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I know you've heard this a thousand times but can't seem to figure out if me and virgo turned a new page. I've known him for 5 years we have been on and off for four. I am 25 (scorpio) he is 24 (sept 4). I won't write a novel so I will be brief as possible.

We have both hurt each other feelings over the past years with pushing/pulling games. We were friends for the first year of knowing each other. He chased me for a year but I had a boyfriend and turned him down. However we were cordial with each other and became friends. After 3 months of breaking up with my cap I pursued him because I knew there was always attraction. Over the next few years we would be off and on doing childish things hurting each other feelings. Last year I was tired of the games and decided it was best to move on. I cut him off cold turkey and he cursed me out when I kept ignoring him. It was rude but I was just too tired of the push/pull.

Fast forward November 2016 on Thanksgiving I reached out to him when I came in town. (I live in Texas, he still lives in my hometown in Louisiana. 6 hr drive/1 hour 30 min flight). We talked and decided we should put the friendship first and stop the games. He was consistent the first week when I returned to Texas. Text and called me everyday for a week. Second week I heard from him a few times a week and so forth. I went back this past January for a friend's bridal shower. We spent the whole weekend together and he slept over 2/3 days I was there. He took me out on the first night and did sweet gestures like opening the door for me and holding my hand all night.

When I returned back to Texas he suddenly became distant again but responsive. I'm confused and trying to control my emotions. Last week I called him and checked up on him. I also admitted to him that even though I ignored him for 7 months I couldn't get over him. I think we both are trying to be friends but I must admit their are still feelings there. I have been giving him space but call him once a week to check on him.



What could he possibly be distant for? We both don't want to get hurt again but we have been on good terms for almost 2 months now. We did open up to each other more and communication seemed to get better.

I will be going back to my hometown next week and called him today and told him. He said he's been trying to get his life together he sounded stressed the last time we talk. I'm not going to assume his behavior is totally about me. What should I do?

Can I get a virgo's insight?

We both have tried to leave each other alone but can't.

I know you've heard this a thousand times but can't seem to figure out if me and virgo turned a new page. I've known him for 5 years we have been on and off for four. I am 25 (scorpio) he is 24 (sept 4). I won't write a novel so I will be brief as possible.

We have both hurt each other feelings over the past years with pushing/pulling games. We were friends for the first year of knowing each other. He chased me for a year but I had a boyfriend and turned him down. However we were cordial with each other and became friends. After 3 months of the break up with my cap I pursued him because I knew there was always attraction. Over the next few years we would be off and on doing childish things hurting each other feelings. Last year I was tired of the games and decided it was best to move on. I cut him off cold turkey and he cursed me out when I kept ignoring him. It was rude but I was just too tired of the push/pull.

Fast forward November 2016 on Thanksgiving I reached out to him when I came in town. (I live in Texas, he still lives in my hometown in Louisiana. 6 hr drive/1 hour 30 min flight). We talked and decided we should put the friendship first and stop the games. He was consistent the first week when I returned to Texas. Text and called me everyday for a week. Second week I heard from him a few times a week and so forth. I went back this past January for a friend's bridal shower. We spent the whole weekend together and he slept over 2/3 days I was there. He took me out on the first night and did sweet gestures like opening the door for me and holding my hand all night.

When I returned back to Texas he suddenly became distant again but responsive. I'm confused and trying to control my emotions. Last week I called him and checked up on him. I also admitted to him that even though I ignored him for 7 months I couldn't get over him. I think we both are trying to be friends but I must admit their are still feelings there. I have been giving him space but call him once a week to check on him.



What could he possibly be distant for? We both don't want to get hurt again but we have been on good terms for almost 2 months now. We did open up to each other more and communication seemed to get better.

I will be going back to my hometown next week and called him today and told him. He said he's been trying to get his life together he sounded stressed the last time we talk. I'm not going to assume his behavior is totally about me. What should I do?

Can I get a virgo's insight?

We both have tried to leave each other alone but can't.

I think that even though he sees the sense in putting the friendship first, his feelings aren't following as fast. He could be confused about how you keep on coming back and checking up on him. Nothing is worse than hoping and overanalysing virgo. I have been having feelings for my exes even after a year of not seeing them. If he recognises that he is getting more and more obsessed of you it makes sense that he tries to take a step back. I would give him all the space he needs.

That makes perfect sense because I too have obsessive feelings for him and I need to take a step back sometimes. We both float in and out each other's lives so that can't be put only on me. I'm giving him space and checking up on him. Things have been great so maybe his feelings are overwhelming right now. I understand space I'm a Scorpio and definitely know I need it myself. I just check on him to let him know I care about him. He could be scared a little because we became closer and I met his dad after our date.

Thanks for the advice.

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Sorry it's just...astrology wont help you with your man problems !!!! Men find it hard to commit! Nothign to do(little to do) with signs...it's what happens when one gender hogs all the baby making process ?