
E. M. Henderson
@Emhendo
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Posted by EmhendoPosted by Aliensusedourbogroll![]()
How the fuck I'm bitter? You can't even explain. Fuck outta hea.click to expand


Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by EmhendoPosted by Aliensusedourbogroll![]()
How the fuck I'm bitter? You can't even explain. Fuck outta hea.
He/she implies that you didn't get any presents so you're being salty and trying to ruin it for everyone else.
Weeeeeeeeeeeell......even if that was true 2 minutes ago, it's no longer true BECAUZZZZZZZE! I got you some sugar.![]()
and if you cum over, I'll have more for ya.
inb4 Eltigre
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Posted by jeane
one question; why is this important to you?

Posted by EmhendoPosted by jeane
one question; why is this important to you?
Why is anything important to anybody? People need to wake the fuck up, is my answer.click to expand

Posted by jeanePosted by EmhendoPosted by jeane
one question; why is this important to you?
Why is anything important to anybody? People need to wake the fuck up, is my answer.
well, things are important to me when they effect me.
if it doesn't effect me, people can choose to live their lives as they like. their choices are not important to me. after all, it's their choice.
so i'm wondering why is this is important to you.click to expand

Posted by EmhendoPosted by jeanePosted by EmhendoPosted by jeane
one question; why is this important to you?
Why is anything important to anybody? People need to wake the fuck up, is my answer.
well, things are important to me when they affect me.
if it doesn't affect me, people can choose to live their lives as they like. their choices are not important to me. after all, it's their choice.
so i'm wondering why is this is important to you.
Well, that's you. I am me. I am affected.
I answered yo question. Good talk.click to expand


