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It's not like guys who smile are unattractive, it's that they have to look sexy and/or intense when they don't smile. And in general, scowls aren't sexy.
My Aquarius man is all about happy go lucky; he can be incredibly goofy. But when he's concentrating or super involved in something, he has an intensity that's super sexy.
He rides sport/racing ATV's for fun, and I have a pic of him riding full blast over some rocks in a creek with his riding pants, boots, and no shirt. Serious intense concentration on what he's doing. So f'ing hot.
aw that's cool. However, it would look wierd if a guy was all loling while doing his sports /racing ATV, well i've not seen it, but i guess there are loling guys out there. ๐
Posted by MsTeeq1974
I agree completely with Grey on not reading too many blogs, etc. There's are quite a few things that have happened in our relationship that let's me know that he's serious and one was randomly showing me his birth certificate one day. Lol ha ha ha haA Scorp showing someone a birth certificate out of the blue? I was shocked and pleased all at once. Lol
lol!! showing you out of the blue? soooo suspicious of that ๐ that is weird.
i mean, really? what motivation would he do that for? no one does that unless they are going to go apply for a new drivers license or something important. Guess he wanted you to make sure he was legit. Still, that's so weird. Not even my ex's did that. i dont even care to see their drivers license, i guess i just trust instinctively.
Posted by MsTeeq1974
I agree completely with Grey on not reading too many blogs, etc. There's are quite a few things that have happened in our relationship that let's me know that he's serious and one was randomly showing me his birth certificate one day. Lol ha ha ha haA Scorp showing someone a birth certificate out of the blue? I was shocked and pleased all at once. Lol
I have a very very funny Scorp son.....Gemini rising and Saggi Merc (Libra Moon)
Does your man have a lot of air in his chart, Ms?
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Not too much. Air jupiter, saturn, and pluto...but I believe being a Libra rising helps lighten those Scorp proclivities. Plus he has earth venus and mars...sooooo....he's pretty balanced. More so than any guy I've ever met. That was my attraction to him. The inner balance and how he just levels out easily. He's not extreme about anything to the point of being blinded. He listens well and doesn't feel the need to win arguments. He's both emo restrictive and super sweet. Not just one or the other....like most people.
Posted by lisabethur8
i mean, really? what motivation would he do that for? no one does that unless they are going to go apply for a new drivers license or something important. Guess he wanted you to make sure he was legit. Still, that's so weird. Not even my ex's did that. i dont even care to see their drivers license, i guess i just trust instinctively.
He was packing for a vacation he takes every year and was blabbing like I've NEVER seen before. Lol....he really wanted me to go, but I refused. So he took me to his place with him to finish packing. He looked at me and started talking about how it's so cool that he can tell me anything and then he just started blabbing. Lol...he was talking about being born in a famous hospital at that point and that's when he whipped out the birth certificate. Lol....It was like striking gold, because that's how I got his birth time. Lol ha ha ha
Posted by lisabethur8
i mean, really? what motivation would he do that for? no one does that unless they are going to go apply for a new drivers license or something important. Guess he wanted you to make sure he was legit. Still, that's so weird. Not even my ex's did that. i dont even care to see their drivers license, i guess i just trust instinctively.He was packing for a vacation he takes every year and was blabbing like I've NEVER seen before. Lol....he really wanted me to go, but I refused. So he took me to his place with him to finish packing. He looked at me and started talking about how it's so cool that he can tell me anything and then he just started blabbing. Lol...he was talking about being born in a famous hospital at that point and that's when he whipped out the birth certificate. Lol....It was like striking gold, because that's how I got his birth time. Lol ha ha ha
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heehee. yeah sounds like a happy go Lucky guy.
well Leonardo Di Caprio when he was young was all happy go Lucky and even as he matured past his 30s, he still is a babyfaced happy go Lucky guy. And honestly, he still hasn't cared about being with anyone still. Lots of women like him i notice, like Giselle Budchen but i guess was tired of waiting around for him, so she married Leo Tom Brady instead.
and Ryan Reynolds seem like a happy go Lucky guy too, and he's a Scorpio sun cusper. So yeah, it all depends.
anyway this was in reference to your other post on his rising and other dominant placements.
ooh he was so talkative, and proud. lol about where he was born. Very cool!!! don't have to do anything or ask. ๐
Posted by starwars
im more drawn to the happy go lucky guys, i also like the reserved ones if they are being themselves. But the ones who ACT like they are pmsing and emo get n my nerves. No boo, youre not cool.
lol that's cool for you.
i love that we all have diverse tastes.
different strokes.
Posted by starwars
http://url.dxpnet.com/?f=http://assets-s3.usmagazine.com/uploads/assets/articles/45864-hot-see-james-francos-sexy-gucci-ad-campaign/1318961556_1318870578_james-franco-article-2.jpgLooks like hes having lots of fun.
the actor isn't my type, but i love mars energy, so there's something about him, but not quite Robert Downey Jr.
i'll try and find my fave, Downey Jr.
