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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive

They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.
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Its to get your reation.... your reaction and moments tell me everything I need to know.
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Posted by SlipperySlope

Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive

They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.

like i've said, virgos are very insecure so they always need some type of assurance

but i like the way i love/my love language so i can see myself with another virgo sun or placement now that i think about it... at least i'd feel secured and would get a feel for where i stand with them
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I think this is part of my problem with them, they may be insecure, but I don't know it. Scorpios get insecure but tell you what they need, Geminis as well.

Virgo men play games and expect you to figure it out. It could all be handled so effortlessly if they just talked it out. Instead it has to be some big showcase. It's annoying and unnecessary.

At least you being the same sign, would be able to tell what the other person is doing and be able to handle it at the time.

Half the time I figure shit out days later when I rethink about the conversation. Then I have to back track and ask about it. But then there is denial about what was meant. LOL Like WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!!!
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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive

They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.

Its to get your reation.... your reaction and moments tell me everything I need to know.
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This is where me being calm with Virgos leads to tons of mind games. It sucks. I'm just trying to understand what you need and be an active listener so I can help, but no. You men are so used to over the top emotions, that you eventually get tired of, that you can't seem to appreciate a women that shuts her mouth and listens so she can help.

It's a shame really.
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Posted by saggurl88
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Posted by saggurl88
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Posted by SlipperySlope

Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive

They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.

like i've said, virgos are very insecure so they always need some type of assurance

but i like the way i love/my love language so i can see myself with another virgo sun or placement now that i think about it... at least i'd feel secured and would get a feel for where i stand with them

I think this is part of my problem with them, they may be insecure, but I don't know it. Scorpios get insecure but tell you what they need, Geminis as well.

Virgo men play games and expect you to figure it out. It could all be handled so effortlessly if they just talked it out. Instead it has to be some big showcase. It's annoying and unnecessary.

At least you being the same sign, would be able to tell what the other person is doing and be able to handle it at the time.

Half the time I figure shit out days later when I rethink about the conversation. Then I have to back track and ask about it. But then there is denial about what was meant. LOL Like WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!!!
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scorpios and geminis explain better?

*DOUBTS heavily

personally, i can relate to him in that i don't care to explain myself. and if get to the point where i have to, you'll be in my shit list.

people KNOW what they do wrong, i believe in that. they just have some pride about it which is why they don't do what they're supposed to. i doubt so much that people aren't AWARE of what they are or are not doing.
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@saggurl88 most of the time when i feel like i'm being taken advantage of or the playing field's not even, i will def leave. people KNOW what they're doing. i had a friend who took about 2 years to 'figure out' how she was messing up with me.

and you know what?

i don't believe that shit. she's always KNOWN what the heck bothers me and CHOSE consciously, intentionally to not change that. i'm not going to force people to steer in a different direction. but why should i put up with that selfish behavior? i modify my ways for her but she's not doing the same. and then she tells me she had an epiphany about it LOL too little, too late.
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Posted by SlipperySlope

Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive

They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.

like i've said, virgos are very insecure so they always need some type of assurance

but i like the way i love/my love language so i can see myself with another virgo sun or placement now that i think about it... at least i'd feel secured and would get a feel for where i stand with them

I think this is part of my problem with them, they may be insecure, but I don't know it. Scorpios get insecure but tell you what they need, Geminis as well.

Virgo men play games and expect you to figure it out. It could all be handled so effortlessly if they just talked it out. Instead it has to be some big showcase. It's annoying and unnecessary.

At least you being the same sign, would be able to tell what the other person is doing and be able to handle it at the time.

Half the time I figure shit out days later when I rethink about the conversation. Then I have to back track and ask about it. But then there is denial about what was meant. LOL Like WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!!!

scorpios and geminis explain better?

*DOUBTS heavily

personally, i can related to him in that i don't care to explain myself. and if get to the point where i have to, you'll be in my shit list.

people KNOW what they do wrong, i believe in that. they just have some pride about it which is why they don't do what they're supposed to. i doubt so much that people aren't AWARE of what they are or are not doing.
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This is how Aquarius Men think- That people just know what they did wrong.

