what would you determine a guy is a bad person

when you observe them?

1) when he talks bad about his ex? and you get turned off by him while he's courting you?

2) when he wishes Whoopi Goldberg to go to North Korea?

3) when he doesn't take care of his children and support them after he divorces the ex wife. and never sees them again?

4) when he doesnt commit to anyone past 30?

5) when you realize he prefers to flirt with all the women and never wants to marry anyone?

6) when he wishes bad on people in general like wishing they had cancer, tumours. ect.

7) when he doesn't even want to bury his grandma and grandpa the right way even after they specifically told their son to bury them cremation or no cremation.

make your own list if you like...

what do you think? what are your deal breakers? that make you grossed/disgusted about a prospective man?

saw the comment on some guy mentioning whoopi goldberg over north korea,

on the news, north korean refugees wanting to leave north korea found in Japan shores, all dead.

then commentors mention they should send whoopi goldberg.

that was the strangest thing ever. why the fuck would they say that?

https://finance.yahoo.com/news/japan-alert-boats-thought-north-korea-found-102229771.html

https://uk.finance.yahoo.com/news/boats-full-dead-people-north-081200137.html

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Posted by lisabethur8
when you observe them?

1) when he talks bad about his ex? and you get turned off by him while he's courting you?

2) when he wishes Whoopi Goldberg to go to North Korea?

3) when he doesn't take care of his children and support them after he divorces the ex wife. and never sees them again?

4) when he doesnt commit to anyone past 30?

5) when you realize he prefers to flirt with all the women and never wants to marry anyone?

6) when he wishes bad on people in general like wishing they had cancer, tumours. ect.

7) when he doesn't even want to bury his grandma and grandpa the right way even after they specifically told their son to bury them cremation or no cremation.

make your own list if you like...

what do you think? what are your deal breakers? that make you grossed/disgusted about a prospective man?

All of the above. Plus if they're already in a monogamous relationship and hitting on you. In my case it would be about a prospective woman 👭 but dealbreakers are dealbreakers.

I'll add more later if I think of anything else. You have a pretty solid list. 👌👌👍

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that is gross too.

yeah thanks. those are all deal breakers . I see something like that and i'm soooo fucking repulsed.

when we read the news on people saying shit like that...

even the guys around here are saying "why the fuck would they wish whoopi goldberg in north korea?? i can imagine a serial killer fine, but why?? those people who comment that are bad."

i mean what has whoopi goldberg done to deserve north korea?

is she on FBI list serial killer list?? jesus christ, the things people say...

Posted by sierra_
1.) arrogance

2.) yeller

3.) history of cheating

4.) lack of hygiene

can you be more specific with 1, 2,

i get the 3 and 4.

do you mean like mel gibson rant yelling?

and donald trump?

and alec baldwin type?

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by sierra_
1.) arrogance

2.) yeller

3.) history of cheating

4.) lack of hygiene

can you be more specific with 1, 2,

i get the 3 and 4.

do you mean like mel gibson rant yelling?

and donald trump?

and alec baldwin type?

i don't like dudes who think they're so much better than other guys or other people in general

but i generally dislike that even in other women

like they belittle people based on social or financial status, etc.

yelling or anyone with anger management problems too

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omg yes i get you.

bellittling others because their financial status is sooooo much lower than yours.

that's really disgusting.

i love it when women /men are very financiallly well off and they are generous and dont belittle those who are common blue collar or minimum wage workers.

they too work hard too and feed and clothe their families.

Posted by NemDeux
i'll know it when i see it....it is very situational for me. i can be in a relationship with said person, and something he says or does will rub me the wrong way and get me thinking hard ...then it is an issue.

i don't have a papyrus scroll of desired male traits in my handbag.

is there a particular incident you remember? to give us an idea?

Posted by sierra_
@lisabethur8

you know what sucks even more?

oksana was a pisces sun-virgo mooner

poor chick 😢

well he probably wined and dined her really good, and gave her alot ..was super generous and made her quit her career, (i remember she mentioned it) and then she should depend on his money and power,,

then threw it back in her face when he didnt get what he wants. That's so disgusting!! it makes you want to never sacrifice for a man.

he is the epitome of grossness for alot of women, beating them up while holding a baby and yelling at you that you should be grateful and taking all your money when it's was his idea in the first place. what a biggest dick in the century.

Posted by Timon
I don't have a list but I'll always watch his interactions with other people. I'm a good reader. I know who I can trust and who I can't. Some people I'll always keep at an arm's length even though they've been nice to me.

