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For all the shit talking on the internet to someone y’all have never met, you really are contradicting yourselves
But as far as virgos go, ime...
They are the initiators, they will let you know if they are interested.
So my advice is tone down your thirst cause you’ve been the aggressor thus far. You’ve been the one to suggest hanging out and you’ve been the one to give him your number. Everything on his end can be chalked up to polite interaction with a coworker. Or maybe he’s feeling you...who knows.
But if he is, he would call. Ijs
Also I wouldn’t put much stock in the fact that he doesn’t talk about his gf at work. Most guys don’t go around talking about their relationships, that’s more of a female trait.
Yes he mentioned his kids to you. But did he mention them in order to use them as an excuse to turn you down “I’m busy this weekend I got the kids”. Seems like it...
You can’t ‘steal’ someone out of their relationship. They go willingly.
And you get the prize of having ‘won’ someone without loyalty.
Just remember, how you find em is how they leave you.
I appreciate this one. I’m not doing anything to steal anyone. It’s like what, am I not allowed to talk to him because he has a girlfriend? It’s silly. I’m not wanting him to leave her for me, I’m hoping he’ll leave if he’s not happy
ughhhh i hate this thread 😖😖😖
aries placements make people evil 😖😖😖😖
You sure it's not Cardinal signs @dilettante? I've seen this trait in all of them.
eh maybe?
i dont mind libra & cap though. cancer & aries are the two i dont fuck with.
aries has a particular vibe... the ego is unmatched, even more than ego driven signs, like leo. there are certain ways that aries placements will describe themselves, their situations. it really just rubs me very very wrong.
of course, #notallaries but i find A LOT exhibit this trait.
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I've seen them all cheat. Except Cancer women, never known one that cheated. I agree about the Aries vibe, the baby of the zodiac...
And they say us mutables are scoundrels, wtf?
But as far as virgos go, ime...
They are the initiators, they will let you know if they are interested.
So my advice is tone down your thirst cause you’ve been the aggressor thus far. You’ve been the one to suggest hanging out and you’ve been the one to give him your number. Everything on his end can be chalked up to polite interaction with a coworker. Or maybe he’s feeling you...who knows.
But if he is, he would call. Ijs
Also I wouldn’t put much stock in the fact that he doesn’t talk about his gf at work. Most guys don’t go around talking about their relationships, that’s more of a female trait.
Yes he mentioned his kids to you. But did he mention them in order to use them as an excuse to turn you down “I’m busy this weekend I got the kids”. Seems like it...
Noted. I wouldn’t say I’ve been thirsty though. He asked to go one time first, I just followed up a few weeks after. “Hey think I might be going fishing after work” “cool! If you do you should take me and show me your best spots” “only if you keep them secret”
Few weeks later “hey wanna go fishing sometime?” “Yes! Can’t tonight have my son are you on fb? How about tomorrow?” Then we were interrupted
You can’t ‘steal’ someone out of their relationship. They go willingly.
And you get the prize of having ‘won’ someone without loyalty.
Just remember, how you find em is how they leave you.
I appreciate this one. I’m not doing anything to steal anyone. It’s like what, am I not allowed to talk to him because he has a girlfriend? It’s silly. I’m not wanting him to leave her for me, I’m hoping he’ll leave if he’s not happy
Right. You want them to break up and for that kid's life to be a mess because you have an itch in your kooch.
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Both kids have different moms and gf isn’t the mother to either. Keep assuming though
You can’t ‘steal’ someone out of their relationship. They go willingly.
And you get the prize of having ‘won’ someone without loyalty.
Just remember, how you find em is how they leave you.
I appreciate this one. I’m not doing anything to steal anyone. It’s like what, am I not allowed to talk to him because he has a girlfriend? It’s silly. I’m not wanting him to leave her for me, I’m hoping he’ll leave if he’s not happy
Right. You want them to break up and for that kid's life to be a mess because you have an itch in your kooch.
Both kids have different moms and gf isn’t the mother to either. Keep assuming though
Hahahaha! He sounds like a great fucking catch. Good luck.
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Hahahahaha judging someone on the internet you seem like a fucking catch!
You can’t ‘steal’ someone out of their relationship. They go willingly.
And you get the prize of having ‘won’ someone without loyalty.
Just remember, how you find em is how they leave you.
