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Are their projects ALL materializing?

Today is a day past 3 months as we’ve met and basically living together…

We had not much time to talk because the main reason I moved in with him so we can have sex all the time we can…and we burned down FINALLY!!! And now we ready for living like ‘normal’ people.

So he is an overachiever with an energy I had never thought exist and his brain is constantly running…

He can do everything around the house. The furniture is hand made by his father who had it as his profession. Virgo learned since 9 how to take care of the house and in HS he had full time job and was independent and it’s great!

At the moment he is burn out at work at the project he created for himself (he is his own entity) and killing himself to achieve perfection. I am hearing about it daily and he took me to work…I know how it works and all 9 yards.

However!!! The hot water in the house needs to have minor fix. He has no time. We can’t coordinate with plumber because we usually out on weekends. So he said he will fix it himself. It’s been 2 months.

This morning he is in the phone talking to family in Italy. Tells me that he is thinking of buying property there so we can go anytime because he is eligible and will obtain dual citizenship and he wants to import food from there to hear…and I am listening and finally I screamed INTO HIS FACE: FIX THE FUCKING SHOWERS!!!

He said he is sharing his dreams with me…

I said FUCK YOUR DREAMS ABOUT UNICORN!

Fix the showers! Hire the plumber! Let’s stay home in weekend and FIX THE SHOWER!

He was like…WHAT? I’ll fix showers but I am telling you…and I said STOP!!!

I CANT and WONT invest myself into fucking dreams when you can’t FIX THE SHOWER for 3 months!!!

So he acted surprised. I was mad as hell! It ended well but I am thinking now…can I DO…THAT— When we were fucking all night and then all morning from 4 to 6 - we didn’t have these issues. NOW is this what it’ll be? DREAMS and shit— I don’t do dreams! I don’t plan more than 2 days ahead. Dreams driving me UP A WALL!!! I get almost violent…

He took me to work and we going to ‘pretty place’ for dinner and I think I will go home and stay until he fixes the shower!

Sunday he wants to meet my daughter so I am not sure if that’s a good idea. Fuck! 🤦‍♀️

dreams are illusions. goals and achievements would be more suited wording.

taking on multiple projects and never completing them is more atune to virgo so I can understand the showers not getting fix he has already moved on to a new goal.

Posted by Weeds

dreams are illusions. goals and achievements would be more suited wording.

taking on multiple projects and never completing them is more atune to virgo so I can understand the showers not getting fix he has already moved on to a new goal.

Thanks! That’s exactly my point!!!

Take care of everything HERE! NOW! Made peace within your head. Relax…DO Italy next!

To me dreaming of Italy while fucking shower VENT - not even shower itself - fucking vent isn’t tight enough - ITALY— That’s…🙄

Posted by _ixi_

Woo child, without the dreams you might as well die already.

And btw your approach was super dismissive, you can get what you need without being abusive.

You most likely die dreaming without achieving shit! So I rather shower fixed than dreams of Italy staying dreams…PLUS fucking shower NOT FIXED and he is dead! So lose/lose situation!!!

And NO I can’t speak about it calmly! I am lot you. I am ME and THATS HOW I SPEAK!!!

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Woo child, without the dreams you might as well die already.

And btw your approach was super dismissive, you can get what you need without being abusive.

You most likely die dreaming without achieving shit! So I rather shower fixed than dreams of Italy staying dreams…PLUS fucking shower NOT FIXED and he is dead! So lose/lose situation!!!

And NO I can’t speak about it calmly! I am lot you. I am ME and THATS HOW I SPEAK!!!

You're making many logical jumps here about what I think and don't think.

For the record, and I want to be clear it's pure hypocrisy for you to argue with sincerity that "that's just how I speak"...especially since I've seen you become quite upset when someone starts to disrespect you.

With that said going back to the OP...and the situation in general, I reiterate the dreams are important as they help develop a shared future. Your partner is absolutely entitled as a breathing human to his dreams. He has priorities he needs to take care of. You can remind someone of those priorities and do it without being abusive or trying to reduce their dignity, note for the record I said without being abusive, I didn't say you need to be "calm".

Most Virgo men I know won't destroy the relationship over one slip in mood but a pattern of unrepentant assholery from you will get you left in shortish fashion, especially earlier on.

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Ok darling. I take abuse freely. But it has to be smart. Not stupid shit and I am liking it actually.

Dreams are bullshit for weak lazy minds that as result gets ‘shuttered’ and producing great excuse why life had not turned out the way dreamer dreamed. Because they had done nothing except dreaming.