How he treats others show more about him then how he treats me. Some guys are friendly to me but not to others and that to me is not genuine because eventually their true colors will come out.

yes i like when a man is also good to others. it shows a good strength of character.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by sierra_
1.) arrogance

2.) yeller

3.) history of cheating

4.) lack of hygiene

can you be more specific with 1, 2,

i get the 3 and 4.

do you mean like mel gibson rant yelling?

and donald trump?

and alec baldwin type?

i don't like dudes who think they're so much better than other guys or other people in general

but i generally dislike that even in other women

like they belittle people based on social or financial status, etc.

yelling or anyone with anger management problems too

omg yes i get you.

bellittling others because their financial status is sooooo much lower than yours.

that's really disgusting.

i love it when women /men are very financiallly well off and they are generous and dont belittle those who are common blue collar or minimum wage workers.

they too work hard too and feed and clothe their families.

back then, i double dated with a taurus friend who was paired with this scorpio guy who i thought was the most arrogant piece of crap ever while i was dating a libra.. like everything that comes out of his mouth disgusts me..

the scorpio was tall and maybe above average looking to some girls but it was his attitude that made him so unattractive to me and i can't understand how my friend doesn't care about all the posturing and lines like: "my family owns this or that," "my family can be traced back to the first settlers," etc.

he spent all day talking about how his wealthy family have so much money and how they own so many things, what a pretentious bore! but nooo she eats it all up.. ewww

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well he was super insecure it sounds.

and he probably knew that's the type of guy she wanted, a man with background of money and prestige.

fine if he really did come from that, but when a guy constantly talks about it on a date or circle of people...it just sounds weird.

people will eventually get uncomfortable from the overkill of boasting.

Posted by sierra_
1.) arrogance

2.) yeller

3.) history of cheating

4.) lack of hygiene

I am pretty sure there are dirty men who aren’t bad people...💅

Posted by sierra_

Posted by Timon

Posted by sierra_

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by sierra_

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by sierra_
1.) arrogance

2.) yeller

3.) history of cheating

4.) lack of hygiene

can you be more specific with 1, 2,

i get the 3 and 4.

do you mean like mel gibson rant yelling?

and donald trump?

and alec baldwin type?

i don't like dudes who think they're so much better than other guys or other people in general

but i generally dislike that even in other women

like they belittle people based on social or financial status, etc.

yelling or anyone with anger management problems too

omg yes i get you.

bellittling others because their financial status is sooooo much lower than yours.

that's really disgusting.

i love it when women /men are very financiallly well off and they are generous and dont belittle those who are common blue collar or minimum wage workers.

they too work hard too and feed and clothe their families.

back then, i double dated with a taurus friend who was paired with this scorpio guy who i thought was the most arrogant piece of crap ever while i was dating a libra.. like everything that comes out of his mouth disgusts me..

the scorpio was tall and maybe above average looking to some girls but it was his attitude that made him so unattractive to me and i can't understand how my friend doesn't care about all the posturing and lines like: "my family owns this or that," "my family can be traced back to the first settlers," etc.

he spent all day talking about how his wealthy family have so much money and how they own so many things, what a pretentious bore! but nooo she eats it all up.. ewww

This reminded me of a Scorpio guy me and my ex met a few months ago. He talked none stop about himself and how he did this and that and didn't ask us a single thing lol. This was our first time meeting him. Even my ex that's extremely talkative barely got the chance to say a word lol.

After me and my ex broke up he wanted to meet up with me. Are you serious?!! You didn't ask me one single question lol.

i've always found scorpio guys to be arrogant

maybe some women find that attractive

but just ewww

even my brother's pretty arrogant lol

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they must be low-tier gross scorpio. just like mel gibson is low tier capricorn. gross.

or matt lauer low-tier. all exhibiting grossness. just like kevin spacey and weinstein.

This day and age a lot of men are not looking for long term commitment.

When I see he's not looking for what I'm looking for and or still playing the field at 30 years old I'm out

Posted by sierra_
@lisabethur8

you know she turns into her virgo moon when she gets emotional?

Him: Yes you fucking do, you go out in public and it's a fucking embarrassment to me. You look like a fucking bitch in heat, and if you get raped by a pack of niggers it'll be your fault. All right? Because you provoked it. You are provocatively dressed all the time, with your fake boobs, you feel you have to show off in tight outfits and tight pants you can see your pussy from behind. And that green thing today was enough. That's provocative. OK? I'm telling you. I'm just telling you the truth! I don't like it. I don't want that woman. I don't want you! I don't believe you anymore. I don't trust you, I don't love you. I don't want you. OK?

Her: OK

M: Stay in the fucking house. I'm not giving it to you, but I'll let you stay there. OK? And I will take care of my child, but I don't want you anymore.

it's probably because she knows she's being taped as she's the one taping it...

and because she knows if she gets overly emotional, he'll rip her apart more.

