Venus In Leo - Is this signs I am just a friend or more?

We've hung out several times now (every 1-2 days) for the past 2 weeks and yesterday got back from a 2 day intercity trip we did together. I'm confused because she's not a typical Leo. Can be very distant, quiet and hard to read. She's told me she gets that all the time and its something she's working on improving (she's like that from childhood traumas). She's expressed that I have qualities she looks for in someone and qualities she's attracted and drawn too. She makes plans with me, we hang out often and she compliments me and we had sex for the first time during this trip. Once I was moody because she was being pretty cold and distant and she asked me later that day what was wrong and I explained that she was cold and it threw me off so I reacted cold back and she said she preferred when I was all over her and physically affectionate but she would try more. Long story short, she's not physically touchy. Initiate it all and sometimes it makes me feel rejected because she rarely initiates. She can be cold and distant, hard to read, seems uninterested, isn't super straight forward like a typical Leo? Is she just hanging out with me because she needs a friend or does she actually like me. She has said she likes me but I'm confused because when you like someone, aren't you supposed to display it? Esp coming from a Leo? Am I wasting time developing feelings for this girl? Not sure how to move from here.. sometimes in person I even feel like I bother her because she can seem soooo uninterested. I'm super confused.



Sun - Leo

Moon - Libra

Mercury - Cancer

Venus/Mars - Leo

But how do you give someone lots of attention and affection without being clingy? Sounds like a fine line. I have a Cancer Venus and can more than give lots of attention and affection but it can't just be one sided...

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But how do you give someone lots of attention and affection without being clingy? Sounds like a fine line. I have a Cancer Venus and can more than give lots of attention and affection but it can't just be one sided...

Can you quote so people can see your replies?

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Posted by nats
But how do you give someone lots of attention and affection without being clingy? Sounds like a fine line. I have a Cancer Venus and can more than give lots of attention and affection but it can't just be one sided...

Can you quote so people can see your replies?

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Apologies. Wasnt sure you couldnt see my replies without quoting..

hahah. Venus in Leo (I have it) is not the problem here.

You ran into Moon in Libra. That's my most common match. They are all like that.

They will confuse you. If you don't seduce her sexually, she may never decide one way or the other.

Moon in Libra = can’t make their minds up

Will I, won’t I?

Im a moon in libra and can make decisions except where to eat or what to watch on Netflix

just be clingy.

Perhaps she's just shy and doesn't know how to initiate. What exactly do you anticipate from her? You can always teach somebody,if you want to 😬

I think this could be entertaining and playful.

In general I observed that Leo's want you to chase after them and be all over them.

Maybe you must fill her cup of appreciation and adoration and you'll be lucky to get something back from her now and then.

Don't forget,it's still a fixed sign... prone to be set in their ways and chill. Also that libra moon is lazy 🦥...

I assumed Leo's are dramatic but they are so cute and comfy 😏

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We've hung out several times now (every 1-2 days) for the past 2 weeks and yesterday got back from a 2 day intercity trip we did together. I'm confused because she's not a typical Leo. Can be very distant, quiet and hard to read. She's told me she gets that all the time and its something she's working on improving (she's like that from childhood traumas). She's expressed that I have qualities she looks for in someone and qualities she's attracted and drawn too. She makes plans with me, we hang out often and she compliments me and we had sex for the first time during this trip. Once I was moody because she was being pretty cold and distant and she asked me later that day what was wrong and I explained that she was cold and it threw me off so I reacted cold back and she said she preferred when I was all over her and physically affectionate but she would try more. Long story short, she's not physically touchy. Initiate it all and sometimes it makes me feel rejected because she rarely initiates. She can be cold and distant, hard to read, seems uninterested, isn't super straight forward like a typical Leo? Is she just hanging out with me because she needs a friend or does she actually like me. She has said she likes me but I'm confused because when you like someone, aren't you supposed to display it? Esp coming from a Leo? Am I wasting time developing feelings for this girl? Not sure how to move from here.. sometimes in person I even feel like I bother her because she can seem soooo uninterested. I'm super confused.



Sun - Leo


Moon - Libra


Mercury - Cancer


Venus/Mars - Leo

You might not have the Mars for this.

I can be like your friend and Mars in Taurus doesn't care. It wants what it wants and consumes me. No helping it. Funny thing is I often attract Venus in Leo as well. Certainly different in women but... This simple list of placements does little in analysis... she's not over trauma, period. Doesn't seem like a big deal to you as you mention it in parentheses which makes this entire post seem a lil self-centered, thick.