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New personal trainer at my job, he's the manager of that department. He came into my work area and introduced himself very politely, and shook my hand. But he shook it and simultaneously squeezed it tightly. What do some men do that?
Also, he keeps bugging me about hiring him, he says he wants to take me from a 10 to a 12 lol. He makes indirect compliments about me too. But after days of indirectly flirting with me, he mentions his gf in a conversation.
I always catch him looking at me as well. Like I turn around and he looks at me.
Is he dtf? What's the deal.

Really? Idk, it's been a while for me so I'm sexually frustrated but I also am waiting for a reason. Idk if I'm about that life.
I'm gonna hire him though because I need too. We'll see how he acts, oh god

@kodak375

Posted by Blood ft. Water
Career suicide for 20 minutes of pleaure?

#TaurusProblems

It's not a career it's just a basic job for now.

A guy or the job really don't mean that much to me.

The guy *

Was just curious as what was going on in his head. It's entertainment at a boring job.

Posted by kalin
Maybe he was just picturing making babies with you? God knows guys do stare at hot chicks and thinking of undressing them in their head even if they are in a committed relationship.

What animals

Posted by Kodak375

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
The guy *

Was just curious as what was going on in his head. It's entertainment at a boring job.

Pftt get a better job with outgoing people. You have wayyy more fun, your in nyc as well. I was just there, the job market is not too bad

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Of course I'll get a better job, but I'm still young getting my degree. This is just a job to have money for going out and saving.

Posted by Kodak375

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by Kodak375

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
The guy *

Was just curious as what was going on in his head. It's entertainment at a boring job.

Pftt get a better job with outgoing people. You have wayyy more fun, your in nyc as well. I was just there, the job market is not too bad

Of course I'll get a better job, but I'm still young getting my degree. This is just a job to have money for going out and saving.

Yeah but trust me, In nyc there's too many jobs to settle for a boring one. But do you

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its bearable for now lol but thanks for your opinion

i get a free gym membership so it has its perks, and i usually work short hours, and weekends off, lol i shouldnt complain

He wants to stick his thingy in your orifices.

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
New personal trainer at my job, he's the manager of that department. He came into my work area and introduced himself very politely, and shook my hand. But he shook it and simultaneously squeezed it tightly. What do some men do that?
Also, he keeps bugging me about hiring him, he says he wants to take me from a 10 to a 12 lol. He makes indirect compliments about me too. But after days of indirectly flirting with me, he mentions his gf in a conversation.
I always catch him looking at me as well. Like I turn around and he looks at me.
Is he dtf? What's the deal.

Hes trying to get you to hire him.

Posted by Kodak375

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
i get a free gym membership so it has its perks, and i usually work short hours, and weekends off, lol i shouldnt complain

Word, was going to work for la fitness so I could stop paying. lol Personal Trainer Career for you?

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no definitely not. I want to go into business or financing, typical taurus o🙂
if paying for a gym membership is a nuisance, then just go jogging. last year I used to go jogging 5 days a week for an hour, I tried to always go in the woods for the purpose of the hills, it really worked out my legs, abs, and butt. my lower half of the body was looking great, and the best part was that is was for free!!! also, I loved going jogging for the scenery as well. beautiful trees, skies, crisp air, nice people walking their dogs, and I was peacefully all alone, no creepy guys staring or checking me out. BUT the downside of relying on jogging for exercise is that i could only do that two season out of the year, living on the east coast. fall and spring. summer is too hot, ill get a heart stroke, and winter is too cold. if you do proper research its actually extremely bad for your lungs to be outside in the harsh winter jogging, when you see people jogging in the winter, just know that they are doing it all wrong, trust me, i took a nutrition class, jogging in the winter does much more damage than good, thats a fact.

so, I just decided that working out at a gym would be better, i could work out all year long, and work out my upper body too, arms and back. downside of jogging, it doesnt do much for your back or arms. try to find a cheaper gym, like planet fitness, retro fitness, or crunch, i think crunch is $ 20 a month. good luck.

Posted by DMV

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
New personal trainer at my job, he's the manager of that department. He came into my work area and introduced himself very politely, and shook my hand. But he shook it and simultaneously squeezed it tightly. What do some men do that?
Also, he keeps bugging me about hiring him, he says he wants to take me from a 10 to a 12 lol. He makes indirect compliments about me too. But after days of indirectly flirting with me, he mentions his gf in a conversation.
I always catch him looking at me as well. Like I turn around and he looks at me.
Is he dtf? What's the deal.

Hes trying to get you to hire him.

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i figured that, annoying, but i need his guidance because i want a specific look, oh well, what are ya gonna do. beauty is pain, and apparently costly too, lol!

@kodak375 good for you, does la have a sauna? but you cant run in the winter anymore, youll be running backwards haha

Posted by idk
nevermind. thank you, google.
*breaks out a classic issue of consumer reports*
damn i'm gettin' old.

Hahahahah, you must not be from ny ;p

I have a firm handshake and I make eye contact. I smile, but I'm not hitting on you.