Posted by miriyahhh
This day and age a lot of men are not looking for long term commitment.

When I see he's not looking for what I'm looking for and or still playing the field at 30 years old I'm out

it is discouraging to see men playing the field alot, they dont seem very worthy to be paired with anyone long term.

they seem really pathetic, like they can't stick their dick in ONE woman for the rest of their life.

Posted by sierra_
@lisabethur8

you know it's kinda sad that their whole exchange reminds me of my ex

mel's a cap sun-libra moon while she's a pisces sun-virgo moon

and my ex was a libra sun-cap moon while i'm a virgo sun-pisces moon

this is what she said:

Him: It's my fucking money. You understand? You're not … you don't have your own money, you're only using my money. OK?

Her: Because you made me moneyless. I used to have hundred thousand dollars a year when you met me. You took me. You possessed me. Everything I am, you own me with my liver and my kidneys and my thoughts and my soul (getting angry) everything! My career, whatever it is, pathetic career, whatever it is, is yours. You control me like marionette. I don't belong to myself, only to you. I can't do anything and I walk on eggshells always, with you."

and he's a scorpio mars and her an aries mars.

she basically one up him fight for fight.

but sadly she got into a relaitonship and had a baby wtih him.

didnt she see later he was an addict?

i think he has addiction problems or something. there is something wrong with gibson.

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Posted by sierra_

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Posted by sierra_

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by sierra_

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by sierra_
1.) arrogance

2.) yeller

3.) history of cheating

4.) lack of hygiene

can you be more specific with 1, 2,

i get the 3 and 4.

do you mean like mel gibson rant yelling?

and donald trump?

and alec baldwin type?

i don't like dudes who think they're so much better than other guys or other people in general

but i generally dislike that even in other women

like they belittle people based on social or financial status, etc.

yelling or anyone with anger management problems too

omg yes i get you.

bellittling others because their financial status is sooooo much lower than yours.

that's really disgusting.

i love it when women /men are very financiallly well off and they are generous and dont belittle those who are common blue collar or minimum wage workers.

they too work hard too and feed and clothe their families.

back then, i double dated with a taurus friend who was paired with this scorpio guy who i thought was the most arrogant piece of crap ever while i was dating a libra.. like everything that comes out of his mouth disgusts me..

the scorpio was tall and maybe above average looking to some girls but it was his attitude that made him so unattractive to me and i can't understand how my friend doesn't care about all the posturing and lines like: "my family owns this or that," "my family can be traced back to the first settlers," etc.

he spent all day talking about how his wealthy family have so much money and how they own so many things, what a pretentious bore! but nooo she eats it all up.. ewww

This reminded me of a Scorpio guy me and my ex met a few months ago. He talked none stop about himself and how he did this and that and didn't ask us a single thing lol. This was our first time meeting him. Even my ex that's extremely talkative barely got the chance to say a word lol.

After me and my ex broke up he wanted to meet up with me. Are you serious?!! You didn't ask me one single question lol.

i've always found scorpio guys to be arrogant

maybe some women find that attractive

but just ewww

even my brother's pretty arrogant lol

The funny thing is that before I knew he was a Scorpio I thought he reminded me of another Scorpio I know and I thought to myself he has to be a Scorpio and behold when it was November people wished him happy birthday lol.

The other Scorpio has always been nice to me but I don't like his values and the way he treat people.

I've met other scorpios that's not like that though so I wonder what type of placement they have in common because even before I knew his sign I thought the way he behaved was similar to the other scorp.

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it's not a placement thing to be honest.

it is just their character. they got really crazy.

maybe we should blame algol.

the evil star.

Posted by sierra_

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Posted by sierra_
@lisabethur8

you know she turns into her virgo moon when she gets emotional?

Him: Yes you fucking do, you go out in public and it's a fucking embarrassment to me. You look like a fucking bitch in heat, and if you get raped by a pack of niggers it'll be your fault. All right? Because you provoked it. You are provocatively dressed all the time, with your fake boobs, you feel you have to show off in tight outfits and tight pants you can see your pussy from behind. And that green thing today was enough. That's provocative. OK? I'm telling you. I'm just telling you the truth! I don't like it. I don't want that woman. I don't want you! I don't believe you anymore. I don't trust you, I don't love you. I don't want you. OK?

Her: OK

M: Stay in the fucking house. I'm not giving it to you, but I'll let you stay there. OK? And I will take care of my child, but I don't want you anymore.

it's probably because she knows she's being taped as she's the one taping it...

and because she knows if she gets overly emotional, he'll rip her apart more.

that's true

i mean he goes into a rage just coz she said:

"you're mean"

c'mon even little kids say that

how was he raised?