I'm so absent minded and self absorbed, half the time, I'm not paying attention to what I do wrong with a man. I'm after my own selfish needs, so I need to be told, so that I can be more considerate.

I'm not considerate of anyone but myself 😄

The Virgo told me last Saturday that it seemed like I needed to be up front and center too much and that I need to be a priority.

I told him he was right and that I like being a priority and that I was selfish- Nothing he hasn't heard before- I've told him this from the beginning.

And so I told him "So, I don't see what the problem is, I didn't lie about that" 😄

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@saggurl88 most of the time when i feel like i'm being take advantage of or the playing field's not even, i will def leave. people KNOW what they're doing. i had a friend who took about 2 years to 'figure out' how she was messing up with me.

and you know what?

i don't believe that shit. she's always KNOWN what the heck bothers me and CHOSE consciously, intentionally to not change that. i'm not going to force people to steer in a different direction. but why should i put up with that selfish behavior? i modify my ways for her but she's not doing the same. and then she tells me she had an epiphany about it LOL too little, too late.

this part just add it to relationships
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@saggurl88 most of the time when i feel like i'm being take advantage of or the playing field's not even, i will def leave. people KNOW what they're doing. i had a friend who took about 2 years to 'figure out' how she was messing up with me.

and you know what?

i don't believe that shit. she's always KNOWN what the heck bothers me and CHOSE consciously, intentionally to not change that. i'm not going to force people to steer in a different direction. but why should i put up with that selfish behavior? i modify my ways for her but she's not doing the same. and then she tells me she had an epiphany about it LOL too little, too late.


I get this, I'm a Libra rising so I always need things to be balanced and reciprocated. Part of the reason why I expect if I'm busy and making time for a person, they need to do the same. I don't care if it doesn't work like that lol

But I don't take advantage of people. I wouldn't even know how to do that to a Virgo. I never ask for anything other then time with them.
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Posted by SlipperySlope

Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive

They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.

like i've said, virgos are very insecure so they always need some type of assurance

but i like the way i love/my love language so i can see myself with another virgo sun or placement now that i think about it... at least i'd feel secured and would get a feel for where i stand with them

I think this is part of my problem with them, they may be insecure, but I don't know it. Scorpios get insecure but tell you what they need, Geminis as well.

Virgo men play games and expect you to figure it out. It could all be handled so effortlessly if they just talked it out. Instead it has to be some big showcase. It's annoying and unnecessary.

At least you being the same sign, would be able to tell what the other person is doing and be able to handle it at the time.

Half the time I figure shit out days later when I rethink about the conversation. Then I have to back track and ask about it. But then there is denial about what was meant. LOL Like WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!!!

scorpios and geminis explain better?

*DOUBTS heavily

personally, i can related to him in that i don't care to explain myself. and if get to the point where i have to, you'll be in my shit list.

people KNOW what they do wrong, i believe in that. they just have some pride about it which is why they don't do what they're supposed to. i doubt so much that people aren't AWARE of what they are or are not doing.

This is how Aquarius Men think- That people just know what they did wrong.

I'm so absent minded and self absorbed, half the time, I'm not paying attention to what I do wrong with a man. I'm after my own selfish needs, so I need to be told, so that I can be more considerate.

I'm not considerate of anyone but myself 😄

The Virgo told me last Saturday that it seemed like I needed to be up front and center too much and that I need to be a priority.

I told him he was right and that I like being a priority and that I was selfish- Nothing he hasn't heard before- I've told him this from the beginning.

And so I told him "So, I don't see what the problem is, I didn't lie about that" 😄

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i'm extremely self-absorbed which can be positive coz i only really give a shit about my own business

also a huge brat and super entitled by nature but i usually catch myself when i'm going too far and as much as i demand, i give back even more

that's why i can't stand being in relationships where people aren't intense and invested as i am
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Posted by SlipperySlope

Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive

They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.

like i've said, virgos are very insecure so they always need some type of assurance

but i like the way i love/my love language so i can see myself with another virgo sun or placement now that i think about it... at least i'd feel secured and would get a feel for where i stand with them

I think this is part of my problem with them, they may be insecure, but I don't know it. Scorpios get insecure but tell you what they need, Geminis as well.

