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What would you do if a stranger told you to wear more clothes?
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Tell him, "when you pay my bills is when you can have an opinion on how I dress. Boy, bye".
Take off the clothes I do have on and stare at them
I saw an young girl who had to be at least 13 wearing shorts so short they could have passed for underwear. I was appalled. I had a vision of punching her father in the nose and back handing her mother. The fuck is wrong with people? I don't want to see some little girl walking around half naked. The sad part is I'd be looked at as the fucked up individual in this day and age for having a problem with that.
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Sounds like its YOU that Texas dont want "sweety" ?? And THAT is an 'actual' observation ??
Ah so you unblocked me! Good, I was really bummed you wouldn't see one of my proudest moments: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=9134053
Posted by Soul
I saw an young girl who had to be at least 13 wearing shorts so short they could have passed for underwear. I was appalled. I had a vision of punching her father in the nose and back handing her mother. The fuck is wrong with people? I don't want to see some little girl walking around half naked. The sad part is I'd be looked at as the fucked up individual in this day and age for having a problem with that.
I used to have to wear underwear shorts for volleyball; sometimes kiddos can't choose what they wear.
What if adults dress like that?
Maybe he isn't thinking that and it's you worrying over nothing.
girl it's your HOME. i understand modesty but it's the south in summer COME ON!! some people just look for shit to piss them off LOL it's hot, you're at home, the important parts are covered so ignore it as best you can.
PS. I LOVE SCORPS AND VIRGOS REACTIONS TO THIS TYPE OF SHIT!! LOL they arent afraid to, as someone said previously, strip down nekked and stare back LOLOLOLOL
Next time say "hello, can I help you?"
That way he will probably either never look at you again OR he will tell you how he feels and you can deal with it however you'd like.
Posted by Soul
I saw an young girl who had to be at least 13 wearing shorts so short they could have passed for underwear. I was appalled. I had a vision of punching her father in the nose and back handing her mother. The fuck is wrong with people? I don't want to see some little girl walking around half naked. The sad part is I'd be looked at as the fucked up individual in this day and age for having a problem with that.I used to have to wear underwear shorts for volleyball; sometimes kiddos can't choose what they wear.
What if adults dress like that?
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Adults can wear whatever they want in the end, though they shouldn't out of respect of others and to not badly influence the youth. Thats just my opinion. Its just when minors do it it pisses me off. Mostly because it makes no sense. It's illegal to be attracted to minors, yet parents, schools, or whatever are aloud to dress kids to show off as much skin as they want. That's why there is such an epidemic in our society right now. Kids aren't safe like they were in my parents era. Likely because my grandparents didn't dress them like a target. The kids didn't want to dress like a target either, because the older generations didn't influence them to think like that. Again I'm not trying to dis on women who want to dress sexy or feel comfortable , there's just a fine line imo.
Buy him a beer.
Posted by AerialView
Buy him a beer.
Bring him a six pack!
Posted by AerialView
Buy him a beer.
They drink beers every Saturday night, them boys.
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Sounds like its YOU that Texas dont want "sweety" ?? And THAT is an 'actual' observation ??Ah so you unblocked me! Good, I was really bummed you wouldn't see one of my proudest moments: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=9134053
I never even blocked you ??
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Hey, it's not me you gotta convince sis ☝?
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Sounds like its YOU that Texas dont want "sweety" ?? And THAT is an 'actual' observation ??Ah so you unblocked me! Good, I was really bummed you wouldn't see one of my proudest moments: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=9134053
I never even blocked you ??
Hey, it's not me you gotta convince sis ☝?
Lmao yeah you sure as fuck do wish i was your sis!
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Do you like arguing with someone 10 years younger than you? I bet it makes you feel young again ?
Dress how you want and but also expect the attention and judgement you might get from some. It is a reality and some guys not going to lie see that girls these days are tough to look for as much attention as they can... or always what a guy wants to deal with... so less some times can be more.
