@Aquastic
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He got circumcised,now he's ignoring me
Why Your Boyfriend Is Ignoring You After Circumcision
His focus may be on healing and recovery after circumcision, which can cause him to seem distant. Physical discomfort and emotional adjustment can also affect his communication. It is important to give him time to recover and talk openly about how he's feeling during this period.
What should I be doing to show my support? Should I even visit him? It's really frustrating really!
Course he doesn't want you to see it yet! And he knows you're going to want to see it, so right now, he'll completely ignore you. It would be like, "Hey, can I come and watch you throw up in the bathroom? Let me see!"...uhhh nooooo. After it heals, he'll be nervously ready to show it to you. And for Gods sake do not, I repeat, DO NOT give anything but positive feedback or he'll be devastated. Plus, you'll be toast as for as being his girlfriend anymore.
Let the man heal. He literally just lost a piece of himself.
Just call him to ask if he's ok, but don't see him till he's ready.
Maybe they cut off an inch or two too much and he's thinking of ways to let you know how fun times is gonna a bit less fun.
But srsly....give it a rest lol, it probably hurts.
This sounds like a troll post you guise.
Posted by DeleterNerd
The most depressed I was in my entire life was when I couldnt use my right hand so I couldnt masturbate for a couple months...
Amputated hand?
Posted by DeleterNerd
The most depressed I was in my entire life was when I couldnt use my right hand so I couldnt masturbate for a couple months...Amputated hand? click to expand
Yeahhh after two months they decided to just stitch it back on...because what the hell. click to expand
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Hey, if it worked for that Bobbitt character after his wife pulled her tricks on him, why not for you?! The wonders of modern medicine.
This is so funny 😭😂
Posted by WarAngel1
Troll thread.
Seconded.
Posted by WarAngel1
Troll thread.
Your point being?!!!
you should not have spit it out in his face just afterward
Posted by Aquastic
What should I be doing to show my support? Should I even visit him? It's really frustrating really!Put in your code and your captcha (to prove you're human)
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Are u fucken kidding me right now?!
Posted by MiZLeo
If this isn't a troll thread....When an older guy gets circumcised they cant get hard for like a couple of weeks or something like that cause if they do then they will tear the stitches. So he probably doesnt want to be near you and then get turned on. But why wouldn't you call him to find out how he is doing?
True,he did ban me from visiting him for the same reasons you mentioned ,I checked up on him as most of ya'll suggested
Posted by capitalism
blahahahahaha you tell him to do it?
No I did not instead I was not even aware he was not circumcised since we both enjoyed sex so much. I only started paying attention to his foreskin when he mentioned he was planning to get rid of it.
As I even told him he doesn't have to since his penis is always clean when I perform blow jobs .But he insisted to get it done anyways cause all his friends were advcing him to.
Posted by hydorah
you should not have spit it out in his face just afterward
WTF?
Is it mean that I would send him a sexy pic just to fuck with him?
Let's play a game...
😂😂
Posted by SpaceBird
He'll be fine ....eventually ...
That's what he said . It's just the way is killing me ....m so looking forward to getting down again!
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Is it mean that I would send him a sexy pic just to treetrunk with him?Let's play a game...
😂😂
Lol hehehe, funny u mention this cause the other day I was tempted to send him what I consider to be my sexiest pic but O thought about his stitches
Posted by SpaceBird
Don't worry about it ..just nurse him or let him get better ...give a few weeks ...
I was banned from visiting
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Is it mean that I would send him a sexy pic just to treetrunk with him?Let's play a game...
😂😂
Lol hehehe, funny u mention this cause the other day I was tempted to send him what I consider to be my sexiest pic but O thought about his stitches click to expand
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Yeah, don't do that as tempting as it may be. Lol
Never ask him what's up though
Posted by TheSag
Never ask him what's up though
Lol
Posted by Aquastic
Hey guys,please help! My boyfriend went and got circumcised but after he did it,I feel like he started ignoring me or is it that he is just still healing?Are you retarded or what? His penis is healing and getting even mildly aroused from your presence would be extremely painful.
JFC
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Fhuuuck khofff
someone just cut off the most pleasurable part of his penis, why do you even bother with this guy?
Posted by Masterful
how long is the recovery time?thinking of getting recircumcised too
Six Weeks
ouch it said "click to expand"
Some Dxp people are annoying to be honest!
Posted by hydorah
someone just cut off the most pleasurable part of his penis, why do you even bother with this guy?
And it's your business why?
Posted by hydorah
someone just cut off the most pleasurable part of his penis, why do you even bother with this guy?And it's your business why? click to expand
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because you made a thread about it?
Posted by hydorah
someone just cut off the most pleasurable part of his penis, why do you even bother with this guy?And it's your business why? click to expand
because you made a thread about it?
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Just vhuuck ovf
Posted by MiZLeo
I don't know why guys feel the need to do this at an older age, UNLESS it's a religious thing. Laziness about washing it? Some dumb girl child doesnt like it so they want to impress her? IDGI. Mr. Virgo isn't circumcised and I sometimes cant tell unless I'm actually playing with it or when its soft and just hanging there. Lol I've been with a few uncut guys and never had an issue with it.
I also did not understand why, he kept saying his friend advices him to or something like that. I also never had a problem with him uncut instead O thought it was cute....and it's not that hard to wash it and sex was just normal . So guess boys will be boys!
Posted by MiZLeo
I don't know why guys feel the need to do this at an older age, UNLESS it's a religious thing. Laziness about washing it? Some dumb girl child doesnt like it so they want to impress her? IDGI. Mr. Virgo isn't circumcised and I sometimes cant tell unless I'm actually playing with it or when its soft and just hanging there. Lol I've been with a few uncut guys and never had an issue with it.I also did not understand why, he kept saying his friend advices him to or something like that. I also never had a problem with him uncut instead O thought it was cute....and it's not that hard to wash it and sex was just normal . So guess boys will be boys! click to expand
You have my sympathy, wouldn't cut mine no matter the reason lol... click to expand
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He's better now,we talk everyday
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Hey guys,please help! My boyfriend went and got circumcised but after he did it,I feel like he started ignoring me or is it that he is just still healing?