Virgo men play games and expect you to figure it out. It could all be handled so effortlessly if they just talked it out. Instead it has to be some big showcase. It's annoying and unnecessary.

At least you being the same sign, would be able to tell what the other person is doing and be able to handle it at the time.

Half the time I figure shit out days later when I rethink about the conversation. Then I have to back track and ask about it. But then there is denial about what was meant. LOL Like WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!!!

scorpios and geminis explain better?

*DOUBTS heavily

personally, i can related to him in that i don't care to explain myself. and if get to the point where i have to, you'll be in my shit list.

people KNOW what they do wrong, i believe in that. they just have some pride about it which is why they don't do what they're supposed to. i doubt so much that people aren't AWARE of what they are or are not doing.

This is how Aquarius Men think- That people just know what they did wrong.

I'm so absent minded and self absorbed, half the time, I'm not paying attention to what I do wrong with a man. I'm after my own selfish needs, so I need to be told, so that I can be more considerate.

I'm not considerate of anyone but myself 😄

The Virgo told me last Saturday that it seemed like I needed to be up front and center too much and that I need to be a priority.

I told him he was right and that I like being a priority and that I was selfish- Nothing he hasn't heard before- I've told him this from the beginning.

And so I told him "So, I don't see what the problem is, I didn't lie about that" 😄

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i'm extremely self-absorbed which can be positive coz i only really give a shit about my own business

also a huge brat and super entitled by nature but i usually catch myself when i'm going too far and as much as i demand, i give back even more

that's why i can't stand being in relationships where people aren't intense and invested as i am
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I'm the exact same way. But Virgo men hide this part from me for some reason. I tell a man that I'm like this.

Then it's like the Virgo man wants to see just how "intense" I am. But my intensity has nothing to do with anger, it has to do with how much I love a person. So it get's them kicked to the curb when they try to keep getting me angry.
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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive

They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.

like i've said, virgos are very insecure so they always need some type of assurance

but i like the way i love/my love language so i can see myself with another virgo sun or placement now that i think about it... at least i'd feel secured and would get a feel for where i stand with them

I think this is part of my problem with them, they may be insecure, but I don't know it. Scorpios get insecure but tell you what they need, Geminis as well.

Virgo men play games and expect you to figure it out. It could all be handled so effortlessly if they just talked it out. Instead it has to be some big showcase. It's annoying and unnecessary.

At least you being the same sign, would be able to tell what the other person is doing and be able to handle it at the time.

Half the time I figure shit out days later when I rethink about the conversation. Then I have to back track and ask about it. But then there is denial about what was meant. LOL Like WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!!!

scorpios and geminis explain better?

*DOUBTS heavily

personally, i can related to him in that i don't care to explain myself. and if get to the point where i have to, you'll be in my shit list.

people KNOW what they do wrong, i believe in that. they just have some pride about it which is why they don't do what they're supposed to. i doubt so much that people aren't AWARE of what they are or are not doing.

This is how Aquarius Men think- That people just know what they did wrong.

I'm so absent minded and self absorbed, half the time, I'm not paying attention to what I do wrong with a man. I'm after my own selfish needs, so I need to be told, so that I can be more considerate.

I'm not considerate of anyone but myself 😄

The Virgo told me last Saturday that it seemed like I needed to be up front and center too much and that I need to be a priority.

I told him he was right and that I like being a priority and that I was selfish- Nothing he hasn't heard before- I've told him this from the beginning.

And so I told him "So, I don't see what the problem is, I didn't lie about that" 😄

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i'm extremely self-absorbed which can be positive coz i only really give a shit about my own business

also a huge brat and super entitled by nature but i usually catch myself when i'm going too far and as much as i demand, i give back even more

that's why i can't stand being in relationships where people aren't intense and invested as i am

I'm the exact same way. But Virgo men hide this part from me for some reason. I tell a man that I'm like this.