This is one of thoughts things where girls will say I attract the wrong guys... well how and what is your bait.
it is a free country do what you want and feel comfrable with...
Piscesmoon
Sorry I mean not always what some guys want to deal with.
Piscesmoon
Posted by piscesmoon2
Dress how you want and but also expect the attention and judgement you might get from some. It is a reality and some guys not going to lie see that girls these days are tough to look for as much attention as they can... or always what a guy wants to deal with... so less some times can be more.This is one of thoughts things where girls will say I attract the wrong guys... well how and what is your bait.
it is a free country do what you want and feel comfrable with...
Piscesmoon
This is not a relationship thing ...this is a neighbor thing.
Posted by WarAngel1
I might put on a tie.
I find this cute!
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by Soul
I saw an young girl who had to be at least 13 wearing shorts so short they could have passed for underwear. I was appalled. I had a vision of punching her father in the nose and back handing her mother. The fuck is wrong with people? I don't want to see some little girl walking around half naked. The sad part is I'd be looked at as the fucked up individual in this day and age for having a problem with that.I used to have to wear underwear shorts for volleyball; sometimes kiddos can't choose what they wear.
What if adults dress like that?
Adults can wear whatever they want in the end, though they shouldn't out of respect of others and to not badly influence the youth. Thats just my opinion. Its just when minors do it it pisses me off. Mostly because it makes no sense. It's illegal to be attracted to minors, yet parents, schools, or whatever are aloud to dress kids to show off as much skin as they want. That's why there is such an epidemic in our society right now. Kids aren't safe like they were in my parents era. Likely because my grandparents didn't dress them like a target. The kids didn't want to dress like a target either, because the older generations didn't influence them to think like that. Again I'm not trying to dis on women who want to dress sexy or feel comfortable , there's just a fine line imo.
Yes like i am sorry but NO i do not want to see your fat ass hanging out of your shorts and your belly rolls spilling out of your crop top. Idgaf how confident you feel keep that shit to yourself! And NO leggings are not a right they are a privilege.
If you are going to show your body off make sure your physique matches your goddamn outfit ?
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You could always, you know, look away.
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
Posted by Soul
I saw an young girl who had to be at least 13 wearing shorts so short they could have passed for underwear. I was appalled. I had a vision of punching her father in the nose and back handing her mother. The fuck is wrong with people? I don't want to see some little girl walking around half naked. The sad part is I'd be looked at as the fucked up individual in this day and age for having a problem with that.I used to have to wear underwear shorts for volleyball; sometimes kiddos can't choose what they wear.
What if adults dress like that?
Adults can wear whatever they want in the end, though they shouldn't out of respect of others and to not badly influence the youth. Thats just my opinion. Its just when minors do it it pisses me off. Mostly because it makes no sense. It's illegal to be attracted to minors, yet parents, schools, or whatever are aloud to dress kids to show off as much skin as they want. That's why there is such an epidemic in our society right now. Kids aren't safe like they were in my parents era. Likely because my grandparents didn't dress them like a target. The kids didn't want to dress like a target either, because the older generations didn't influence them to think like that. Again I'm not trying to dis on women who want to dress sexy or feel comfortable , there's just a fine line imo.
Yes like i am sorry but NO i do not want to see your fat ass hanging out of your shorts and your belly rolls spilling out of your crop top. Idgaf how confident you feel keep that shit to yourself! And NO leggings are not a right they are a privilege.
If you are going to show your body off make sure your physique matches your goddamn outfit ?
You could always, you know, look away.
No. Its like a car crash. There is no looking away. Then you are traumatized.
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Lol I've seen some pretty traumatic car crashes inside the 24 hr Walmart. Tragic.
You made my night. Thanks girlie ❤️❤️
I'd be like listen mind your business & take a picture it lasts longer hunnie.. if it were me, I would wear a bra though
Liking the thread picture ? imagination runs wild just looking at it —
"What would you do if a stranger told you to wear more clothes?"
