Betrayed? Virgo said sorry!?

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I posted a while back about problems I was having with a Virgo friend. I told my mother all about it today. She mentioned the word "betrayal." I had never thought of his treatment of me in that way, but I believe she's right.

Eventually, he asked for forgiveness. Just emailed on his own, said "forgive me" and expressed regret. I was surprised. Although I forgave him, (too quickly perhaps?) I really don't know why he bothered.

Since you Virgo's never apologize, when you do, is it sincere? Or do you just do it to get back into someones life because you're bored, not busy at the moment, need a distraction, or such?

And, what constitutes as betrayal to you Virgo's? From good friends and/or best friends? That's what we were. Strictly platonic. None of that FWB bullshit.

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I know several virgo men, and they usually never say "sorry". Virgos are rational, and they get always lost in their emotional world, they are really complicated. I don't think virgo men are honest saying "sorry", I think it's something like "let's forget the bullshit and move on".

They hardly express their feelings, and they usually understand they did something bad they just can't explain that on rational level, so they just pretend nothing really happened and "sorry" probably means they don't wanna get back to that topic.
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Posted by Kikyy
I know several virgo men, and they usually never say "sorry". Virgos are rational, and they get always lost in their emotional world, they are really complicated. I don't think virgo men are honest saying "sorry", I think it's something like "let's forget the bullshit and move on".

They hardly express their feelings, and they usually understand they did something bad they just can't explain that on rational level, so they just pretend nothing really happened and "sorry" probably means they don't wanna get back to that topic.


THIS ^^^^ is SPOT ON!

In all my experiences with virgo men in various relationships (non BF) and some virgo women friends, when it was in fact their fault or they pulled a complete FUBAR, they NEVER apologized. They would simply move on and act as if nothing had happened, and IF I would bring it up, it was MY problem, not theirs.

This is also why so many virgo's lose long standing friends. I'm convinced when they get close or feel too much for someone, whether it's good or bad, they purposely sabotage that relationship. For them, it's much easier to lose someone than put in the effort to to truly be sorry for hurting that person and admitting they were wrong.

Virgo's don't admit they were wrong. EVER.

To admit wrong is to admit human. To be human is weak. It's so beyond silly, sometimes I'm not sure if I should laugh or feel pity.

Thank God I married a Scorpio man.