Then it's like the Virgo man wants to see just how "intense" I am. But my intensity has nothing to do with anger, it has to do with how much I love a person. So it get's them kicked to the curb when they try to keep getting me angry.
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i'm secretly bad-tempered.

my intense emotions i act on secretly, on my own.

that's why i ghost and tbh i've left a lot of people in life behind.

you have to be extremely intuitive and sensitive to deal with me coz i give no closure and when i do explain, it's never a good sign either way.

hell i may even give you the illusion that everything is fine or i lose my shit over the phone, whatever technology is possible to communicate myself without actually confronting you in person about it coz that's just inconvenient for me.

pisses me off when i think about the people i've put up with over the years.
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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive

They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.

like i've said, virgos are very insecure so they always need some type of assurance

but i like the way i love/my love language so i can see myself with another virgo sun or placement now that i think about it... at least i'd feel secured and would get a feel for where i stand with them

I think this is part of my problem with them, they may be insecure, but I don't know it. Scorpios get insecure but tell you what they need, Geminis as well.

Virgo men play games and expect you to figure it out. It could all be handled so effortlessly if they just talked it out. Instead it has to be some big showcase. It's annoying and unnecessary.

At least you being the same sign, would be able to tell what the other person is doing and be able to handle it at the time.

Half the time I figure shit out days later when I rethink about the conversation. Then I have to back track and ask about it. But then there is denial about what was meant. LOL Like WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!!!

scorpios and geminis explain better?

*DOUBTS heavily

personally, i can related to him in that i don't care to explain myself. and if get to the point where i have to, you'll be in my shit list.

people KNOW what they do wrong, i believe in that. they just have some pride about it which is why they don't do what they're supposed to. i doubt so much that people aren't AWARE of what they are or are not doing.

This is how Aquarius Men think- That people just know what they did wrong.

I'm so absent minded and self absorbed, half the time, I'm not paying attention to what I do wrong with a man. I'm after my own selfish needs, so I need to be told, so that I can be more considerate.

I'm not considerate of anyone but myself 😄

The Virgo told me last Saturday that it seemed like I needed to be up front and center too much and that I need to be a priority.

I told him he was right and that I like being a priority and that I was selfish- Nothing he hasn't heard before- I've told him this from the beginning.

And so I told him "So, I don't see what the problem is, I didn't lie about that" 😄

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i'm extremely self-absorbed which can be positive coz i only really give a shit about my own business

also a huge brat and super entitled by nature but i usually catch myself when i'm going too far and as much as i demand, i give back even more

that's why i can't stand being in relationships where people aren't intense and invested as i am

I'm the exact same way. But Virgo men hide this part from me for some reason. I tell a man that I'm like this.

Then it's like the Virgo man wants to see just how "intense" I am. But my intensity has nothing to do with anger, it has to do with how much I love a person. So it get's them kicked to the curb when they try to keep getting me angry.

i'm secretly bad-tempered.

my intense emotions i act on secretly, on my own.

that's why i ghost and tbh i've left a lot of people in life behind.

you have to be extremely intuitive and sensitive to deal with me coz i give no closure and when i do explain, it's never a good sign either way.

hell i may even give you the illusion that everything is fine or i lose my shit over the phone, whatever technology is possible to communicate myself without actually confronting you in person about it coz that's just inconvenient for me.

pisses me off when i think about the people i've put up with over the years.
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Do you have Sag placements?

This must be the water in your chart or something. I'm the exact same way. I act like everything is going fine, hold in all my anger and then let it build up and when it does,you get a nice clean clip. I will cut you off with a basic "I'm done" text lol

I don't need closure, so I only give it when the other person asks.

Then I let them in on the long list of why nothing needs to be worked out because I've everything I needed to and it won't work for me 🙂

People expect too much from the other person, instead of working on themselves and making sure they are good on their end.

I'm a big believer of treating people how you want to be treated.

I usually ghost on accident, those people that I hardly talk to. I will make sure a person knows when I cut them off though. I like the surprise factor, they know I've put up with so much shit and then I'm calm and collected and cut them off. It's satisfying to me, and a guy will know he's pushed me too far by then.
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Feminine energy will always counter your masculine energy. ALWAYS. People got this fucked up idea about what feminine energy is these days too, y'all can see that just by reading this thread. Fuck I'm not even gonna try to define it here, but it's reall and every women got it in spades, even the one who seems like she don't. She does, she just built up defences to protect it or she buried it deep down where the corrupt world couldn't get at it.

