cheating

are virgos cheaters? do they have a problem being the "dumper"? What makes them lose interest?

I don't get topics like these..it's a personal thing.

Does it matter if 100 virgos come in here and say we don't cheat..if the one in your life did?

Does it matter if 100 virgos come in here and say we cheat..if the one in your life is loyal?

Seriously.

I'm
A Virgo and personally I cheat when feeling neglected and when communication no longer works.

It's not called cheating... I'm just keeping my options open

Posted by Gmoney
I'm
A Virgo and personally I cheat when feeling neglected and when communication no longer works.

I believe nearly everybody cheats in some form or fashion. Women are the biggest cheaters.


Think intimately ....... men are thinking about physical, women are thinking about emotional ... nature of the beasts.

If a dude has physical intimate contact with another, his female partner is going to be thinking in terms of the emotional connection, and the first thing out of her mouth would something something like this: Do you love her?

Love? the might not even know her name.

To the woman, when she thinks about being loved by her man physically, what is whisking her away is dreaming about being held, her forehead getting kissed, her hair stroked, soft whispers. That's not to say that women are also starting to think about giving you a blowjob. I'm just saying that when she thinks about love, and being cheated on - her fears and insecurities are based around love, emotional love.

this should obvious, then ...... if her man emotes with another female, then THAT is the utter betrayal to your woman. Not fucking. She sill stay with you after fucking another.

But, if your approach to another woman has feelings attached .... then she'll go to the bank and and liquidating all your assets, just before castrating you.


THAT ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ to her is cheating, regardless of what is said about sexual acts.

So, since emoting to other people, to her, is cheating .......




.... every time she hugs a dude, or talks about feelings, or cries in front of a male, every time she talks to ANY other person about her personal relationship with you ..... she's cheating

Emotional cheating isn't the same severity as physical cheating in her mind .... emotional cheating is worse.


and she does it daily

As for cheating in terms for surface dwellers ....



As a relationship has run it's course, and it's time to put a period behind a life experience ... it's the nature of the beast to begin to detach. I'm a firm believer and state often that I think people should break up at this moment of relating, so that they are left with pleasurable memories of fondness and respect for the other.

People are focused on the wrong thing, it seems. It's about quality, not quantity.

In fact, I also believe that marriage would suit better if it was a term contract.


Anyway, because people (mainly women) appear to be incapable of separating themselves, and commit to stay to a bitter end, and refusing to actually let go of you .... your actions will be of cheating to this person you are trying to ex, no matter what you do.

If people would allow nature to run naturally, then cheating probably wouldn't even exist.

If you were in a relationship, and the other person had sex with another .... then end it, right there. You aren't cheated on, you have ended this life experience, there's nothing to feel bad about, look to the horizon.

BUT .... it's when you hang on, and wallow in how miserable you feel because you're not wanted, you're not special, they don't love you, wa-wa-wa ... that's when you feel cheated, that is when you feel like something is taken away from you.


perspective .....

I wouldn't generalize a zodiac sign. This uncertainty has more to do with you than the person you're interested in.

And then add Virgo to the equation ......


A person could easily find on this board, numerous threads made by Virgos, talking about themselves in conveying to the viewing audience in such a way as to make their audience believe they are boasting about a particular inherent trait of the Virgo.

This trait being that they appear to be proud of .... that they don't get/have emotional bonds in relationships. It's all right here, should a person want to read for themselves.

Not only are these threads made by Virgos .... nearly all of them who are lurkers will login to get affirmation that they know, and sometimes willfully act on = not having an emotional bond with a romantic partner.


So, if you are NOT connected, emotionally ... then you're cheating, per se ... really, you were never present.



I am especially fond of the sentiment when a Virgo states that they like to keep it real ... because doesn't love irony?


So, if you were never present, then in your compass to gauge morals, you've considered all sex partners to be whores or prostitutes, even the ones who thought you were actually there for a time.

If you were fucking them, while telling them you were loving them (because we've already established that you are emotional absent at will) .... then you're deceiving this person. Really, you're only fucking them.

It's unclear to me why Virgos have come in here and protested, when all of them at some point have admitted that they withheld 50% of the promise for commitment. Let's keep it real. This is one of your traits. You ARE a cheater by your own defining, considering a relationship is ...


50% physical
50% emotional


So, yes, Virgos do indeed cheat a partner

So, who the fuck cares? wtf

Everybody cheats someone out of something, at some point in time.

Just because you aren't plugged in doesn't mean you aren't valuable. I know full well that I'm not plugged in.


I have lived with my Virgo husband over 32 years now .. and he is definitely not an emotional person, and the awareness has to be brought to him when it's important to access, otherwise he would purposely withhold it, which would make him an emotional cheater ... but, then it goes even deeper, doesn't it?

They may keep emoting at bay, but, are fully committed to humanity in where, when you are in need, they will give to you, no matter what it is you need of them.

(speaking of normal relationships, and not ones with drama queens)

And how wonderful is that, really? This guy is stopping what he's doing because you need him to. He might now really get why it bothers you so much, or what it is exactly you need of them to do, or say, or hear ... but, his compulsion to be loyal to serving your needs brings his full attention to you.

What more do people want?

With me, I know I may be clueless to ways of relating emotionally.

I may not fulfill a longing in your soul but I will do my best to provide a peaceful life for you, taking care of all the minutiae details, supporting you in whatever endeavors you wish to pursue. You'll be in the center of our attention and we will mentally build a system around you in order to assist/protect/take care of you. We mold ourselves to be of assistance/service.

Yes, 100% of Virgos cheat 100% of the time. After we're finished we eat puppies and sacrifice small children to the lizard gods of the Illuminati.

Posted by Damnata
With me, I know I may be clueless to ways of relating emotionally.

I may not fulfill a longing in your soul but I will do my best to provide a peaceful life for you, taking care of all the minutiae details, supporting you in whatever endeavors you wish to pursue. You'll be in the center of our attention and we will mentally build a system around you in order to assist/protect/take care of you. We mold ourselves to be of assistance/service.

+1

Posted by Damnata
With me, I know I may be clueless to ways of relating emotionally.

I may not fulfill a longing in your soul but I will do my best to provide a peaceful life for you, taking care of all the minutiae details, supporting you in whatever endeavors you wish to pursue. You'll be in the center of our attention and we will mentally build a system around you in order to assist/protect/take care of you. We mold ourselves to be of assistance/service.

+1,000,000