MEeeeoooowwww.
crap! forgot to post it...
See, and neither of these guys really takes themselves seriously. They just look really good when they do. :-)
Posted by sultrykitty
See, and neither of these guys really takes themselves seriously. They just look really good when they do. :-)
i love Downey Jr. He doesn't really take himself seriously but there IS something there, and it's hard to describe. lol
he's kind of like my husband where he's non chalant, don't give a fuck, but cares. really really hard to describe. Not emo at all.
Posted by lisabethur8
crap! forgot to post it...
i also know he had a hard past, with his alcholism and went to prison. but he is amazing. And he is naturally talented. A guy with layers.
how about that guy from the Netflix show "Sons of Anarchy" ??
how about for happy go Lucky Bressie? He's pretty cool, i haven't listened to his music but he's the kind of guy you all would love, who isnt into all emo.
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Posted by GreyWiz
i think the smiley guy is the true alpha malelmao.
the "hidden" alpha huh? no woman would have suspected.
women are very cliche and superficial. they believe what the media tells them.
Bingo.
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we all have preferences.
if women only like ONE type, the other guys would not have any chances. that would be unfair. lol
I'll take a smile over stink face any day
and that would be really really bad if every woman liked one type. Same with men. lol
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Posted by lisabethur8
crap! forgot to post it..."Redemption" is my favorite word in the entire English language, and after several hard lessons, arrests and trips to rehab, it seems as though Robert has earned his wisdom and redemption by revitalization, friend/family support and internal strength to recover and be a man.
His path to redemption is why I like him.
Yes, he is flawed.
But, he is also transformed for the better.
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he has!! i love his transformation. It's beautiful.
Posted by lisabethur8
In contrast, men are most sexually attracted to women who look happy, and least attracted to those who appear proud and confident."
I've read a similar article before. I think they said men prefer smiling, friendly appearing women because it suggests they are more sexually receptive.
I'm not attracted to men who smile a lot either. I think it's because I tend to associate it with extroversion.
Posted by lisabethur8
In contrast, men are most sexually attracted to women who look happy, and least attracted to those who appear proud and confident."I've read a similar article before. I think they said men prefer smiling, friendly appearing women because it suggests they are more sexually receptive.
I'm not attracted to men who smile a lot either. I think it's because I tend to associate it with extroversion.
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seeking outside pleasures. Yeah i see what you mean.
i was talking to my husband about this last night, well not about brooding hot men versus smiling ones...
but along the same lines.
We were discussing Casanova type men.
Because the conversation spurred from my discussion with my mother who thought that men of Genius intellect seem to have alot going for them. BUT they lack alot of common sense.
She told me that she and her college girlfriends knew some guys and also one of her friends married a highly intellectual man.
However, he is womanizer and a gambler.
SO i told my mother that that type of guy has a really bad character if he's gambling away his family's money and they're starving and need to pay the bills. Plus womanzing? Who the hell cares about intellectuals. It's as if they LACK.
Posted by GreyWiz
those broody guys look like their emo and like they just got bitch slapped by their girlfriend. If i could make a caption for their picture it would read"why i am such a emo little b.i.t.c.h".the smiley guys is simply excited because he is going to be getting a lot of sex. His caption would read" i made a killing in the stock market and now i am going to bang some bicthes".
I totally agree with you!!! The brooding types like the scorpio, libra and even the sag... Too much drama! Never happy!! They would put a dampener on my leo moon. I also don't have the patience for them. I prefer men that look brooding but with a sunny personality... Emotional types do not do it for me!!! Too much water....
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well my husband has Scorpio and sag and he's very happy, well he IS since he's been with me. but he used to be very depressed.
workaholic all the time, but now very content and much happier. As if my presence gives him joy.
anyway from that discussion, i was talking to my husband about Emotional Quitent and high I.Q.
too much E.Q. vs. I.Q.
or who has the balanced one?
Would not Casanova womanizers be the Highly Emotional Quitent? The ones who need to emotionally connect to other people??
so they would need a balance.
Posted by DeepWaterSting
You gals are overanalyzing us men. Especially us Scorpios. Some of us understand we need to have emotional intelligence as well.
i would think both, intellect and emotional.
and it's fun to delve into the human condition/behaviour of people in general. /human pschology.
Whats emotion intelligenceโ??
Posted by AquaMermaid
Hot brooding man! There was a time when I was involved with a happy go lucky guy but I soon realized they aren't for me.My fire bits make me boisterous so having a strong,silent and serious partner is a fine balance for me.He keeps me levelheaded.I don't like grown ass men acting like teenagers. It's annoying and repulsive.
i've never been attracted to those types. However, i have gotten involved with adrenaline junkie types, maybe that's why they are dominant fire = need the intensity and THRILLS.
although David Guetta understands this, he's dominant earth and water. ๐ ๐ ๐
but he does have fire houses. saturn in 5th, midheaven 9th, strong 1st house. Scorpio rising. lol
Posted by AquaMermaid
Meh..I don't care for jokesters. I can't take them seriously.I believe in ageing gracefully. We share our moments of laughter and I like his witty sense of humor but I know I'll never catch him making a fool of himself in public. Different strokes for different folks.
oh this part is like my man!!