Posted by Neno2Posted by Emhendo
We living in times where people reward mediocrity.
Today I saw a bunch of chicks get treated like they are the fuckin Queen of England by their beta boyfriends and it disgusts me. Your girlfriend probably sucks at womanhood and relationships, but ya'll are too pussywhipped to notice... Or ya'll just don't fuckin care, or ignore it.. 'Cause you don't wanna upset her.
A lot of your girlfriends don't even act right.
Ya'll just happy to be fucking somebody, which I don't have a problem with - we all are happy to be fucking somebody, but if you're calling her your girlfriend, then that's the fuckin problem.
Your girl coulda disrespected you YESTERDAY, and you bought her a big ass teddy bear, some flowers, and chocolates today. You took her to a damn reservation restaurant.. Fed her mediocre ass.
Your girlfriend/wife do a lot of bullshit under ya'lls noses or right in your face, and you have either been shamed/brainwashed into accepting her bullshit or ignoring it.
It's fuckin sad... It's not a woman's nature that is sad, or your job as man to not leave her to her nature/own devices and check her bullshit.. But the fact that you reward her bullshit - that is sad.
Here it goes:
*She is masculine:
A masculine woman doesn't always have to have short hair, a lot of tattoos/piercings, muscles, etc, and a deep ass voice and bitchslaps you... A masculine woman is the girl that shittests you every chance she gets. She tests your strength constantly by pushing your buttons. She is snappy with you, she cusses at you, she uses many curse words in general to anybody, she doesn't text back for hours or at all, she walks ahead of you, she doesn't laugh with you or laugh at your jokes, and -
She is also the least bit of submissive. If ya'll went to a movie tonight and YOU picked the movie - she probably wouldn't shut the fuck up about "Why I can't pick. Why do you always get to pick" .. Keep in mind; most of our girlfriends don't even own a fucking car, doesn't expect to pay on dates, and probably can't even buy her own damn ticket.
So you are picking her up, you are taking her out, you are buying her ticket, maybe even the snacks... She obviously can't get home on by herself.. But it's a fucking PROBLEM that YOU are picking the damn movie at the fucking least. She is ready to withhold sex on your ass and shit... AHAHA!!
*She didn't buy YOU anything:
Ya.. She expected a gift and didn't even buy you a can of Axe body spray. Not even your favorite candy.. She knows ya love sour patch kids. The fuckin nerve.
*You can't fuck her when you want, or she limits sex and probably uses it as a weapon or against you:
This is an interest factor. A girl that's really into you.. You could get it a the drop of a dime. You could fuck her behind some bushes at a park, because she's just that damn into you. A woman that doesn't like kissing you, even if she isn't much of a kisser, will get upset if you try it. A woman that's into you might jump on YOU from time to time. But if this is not the case, then you have no business even calling her your girlfriend. Because she is not your girl, then isn't entitled to a V-Day gift.
This same girl may say you can't fuck her for a week all because you left her text on read, but you was fighting a dog one night and then a herd of buffalo wanted in on that shit too and they wasn't there to help.
A woman that withholds sex is passive-aggressive and doesn't have a lot to give - and who got time for that shit. Not me.
But your ass bought her gourmet chocolates today.
*She embarrasses you in front of people/in public:
Ya'll could have a minor disagreement, and she yelling/cussing/ or even hitting you and telling you to shut the fuck up.
*She dresses down on dinner dates:
You come on dates looking your best. Fresh cut, clean smart shoes, cologne, and "bedroom eyes".. But she got on yoga pants, or worse - sweat pants. Her hair is not exactly "done", it's just getting by.. She has no make up, gym shoes (it's a date, not the gym or the park), and she is wearing hoodie.
Send her ass home or go your ass home.
A woman that is serious and knows damn well you two are getting a table to eat at - she would wear her dress, her earrings, heels, etc. or put on a nice pair of jeans at the least with some non-gym shoes, like heels, or flats.. I personally prefer my girlfriends to wear a damn dress. It's just sexier and more appropriate for the setting.. Because she is happy with me and she is in her feminine and happy to be in her polarity.
A woman that dresses down is clearly in her masculine, and not that into you.
Or worse, she shows at your house looking like shit... Didn't put no effort into her appearance for you. Sign she doesn't care what you see.. And nobody should care what anybody thinks, but she clearly doesn't care to turn you off.
But you made her day so special.
*She is gross:
Burps and farts in front you, doesn't even say excuse me at the least (lack of shame, self-control, and doesn't care how you see her.. It's pretty much disrespectful).
There was a time where burping and farting was considered very rude, so why as a woman - would she want to be rude to you? Why not get up and excuse herself, or say excuse me after a burp? And those chicks that do those big gastrous ass burps are just straight up barbarians. I wouldn't give them the time of day.. It's very disrespectful of someone's time, conversation, and space - to be talking, sitting together, and she just fuckin rips one without caring too much. It's disruptive and nasty.. Don't nobody wanna smell that shit.
But you got her the latest perfume or someshit.
*She leaves the house dirty (If you live together and she is at home more than you):
.... I'm not even gonna go on too long here.
If you always have to clean, you are her bitch and you moved in with her way too soon. If you just had waited and make her damn near beg to live together, she woulda done everything in her power to prove she is co-habitable. A woman that don't give a fuck how she living is a damn problem.. She don't care what the condition of the bedroom is where you lay your head. She doesn't care to make the livingroom cozy and clean.. The kitchen is a mess. You can't even heat a fuckin hotpocket up without trippin over shit or find a clean glass to get some fuckin juice.
*She never cooks for you:
Even if she can't cook well, somebody that really loves you would try and would want to display these domestic tendencies and nurture.
*She has never even baked you a single cookie:
Baking is not hard, and it's very lovely. If she never even thought about baking you something, then why are you buying her cookies and chocolate?
*She doesn't suck your dick:
PFFFFTTFTT!!!! If you gotta shake your little dingaling in her face or push her head down, why the fuck you buying her gifts? She won't even suck you. That's not love.
*She still texts her ex:
A LOT OF WOMEN ARE GUILTY OF THIS.
If she can't even stay off the phone with her ex, then you have a huge problem and maybe she shouldn't of been your girlfriend in the first fuckin place. You can't make people do what you want them to do, but you can choose not to accept it and walk away.
But you got her flowers, kissed her ass, and asked how is Robert doing.
*She texts her male co-workers a little too much. Non-work related:
My girlfriend wouldn't be texting any lesbians or male friends... That's just me... But if she is always texting the same dude, this guy might be your replacement when you start acting too feminine and letting her get away with too much... Like this. She doesn't want you to let her get away with this.
*She talks about her ex to you:
I don't see why her ex matters if you and her are together... Like why would you even give a fuck about that to even talk about it??
*She doesn't display the fact she has a boyfriend (doesn't post you on social media/tell her friends and other men):
It's almost like she is single when you two are apart.. You come around her and her friends and they barely know what you look like. They still talk about her ex or an old fuckbuddy around you.. Because it isn't programmed to them that you are her man. She might not be that into you... Should look into that.
*She has bad hygiene:
You rewarding a woman that don't even wash her ass knowing damn well you like to eat the booty. She come around you smelling like onions. Hair is oily and a mess... Just failing at womanhood and don't give a fuck. A woman that don't give a fuck about herself, not about to give a fuck about you.
That's all I have for now... If your lover fits these, you knew damn well you felt like you was kissing ass buying her shit, instead of feeling like you are rewarding her. Big difference.
Most women dont want true love,in fact they hate falling in love cuz it makes them weak
They actually want power over someone who is in love with them,women gonna deny it but uts the truth
Men giving them gifts sends a message to the woman that she is in control,she has the power and u her little puppy,if u act a certain way u dont make her attracted to u
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Posted by Neno2Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by Neno2Posted by Emhendo
We living in times where people reward mediocrity.