I don't hide my feminine parts. I learned that they don't really help me in everyday life situations unless I'm using them to manipulate and get what I want.

I do like men in touch with their emotions, I don't know why people say Virgos are feminine, I don't see it at all. If someone can let me know that my outfit would look better with certain clothing, or give me tips on nutrition or work outs, I would appreciate it.

Do people saying Virgos are feminine because they pay attention to detail?

Cause so far I've been around 2 Virgo men and I don't see them as feminine, just cause they like being clean and know how to cook. All men should be this way.

I don't know ether

But you've admitted to it being a feminine sign with the men.

What does that mean for the men? I find Virgo men to be attentive, protective, and like gentlemen for the most part- pulling out chairs, making sure your not cold, making sure you've eaten-who can cook, clean and have great listening skills. I like that I can talk openly about anything with one.

What's the feminine part?

Does it come out later, after you get to know them a while?

I see you Virgo men hide your emotions- NOT a feminine thing

The only thing I find feminine is the manipulative parts, but since I'm able to call them out on it, it hasn't been much of an issue.

wish i can meet a virgo guy with a more interesting personality than my driver

he makes sure to bring an umbrella in case i need it though

i'm so curious about dating another virgo coz they seem doting and attentive

They are doting and attentive, and independent but I actually like men that are a little boring and into routine, who can have good conversations at the end of the night when we are laying in bed together. I prefer this style of catching up, then texting all day.

They are hard workers from what I see as well. I like that a lot, that they are ambitious and keep striving for perfection in whatever skill they have. That it bothers them if things aren't working out the way they planned and they find solutions to try and fix it. It can mess them up, but they will still start all over again and try something differently.

I just don't understand the mind games they do to get answers, instead of just being direct.

like i've said, virgos are very insecure so they always need some type of assurance

but i like the way i love/my love language so i can see myself with another virgo sun or placement now that i think about it... at least i'd feel secured and would get a feel for where i stand with them

I think this is part of my problem with them, they may be insecure, but I don't know it. Scorpios get insecure but tell you what they need, Geminis as well.

Virgo men play games and expect you to figure it out. It could all be handled so effortlessly if they just talked it out. Instead it has to be some big showcase. It's annoying and unnecessary.

At least you being the same sign, would be able to tell what the other person is doing and be able to handle it at the time.

Half the time I figure shit out days later when I rethink about the conversation. Then I have to back track and ask about it. But then there is denial about what was meant. LOL Like WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK!!!

scorpios and geminis explain better?

*DOUBTS heavily

personally, i can related to him in that i don't care to explain myself. and if get to the point where i have to, you'll be in my shit list.

people KNOW what they do wrong, i believe in that. they just have some pride about it which is why they don't do what they're supposed to. i doubt so much that people aren't AWARE of what they are or are not doing.

This is how Aquarius Men think- That people just know what they did wrong.

I'm so absent minded and self absorbed, half the time, I'm not paying attention to what I do wrong with a man. I'm after my own selfish needs, so I need to be told, so that I can be more considerate.

I'm not considerate of anyone but myself 😄

The Virgo told me last Saturday that it seemed like I needed to be up front and center too much and that I need to be a priority.

I told him he was right and that I like being a priority and that I was selfish- Nothing he hasn't heard before- I've told him this from the beginning.

And so I told him "So, I don't see what the problem is, I didn't lie about that" 😄

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i'm extremely self-absorbed which can be positive coz i only really give a shit about my own business

also a huge brat and super entitled by nature but i usually catch myself when i'm going too far and as much as i demand, i give back even more

that's why i can't stand being in relationships where people aren't intense and invested as i am

I'm the exact same way. But Virgo men hide this part from me for some reason. I tell a man that I'm like this.