He'd NEVER make a fool of himself in public. Too SERIOUS. lol
my husband jokes with me, but i notice he NEVER jokes with other people. Too damn personal. He just doesn't care or trust anyone. lol Scorpio trait maybe. ๐
neighbors invite us to dinner but he tells me to decline. and they're good folks. they've given up on asking me too. lol i think they get the message now.
oh he jokes with his pisces grandma. his two special ladies, me and his grandma. heehee.
Posted by lisabethur8
my husband jokes with me, but i notice he NEVER jokes with other people. Too damn personal. He just doesn't care or trust anyone. lol Scorpio trait maybe. ๐neighbors invite us to dinner but he tells me to decline. and they're good folks. they've given up on asking me too. lol i think they get the message now.
My ex was like that....he wouldnt mix...i found it very depressing and limiting. I am very outgoing and chatty and it drained me some
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i prefer my man's type. I dont like mixing with people too much, unless they are family and close to family.
i dont mind being in creative groups to learn from and exchange experience, and creative arts though.
anyway, you seem to need a chatty guy. lol
maybe a socialite guy type? ๐
lmao @ grumpy old guys. ๐
Posted by lisabethur8
my husband jokes with me, but i notice he NEVER jokes with other people. Too damn personal. He just doesn't care or trust anyone. lol Scorpio trait maybe. ๐neighbors invite us to dinner but he tells me to decline. and they're good folks. they've given up on asking me too. lol i think they get the message now.
Maybe give him the old guilt trip once and go.
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๐ hilarious!!
heehee.
Actually no one likes a "brooding" person, in the true definition of the word.
I think y'all got it confused with introverts, though we perfer to be called power reserve -peeps.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Actually no one likes a "brooding" person, in the true definition of the word.I think y'all got it confused with introverts, though we perfer to be called power reserve -peeps.
i actually like that. power reserve....
All about the happy go lucky men.
This life is hard enough as it is without someone brooding beside me.
I'm a nurturer by nature so having someone react to it like "-.-" dampens my spirits. Gimme top of the world excitement or gimme death.
I need to see your eyes smile as you smile and I also need to be able to go out without someone thinking I brought the Grim Reaper with me.
I'm not saying stand there like a golden retriever with an idiotic smile plastered all the time..but self-deprecating humor is a must for me and I haven't found a stoic man being capable of this yet.
Posted by MsTeeq1974
I prefer happy go lucky men...always. The brooding type of guy is NOT for me.
Yet you're dating a Scorpio.
Do women make sense, ever?
lol, I kid, I kid.
Posted by lisabethur8
they have a photo of this guy looking super serious, after his natural smile was not encouraged. Jeeeez.....this is too much. Shouldn't it be NATURAL?
He looks disturbed in both pictures. Even more disturbed in the second.
Posted by channingtatumsneck
are there broody women?
I don't know, ask your rising.
Posted by channingtatumsneck
he doesn't like scorpio rising women.
How can you not like your own rising in women?
Imagine the joy over dinner.
Posted by channingtatumsneck
...and scorpiosit's the opposite of my descendant.
how could i?
Don't you want a piece of the taurus-scorpio unbreakable connection?
Have you seen those women go berserk over the taurus board?
Come on, you have a Leo Moon, that kind of focused attention is right up your alley.
Posted by RumiLove
Chaningtatumsneck --- are you ands? ๐yeah i pressed the delete account button to see what would happen.
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you and elle.
god, fire moons.
Posted by MsTeeq1974
I prefer happy go lucky men...always. The brooding type of guy is NOT for me.Yet you're dating a Scorpio.
Do women make sense, ever?
lol, I kid, I kid.
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LMBO!!!!! Hey, hey, now...A Scorp with a Leo moon, Jupiter in the first house, and a Libra rising at that. lol He doesn't brood. The closest he comes to brooding is a blank stare as if he's dead. The first time I saw that, we were waking up after spending the night together and it scared the shit out of me. LMBO!!!!! I was like, "Holy shiz...please don't tell me this man died in his sleep." I whispered, "Hey". I was so relieved when he looked directly at me.
I only wish I was kidding about this. I finally told him that he looks like he's dead when he's staring off into space before he gets out of bed in the morning.
Posted by RumiLove
Chaningtatumsneck --- are you ands? ๐yeah i pressed the delete account button to see what would happen.
But you pressed it so many times! ฦ ...anyway, welcome back I guess ๐
this is the first time there was a button! ๐
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Seriously!?!?!?! lol
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lol!! not attractive at all. too weird.