Today I saw a bunch of chicks get treated like they are the fuckin Queen of England by their beta boyfriends and it disgusts me. Your girlfriend probably sucks at womanhood and relationships, but ya'll are too pussywhipped to notice... Or ya'll just don't fuckin care, or ignore it.. 'Cause you don't wanna upset her.
A lot of your girlfriends don't even act right.
Ya'll just happy to be fucking somebody, which I don't have a problem with - we all are happy to be fucking somebody, but if you're calling her your girlfriend, then that's the fuckin problem.
Your girl coulda disrespected you YESTERDAY, and you bought her a big ass teddy bear, some flowers, and chocolates today. You took her to a damn reservation restaurant.. Fed her mediocre ass.
Your girlfriend/wife do a lot of bullshit under ya'lls noses or right in your face, and you have either been shamed/brainwashed into accepting her bullshit or ignoring it.
It's fuckin sad... It's not a woman's nature that is sad, or your job as man to not leave her to her nature/own devices and check her bullshit.. But the fact that you reward her bullshit - that is sad.
Here it goes:
*She is masculine:
A masculine woman doesn't always have to have short hair, a lot of tattoos/piercings, muscles, etc, and a deep ass voice and bitchslaps you... A masculine woman is the girl that shittests you every chance she gets. She tests your strength constantly by pushing your buttons. She is snappy with you, she cusses at you, she uses many curse words in general to anybody, she doesn't text back for hours or at all, she walks ahead of you, she doesn't laugh with you or laugh at your jokes, and -
She is also the least bit of submissive. If ya'll went to a movie tonight and YOU picked the movie - she probably wouldn't shut the fuck up about "Why I can't pick. Why do you always get to pick" .. Keep in mind; most of our girlfriends don't even own a fucking car, doesn't expect to pay on dates, and probably can't even buy her own damn ticket.
So you are picking her up, you are taking her out, you are buying her ticket, maybe even the snacks... She obviously can't get home on by herself.. But it's a fucking PROBLEM that YOU are picking the damn movie at the fucking least. She is ready to withhold sex on your ass and shit... AHAHA!!
*She didn't buy YOU anything:
Ya.. She expected a gift and didn't even buy you a can of Axe body spray. Not even your favorite candy.. She knows ya love sour patch kids. The fuckin nerve.
*You can't fuck her when you want, or she limits sex and probably uses it as a weapon or against you:
This is an interest factor. A girl that's really into you.. You could get it a the drop of a dime. You could fuck her behind some bushes at a park, because she's just that damn into you. A woman that doesn't like kissing you, even if she isn't much of a kisser, will get upset if you try it. A woman that's into you might jump on YOU from time to time. But if this is not the case, then you have no business even calling her your girlfriend. Because she is not your girl, then isn't entitled to a V-Day gift.
This same girl may say you can't fuck her for a week all because you left her text on read, but you was fighting a dog one night and then a herd of buffalo wanted in on that shit too and they wasn't there to help.
A woman that withholds sex is passive-aggressive and doesn't have a lot to give - and who got time for that shit. Not me.
But your ass bought her gourmet chocolates today.
*She embarrasses you in front of people/in public:
Ya'll could have a minor disagreement, and she yelling/cussing/ or even hitting you and telling you to shut the fuck up.
*She dresses down on dinner dates:
You come on dates looking your best. Fresh cut, clean smart shoes, cologne, and "bedroom eyes".. But she got on yoga pants, or worse - sweat pants. Her hair is not exactly "done", it's just getting by.. She has no make up, gym shoes (it's a date, not the gym or the park), and she is wearing hoodie.
Send her ass home or go your ass home.
A woman that is serious and knows damn well you two are getting a table to eat at - she would wear her dress, her earrings, heels, etc. or put on a nice pair of jeans at the least with some non-gym shoes, like heels, or flats.. I personally prefer my girlfriends to wear a damn dress. It's just sexier and more appropriate for the setting.. Because she is happy with me and she is in her feminine and happy to be in her polarity.
A woman that dresses down is clearly in her masculine, and not that into you.
Or worse, she shows at your house looking like shit... Didn't put no effort into her appearance for you. Sign she doesn't care what you see.. And nobody should care what anybody thinks, but she clearly doesn't care to turn you off.
But you made her day so special.
*She is gross:
Burps and farts in front you, doesn't even say excuse me at the least (lack of shame, self-control, and doesn't care how you see her.. It's pretty much disrespectful).
There was a time where burping and farting was considered very rude, so why as a woman - would she want to be rude to you? Why not get up and excuse herself, or say excuse me after a burp? And those chicks that do those big gastrous ass burps are just straight up barbarians. I wouldn't give them the time of day.. It's very disrespectful of someone's time, conversation, and space - to be talking, sitting together, and she just fuckin rips one without caring too much. It's disruptive and nasty.. Don't nobody wanna smell that shit.
But you got her the latest perfume or someshit.
*She leaves the house dirty (If you live together and she is at home more than you):
.... I'm not even gonna go on too long here.
If you always have to clean, you are her bitch and you moved in with her way too soon. If you just had waited and make her damn near beg to live together, she woulda done everything in her power to prove she is co-habitable. A woman that don't give a fuck how she living is a damn problem.. She don't care what the condition of the bedroom is where you lay your head. She doesn't care to make the livingroom cozy and clean.. The kitchen is a mess. You can't even heat a fuckin hotpocket up without trippin over shit or find a clean glass to get some fuckin juice.
*She never cooks for you:
Even if she can't cook well, somebody that really loves you would try and would want to display these domestic tendencies and nurture.
*She has never even baked you a single cookie:
Baking is not hard, and it's very lovely. If she never even thought about baking you something, then why are you buying her cookies and chocolate?
*She doesn't suck your dick:
PFFFFTTFTT!!!! If you gotta shake your little dingaling in her face or push her head down, why the fuck you buying her gifts? She won't even suck you. That's not love.
*She still texts her ex:
A LOT OF WOMEN ARE GUILTY OF THIS.
If she can't even stay off the phone with her ex, then you have a huge problem and maybe she shouldn't of been your girlfriend in the first fuckin place. You can't make people do what you want them to do, but you can choose not to accept it and walk away.
But you got her flowers, kissed her ass, and asked how is Robert doing.
*She texts her male co-workers a little too much. Non-work related:
My girlfriend wouldn't be texting any lesbians or male friends... That's just me... But if she is always texting the same dude, this guy might be your replacement when you start acting too feminine and letting her get away with too much... Like this. She doesn't want you to let her get away with this.
*She talks about her ex to you:
I don't see why her ex matters if you and her are together... Like why would you even give a fuck about that to even talk about it??
*She doesn't display the fact she has a boyfriend (doesn't post you on social media/tell her friends and other men):
It's almost like she is single when you two are apart.. You come around her and her friends and they barely know what you look like. They still talk about her ex or an old fuckbuddy around you.. Because it isn't programmed to them that you are her man. She might not be that into you... Should look into that.
*She has bad hygiene:
You rewarding a woman that don't even wash her ass knowing damn well you like to eat the booty. She come around you smelling like onions. Hair is oily and a mess... Just failing at womanhood and don't give a fuck. A woman that don't give a fuck about herself, not about to give a fuck about you.
That's all I have for now... If your lover fits these, you knew damn well you felt like you was kissing ass buying her shit, instead of feeling like you are rewarding her. Big difference.
Most women dont want true love,in fact they hate falling in love cuz it makes them weak
They actually want power over someone who is in love with them,women gonna deny it but uts the truth
Men giving them gifts sends a message to the woman that she is in control,she has the power and u her little puppy,if u act a certain way u dont make her attracted to u
Men giving gifts is not a sign of weakness. It shows their love for them.
But love is a two way street in a relationship and both have to be willing to give it freely.
I agree but only true love which is very rare
In other cases especially in modern times applies what i written aboveclick to expand