Then it's like the Virgo man wants to see just how "intense" I am. But my intensity has nothing to do with anger, it has to do with how much I love a person. So it get's them kicked to the curb when they try to keep getting me angry.

i'm secretly bad-tempered.

my intense emotions i act on secretly, on my own.

that's why i ghost and tbh i've left a lot of people in life behind.

you have to be extremely intuitive and sensitive to deal with me coz i give no closure and when i do explain, it's never a good sign either way.

hell i may even give you the illusion that everything is fine or i lose my shit over the phone, whatever technology is possible to communicate myself without actually confronting you in person about it coz that's just inconvenient for me.

pisses me off when i think about the people i've put up with over the years.

Do you have Sag placements?

This must be the water in your chart or something. I'm the exact same way. I act like everything is going fine, hold in all my anger and then let it build up and when it does,you get a nice clean clip. I will cut you off with a basic "I'm done" text lol

I don't need closure, so I only give it when the other person asks.

Then I let them in on the long list of why nothing needs to be worked out because I've everything I needed to and it won't work for me 🙂

People expect too much from the other person, instead of working on themselves and making sure they are good on their end.

I'm a big believer of treating people how you want to be treated.

I usually ghost on accident, those people that I hardly talk to. I will make sure a person knows when I cut them off though. I like the surprise factor, they know I've put up with so much shit and then I'm calm and collected and cut them off. It's satisfying to me, and a guy will know he's pushed me too far by then.
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hell i don't even give 'i'm done' texts.

like when i ghosted on that pisces sun/libra moon lol i've already brought up his leeching more than once. last time we made out, held hands and he started saying crazy shit so next thing you know i'm blocking him everywhere.

i treated him well until the very end and i'm sure he knows how fucked up he is.

too generous of me to give him another chance to bullshit me.

sometimes i treat people extremely well coz that's the last courtesy they'll ever get from me.
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P.S. I bet you'd like Cancer risings. They can be more shy than bubbly, but they usually have a pleasant softness to them that I think of as "feminine". I just wouldn't expect any contemporary woman to be truly like a 50s archetype. That era is gone.

Hey you get us

I have a lot of great Cancer rising women in my life, my mom, favorite cousin, and two of my best friends. They all have that characteristic. They're all so caring and thoughtful, but also strong.

Aw. What's your rising?

Taurus
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Yessss love earth risers
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I was just reflecting on life and when I think about the girls that I really really like are over the top girly. Most women act like men now a days and is such a turn off so when I am around one that doesn't act like that its really exciting. I have mostly virgo in my chart and virgo is a fem sign so maybe because Im a man and I can't act on those fem energy I'm seeeking it out in women... Your thoughts.


Ahhhh so this is why my Virgo guy likes when I do certain things I think are normal. I tend to squeal sometimes if I’m happy to see him or if he does something cool or he makes a funny joke. And that his Virgoness that I know all too well makes me get needy and he loves to feel needed.
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I was just reflecting on life and when I think about the girls that I really really like are over the top girly. Most women act like men now a days and is such a turn off so when I am around one that doesn't act like that its really exciting. I have mostly virgo in my chart and virgo is a fem sign so maybe because Im a man and I can't act on those fem energy I'm seeeking it out in women... Your thoughts.

earth and air are masculine energy... fire and water are feminine im sorry but i needed to put that out there
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Earth and water are feminine
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I was just reflecting on life and when I think about the girls that I really really like are over the top girly. Most women act like men now a days and is such a turn off so when I am around one that doesn't act like that its really exciting. I have mostly virgo in my chart and virgo is a fem sign so maybe because Im a man and I can't act on those fem energy I'm seeeking it out in women... Your thoughts.

earth and air are masculine energy... fire and water are feminine im sorry but i needed to put that out there

Earth and water are feminine

no.. thats not what I wrote...
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I know. That's why I corrected you!
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I was just reflecting on life and when I think about the girls that I really really like are over the top girly. Most women act like men now a days and is such a turn off so when I am around one that doesn't act like that its really exciting. I have mostly virgo in my chart and virgo is a fem sign so maybe because Im a man and I can't act on those fem energy I'm seeeking it out in women... Your thoughts.

earth and air are masculine energy... fire and water are feminine im sorry but i needed to put that out there

Earth and water are feminine

no.. thats not what I wrote...

