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Bi-lesbian coworker groped one of my colleagues
Was the pregnant girl offended? and I've let plenty of gay men grab my boobs because they wanted to see if they were real. I would never even think to let a guy or lesbian girl do that. Such weird things people rationalize đ
Whatâs the big deal? Really?
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by Gemitati
Whatâs the big deal? Really?
The hypocracyclick to expand
Hupocracy isnât federal offense.
Was prego offended, hurt, scared?
Whatâs the issue? Did she run to you crying?
Depends on whether consent was given or not.
Irregardless its incredibly inappropriate to grope a coworker at work even if they invited it imo.
Irregardless its incredibly inappropriate to grope a coworker at work even if they invited it imo.
Consent wasn't asked. She just went for it, probably on account that they've worked together for years and bc of that she figured the colleague would just shrug it off which she did. Now if a straight guy took the same liberties under similar circumstances we're talking whole different ballgame. And yes I know she gets to say who gropes her and who doesn't regardless of their sexuality, that's beyond my point.
But me coming from a friendly place and getting my dick hard by groping a long-time acquaintance, and a lesbian doing the same and getting her clit hard .. should surely be viewed is the same light, no?
Same bi-lesbian has been drunkenly groping and fondling my gf on more than one occassion when we're out clubbing, also professed she was way more lesbian than straight which is also how we know where her interest lies.
I don't mind it bc I don't get jealous over other women interningling with my gf, but she too is now starting to think the bi-lesbian is becoming kind of a handful.
But me coming from a friendly place and getting my dick hard by groping a long-time acquaintance, and a lesbian doing the same and getting her clit hard .. should surely be viewed is the same light, no?
Same bi-lesbian has been drunkenly groping and fondling my gf on more than one occassion when we're out clubbing, also professed she was way more lesbian than straight which is also how we know where her interest lies.
I don't mind it bc I don't get jealous over other women interningling with my gf, but she too is now starting to think the bi-lesbian is becoming kind of a handful.
Posted by PostHumanPosted by LadyNeptune
Depends on whether consent was given or not.
Irregardless its incredibly inappropriate to grope a coworker at work even if they invited it imo.
Regardlessclick to expand
Yeah, that one
Women go to the same restroom together. Men not allowed.
Same principal. Woman can grab other women boobs if another woman is a food friend and donât mind and apparently she didnât.
Is this all because you wanted to grab as well? Lmao
Same principal. Woman can grab other women boobs if another woman is a food friend and donât mind and apparently she didnât.
Is this all because you wanted to grab as well? Lmao
Posted by Gemitati
Women go to the same restroom together. Men not allowed.
Same principal. Woman can grab other women boobs if another woman is a food friend and donât mind and apparently she didnât.
Is this all because you wanted to grab as well? Lmao
No you're really not getting my point.
apparently grabee was fine with it...
She could be a bi as well. I am not a bi and I wouldnât be. I would laugh...
She could be a bi as well. I am not a bi and I wouldnât be. I would laugh...
Posted by Arielle83
I think it depends on how offended other people are at work.
Yeah but to do you think a straight male and a lesbian should be held to the same standards in these matters? Why / why not?
Isn't the difference ultimately a question of perception and (lesbian) women are for some reason perceived as less shady and creepy, when they're just as calculating as guys in their advances as this example illustrates.
Posted by Arielle83
Personally, I hate getting attention for someone elseâs attention seeking behaviour.
So Iâd be telling her sheâs fucking annoying and her pathetic attempt at fondeling me is going to get her a black eye if she doesnât fuck off.
Iâd probably get shamed and called a homophobe by her and her allies.
So much for #metoo white bitch movement
According to OP she didnât know that grabber was a bi...
Posted by Arielle83Posted by GemitatiPosted by Arielle83
Personally, I hate getting attention for someone elseâs attention seeking behaviour.
So Iâd be telling her sheâs fucking annoying and her pathetic attempt at fondeling me is going to get her a black eye if she doesnât fuck off.
