is very funny..when ever you address me...you deny and you actually land up proving Q right. LOL

if you read my statement correctly... i mentioned ot keep kids out!!!! I am very protective abotu children .. and to me it is filthy to drag in kids. I dont care how you and Q fight..ti is fun actually...maybe i was a roman emperor in last birth loved the gladiator...nwo dont ask me whom i am goign to throw to the lions>>>LOL

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Don't even dare to say what Qbone think he is right about me. His sence of right about me worth nothing when compared to really who I am. Get it?

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@looneybird
21 Years1,000+ Posts

Respect shud nto be conditioned to whose point of view i am supporting. Your respect for me shud make you take a note of y I said what i did. And respect doesnt involve shouting liek you did in your posts to me. Maybe you felt insulted by me. You can say so nicely. Shouting doesnt help you in making your point.

"If you care it to stay alive then stop butter towards me."

An open threat. How stupid Haffo.
Well what makes you think my staying alive depends on you? Just cool it. Okay?

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

When you stop involving yourself between me and Qbone I will be nice to you.

" well Haffo it is very funny..when ever you address me...you deny and you actually land up proving Q right. LOL"

Also I do respect kids, but it's litimited with Qbone. Don't ask me stop it since Qbone itself has no morals and nor will I. Just think like I don't involve others than QBone. Also I do not condition my respect (which is dying) towards you and actually it is you who does it. Watch that you are taking sides while Qbone bullying at me and it doesnt involve kids:

" Well what makes you think my staying alive depends on you? Just cool it. Okay?"

then

Qbone bullying

and then you

"AMEN Q & Thanx."

So, at the ends who is bullying whom? You me or me you?

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Mike I don?t know you----so be careful

Following the fools.. Has their up and downs,

Haffool is a fool?you find that fool is good.. fair enough? but remember?only a fool follow the fool ?.

Choice is yours??.

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Oh he wants more? Great. Come here you little(!) idiot.

I will teach you something.

Todays our topic is how to be a MAN.

First of all, being man is a matter of stamina. When you fall with your stamina you are not man anymore. You are worthless creature that needs to be cared for. Now, you need practice some stamina. I see you got none.

Second, sex is a matter of phycial interacion. Dont fk*k around with words such "The Sex is a matter of mind". You are looking funny. And definetly not MAN. Sex after all is a matter of physical interaction. Oh wait. Didn't your parents gave you book with the name "Where I come from?". Didn't they. Oh how poor. I guess in your times such things were too obscene. I can understand. But you have to learn that.

Third, being man is a matter of being logical. Practicing attack on people for nothing is nothing just annoying action. You have to understand that attacking for no reason is childish. And definetly NOT educating. Why you are here after all, isnt it?

And the finally, there is rules about being civilised. No man is MAN when he doesn't know what is the rules of being civilised are. Here you one: "Never try to teach someone when you are not asked to do so". You will be very impolite and generally uncivilised for doing that. No one will appretiate you as a MAN if you annoy people.

Now, sit at your chair and think about what I've written to you and stop acting like a GIRL, be a MAN!

GO!

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Bah..it's finished. Oh no...my play man (wrong word but there is no other synonym) is out of the loop. Bah (twise). Ok, you may be tired today, I will bother you tomorrow, Ok?

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@maymaid
21 YearsTaurus

Hey haffo, I get your point. Today is quite unfair for you but laid back. The topic is what is sex to you. I want to hear more comments. MissBovine posts this topic in Taurus board and gets only 8 posts. When I came here OMG it's 62, but ... most of them are 'discussiion' between H and Q...again. Actually it's fun to see both of you 'talk' but please...WHAT IS SEX TO YOU...

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@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts

The game probably will look like a rape rather than just sex. A woman will think long time like this: "Was that a rape or just sex?". And she will be right in both.

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@missBovine
21 Years

Wow, Elliot! You did your homework! Haha! JK. Appreciated your effort a lot. I'm just wondering though, which part of your post comes personally from you? Sorry if I didn't see that... 🙂

haffo, sharing and debating are fine. But you got to respect other people's opinions as well. I have to say you are clearly at fault for directly criticizing Qbone like that. And both of you are acting like little kids with name-calling and everything... it's upsetting. Anyway, thank you for sharing yours too. Do you not enjoy a dominant woman? :x

OneFineAquarius: I totally feel you... thank you for sharing. 🙂

Looneybird: Mental connection, aye?

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@Qbone
21 Years10,000+ PostsVirgo

Melowdee..

Now.. after deleting of those idiot pots from the infamous ?instigator fool?s on this board?.. an idiot from the form the fish tanks?!

Virgo?s need to imagine their sex actions first in their mind, then initiate it? some freaking idiots.. thinks that sex is to just find the hole and put it there? they call it sex?. Freaking idiots and fools..

FOOLS?.

Everything need to be realised and constructed in mind first?!

Mind is not available.. then there will be no joy? not even sex..!!

🙂

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THOUGHT YOU WERE DEAD..!!