Well…it’s not my case. He is an amazing provider and man in general.

I just think that taking care of his diseased wife he is craving communications and I am craving actions and reality!

And I do NOT have to REMIND him that SHOWER we both using is needs to be fixed! He is a man! He knows! It’s HIS house!

And in my opinion nobody is ‘entitled’ to a dreams WHILE minor appliances in the house doesn’t WORK! Fix MTFKING thing and dream away! And one more thing…do NOT communicate your dreams to me UNLESS you have a tickets and passports and all I need to know is WHEN and WHERE we are going. 2 weeks notice is fine.

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Woo child, without the dreams you might as well die already.

And btw your approach was super dismissive, you can get what you need without being abusive.

You most likely die dreaming without achieving shit! So I rather shower fixed than dreams of Italy staying dreams…PLUS fucking shower NOT FIXED and he is dead! So lose/lose situation!!!

And NO I can’t speak about it calmly! I am lot you. I am ME and THATS HOW I SPEAK!!!

You're making many logical jumps here about what I think and don't think.

For the record, and I want to be clear it's pure hypocrisy for you to argue with sincerity that "that's just how I speak"...especially since I've seen you become quite upset when someone starts to disrespect you.

With that said going back to the OP...and the situation in general, I reiterate the dreams are important as they help develop a shared future. Your partner is absolutely entitled as a breathing human to his dreams. He has priorities he needs to take care of. You can remind someone of those priorities and do it without being abusive or trying to reduce their dignity, note for the record I said without being abusive, I didn't say you need to be "calm".

Most Virgo men I know won't destroy the relationship over one slip in mood but a pattern of unrepentant assholery from you will get you left in shortish fashion, especially earlier on.

Ok darling. I take abuse freely. But it has to be smart. Not stupid shit and I am liking it actually.

Dreams are bullshit for weak lazy minds that as result gets ‘shuttered’ and producing great excuse why life had not turned out the way dreamer dreamed. Because they had done nothing except dreaming.

Well…it’s not my case. He is an amazing provider and man in general.

I just think that taking care of his diseased wife he is craving communications and I am craving actions and reality!

And I do NOT have to REMIND him that SHOWER we both using is needs to be fixed! He is a man! He knows! It’s HIS house!

And in my opinion nobody is ‘entitled’ to a dreams WHILE minor appliances in the house doesn’t WORK! Fix MTFKING thing and dream away! And one more thing…do NOT communicate your dreams to me UNLESS you have a tickets and passports and all I need to know is WHEN and WHERE we are going. 2 weeks notice is fine.

You'll see and hear what you want to see then as it seems you've already decided you're right in your perspective.

May I ask why look for insight if you allegedly do not care how others think about it?

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I have an answer to this.

I want to know IF this is a trait I’ve Virgo or Sag that is ‘common’ and embedded in their being (which than I will have to think IF I can deal with it) OR it is just isolated ‘per person’ case and I can calm down and work on it in most productive manner and we can come to happy resolution.

It is JUST happened and I am really NOT a good morning information receiver and at this point I want to end the whole thing and fuck it!!!

I DO know I will regret if I did. A LOT!!!

So I do not need to be told what to do. It’s pointless.

I need an info as it stated IN MY POST TITLE.

Nowhere it says ‘should I yell at Virgo?’ Nor it asks ‘will Virgo leave my ass if I will be an abusive’…you must also take responsibility for what YOU posting. So thank you and try again.

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Virgos move slowly because they want to get it right or don't trust themselves.

Sag moon makes him think big.

I think he is pretty good with self esteem so let’s say he wants it done right.

Like what? Tighten the vent— For 3 months?

That’s…🤦‍♀️

And I understand IF dreams are standing on the way of reality - I am not ready! I can’t deal with bullshit. He asked what bullshit? I said THE BULLSHIT YOU WERE TALKING ABOUT FOR 35 min since 5am!!! He seemed confused…to him The Dream is fucking reality! I said talk to me about Unicorn. Same shit. 🤦‍♀️

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Woo child, without the dreams you might as well die already.

And btw your approach was super dismissive, you can get what you need without being abusive.

You most likely die dreaming without achieving shit! So I rather shower fixed than dreams of Italy staying dreams…PLUS fucking shower NOT FIXED and he is dead! So lose/lose situation!!!

And NO I can’t speak about it calmly! I am lot you. I am ME and THATS HOW I SPEAK!!!

You're making many logical jumps here about what I think and don't think.

