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This topic was created in the The Man Cave forum by firebunny on Friday, June 29, 2018 and has 6 replies.

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@firebunny
14 Years10,000+ Posts

so I like this chick... and wanna pursue her. every time i see her, i am drawn to her.

it's just that she seems to be evading me. i didn't know she's very smart. they say she almost topped the boards and graduated magna cum laude. i didn't know about those things.

what i really care about are my feelings for her. i wanna know her more and possibly date her.

last update: she's now the officemate of my college friend.

you think it's now easier for me to get close to her?

actually, no, because the problem is, my college friend and i seem to be not going so well with each other. we got into a few fights and misunderstandings.

i actually left the groupchat because i got pissed off. but because he's the officemate of this girl, i went back in and tried to damage-control everything.

now, i think i have to be nice with this college friend of mine oh so suddenly even though i don't like him anymore. i have no choice... he's the friggin' officemate of my crush.

what do you guys think should i do so that i can "get" this girl?

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@wildflower
8 Years500+ Posts

You can "bump" into her one day, introduce yourself and tell her you heard she was really intelligent and you found her to be impressive. gauge her reaction. ask her where she's from, small talk. invite her out for coffee

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@hydorah
13 Years10,000+ PostsPisces

don't be a beta bunny.

Wear some shades, pop your collar, enter her office moonwalking.

If your ex friend asks what you're doing there tell him to eat your shorts.

Don't excuse yourself to hit on the girls