Nothing...
I have worn booty shorts, with tanks, tube tops etc. mini skirts...but, I guess that's Florida. And, my booty doesn't hang. I want more bottom saggy booty than round booty though.
I love mini skirts. It was so hot this weekend but caught the breeeeeeze... ooooo.
be careful. i was almost raped by my next door neighbor and I did wear clothes 😄
Lol @ this humble brag post.
You're trolling so hard and it's funny that people are taking your topic seriously.
Ask them if they are as interested in providing you with a life time supply of air conditioning and a new wardrobe as they are in being a fucking cunt.
Posted by piscesmoon2
Dress how you want and but also expect the attention and judgement you might get from some. It is a reality and some guys not going to lie see that girls these days are tough to look for as much attention as they can... or always what a guy wants to deal with... so less some times can be more.This is one of thoughts things where girls will say I attract the wrong guys... well how and what is your bait.
it is a free country do what you want and feel comfrable with...
Piscesmoon
This is not a relationship thing ...this is a neighbor thing.
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I did not say it was...
Piscesmoon
You either dress keeping in mind the place you are in or just dress like whatever n dgaf! If you know it works differently there n can't handle the attention n that's making you nervous, why do it?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Tell him, "when you pay my bills is when you can have an opinion on how I dress. Boy, bye".
So what it bottles down to is money? lol
"This is making me very nervous, just 'cause I can't handle someone observing me without saying something already."
Tough. If you dress to attract attention you will get it. You can't demand ppl not have opinions on your dressing style (or lack thereof) just as you can't demand they express them. @Whorpio
Posted by LadyNeptune
Tell him, "when you pay my bills is when you can have an opinion on how I dress. Boy, bye".So what it bottles down to is money? lol
"This is making me very nervous, just 'cause I can't handle someone observing me without saying something already."
Tough. If you dress to attract attention you will get it. You can't demand ppl not have opinions on your dressing style (or lack thereof) just as you can't demand they express them. @Whorpio
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Express your opinion all you want. Just don't expect me to listen to it.
What it 'bottles down to' is this stranger has no say in what I will or won't do unless he/she is signing my checks.
Neves have nothing to do with it.
Butting into someone's life with your self righteous opinion is tacky and judgy and will be ignored/ridiculed. End of.
Express your opinion all you want. Just don't expect me to listen to it.
What it 'bottles down to' is this stranger has no say in what I will or won't do unless he/she is signing my checks.
Neves have nothing to do with it.
Butting into someone's life with your self righteous opinion is tacky and judgy and will be ignored/ridiculed. End of.
Well isn't dressing a way of expressing yourself too? So what if the stranger thinks what YOU are expressing is tacky and inappropriate? What if you're residing in an area among groups of people where your style is considered inappropriate? Do you adapt to your surroundings or expect a whole community to adapt to you?
The person in question didn't even say anything, what bothers the OP is that she's being silently judged lol.
Express your opinion all you want. Just don't expect me to listen to it.
What it 'bottles down to' is this stranger has no say in what I will or won't do unless he/she is signing my checks.
Neves have nothing to do with it.
Butting into someone's life with your self righteous opinion is tacky and judgy and will be ignored/ridiculed. End of.
Well isn't dressing a way of expressing yourself too? So what if the stranger thinks what YOU are expressing is tacky and inappropriate? What if you're residing in an area among groups of people where your style is considered inappropriate? Do you adapt to your surroundings or expect a whole community to adapt to you?
The person in question didn't even say anything, what bothers the OP is that she's being silently judged lol.
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Op is wondering what to say to him WHEN/IF he approaches her.
And again, unless those other neighbors are gonna pay the rent, their opinion is just that...an opinion. They have the right to get judgy. I have the right not to gaf.
Last time I checked booty shorts aren't against the law. It's hot as fuck in Texas in summer.
If you were wearing that to a wedding or funeral it would be one thing but this is your home! So long as your not breaking the indecent exposure laws when you are in public, then you can choose to wear whatever makes you comfortable.