For the record, and I want to be clear it's pure hypocrisy for you to argue with sincerity that "that's just how I speak"...especially since I've seen you become quite upset when someone starts to disrespect you.

With that said going back to the OP...and the situation in general, I reiterate the dreams are important as they help develop a shared future. Your partner is absolutely entitled as a breathing human to his dreams. He has priorities he needs to take care of. You can remind someone of those priorities and do it without being abusive or trying to reduce their dignity, note for the record I said without being abusive, I didn't say you need to be "calm".

Most Virgo men I know won't destroy the relationship over one slip in mood but a pattern of unrepentant assholery from you will get you left in shortish fashion, especially earlier on.

Ok darling. I take abuse freely. But it has to be smart. Not stupid shit and I am liking it actually.

Dreams are bullshit for weak lazy minds that as result gets ‘shuttered’ and producing great excuse why life had not turned out the way dreamer dreamed. Because they had done nothing except dreaming.

Well…it’s not my case. He is an amazing provider and man in general.

I just think that taking care of his diseased wife he is craving communications and I am craving actions and reality!

And I do NOT have to REMIND him that SHOWER we both using is needs to be fixed! He is a man! He knows! It’s HIS house!

And in my opinion nobody is ‘entitled’ to a dreams WHILE minor appliances in the house doesn’t WORK! Fix MTFKING thing and dream away! And one more thing…do NOT communicate your dreams to me UNLESS you have a tickets and passports and all I need to know is WHEN and WHERE we are going. 2 weeks notice is fine.

You'll see and hear what you want to see then as it seems you've already decided you're right in your perspective.

May I ask why look for insight if you allegedly do not care how others think about it?

I have an answer to this.

I want to know IF this is a trait I’ve Virgo or Sag that is ‘common’ and embedded in their being (which than I will have to think IF I can deal with it) OR it is just isolated ‘per person’ case and I can calm down and work on it in most productive manner and we can come to happy resolution.

It is JUST happened and I am really NOT a good morning information receiver and at this point I want to end the whole thing and fuck it!!!

I DO know I will regret if I did. A LOT!!!

So I do not need to be told what to do. It’s pointless.

I need an info as it stated IN MY POST TITLE.

Nowhere it says ‘should I yell at Virgo?’ Nor it asks ‘will Virgo leave my ass if I will be an abusive’…you must also take responsibility for what YOU posting. So thank you and try again.

Nope, I wish him the best in his endeavors.

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He just need to fix fucking VENT!

Best wishes in THAT endeavor telling me that you are also a slow mover. Sorry. Can’t do slow…

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Sounds about right. It's not a dream per se, it's more like a ppan that never happens because they too lazy to even do stuff in front of their own nose. And yes, I said it - LAZY! I know that situation too well and quite honestly it gets tiring at some points. Having dreams is great, I dream of stuff too, but if I'm not working on achieving them I'm keeping it to myself. But somehow they always believe they are working on achieving them. They do work and they do achieve stuff but their dreams are always larger then life. I too like to plan stuff ahead but I don't like to get all into it as if it's happening tomorrow. Like idk what am I going to have for dinner tomorrow but I'm supposed to plan which apartment I'm going to from the listings in a city where we want to move...yet we haven't made even a tiniest step forward to move to that city and apartment can get rented like tomorrow already so I don't see the point in dreaming about it. And same thing - can't do plain fixes around the house but let's plan arrangement of the new apartment in another city🙄 so yes, that's how it's going to be. I told you, you'll atart descovering things you may find quite irritating over time

Everything is on point except he is so NOT lazy - it is nuts! He has a job he loves! His career was big. Then he changed it to less consuming but even more creative job. He is up at sunrise and does things I can’t do half of it!

He is just overwhelmed with amount of things he need to do AND he has a dream! 🤷‍♀️

That’s why I am saying - DO SHIT YOU CAN DO first OR hire people to DO IT. Free your mind!

Breathe. Let’s go on vacation…come back and fuck around with your dream!

He has enormous garden to take care of. Animals to take care of. Me to entertain. Job that he making more fun by assigning himself more work that he loves to do…

I adore him for that! I never SEEN person who wakes up at 1:30am to make turkey soup and stuffing balls just because he thought of it overnight…and by the time I am awake - house (huge house) is spotless!

BUT little things!!! Annoying shit! Easy to fix. No time for that…

SOUP vs SHOWER!!!

I have to laugh…

So I am coming to conclusion that I can’t deal with high energy dominant man 🤷‍♀️with little regard for the things I am finding annoying.