Posted by Nicolas
Mens already know all that


Posted by pisceswoman123
Men giving gifts is not a sign of weakness. It shows their love for them.

Posted by Arielle83
Are there really a lot of women like this?
Who the fuck can’t cook?
And burping is just vulgar.

Posted by sweetpea2977
😳😳😳😳😂😂😂😂😂
This woman that you describe is DEFINITELY a piece of work 😬 SMDH
But, what kind of SUCKER attracts, ENTERTAINS, and CHOOSES to KEEP such MESS? 🤔🤷🤔
That's a sad situation to be in.
My additional question is who HURT YOU? 😒
Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977
😳😳😳😳😂😂😂😂😂
This woman that you describe is DEFINITELY a piece of work 😬 SMDH
But, what kind of SUCKER attracts, ENTERTAINS, and CHOOSES to KEEP such MESS? 🤔🤷🤔
That's a sad situation to be in.
My additional question is who HURT YOU? 😒
Why the fuck I gotta be hurt cuz I'm laying facts... The fuck?click to expand

Posted by pisceanloves
After reading some parts of this novel, realized that indeed I AM THE QUEEN !!!
We Europeans rock, the shit we do for our guys is unimaginable. Yes most of women in the US have no manners, no self control, don't know what etiquette is, no clue how to act in public or with a bf, no self awareness nothing. Yes, it's completely different in Europe and I had a cultural shock when my neighbor girl farted (I even hate putting that out for public) in front of me and her boyfriend. Never have I stepped my foot in her house since then and I won't. Uneducated, don't know what a book is and most likely no idea who Charles Darwin was or Margaret Tetcher's politics. Now I don't say most of people are like that but probably at least half of the population. Sad indeed
And yes, I'm single and probably I will stay that way for a long time lol
So no V day gifts or flowers, or a card or a kiss or sex, nothing and I mean nothing 😄


Posted by EmhendoPosted by Nicolas
Mens already know all that
So, what, you don't want me to say shit? What you trynna sayclick to expand

Posted by DeadInsidePosted by brianafay
‘Twas a good read
Now I have TI and Iggy stuck in my head
gimme tldrclick to expand

Posted by tiziani
mediocrity isn't worth analysing.
Find an example of excellence and write about that.

Posted by Emhendo
We living in times where people reward mediocrity.
Today I saw a bunch of chicks get treated like they are the fuckin Queen of England by their beta boyfriends and it disgusts me. Your girlfriend probably sucks at womanhood and relationships, but ya'll are too pussywhipped to notice... Or ya'll just don't fuckin care, or ignore it.. 'Cause you don't wanna upset her.
A lot of your girlfriends don't even act right.
Ya'll just happy to be fucking somebody, which I don't have a problem with - we all are happy to be fucking somebody, but if you're calling her your girlfriend, then that's the fuckin problem.
Your girl coulda disrespected you YESTERDAY, and you bought her a big ass teddy bear, some flowers, and chocolates today. You took her to a damn reservation restaurant.. Fed her mediocre ass.
Your girlfriend/wife do a lot of bullshit under ya'lls noses or right in your face, and you have either been shamed/brainwashed into accepting her bullshit or ignoring it.
It's fuckin sad... It's not a woman's nature that is sad, or your job as man to not leave her to her nature/own devices and check her bullshit.. But the fact that you reward her bullshit - that is sad.
Here it goes:
*She is masculine:
A masculine woman doesn't always have to have short hair, a lot of tattoos/piercings, muscles, etc, and a deep ass voice and bitchslaps you... A masculine woman is the girl that shittests you every chance she gets. She tests your strength constantly by pushing your buttons. She is snappy with you, she cusses at you, she uses many curse words in general to anybody, she doesn't text back for hours or at all, she walks ahead of you, she doesn't laugh with you or laugh at your jokes, and -
She is also the least bit of submissive. If ya'll went to a movie tonight and YOU picked the movie - she probably wouldn't shut the fuck up about "Why I can't pick. Why do you always get to pick" .. Keep in mind; most of our girlfriends don't even own a fucking car, doesn't expect to pay on dates, and probably can't even buy her own damn ticket.
So you are picking her up, you are taking her out, you are buying her ticket, maybe even the snacks... She obviously can't get home on by herself.. But it's a fucking PROBLEM that YOU are picking the damn movie at the fucking least. She is ready to withhold sex on your ass and shit... AHAHA!!

Posted by DeadInsidePosted by brianafay
‘Twas a good read
Now I have TI and Iggy stuck in my head
gimme tldrclick to expand

Posted by Emhendo
We living in times where people reward mediocrity.
What's with the "everyone gets a participation trophy" mentality— No you don't get anything for just showing up, doesn't work that way.
*She dresses down on dinner dates:
You come on dates looking your best. Fresh cut, clean smart shoes, cologne, and "bedroom eyes".. But she got on yoga pants, or worse - sweat pants. Her hair is not exactly "done", it's just getting by.. She has no make up, gym shoes (it's a date, not the gym or the park), and she is wearing hoodie.

Posted by FknMeow
The girl you described sounds like a taurus man.