I appreciate this one. I’m not doing anything to steal anyone. It’s like what, am I not allowed to talk to him because he has a girlfriend? It’s silly. I’m not wanting him to leave her for me, I’m hoping he’ll leave if he’s not happy
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None us have said you shouldn't talk to men that have girlfriends, that's ridiculous. When you say you want to bounce on him, that goes way beyond talking to. Curious about a couple things. How old are you? Have you ever been in a committed, long-term relationship? And if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
Me, I went psycho over a woman leaving her name and number on my man's windshield. But that's just how I am because I was betrayed by a woman I considered a friend. (Ironically, she's a Capricorn so also a cardinal sign.) Or maybe his Libra girlfriend is psycho too? Guess you will find out soon enough...
if you want to be friends, be friends. but dont kid yourself if you really want something more.
it's a whole lot of mess to get in to for a virgo...
If your truly a Libra, I would assume you could win him over with your charm. If they are not married means they are single. No ring or papers =green light.
That's not how it works.. A lot of people in relationships don't get married these days.
yeah but notice the comment is coming from another libra. Go figure.
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You caught that too? Laughable.
Posted by Jules-llAnd if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
i strangely love it when other women come on to my partner. i think it's funny.
ughhhh i hate this thread 😖😖😖
aries placements make people evil 😖😖😖😖
You sure it's not Cardinal signs @dilettante? I've seen this trait in all of them.
eh maybe?
i dont mind libra & cap though. cancer & aries are the two i dont fuck with.
aries has a particular vibe... the ego is unmatched, even more than ego driven signs, like leo. there are certain ways that aries placements will describe themselves, their situations. it really just rubs me very very wrong.
of course, #notallaries but i find A LOT exhibit this trait.
I've seen them all cheat. Except Cancer women, never known one that cheated. I agree about the Aries vibe, the baby of the zodiac...
And they say us mutables are scoundrels, wtf?
nah i am down w/ mutable energy. sometimes yall are frustrating but mostly, i really like how chill yall are.
i have a cardinal moon & venus. ive cheated once & felt so awful about it, i never did it again.
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It's cool, I have a cardinal moon too. I try to keep that bitch in check most of the time, but I cheated once too and hated myself for it. That's why I'm replying on this thread. It's all fun and games until someone gets poked in the eye with a dick lol.
if you want to be friends, be friends. but dont kid yourself if you really want something more.
it's a whole lot of mess to get in to for a virgo...
Say what—? Just kidding, I've never dated a virgo man. Carry on...
Posted by Jules-llAnd if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
i strangely love it when other women come on to my partner. i think it's funny.
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This sounds like a whole other topic for a thread... What sun sign are you @jeane, you're a libra too correct?
Posted by Jules-llAnd if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
i strangely love it when other women come on to my partner. i think it's funny.
This sounds like a whole other topic for a thread... What sun sign are you @jeane, you're a libra too correct?
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lol
Posted by Jules-llAnd if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
i strangely love it when other women come on to my partner. i think it's funny.
This sounds like a whole other topic for a thread... What sun sign are you @jeane, you're a libra too correct?
lol
Okay, now we're on to something...How far do you like them to take it?
You can’t ‘steal’ someone out of their relationship. They go willingly.
And you get the prize of having ‘won’ someone without loyalty.
Just remember, how you find em is how they leave you.
I appreciate this one. I’m not doing anything to steal anyone. It’s like what, am I not allowed to talk to him because he has a girlfriend? It’s silly. I’m not wanting him to leave her for me, I’m hoping he’ll leave if he’s not happy
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And your assuming he’s unhappy cause he’s never mentioned her to you? That’s a big jump.
He lives with this girl so it must be serious if he has his kids around her. She is helping raise them, she’s part of his family.
A crush is all well and good but aside from getting your lady boner hard off his looks, do you really want to deal with 2 kids and the 2 baby mama drama that comes with? That’s assuming he dumps her and wants to give you the gf crown like your hoping for.
He comes with ALOT of baggage. And for all you know his gf is preggers with his 3rd.
Posted by Jules-llAnd if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
i strangely love it when other women come on to my partner. i think it's funny.
This sounds like a whole other topic for a thread... What sun sign are you @jeane, you're a libra too correct?
lol
Okay, now we're on to something...How far do you like them to take it?
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other women? i don't care. one woman offered her naked minge to him the other day. we laughed about it.
i trust him. women can do their very best. we know what we have. if he decides it's no longer for him, he is free to go.
Posted by Jules-llAnd if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
i strangely love it when other women come on to my partner. i think it's funny.
This sounds like a whole other topic for a thread... What sun sign are you @jeane, you're a libra too correct?
lol
Okay, now we're on to something...How far do you like them to take it?
other women? i don't care. one woman offered her naked minge to him the other day. we laughed about it.
i trust him. women can do their very best. we know what we have. if he decides it's no longer for him, he is free to go.