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you have to be "nice" to him and play act with this crazy lunatic or he'll make you pay by hitting you.

i dont blame her for what she did. It's just sad she got invovled with him deeply until he showed his true colours.

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Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by sierra_
@lisabethur8

you know it's kinda sad that their whole exchange reminds me of my ex

mel's a cap sun-libra moon while she's a pisces sun-virgo moon

and my ex was a libra sun-cap moon while i'm a virgo sun-pisces moon

this is what she said:

Him: It's my fucking money. You understand? You're not … you don't have your own money, you're only using my money. OK?

Her: Because you made me moneyless. I used to have hundred thousand dollars a year when you met me. You took me. You possessed me. Everything I am, you own me with my liver and my kidneys and my thoughts and my soul (getting angry) everything! My career, whatever it is, pathetic career, whatever it is, is yours. You control me like marionette. I don't belong to myself, only to you. I can't do anything and I walk on eggshells always, with you."

and he's a scorpio mars and her an aries mars.

she basically one up him fight for fight.

but sadly she got into a relaitonship and had a baby wtih him.

didnt she see later he was an addict?

i think he has addiction problems or something. there is something wrong with gibson.

bet it's his temper

at that age, maybe she just really wanted children

she does charity work for disabled children

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aw i bet. alot of women seek for potential mates at that age before 40 to get childbearing going.

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by sierra_
1.) arrogance

2.) yeller

3.) history of cheating

4.) lack of hygiene

I am pretty sure there are dirty men who aren’t bad people...💅

Dirty in what way? 😆

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Nice people who don’t floss nor shower oft and whearing same clothes until it stick so they can’t remove and they MUST get wet In a shower for shit to fall off...

Never met any! Lmao

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Posted by Timon

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by sierra_
1.) arrogance

2.) yeller

3.) history of cheating

4.) lack of hygiene

I am pretty sure there are dirty men who aren’t bad people...💅

Dirty in what way? 😆

Nice people who don’t floss nor shower oft and whearing same clothes until it stick so they can’t remove and they MUST get wet In a shower for shit to fall off...

Never met any! Lmao

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you mean the homeless??

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Timon

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by sierra_
1.) arrogance

2.) yeller

3.) history of cheating

4.) lack of hygiene

I am pretty sure there are dirty men who aren’t bad people...💅

Dirty in what way? 😆

Nice people who don’t floss nor shower oft and whearing same clothes until it stick so they can’t remove and they MUST get wet In a shower for shit to fall off...

Never met any! Lmao

you mean the homeless??

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No! Trust me! Worked most of my life in huge corporations...

He makes owner $ 100k per year BUT reakinh of sweat and some ones dont know they shouldn’t open their mouth because they are genius and you have to stay as far as you can so they don’t knock you off with that breath...

And I am sure they can afford Rembrandt tooth paste.

Someone have to tell them but no one does...

What would determine he was a 'bad' guy....

1. When his exes were not about 'ish' and yet....kicked HIM to the curb.

2. Mommy 'hate' issues.

3. Unequal opportunity spender..."What's his is is...what's yours is his."

Posted by TaurusBull1977
What would determine he was a 'bad' guy....

1. When his exes were not about 'ish' and yet....kicked HIM to the curb.

2. Mommy 'hate' issues.

3. Unequal opportunity spender..."What's his is is...what's yours is his."

these are pretty much perfect. lol

Posted by Leo188881
I went on 1 date with a guy who told me his ex stabbed him 5 times and he got back together with her after she stabbed him. If you've been stabbed by an ex and go back, there's some fucked up, unstable shit going on with you.

jeezz that is sounding like that crime story of the woman who stabbed her boyfriend multiple times...

Posted by WolfInRamsClothing
3) and 6) sounds the worst for me.

lmao i know righht??

His relationship with his mother

Posted by OCJack

Posted by miriyahhh
His relationship with his mother

That one's scientifically proven to be a "every woman" kind of thing tho. Even if she doesn't consciously recognize it, as primates we are very communal and thus structurally the mother and wife roles are nearly identical sans the fact that you hopefully don't bang yo own mom lol

To put it simply:

-Yo mom is a woman who you live with.

-Yo babe is a woman who you live with.

How you treat Woman A(Yo Mom) is an example of how you'll probably treat Woman B(Yo Lover).

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If a guy had or has a bad relationship with his mom 9/10 he will treat women the same if not worse.

Posted by OCJack
Hi.

Captain Obvious here to save the day!

What makes a guy a bad person?

Oh I don't know...

He does significantly evil things? Not petty dumb things, like the stuff OP mentions?

lol