I know. That's why I corrected you!

well he had originally said that earth is feminine so what are you correcting? (:
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YOU!
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I was just reflecting on life and when I think about the girls that I really really like are over the top girly. Most women act like men now a days and is such a turn off so when I am around one that doesn't act like that its really exciting. I have mostly virgo in my chart and virgo is a fem sign so maybe because Im a man and I can't act on those fem energy I'm seeeking it out in women... Your thoughts.

earth and air are masculine energy... fire and water are feminine im sorry but i needed to put that out there

Earth and water are feminine

Yes. Kind of weird too, since Capricorn is associated with Saturn and the father.
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Not weird, if "Father' is seen as a nurturing parent. Becoming a father leads to a drop in testosterone levels.

I'm not going to comment on the myth that Saturn swallowed his newborns, though 😛.
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Funny how some people get riled up for not being feminine. Everyone has a type. Op likes girly, really feminine types. Other guys don't. I don't see why some get super defensive. Nobody's disrespecting anybody 😂

I think its women that have been single to long may be they think they're lack of feminity is the reason.

Here is my problem.. I like when the man I care for helps me... I ask for it....

Now I’ve been screwed over because those men go and I cant do things alone or I have to contact the exes for assistance and its awful!

So part of me doesn’t want to let men help me anymore... I have to do it alone! And damn, I can do things a lot of people cant now.

Its a balancing act.... I’m a libra, I have STRONG feminine energy. IRL is bursts out...

The misconception is fem is negative or weak. It’s not, it’s valuable energy too.

I was far more masculine in my youth when I associated emotions as weakness... now I want to be the soft place for my lover and superficially.... the envy of his friends....
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you can still be feminine and do your thing. If I was a women I wouldn't be totally dependent on a man until I was married. There is a lot security for women in marriages.
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Funny how some people get riled up for not being feminine. Everyone has a type. Op likes girly, really feminine types. Other guys don't. I don't see why some get super defensive. Nobody's disrespecting anybody 😂

I think its women that have been single to long may be they think they're lack of feminity is the reason.

Here is my problem.. I like when the man I care for helps me... I ask for it....

Now I’ve been screwed over because those men go and I cant do things alone or I have to contact the exes for assistance and its awful!

So part of me doesn’t want to let men help me anymore... I have to do it alone! And damn, I can do things a lot of people cant now.

Its a balancing act.... I’m a libra, I have STRONG feminine energy. IRL is bursts out...

The misconception is fem is negative or weak. It’s not, it’s valuable energy too.

I was far more masculine in my youth when I associated emotions as weakness... now I want to be the soft place for my lover and superficially.... the envy of his friends....

you can still be feminine and do your thing. If I was a women I wouldn't be totally dependent on a man until I was married. There is a lot security for women in marriages.

Not completely

Ive lost everything in my divorce and I’m having to scramble to be completely independent...and men are offering help, I’m afraid to take it

It’s not being totally dependent... I notice a lot of men use acts of service to shoe affection. So I allow opportunities for that. I genuinely like it, I enjoy being fussed over and then shoeing gratitude...

Its a whole cycle that makes everything warm and fuzzy

Being feminine to me is energy... a gentleness and a strength..
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will I don't know if your American or not but here if you married to a guy that makes good money and you was a stay at home wife you getting half.
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Posted by Arielle83

The traits described mainly in here seem more “childlike” or “passive” or “submissive”.

Cooking and cleaning and the idea of dresses, or waiting for a man to pursue them all remind me of all the traits my dad expected me to have as a teenager.

To me a feminine woman is a woman that moves her body freely and not controlled or robotic. I think of dancing and flowing movement. Feminine women are seductive with confidence and well dressed with an aura of free spirit. The ability to love freely and openly. Nurturing and protective but giving.

I think both examples above are samples of feminine energy. I've never heard of feminine energy described as frigid, far from it. Women who love to cook, clean and wear dresses should not be criticized by other women for being who they are. This does not mean they aren't seductive or well dressed as a matter of fact they are far from it. Most men find them highly seductive. I think all women should support each other instead of being critical of those women who are different than them if this thing called "Girl Power" is really going to work. Women have to stop being so jealous of each other.

Other people seem to see feminine as being a maid, or a frigid, no sex appeal, robotic submissive.