And don't worry about being judged.
We are all judged, all the time.
It's their problem, not yours.
Posted by BlindedByLove
Guys don't think damn I wish this slut wore more clothes
In the imaginary conversation I already have going with this boy, I see him saying something among the lines of I'm gonna get hurt if I keep dressing like this. Someone has said that to me before at Walmart ("You're gon end up in a ditch sweetheart if you keep going out like this"... and then some hoopla about Jesus and then he hugged me ?). I just didn't take that seriously because he represented a minority (black and homeless).
Posted by BlindedByLove
Guys don't think damn I wish this slut wore more clothesIn the imaginary conversation I already have going with this boy, I see him saying something among the lines of I'm gonna get hurt if I keep dressing like this. Someone has said that to me before at Walmart ("You're gon end up in a ditch sweetheart if you keep going out like this"... and then some hoopla about Jesus and then he hugged me ?). I just didn't take that seriously because he represented a minority (black and homeless).
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You could be attracting negative attention dressed like that and you never know what someone may do... heck, if your half dressed already just think how much easier it is for the other person. At least wear a bra when around others.
Posted by Distilled
I would never leave the house in pj's or the like. It's just a personal preference. I have set expectations for myself and as funny as it is- I couldn't imagine running into an aquantence or somethig on the street like that. Id own it, but shit! Lol. Only my very most intimate friends/partners get to see me like that.Also, I don't wear makeup- at all (once a year mascara and blush does not count), so it's not like I'm all out- I just enjoy and am comfortable with being put together in my own way (this includes being perceived by others in that way- I wouldn't wear my more revealing pj's around my father or male family members either!, I also wouldn't be caught dead in drab by the female ones!)
I have some self-confidence, this for me has nothing to do with that. I'm self aware of my body and can pull off almost anything- and get told all the time to do it, by other woman, even when I'm trying on clothes in stores, lol- I just choose not to.
Lmaooo pjs... I sleep naked; ain't no pjs for me. Fwiw I choose my most decadent booty shorts when I go out like that; not my more raggedy ones. And once I get back in my apartment they come off and I just lounge in my underwear.
I agree, I feel uncomfortable dressing like this around male family members. But my male friends have seen me dress like this and I let my girl friends see me like this; they don't care. Sure they wanna fudge me but at least they're not offended.
I wouldn't say I'm low on confidence; if I was I'd wear clothes to cover up. I don't wear makeup either; only for work and night dates.
It just makes me feel nervous when people look without saying anything to me because I don't like feeling judged.
Posted by Moonbutter
You could be attracting negative attention dressed like that and you never know what someone may do... heck, if your half dressed already just think how much easier it is for the other person. At least wear a bra when around others.
Bras are soooo uncomfortable though. I'd almost say they're worse than pants ?
Posted by Moonbutter
You could be attracting negative attention dressed like that and you never know what someone may do... heck, if your half dressed already just think how much easier it is for the other person. At least wear a bra when around others.Bras are soooo uncomfortable though. I'd almost say they're worse than pants ?
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Join a nudist colony then ??♀️
Posted by Fafa
I think your thinking about it way too much, making something out of nothing. Man stare at women fully clothed. I just had a guy follow me to bus station just to get rejected . Mind you I'm dressed for work. Maybe as you age things like this won't bother you as much. I'm sure other men look as well you just don't notice
That's exactly what it is. She's 21 and reading into something, jumping to conclusions. She's looking for people to vilify some random and/or give her what she wants to hear- "ohh he's checking you out!!"
A tshirt and short shorts? *twirls finger*
Even if he is offended, who cares? She should be more amused than feigning concern.
The whole thread is just attention whoring.