Posted by Jules-llPosted by Emhendo
We living in times where people reward mediocrity.
What's with the "everyone gets a participation trophy" mentality— No you don't get anything for just showing up, doesn't work that way.
*She dresses down on dinner dates:
You come on dates looking your best. Fresh cut, clean smart shoes, cologne, and "bedroom eyes".. But she got on yoga pants, or worse - sweat pants. Her hair is not exactly "done", it's just getting by.. She has no make up, gym shoes (it's a date, not the gym or the park), and she is wearing hoodie.
This is my pet peeve about men, it works both ways. If I put effort into looking good for you, at least show up with some big boy shoes on. You know nice looking leather shoes, not sneakers. And put some real clothes on, not a sweatshirt and jeans.
I agree with you. A lot of people have gotten lazy, mannerless and self entitled. I was either born in the wrong era, or I'm an old soul...click to expand


Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by Jules-llPosted by Emhendo
We living in times where people reward mediocrity.
What's with the "everyone gets a participation trophy" mentality— No you don't get anything for just showing up, doesn't work that way.
*She dresses down on dinner dates:
You come on dates looking your best. Fresh cut, clean smart shoes, cologne, and "bedroom eyes".. But she got on yoga pants, or worse - sweat pants. Her hair is not exactly "done", it's just getting by.. She has no make up, gym shoes (it's a date, not the gym or the park), and she is wearing hoodie.
This is my pet peeve about men, it works both ways. If I put effort into looking good for you, at least show up with some big boy shoes on. You know nice looking leather shoes, not sneakers. And put some real clothes on, not a sweatshirt and jeans.
I agree with you. A lot of people have gotten lazy, mannerless and self entitled. I was either born in the wrong era, or I'm an old soul...
Show me "nice looking leather shoes" pls.
Fot the life of me i cant find any that id really like. Cap buddy says the aesthetics of the shoe itself dont matter that it blends in with the whole look of business pants, shirt but to me all i see is an ugly shoe.click to expand

Posted by ItsSupes2Posted by FireStarter
Wait what's wrong with a masculine women with short hair, muscles, and tattoo's?
This whole opening statement is full of gender role stereotypes which is silly. Even if some of the behavior is not attractive.
But imo giving gifts shouldn't be about whether someone deserves it or what you expect in return, but because you enjoy that person and maybe a gift would brighten their day or give them a small bit of happiness.
You’re so hypocritical that it’s not even funnyclick to expand

Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by Mr_PinchyPosted by Jules-llPosted by Emhendo
We living in times where people reward mediocrity.
What's with the "everyone gets a participation trophy" mentality— No you don't get anything for just showing up, doesn't work that way.
*She dresses down on dinner dates:
You come on dates looking your best. Fresh cut, clean smart shoes, cologne, and "bedroom eyes".. But she got on yoga pants, or worse - sweat pants. Her hair is not exactly "done", it's just getting by.. She has no make up, gym shoes (it's a date, not the gym or the park), and she is wearing hoodie.
This is my pet peeve about men, it works both ways. If I put effort into looking good for you, at least show up with some big boy shoes on. You know nice looking leather shoes, not sneakers. And put some real clothes on, not a sweatshirt and jeans.
I agree with you. A lot of people have gotten lazy, mannerless and self entitled. I was either born in the wrong era, or I'm an old soul...
Show me "nice looking leather shoes" pls.
Fot the life of me i cant find any that id really like. Cap buddy says the aesthetics of the shoe itself dont matter that it blends in with the whole look of business pants, shirt but to me all i see is an ugly shoe.
Let me help you. I love shopping and I'm an excellent shopper (one of my feminine traits, lol).click to expand

Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by Mr_PinchyPosted by Jules-llPosted by Emhendo
We living in times where people reward mediocrity.
What's with the "everyone gets a participation trophy" mentality— No you don't get anything for just showing up, doesn't work that way.
*She dresses down on dinner dates:
You come on dates looking your best. Fresh cut, clean smart shoes, cologne, and "bedroom eyes".. But she got on yoga pants, or worse - sweat pants. Her hair is not exactly "done", it's just getting by.. She has no make up, gym shoes (it's a date, not the gym or the park), and she is wearing hoodie.
This is my pet peeve about men, it works both ways. If I put effort into looking good for you, at least show up with some big boy shoes on. You know nice looking leather shoes, not sneakers. And put some real clothes on, not a sweatshirt and jeans.
I agree with you. A lot of people have gotten lazy, mannerless and self entitled. I was either born in the wrong era, or I'm an old soul...
Show me "nice looking leather shoes" pls.
Fot the life of me i cant find any that id really like. Cap buddy says the aesthetics of the shoe itself dont matter that it blends in with the whole look of business pants, shirt but to me all i see is an ugly shoe.
Let me help you. I love shopping and I'm an excellent shopper (one of my feminine traits, lol).
Lets see it!click to expand

Posted by NicolasPosted by EmhendoPosted by Nicolas
Mens already know all that
So, what, you don't want me to say shit? What you trynna say
No, that guy already know hes getting shiet from time to time. The thing is we only see the relationship from the ouside, from what we see. But we could be wrong right?
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Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977
😳😳😳😳😂😂😂😂😂
This woman that you describe is DEFINITELY a piece of work 😬 SMDH
But, what kind of SUCKER attracts, ENTERTAINS, and CHOOSES to KEEP such MESS? 🤔🤷🤔
That's a sad situation to be in.
My additional question is who HURT YOU? 😒
Why the fuck I gotta be hurt cuz I'm laying facts... The fuck?
That's the only aspect you took from my response? You speak on a woman who's profane with everyone. Yet, you're guilty of the same thing. What does that say about you? You are definitely angry about something. You wrote a book 😂 You also sound like a bitter-angry-victim of his own decisions. Grow up. Stop throwing tantrums and spewing your venom at anyone who cares to read deeper into your rants. Besides, no one really cares 🤷click to expand

Posted by tiziani
mediocrity isn't worth analysing.
Find an example of excellence and write about that.