Iâd probably get shamed and called a homophobe by her and her allies.
So much for #metoo white bitch movement
According to OP she didnât know that grabber was a bi...
Thatâs irrelevantclick to expand
It is. Relevant to be called homophobe. If you didnât know you wouldnât be called homophobe.
Posted by Gemitati
According to OP she didnât know that grabber was a bi...
What I'm partially wondering, if she did know, would she rush home and assume the fetus position in the shower and feel all victimized like she would if a long-time guy colleague did it... or would it be different? If so, why? What's the difference?
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by Gemitati
According to OP she didnât know that grabber was a bi...
What I'm partially wondering, if she did know, would she rush home and assume the fetus position in the shower and feel all victimized like she would if a long-time guy colleague did it... or would it be different? If so, why? What's the difference?
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One would, another wouldnât. It comes to woman grabbed womenâs boobs! Period. No big deal.
Apparently itâs only big deal for you.
Why? Are you homophobe?
Man, what the fuck is a bi-lesbian.
She's either bi or lesbian.
She's either bi or lesbian.
Posted by Gemitati
One would, another wouldnât. It comes to woman grabbed womenâs boobs! Period. No big deal.
Apparently itâs only big deal for you.
Why? Are you homophobe?
Funny in the age of Metoo, that you should ask if I'm a homophobe in a matter that's essentially about inappropriate sexual behaviour, only with both parties being women.
You just made my point.
Posted by Emhendo
Man, what the fuck is a bi-lesbian.
She's either bi or lesbian.
Lol
Ok so she has a child by a penis, and she isn't sure if she's bi or lesbian. She's leaning more towards the latter nowdays, according to what she disclosed to my gf
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by Gemitati
One would, another wouldnât. It comes to woman grabbed womenâs boobs! Period. No big deal.
Apparently itâs only big deal for you.
Why? Are you homophobe?
Funny in the age of Metoo, that you should ask if I'm a homophobe in a matter that's essentially about inappropriate sexual behaviour, only with both parties being women.
You just made my point.
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I donât give a fuck about meeto. Most of those are money extortionists.
But at least I finally proved something...like your point...is it really pointy?
Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Gemitati
One would, another wouldnât. It comes to woman grabbed womenâs boobs! Period. No big deal.
Apparently itâs only big deal for you.
Why? Are you homophobe?
Funny in the age of Metoo, that you should ask if I'm a homophobe in a matter that's essentially about inappropriate sexual behaviour, only with both parties being women.
You just made my point.
Facts.
Inappropriate is inappropriate.click to expand
Women touch pregnant women! Itâs like a ok! Stomach. Boobs. Itâs OK!
And prego was OK with it.
Whatâs inappropriate?
Posted by Gemitati
Women touch pregnant women! Itâs like a ok!
.
Even if she's a lesbian? Even if she secretly gets off on it... like a guy would?
And she didn't touch her stomach to "feel" if she's pregnant, she only felt up her boobs.
Posted by ScorpioTruthPosted by GemitatiPosted by ScorpioTruthPosted by enfant_terriblePosted by Gemitati
One would, another wouldnât. It comes to woman grabbed womenâs boobs! Period. No big deal.
Apparently itâs only big deal for you.
Why? Are you homophobe?
Funny in the age of Metoo, that you should ask if I'm a homophobe in a matter that's essentially about inappropriate sexual behaviour, only with both parties being women.
You just made my point.
Facts.
Inappropriate is inappropriate.
Women touch pregnant women! Itâs like a ok! Stomach. Boobs. Itâs OK!
And prego was OK with it.
Whatâs inappropriate?
No the fuck it is not ok. Speak for yourself.
If any bitch at work touches my boobs OR belly, theyâre getting knocked the fuck out. Whatever happened to âkeep your hands to yourselfâ? Wtf ?! Thatâs sexual harassment, regardless if itâs coming from a man or woman.click to expand
No it isnât.
