Season
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frigidity or bad lover?
Two things:
1. Some guys are simply arseholes and can't put up with their yuuuuuuge ego. Since they aren't too smart, they will proceed with name-calling and what not. I don't think it's a gentleman-like move and don't consider it right. We live in times of instant gratification - fast food, easy hookups, etc., so finding someone who would go to reasonable lengths is not as easy as it used to be.
2. Some girls tend to actually be very detached and cold. A few of them want to be showered in gifts and not do anything in the process. Others are simply like that and can't be changed in the process. While I wouldn't mind communication and resolving things, but I'm not the kind of a guy who will spend all of my time figuring things out - it's simply not worth it. And I think I'm a detached prick as well.
In summary: some of the women are like that and deserve those labels, other ladies aren't emotionally ready or aren't capable of doing their part in developing a relationship. I keep all of my emotions and most of the inner thoughts to myself, because I'm used to the fact that no one in the world will care about me or do something to get me to open up. I don't think it's worth my time. Some guys don't have the maturity or the ability to figure stuff out.
TL;DR
Assholes will always be arseholes, cold people will remain cold and I'm a detached prick who can't be bothered to open up. The individual is the one who is or isn't entitled to being called "frigid" or "ice queen".
1. Some guys are simply arseholes and can't put up with their yuuuuuuge ego. Since they aren't too smart, they will proceed with name-calling and what not. I don't think it's a gentleman-like move and don't consider it right. We live in times of instant gratification - fast food, easy hookups, etc., so finding someone who would go to reasonable lengths is not as easy as it used to be.
2. Some girls tend to actually be very detached and cold. A few of them want to be showered in gifts and not do anything in the process. Others are simply like that and can't be changed in the process. While I wouldn't mind communication and resolving things, but I'm not the kind of a guy who will spend all of my time figuring things out - it's simply not worth it. And I think I'm a detached prick as well.
In summary: some of the women are like that and deserve those labels, other ladies aren't emotionally ready or aren't capable of doing their part in developing a relationship. I keep all of my emotions and most of the inner thoughts to myself, because I'm used to the fact that no one in the world will care about me or do something to get me to open up. I don't think it's worth my time. Some guys don't have the maturity or the ability to figure stuff out.
TL;DR
Assholes will always be arseholes, cold people will remain cold and I'm a detached prick who can't be bothered to open up. The individual is the one who is or isn't entitled to being called "frigid" or "ice queen".
Posted by SeasonBecause its a waste of time trying to lay an "ice queen" playing games or not instead of an "easy queen" who is into you. Why would one wanna go the hard way? Time is precious.
Hi guys.
I was wondering why some men can be quick to label a woman "frigid" or an "ice queen" when really they're the ones who don't take the time to find her pleasure receptors and probe them. Sexual gratification is a two way street. Wouldn't it be better to discover ways together to fully enjoy each other, rather than name calling and labeling?
Is it an ego thing with some guys?
Posted by TaurasianBut what if a guy falls for a woman and though she loves him too, she's not sent into spasms on by his performance. Shouldn't he make the effort to find a way to please her if he really cares for her? You make it sound like some guy just wants to get laid so he'll take an easy girl over one who's not easy. But how would he know his style of loving making doesn't satisfy her unless he tries?Posted by SeasonBecause its a waste of time trying to lay an "ice queen" playing games or not instead of an "easy queen" who is into you. Why would one wanna go the hard way? Time is precious.
Hi guys.
I was wondering why some men can be quick to label a woman "frigid" or an "ice queen" when really they're the ones who don't take the time to find her pleasure receptors and probe them. Sexual gratification is a two way street. Wouldn't it be better to discover ways together to fully enjoy each other, rather than name calling and labeling?
Is it an ego thing with some guys?click to expand
This is why it seems like a simplistic ego thing to label women and it's probably done by men such as you describe who just want easy uncomplicated sex as opposed to a relationship.
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Is it an ego thing with some guys?