And I am also pissed off because I had never been taken care of with such attention and love and kindness…but apparently fucking small appliances is what I am all about! That is insane! Isn’t it? 🤦‍♀️

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Sounds about right. It's not a dream per se, it's more like a ppan that never happens because they too lazy to even do stuff in front of their own nose. And yes, I said it - LAZY! I know that situation too well and quite honestly it gets tiring at some points. Having dreams is great, I dream of stuff too, but if I'm not working on achieving them I'm keeping it to myself. But somehow they always believe they are working on achieving them. They do work and they do achieve stuff but their dreams are always larger then life. I too like to plan stuff ahead but I don't like to get all into it as if it's happening tomorrow. Like idk what am I going to have for dinner tomorrow but I'm supposed to plan which apartment I'm going to from the listings in a city where we want to move...yet we haven't made even a tiniest step forward to move to that city and apartment can get rented like tomorrow already so I don't see the point in dreaming about it. And same thing - can't do plain fixes around the house but let's plan arrangement of the new apartment in another city🙄 so yes, that's how it's going to be. I told you, you'll atart descovering things you may find quite irritating over time

Everything is on point except he is so NOT lazy - it is nuts! He has a job he loves! His career was big. Then he changed it to less consuming but even more creative job. He is up at sunrise and does things I can’t do half of it!

He is just overwhelmed with amount of things he need to do AND he has a dream! 🤷‍♀️

That’s why I am saying - DO SHIT YOU CAN DO first OR hire people to DO IT. Free your mind!

Breathe. Let’s go on vacation…come back and fuck around with your dream!

He has enormous garden to take care of. Animals to take care of. Me to entertain. Job that he making more fun by assigning himself more work that he loves to do…

I adore him for that! I never SEEN person who wakes up at 1:30am to make turkey soup and stuffing balls just because he thought of it overnight…and by the time I am awake - house (huge house) is spotless!

BUT little things!!! Annoying shit! Easy to fix. No time for that…

SOUP vs SHOWER!!!

I have to laugh…

So I am coming to conclusion that I can’t deal with high energy dominant man 🤷‍♀️with little regard for the things I am finding annoying.

And I am also pissed off because I had never been taken care of with such attention and love and kindness…but apparently fucking small appliances is what I am all about! That is insane! Isn’t it? 🤦‍♀️

I meant lazy about small ordinary daily stuff. They work and they achieve things there is no doubt about that but when it comes to maintaining home it's somehow always neglected. And they also don't like getting help with smaller things so it stays unfixed until they find it convenient to do it lol some also neglect details a lot, despite being believed to be most detail oriented sign. Dreams you may attribute to Pisces being their opposite. Sigs in same axis share a lot of things despite being opposites and Virgo is probably least down to Earth earth sign lol they often do accomplish their dreams btw but it's just sometimes too far away in the future for someone more practical to think about it too much right away

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Ok. He seems so typical - so is this how he is and there is nothing that he is guilty of?

I say if he can’t help it…like I can’t help it to be losing my MIND over it regardless of the fact that every other woman probably would grab his ass and kiss it into pulp…I am having an audacity to go nuts over morning talk about dreams? How dare I? Right—

He is amazing! So it means I am nuts? And we are not compatible—

How do you know all that being Sag and not Virgo? I appreciate your insight. At least you telling me - I am not imagining shit! It is real! And you also saying it’s not going anywhere and I have to begone or learn how to live with it…right? Have you dealt with such character!

I am thinking IF I was married to him - I would hire all these specialists and while he is at work - all would be done! But no fucking way’ because the only person he trusts with his plumbing is Luigi who is so busy that he is never able to come when he promising!

Apparently he is also overachiever! 😂

Then all the appliances in the kitchen got to be changed because he wants to have new set in color I never heard before…that will apparently cost $ 10K MORE but it’s ok EXCEPT NOBODY MAKES REFRIGERATORS in this color except somebody overseas! See where I am going with it? 🤦‍♀️😂😂😂🤔🤌

Then Spring will come and acres or the garden will have to be seeded…and animals let out…

and his company now negotiating deal with Australia (he will have to go) and starting August he will travel for work and OK!!! I think I am done…🤦‍♀️

Haha 🤣🤣 you don’t always get your way. That’s life. Call the damn plumber yourself if you want it done.

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Haha 🤣🤣 you don’t always get your way. That’s life. Call the damn plumber yourself if you want it done.

No! Now he is pissed at Luigi and gonna Do It Himself! Basta!!! 😂😂😂