Posted by ItsSupes2
Newsflash......men hate Valentines Day.
We spend all this money on useless shit just to make someone feel special enough to suck our dicks.
You’re looking at this all backwards
Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977
😳😳😳😳😂😂😂😂😂
This woman that you describe is DEFINITELY a piece of work 😬 SMDH
But, what kind of SUCKER attracts, ENTERTAINS, and CHOOSES to KEEP such MESS? 🤔🤷🤔
That's a sad situation to be in.
My additional question is who HURT YOU? 😒
Why the fuck I gotta be hurt cuz I'm laying facts... The fuck?
That's the only aspect you took from my response? You speak on a woman who's profane with everyone. Yet, you're guilty of the same thing. What does that say about you? You are definitely angry about something. You wrote a book 😂 You also sound like a bitter-angry-victim of his own decisions. Grow up. Stop throwing tantrums and spewing your venom at anyone who cares to read deeper into your rants. Besides, no one really cares 🤷
You obviously fuckin cared enough. Obviously.
Gotta say I'm hurt to make sense out of this...
I have male friends, uncles, and everybody else that fall victim to these things and I'm sick of it.... Ever thought about that??
You expect me to answer that dumb ass question, "ahehehe ya I'm hurt. I'm so hurt, I can't even sit on my ass" ...
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Posted by LethalFantasia
Where are you meeting this women? Sometimes I wish I was straight just so I could date some of the amazing women I know. lol.

Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977
😳😳😳😳😂😂😂😂😂
This woman that you describe is DEFINITELY a piece of work 😬 SMDH
But, what kind of SUCKER attracts, ENTERTAINS, and CHOOSES to KEEP such MESS? 🤔🤷🤔
That's a sad situation to be in.
My additional question is who HURT YOU? 😒
Why the fuck I gotta be hurt cuz I'm laying facts... The fuck?
That's the only aspect you took from my response? You speak on a woman who's profane with everyone. Yet, you're guilty of the same thing. What does that say about you? You are definitely angry about something. You wrote a book 😂 You also sound like a bitter-angry-victim of his own decisions. Grow up. Stop throwing tantrums and spewing your venom at anyone who cares to read deeper into your rants. Besides, no one really cares 🤷
I have male friends, uncles, and everybody else that fall victim to these things and I'm sick of it.... Ever thought about that??click to expand

Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977
😳😳😳😳😂😂😂😂😂
This woman that you describe is DEFINITELY a piece of work 😬 SMDH
But, what kind of SUCKER attracts, ENTERTAINS, and CHOOSES to KEEP such MESS? 🤔🤷🤔
That's a sad situation to be in.
My additional question is who HURT YOU? 😒
Why the fuck I gotta be hurt cuz I'm laying facts... The fuck?
That's the only aspect you took from my response? You speak on a woman who's profane with everyone. Yet, you're guilty of the same thing. What does that say about you? You are definitely angry about something. You wrote a book 😂 You also sound like a bitter-angry-victim of his own decisions. Grow up. Stop throwing tantrums and spewing your venom at anyone who cares to read deeper into your rants. Besides, no one really cares 🤷
You obviously fuckin cared enough. Obviously.
Gotta say I'm hurt to make sense out of this...
I have male friends, uncles, and everybody else that fall victim to these things and I'm sick of it.... Ever thought about that??
You expect me to answer that dumb ass question, "ahehehe ya I'm hurt. I'm so hurt, I can't even sit on my ass" ...
What??
True! I cared enough to respond in laughter first, and to then follow up with putting you in CHECK! And after all that, I now REALIZE that you are in fact hurt. Thanks so much for finally answering my question. But here's another tip: If you don't get a grip on the hurt that you're suffering on behalf of other peoples decisions (male friends, uncles, etc), your "hurt" will quickly shift into the ugly anger that you've demonstrated here today. Thank me later.
Have a nice day.click to expand



Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977
😳😳😳😳😂😂😂😂😂
This woman that you describe is DEFINITELY a piece of work 😬 SMDH
But, what kind of SUCKER attracts, ENTERTAINS, and CHOOSES to KEEP such MESS? 🤔🤷🤔
That's a sad situation to be in.
My additional question is who HURT YOU? 😒
Why the fuck I gotta be hurt cuz I'm laying facts... The fuck?
That's the only aspect you took from my response? You speak on a woman who's profane with everyone. Yet, you're guilty of the same thing. What does that say about you? You are definitely angry about something. You wrote a book 😂 You also sound like a bitter-angry-victim of his own decisions. Grow up. Stop throwing tantrums and spewing your venom at anyone who cares to read deeper into your rants. Besides, no one really cares 🤷
I have male friends, uncles, and everybody else that fall victim to these things and I'm sick of it.... Ever thought about that??
You sweet. Cause in my family we roast the shit out they ass, LMAO!
One of my uncle's wives leaves the house when one of my grand uncle's show up cause he is the King of us roasters... heartless.click to expand
Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977
😳😳😳😳😂😂😂😂😂
This woman that you describe is DEFINITELY a piece of work 😬 SMDH
But, what kind of SUCKER attracts, ENTERTAINS, and CHOOSES to KEEP such MESS? 🤔🤷🤔
That's a sad situation to be in.
My additional question is who HURT YOU? 😒
Why the fuck I gotta be hurt cuz I'm laying facts... The fuck?
That's the only aspect you took from my response? You speak on a woman who's profane with everyone. Yet, you're guilty of the same thing. What does that say about you? You are definitely angry about something. You wrote a book 😂 You also sound like a bitter-angry-victim of his own decisions. Grow up. Stop throwing tantrums and spewing your venom at anyone who cares to read deeper into your rants. Besides, no one really cares 🤷
You obviously fuckin cared enough. Obviously.
Gotta say I'm hurt to make sense out of this...
I have male friends, uncles, and everybody else that fall victim to these things and I'm sick of it.... Ever thought about that??
You expect me to answer that dumb ass question, "ahehehe ya I'm hurt. I'm so hurt, I can't even sit on my ass" ...
What??
True! I cared enough to respond in laughter first, and to then follow up with putting you in CHECK! And after all that, I now REALIZE that you are in fact hurt. Thanks so much for finally answering my question. But here's another tip: If you don't get a grip on the hurt that you're suffering on behalf of other peoples decisions (male friends, uncles, etc), your "hurt" will quickly shift into the ugly anger that you've demonstrated here today. Thank me later.
Have a nice day.
Hold on....
I'm suppose to thank YOU, because YOU believe I'm hurt? What the hell is that.
I told you I'm just a witness..
So believe whatever makes you feel like you won this.
And PFFFTTTFTT!!! You "CHECKED" me? Fuck are you a doctor? Am a I fucking clipboard??
You didn't check shit...
You need to calm your ass down. You don't even have a damn profile picture. Why do you think I give a fuck what you got to say?
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Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by EmhendoPosted by sweetpea2977
😳😳😳😳😂😂😂😂😂
This woman that you describe is DEFINITELY a piece of work 😬 SMDH
But, what kind of SUCKER attracts, ENTERTAINS, and CHOOSES to KEEP such MESS? 🤔🤷🤔
That's a sad situation to be in.
My additional question is who HURT YOU? 😒
Why the fuck I gotta be hurt cuz I'm laying facts... The fuck?
That's the only aspect you took from my response? You speak on a woman who's profane with everyone. Yet, you're guilty of the same thing. What does that say about you? You are definitely angry about something. You wrote a book 😂 You also sound like a bitter-angry-victim of his own decisions. Grow up. Stop throwing tantrums and spewing your venom at anyone who cares to read deeper into your rants. Besides, no one really cares 🤷
You obviously fuckin cared enough. Obviously.
Gotta say I'm hurt to make sense out of this...
I have male friends, uncles, and everybody else that fall victim to these things and I'm sick of it.... Ever thought about that??
You expect me to answer that dumb ass question, "ahehehe ya I'm hurt. I'm so hurt, I can't even sit on my ass" ...
What??
True! I cared enough to respond in laughter first, and to then follow up with putting you in CHECK! And after all that, I now REALIZE that you are in fact hurt. Thanks so much for finally answering my question. But here's another tip: If you don't get a grip on the hurt that you're suffering on behalf of other peoples decisions (male friends, uncles, etc), your "hurt" will quickly shift into the ugly anger that you've demonstrated here today. Thank me later.
Have a nice day.
Hold on....
I'm suppose to thank YOU, because YOU believe I'm hurt? What the hell is that.
I told you I'm just a witness..
So believe whatever makes you feel like you won this.
And PFFFTTTFTT!!! You "CHECKED" me? Fuck are you a doctor? Am a I fucking clipboard??
You didn't check shit...
You need to calm your ass down. You don't even have a damn profile picture. Why do you think I give a fuck what you got to say?![]()
Being without a pic doesn't negate the truth in what I've shared with you. It's my hope that you care about the male friends, uncles etc in your life enough, to have given them the same amount of attention/ranting you've placed here on this public forum.
No need for me to calm down. I'm good. I couldn't care less if you took what I've said with a grain-of-salt, or not. This is entertainment for me! Thus I'll do what's best either way, and simply continue LMAO concerning this, and other tantrum-throwing rants I see throughout the day.
So again, have a nice day. Mine is pretty great thus far 🙂 Thanks for the laugh.click to expand
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Today I saw a bunch of chicks get treated like they are the fuckin Queen of England by their beta boyfriends and it disgusts me. Your girlfriend probably sucks at womanhood and relationships, but ya'll are too pussywhipped to notice... Or ya'll just don't fuckin care, or ignore it.. 'Cause you don't wanna upset her.
A lot of your girlfriends don't even act right.
Ya'll just happy to be fucking somebody, which I don't have a problem with - we all are happy to be fucking somebody, but if you're calling her your girlfriend, then that's the fuckin problem.
Your girl coulda disrespected you YESTERDAY, and you bought her a big ass teddy bear, some flowers, and chocolates today. You took her to a damn reservation restaurant.. Fed her mediocre ass.
Your girlfriend/wife do a lot of bullshit under ya'lls noses or right in your face, and you have either been shamed/brainwashed into accepting her bullshit or ignoring it.
It's fuckin sad... It's not a woman's nature that is sad, or your job as man to not leave her to her nature/own devices and check her bullshit.. But the fact that you reward her bullshit - that is sad.
Here it goes:
*She is masculine:
