LibraLove
@LibraLove
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Cliche thread-abruptly emotionally distant Virgo
I didn't write it, but I have reciprocated those feelings. I tell him every day that I love and appreciate him. Reciprocity is definitely not the root of this. I don't hesitate to tell him how I feel about him and am affectionate towards him. I don't think my original post gave any indication that I wasn't "serious;" on the contrary, if I weren't serious, I wouldn't be so concerned about why he's become so suddenly aloof.
"Little things" bothering him.
Sounds like he has some issue with you, something you did or said that did not rub him the right way.
Akin to what 25th said, it seems their is an issue with your reciprocity. Maybe it is the manner in which it is returned, tone, facial expressions, enthusiasm.
Or something else entirely, we only get this way when something is burgeoning on our minds. The fact he is not sharing it with you tends to usually mean the problem is with you.
Sounds like he has some issue with you, something you did or said that did not rub him the right way.
Akin to what 25th said, it seems their is an issue with your reciprocity. Maybe it is the manner in which it is returned, tone, facial expressions, enthusiasm.
Or something else entirely, we only get this way when something is burgeoning on our minds. The fact he is not sharing it with you tends to usually mean the problem is with you.
Agree with 25thdecan. Additionally the pulling back may spur your Virgo to speak about what's on his mind. Giving him the attention will keep him closed to you for the moment.
Something went down. He might have found something about you that is not favorable?
Just ask him what the fuck is going on.
No time for games, theres no time to lose.
Just ask him what the fuck is going on.
No time for games, theres no time to lose.
question time to 25thdecan,cajunspirit and wgamador:
will it not be better if something,connected with the lady bothers a virgo guy, he to share it most dear person to him,instead to leave her keep guessing what's going on?
is this a way for a virgo man to avoid an eventual emotional response?
will it not be better if something,connected with the lady bothers a virgo guy, he to share it most dear person to him,instead to leave her keep guessing what's going on?
is this a way for a virgo man to avoid an eventual emotional response?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/cheating-virgo-boyfriend-2798308/
Alls one has to do is a little research on you ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
I already know who you are ... and don't have to read it to know that you're the woman who throws temper tantrums when she hears gossip about the Virgo, and then punishes him for it.
Here's a quote from another posting you did about this very Virgo ...
blockquote>Posted by LibraLove
We've been together for 10 months now and I feel like we're in a relationship slump. Neither of us have yet to exchange "I love you"s, which is kind of a relief, because I don't love him yet.
... which was posted by you nearly a year ago, but, the point is still the same .... you aren't reciprocating with affection, in fact, from how you talk about the relationship, and the horrid scene you made (see link above) ... there's no doubt he's left feeling like you couldn't care a less about someone that isn't you.
Alls one has to do is a little research on you ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
I already know who you are ... and don't have to read it to know that you're the woman who throws temper tantrums when she hears gossip about the Virgo, and then punishes him for it.
Here's a quote from another posting you did about this very Virgo ...
blockquote>Posted by LibraLove
We've been together for 10 months now and I feel like we're in a relationship slump. Neither of us have yet to exchange "I love you"s, which is kind of a relief, because I don't love him yet.
... which was posted by you nearly a year ago, but, the point is still the same .... you aren't reciprocating with affection, in fact, from how you talk about the relationship, and the horrid scene you made (see link above) ... there's no doubt he's left feeling like you couldn't care a less about someone that isn't you.
The title of the link above is accusing him of being a cheater ...
.. which you found out later that what you heard was utter bullshit .. the point is ... you reacted by means of slandering his character in calling him a cheater without any evidence whatsoever ...
I will go find the thread where you admitted that he didn't do what you accused him of .. so people can see how much of a cunt you are for spreading rumors about your own boyfriends integrity by means of making public announcements amount his fidelity.
brb
.. which you found out later that what you heard was utter bullshit .. the point is ... you reacted by means of slandering his character in calling him a cheater without any evidence whatsoever ...
I will go find the thread where you admitted that he didn't do what you accused him of .. so people can see how much of a cunt you are for spreading rumors about your own boyfriends integrity by means of making public announcements amount his fidelity.
brb
Actually, I think all of this is in the linked-thread ......
Note ^^^^^^^^ the boyfriend had to go find evidence to prove his innocence ... due to her punishing him without bothering to trust him enough to even give him a benefit of doubt.
Also, you said in there that he apologized to you and you were satisfied with that apology from him ... eventhough he didn't even fucking do anything to you, while you on the other hand, betrayed him.
Posted by LibraLove
.... this individual said that THEY never personally saw my bf kiss anybody but were told by someone else that it happened. This "someone else" incidentally was a guy who had a crush on the girl that my bf supposedly kissed. He saw the other girl's head close to my bf's, assumed they were sharing a kiss, and went and told the individual that ultimately wound up telling my bf he "cheated."
As a final attempt to clear up the matter, my bf even contacted the 'touchy-feely' girl and asked what happened. According to her, she and my bf never kissed.
Note ^^^^^^^^ the boyfriend had to go find evidence to prove his innocence ... due to her punishing him without bothering to trust him enough to even give him a benefit of doubt.
Also, you said in there that he apologized to you and you were satisfied with that apology from him ... eventhough he didn't even fucking do anything to you, while you on the other hand, betrayed him.
Posted by LibraLove
I grew up with a father that constantly cheated on my mom and developed some resentment ....
Projecting onto boyfriend her resentment towards her parents ....
If a person reads this posting of this lady, the picture becomes quite clear as to why this Virgo pulls away from her .....
Posted by quo vadis?
question time to 25thdecan,cajunspirit and wgamador:
will it not be better if something,connected with the lady bothers a virgo guy, he to share it most dear person to him,instead to leave her keep guessing what's going on?
is this a way for a virgo man to avoid an eventual emotional response?
I guess the only time i have never spoken about what is bothering me is when its about a past disappointment or a health issue. I dont know about other Virgo men but my biggest disappointment has been a past relationship so i rather not talk about it to my current lady whenever i get a flashback.
And health issues, i dont like to make a big thing out of them.
To suffer in silence is the Virgo way. Sorry you have to come for the ride.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by LibraLove
I grew up with a father that constantly cheated on my mom and developed some resentment ....
Projecting onto boyfriend her resentment towards her parents ....
If a person reads this posting of this lady, the picture becomes quite clear as to why this Virgo pulls away from her .....click to expand
Wow. What a waste of time that was.
Thanks P-Angel. CSI😄XP, my favorite internet show!!
Posted by wgamador2Posted by P-AngelPosted by LibraLove
I grew up with a father that constantly cheated on my mom and developed some resentment ....
Projecting onto boyfriend her resentment towards her parents ....
If a person reads this posting of this lady, the picture becomes quite clear as to why this Virgo pulls away from her .....
Wow. What a waste of time that was.
Thanks P-Angel. CSI😄XP, my favorite internet show!!click to expand
*CSI : DXP
Posted by 25thDecan
Quo..what wg said. If I feel it now..I say it. It's just easier.
WG remember "concrete never cries"? A version of it is on soundclick.com under artist name da Richual. The track is the one I wrote. The poetic version will be up maybe next month, depending on how our feedback goes performing the lyrics he wrote.
Thats fucking awesome 25th. How great does that feel?
Big Up to you !!!
Make sure you count on me whenever you need me to read something.
Just know that Im gonna be honest.
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