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This topic was created in the The Powder Room forum by CrabNextDoor on Tuesday, September 12, 2017 and has 19 replies.

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A friend of mines says she doesn't wear tampons because they're not for virgins and she is 'scared to' , but on the other hand she wears thongs always hanging out with guys alone and occasionally smokes weed and sneaks out ...am I tripping or...

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Posted by Teena
Are you trying to tell virgins don't do all the things you mentioned or...?

That's not what I'm saying exactly but I don't understand how that could scare her but she's doing so many other things at the time like i don't do any of that and still a virgin and wear tampons it just offended me I guess because of what she implied ...

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I don't get why her not using tampons offends you?

And like @teena said, are virgins suppose to live a stereotypical life? I really don't get how her hanging out with guys and smoking weed, has any bearing on her lack of wanting to use tampons? lol

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Ok it's because it was implied that they aren't for virgins after I told her I used them and I'm not saying they have to lead a stereotypical life but how would a tampon scare you... but hanging out with guys alone or sneaking out of the house or smoking weed be less scary if you're not supposed to be doing it vs wearing something that someone's never gonna see or know about scare you ... idk

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Posted by CrabNextDoor
Ok it's because it was implied that they aren't for virgins after I told her I used them and I'm not saying they have to lead a stereotypical life but how would a tampon scare you... but hanging out with guys alone or sneaking out of the house or smoking weed be less scary if you're not supposed to be doing it vs wearing something that someone's never gonna see or know about scare you ... idk

Just so you know ...hymens can break without women knowing it. Strenuous activities, such as bicycle riding, horseback riding, stretching, or dancing, can also cause the hymen to break.

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Posted by CrabNextDoor
Ok it's because it was implied that they aren't for virgins after I told her I used them and I'm not saying they have to lead a stereotypical life but how would a tampon scare you... but hanging out with guys alone or sneaking out of the house or smoking weed be less scary if you're not supposed to be doing it vs wearing something that someone's never gonna see or know about scare you ... idk

Well...if she is a virgin

In theory, she is probably scared of something being shoved up her vagina, and is afraid it will hurt her.

The other shit, nothing is being shoved up her cooch.

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Posted by CrabNextDoor
Posted by Teena
Are you trying to tell virgins don't do all the things you mentioned or...?

That's not what I'm saying exactly but I don't understand how that could scare her but she's doing so many other things at the time like i don't do any of that and still a virgin and wear tampons it just offended me I guess because of what she implied ...

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Lol! Maybe it's just her preference n she really is scared of using tampons...the idea of inserting something inside her probably makes her paranoid. I'm scared of insects of all the things n I go on adventure rides... I mean you see the point? There's no correlation.

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Posted by sierraleoone
Posted by CrabNextDoor
Posted by Teena
Are you trying to tell virgins don't do all the things you mentioned or...?

That's not what I'm saying exactly but I don't understand how that could scare her but she's doing so many other things at the time like i don't do any of that and still a virgin and wear tampons it just offended me I guess because of what she implied ...

and what exactly do you think she implied?

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That I'm out taking dick or have at some point ..??

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Posted by nikkistar
Posted by CrabNextDoor
Ok it's because it was implied that they aren't for virgins after I told her I used them and I'm not saying they have to lead a stereotypical life but how would a tampon scare you... but hanging out with guys alone or sneaking out of the house or smoking weed be less scary if you're not supposed to be doing it vs wearing something that someone's never gonna see or know about scare you ... idk

Well...if she is a virgin

In theory, she is probably scared of something being shoved up her vagina, and is afraid it will hurt her.

The other shit, nothing is being shoved up her cooch.

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Exactly what I just said!!

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Posted by CrabNextDoor
A friend of mines says she doesn't wear tampons because they're not for virgins and she is 'scared to' , but on the other hand she wears thongs always hanging out with guys alone and occasionally smokes weed and sneaks out ...am I tripping or...

She's smart. Tampons are toxic as fuck.

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Posted by CrabNextDoor
Posted by sierraleoone
Posted by CrabNextDoor
Posted by Teena
Are you trying to tell virgins don't do all the things you mentioned or...?

That's not what I'm saying exactly but I don't understand how that could scare her but she's doing so many other things at the time like i don't do any of that and still a virgin and wear tampons it just offended me I guess because of what she implied ...

and what exactly do you think she implied?

That I'm out taking dick or have at some point ..??

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If your friends are slut shaming you then you need better friends.