Posted by Fafa
I think your thinking about it way too much, making something out of nothing. Man stare at women fully clothed. I just had a guy follow me to bus station just to get rejected . Mind you I'm dressed for work. Maybe as you age things like this won't bother you as much. I'm sure other men look as well you just don't noticeThat's exactly what it is. She's 21 and reading into something, jumping to conclusions. She's looking for people to vilify some random and/or give her what she wants to hear- "ohh he's checking you out!!"
A tshirt and short shorts? *twirls finger*
Even if he is offended, who cares? She should be more amused than feigning concern.
The whole thread is just attention whoring.
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I'm not attention whoring. It's funny you say I'm jumping to conclusions when you're in here jumping to the conclusion that I'm looking for attention.
I know for a fact this boy wasn't checking me out; you don't just stop walking up stairs if you aren't inclined to say something. I know when people are checking me out; this isn't one of those times.
It's just concerning because I don't want everyone around my apartment complex to think I'm a stupid bimbo who dresses in skimpy clothes for attention.
Posted by Moonbutter
Join a nudist colony then ??♀️
I was thinking about this... First of all do they live in clean, well put together communities, or is it more like camping? And second of all, are they expected to sleep with each other 24/7 or are they actually mature about being naked?
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Liking the thread picture ? imagination runs wild just looking at it —
It's one of my favorite outfits. True story, I was able to get the fire brigaid to help me move my furniture by wearing that ensemble when I was moving ??
Posted by Moonbutter
Join a nudist colony then ??♀️I was thinking about this... First of all do they live in clean, well put together communities, or is it more like camping? And second of all, are they expected to sleep with each other 24/7 or are they actually mature about being naked?
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both are available and I think they are middle-age so that should be fun for you —
Posted by Moonbutter
Join a nudist colony then ??♀️I was thinking about this... First of all do they live in clean, well put together communities, or is it more like camping? And second of all, are they expected to sleep with each other 24/7 or are they actually mature about being naked?
both are available and I think they are middle-age so that should be fun for you —
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I hope by middle aged you mean they still have non-gray hair...
Posted by Moonbutter
Join a nudist colony then ??♀️I was thinking about this... First of all do they live in clean, well put together communities, or is it more like camping? And second of all, are they expected to sleep with each other 24/7 or are they actually mature about being naked?
both are available and I think they are middle-age so that should be fun for you —
I hope by middle aged you mean they still have non-gray hair...
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Oh honey, you lucky if the guys even have hair ?
Posted by Fafa
I think your thinking about it way too much, making something out of nothing. Man stare at women fully clothed. I just had a guy follow me to bus station just to get rejected . Mind you I'm dressed for work. Maybe as you age things like this won't bother you as much. I'm sure other men look as well you just don't noticeThat's exactly what it is. She's 21 and reading into something, jumping to conclusions. She's looking for people to vilify some random and/or give her what she wants to hear- "ohh he's checking you out!!"
A tshirt and short shorts? *twirls finger*
Even if he is offended, who cares? She should be more amused than feigning concern.
The whole thread is just attention whoring.
I'm not attention whoring.
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Then why make the thread, you dumb broad? Seriously, you're all up in arms and jumping to conclusions why? This isn't even a big deal and you're making dipshit threads like this. Your age is really showing, here. You're a known prostitute, yet you're worried about looking like a "dumb bimbo" in shorts and a t-shirt?
I'm not really understanding why you give a rat's ass about what some random thinks, tbh.
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When I'm just relaxing around home I just wear booty shorts and a loose shirt without a bra. It's just the physically comfiest.
I've never had issues with it before, but at my new apartment complex my neighbors friend will stare at me when I walk my dog lookin like that or even when I went on a lazy donut run he stopped walking up the stairs when he saw me come out of my apartment. I ain't a mind reader, but given the area (East Texas, super religious) I have a feeling he's just mustering up the courage to tell me to dress more modestly. My question is what will I say if/when he asks this?
Would I justify that I just feel most comfortable in this attire? Would I say I'm gon wear more clothes but only wear more whenever I see him at my neighbors place?
This is making me very nervous, just 'cause I can't handle someone observing me without saying something already.