A masculine woman doesn't always have to have short hair, a lot of tattoos/piercings, muscles, etc, and a deep ass voice and bitchslaps you... A masculine woman is the girl that shittests you every chance she gets. She tests your strength constantly by pushing your buttons. She is snappy with you, she cusses at you, she uses many curse words in general to anybody, she doesn't text back for hours or at all, she walks ahead of you, she doesn't laugh with you or laugh at your jokes, and -
She is also the least bit of submissive. If ya'll went to a movie tonight and YOU picked the movie - she probably wouldn't shut the fuck up about "Why I can't pick. Why do you always get to pick" .. Keep in mind; most of our girlfriends don't even own a fucking car, doesn't expect to pay on dates, and probably can't even buy her own damn ticket.
So you are picking her up, you are taking her out, you are buying her ticket, maybe even the snacks... She obviously can't get home on by herself.. But it's a fucking PROBLEM that YOU are picking the damn movie at the fucking least. She is ready to withhold sex on your ass and shit... AHAHA!!
*She didn't buy YOU anything:
Ya.. She expected a gift and didn't even buy you a can of Axe body spray. Not even your favorite candy.. She knows ya love sour patch kids. The fuckin nerve.
*You can't fuck her when you want, or she limits sex and probably uses it as a weapon or against you:
This is an interest factor. A girl that's really into you.. You could get it a the drop of a dime. You could fuck her behind some bushes at a park, because she's just that damn into you. A woman that doesn't like kissing you, even if she isn't much of a kisser, will get upset if you try it. A woman that's into you might jump on YOU from time to time. But if this is not the case, then you have no business even calling her your girlfriend. Because she is not your girl, then isn't entitled to a V-Day gift.
This same girl may say you can't fuck her for a week all because you left her text on read, but you was fighting a dog one night and then a herd of buffalo wanted in on that shit too and they wasn't there to help.
A woman that withholds sex is passive-aggressive and doesn't have a lot to give - and who got time for that shit. Not me.
But your ass bought her gourmet chocolates today.
*She embarrasses you in front of people/in public:
Ya'll could have a minor disagreement, and she yelling/cussing/ or even hitting you and telling you to shut the fuck up.
*She dresses down on dinner dates:
You come on dates looking your best. Fresh cut, clean smart shoes, cologne, and "bedroom eyes".. But she got on yoga pants, or worse - sweat pants. Her hair is not exactly "done", it's just getting by.. She has no make up, gym shoes (it's a date, not the gym or the park), and she is wearing hoodie.
Send her ass home or go your ass home.
A woman that is serious and knows damn well you two are getting a table to eat at - she would wear her dress, her earrings, heels, etc. or put on a nice pair of jeans at the least with some non-gym shoes, like heels, or flats.. I personally prefer my girlfriends to wear a damn dress. It's just sexier and more appropriate for the setting.. Because she is happy with me and she is in her feminine and happy to be in her polarity.
A woman that dresses down is clearly in her masculine, and not that into you.
Or worse, she shows at your house looking like shit... Didn't put no effort into her appearance for you. Sign she doesn't care what you see.. And nobody should care what anybody thinks, but she clearly doesn't care to turn you off.
But you made her day so special.
*She is gross:
Burps and farts in front you, doesn't even say excuse me at the least (lack of shame, self-control, and doesn't care how you see her.. It's pretty much disrespectful).
There was a time where burping and farting was considered very rude, so why as a woman - would she want to be rude to you? Why not get up and excuse herself, or say excuse me after a burp? And those chicks that do those big gastrous ass burps are just straight up barbarians. I wouldn't give them the time of day.. It's very disrespectful of someone's time, conversation, and space - to be talking, sitting together, and she just fuckin rips one without caring too much. It's disruptive and nasty.. Don't nobody wanna smell that shit.
But you got her the latest perfume or someshit.
*She leaves the house dirty (If you live together and she is at home more than you):
.... I'm not even gonna go on too long here.
If you always have to clean, you are her bitch and you moved in with her way too soon. If you just had waited and make her damn near beg to live together, she woulda done everything in her power to prove she is co-habitable. A woman that don't give a fuck how she living is a damn problem.. She don't care what the condition of the bedroom is where you lay your head. She doesn't care to make the livingroom cozy and clean.. The kitchen is a mess. You can't even heat a fuckin hotpocket up without trippin over shit or find a clean glass to get some fuckin juice.
*She never cooks for you:
Even if she can't cook well, somebody that really loves you would try and would want to display these domestic tendencies and nurture.
*She has never even baked you a single cookie:
Baking is not hard, and it's very lovely. If she never even thought about baking you something, then why are you buying her cookies and chocolate?
*She doesn't suck your dick:
PFFFFTTFTT!!!! If you gotta shake your little dingaling in her face or push her head down, why the fuck you buying her gifts? She won't even suck you. That's not love.
*She still texts her ex:
A LOT OF WOMEN ARE GUILTY OF THIS.
If she can't even stay off the phone with her ex, then you have a huge problem and maybe she shouldn't of been your girlfriend in the first fuckin place. You can't make people do what you want them to do, but you can choose not to accept it and walk away.
But you got her flowers, kissed her ass, and asked how is Robert doing.
*She texts her male co-workers a little too much. Non-work related:
My girlfriend wouldn't be texting any lesbians or male friends... That's just me... But if she is always texting the same dude, this guy might be your replacement when you start acting too feminine and letting her get away with too much... Like this. She doesn't want you to let her get away with this.
*She talks about her ex to you:
I don't see why her ex matters if you and her are together... Like why would you even give a fuck about that to even talk about it??
*She doesn't display the fact she has a boyfriend (doesn't post you on social media/tell her friends and other men):
It's almost like she is single when you two are apart.. You come around her and her friends and they barely know what you look like. They still talk about her ex or an old fuckbuddy around you.. Because it isn't programmed to them that you are her man. She might not be that into you... Should look into that.
*She has bad hygiene:
You rewarding a woman that don't even wash her ass knowing damn well you like to eat the booty. She come around you smelling like onions. Hair is oily and a mess... Just failing at womanhood and don't give a fuck. A woman that don't give a fuck about herself, not about to give a fuck about you.
That's all I have for now... If your lover fits these, you knew damn well you felt like you was kissing ass buying her shit, instead of feeling like you are rewarding her. Big difference.