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I'd say there is a difference, a bit if a double standard but not necessarily hypocritical.
First off, consent is the golden rule regardless of gender or sexual orientation. If the two are really close this might not apply. But besides that yeah people should ask if it's ok before touching.
However there is a difference being a woman groped by another woman and a woman groped by a man. Normally it has to do with safety. If you don't want random people touching you you'll be uncomfortable but men will tend to come off as more threatening. Which is understandable since a lot of times men who are gropey w/o consent will push that into something more violent.
Has your girlfriend ever just said hey don't touch me without asking first? Maybe this woman doesn't understand boundaries.
And personally I've been groped a lot of women co-workers and I won't lie, it does make me a bit uncomfortable (not in a bad way) but it's not the same if it was a guy, who would automatically receive a punch to the face.đ¤ˇ
First off, consent is the golden rule regardless of gender or sexual orientation. If the two are really close this might not apply. But besides that yeah people should ask if it's ok before touching.
However there is a difference being a woman groped by another woman and a woman groped by a man. Normally it has to do with safety. If you don't want random people touching you you'll be uncomfortable but men will tend to come off as more threatening. Which is understandable since a lot of times men who are gropey w/o consent will push that into something more violent.
Has your girlfriend ever just said hey don't touch me without asking first? Maybe this woman doesn't understand boundaries.
And personally I've been groped a lot of women co-workers and I won't lie, it does make me a bit uncomfortable (not in a bad way) but it's not the same if it was a guy, who would automatically receive a punch to the face.đ¤ˇ
Posted by Jade_Alexander
I dont allow women or men to fondle me.
I would have been totally offended.
Even if they are cute? Lol
Posted by enfant_terrible
*trigger warning*
The colleague is preggers and the bi-lesbian figured she'd feel and fondle her tits to "determine" this. And on the job aswell. I am not sure the colleague knows the bi-lesbian is bi-lesbian. Would that make any difference do you think?
Is this a metoo thing or does it only apply if I'd have groped the colleague's tits to determine her pregnancy? Do bi-lesbians get away with more?
Asking for a friend.
You're turning into an old white man waaaay too soon.
Sincerely,
Harriet Tubman
Posted by DrinkWater
Dem pregnant titties tho.
No lies
Posted by enfant_terrible
Consent wasn't asked. She just went for it, probably on account that they've worked together for years and bc of that she figured the colleague would just shrug it off which she did. Now if a straight guy took the same liberties under similar circumstances we're talking whole different ballgame. And yes I know she gets to say who gropes her and who doesn't regardless of their sexuality, that's beyond my point.
But me coming from a friendly place and getting my dick hard by groping a long-time acquaintance, and a lesbian doing the same and getting her clit hard .. should surely be viewed is the same light, no?
Same bi-lesbian has been drunkenly groping and fondling my gf on more than one occassion when we're out clubbing, also professed she was way more lesbian than straight which is also how we know where her interest lies.
I don't mind it bc I don't get jealous over other women interningling with my gf, but she too is now starting to think the bi-lesbian is becoming kind of a handful.
LOL - I find it bizarre, I would never let anyone touch me like that unless I wanted them too JFC! If that was me, someone would get their nose pushed in AND reported !
Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by Arielle83
I think it depends on how offended other people are at work.
Yeah but to do you think a straight male and a lesbian should be held to the same standards in these matters? Why / why not?
Isn't the difference ultimately a question of perception and (lesbian) women are for some reason perceived as less shady and creepy, when they're just as calculating as guys in their advances as this example illustrates.
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yes imo everyone should have the same standards no matter what
Posted by HeartofTopazz
Are you her attorney?
Is anyone the attorney of any grope/assault victim except their actual attorney? No, it doesn't prevent ppl from acknowledging or speaking up about shit.
But by all means, keep deflecting from the actual issue. đ
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Is this a metoo thing or does it only apply if I'd have groped the colleague's tits to determine her pregnancy? Do bi-lesbians get away with more?
Asking for a friend.