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Exactly. There’s a difference between being secure and insecure. I’m the same way? Oh you like my man? Yea isn’t he cute? What he decides is up to him
You can’t ‘steal’ someone out of their relationship. They go willingly.
And you get the prize of having ‘won’ someone without loyalty.
Just remember, how you find em is how they leave you.
I appreciate this one. I’m not doing anything to steal anyone. It’s like what, am I not allowed to talk to him because he has a girlfriend? It’s silly. I’m not wanting him to leave her for me, I’m hoping he’ll leave if he’s not happy
And your assuming he’s unhappy cause he’s never mentioned her to you? That’s a big jump.
He lives with this girl so it must be serious if he has his kids around her. She is helping raise them, she’s part of his family.
A crush is all well and good but aside from getting your lady boner hard off his looks, do you really want to deal with 2 kids and the 2 baby mama drama that comes with? That’s assuming he dumps her and wants to give you the gf crown like your hoping for.
He comes with ALOT of baggage. And for all you know his gf is preggers with his 3rd.
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I wasn’t assuming anything and idk if they live together. Once I get to know him better, if he’s worth it I’d accept baggage and all
Posted by Jules-llAnd if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
i strangely love it when other women come on to my partner. i think it's funny.
This sounds like a whole other topic for a thread... What sun sign are you @jeane, you're a libra too correct?
lol
Okay, now we're on to something...How far do you like them to take it?
other women? i don't care. one woman offered her naked minge to him the other day. we laughed about it.
i trust him. women can do their very best. we know what we have. if he decides it's no longer for him, he is free to go.
Exactly. There’s a difference between being secure and insecure. I’m the same way? Oh you like my man? Yea isn’t he cute? What he decides is up to him
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waaaaait a second though. that's not to say i would do it to another woman's fella.
there is enough men to go around. i'm not getting involved in another woman's business.
Posted by Jules-llAnd if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
i strangely love it when other women come on to my partner. i think it's funny.
This sounds like a whole other topic for a thread... What sun sign are you @jeane, you're a libra too correct?
lol
Okay, now we're on to something...How far do you like them to take it?
other women? i don't care. one woman offered her naked minge to him the other day. we laughed about it.
i trust him. women can do their very best. we know what we have. if he decides it's no longer for him, he is free to go.
Exactly. There’s a difference between being secure and insecure. I’m the same way? Oh you like my man? Yea isn’t he cute? What he decides is up to him
waaaaait a second though. that's not to say i would do it to another woman's fella.
there is enough men to go around. i'm not getting involved in another woman's business.
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Not exactly trying to
Posted by Jules-llAnd if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
i strangely love it when other women come on to my partner. i think it's funny.
This sounds like a whole other topic for a thread... What sun sign are you @jeane, you're a libra too correct?
lol
Okay, now we're on to something...How far do you like them to take it?
other women? i don't care. one woman offered her naked minge to him the other day. we laughed about it.
i trust him. women can do their very best. we know what we have. if he decides it's no longer for him, he is free to go.
Exactly. There’s a difference between being secure and insecure. I’m the same way? Oh you like my man? Yea isn’t he cute? What he decides is up to him
waaaaait a second though. that's not to say i would do it to another woman's fella.
there is enough men to go around. i'm not getting involved in another
Not trying to exactly
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Posted by Jules-llAnd if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
i strangely love it when other women come on to my partner. i think it's funny.
This sounds like a whole other topic for a thread... What sun sign are you @jeane, you're a libra too correct?
lol
Okay, now we're on to something...How far do you like them to take it?
other women? i don't care. one woman offered her naked minge to him the other day. we laughed about it.
i trust him. women can do their very best. we know what we have. if he decides it's no longer for him, he is free to go.
Exactly. There’s a difference between being secure and insecure. I’m the same way? Oh you like my man? Yea isn’t he cute? What he decides is up to him
waaaaait a second though. that's not to say i would do it to another woman's fella.
there is enough men to go around. i'm not getting involved in another woman's business.
Not exactly trying to
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well, if you are on the straight and narrow and respect the other woman enough not to cause her problems then as i said above be friends.
but don't go in silently hoping that he is going to break up with her because you are an almighty catch. nothing good comes as a result of causing someone else pain.
Posted by Jules-llAnd if you have, would you be okay with other women asking your man out? If so, you have different parameters than most women.
i strangely love it when other women come on to my partner. i think it's funny.
This sounds like a whole other topic for a thread... What sun sign are you @jeane, you're a libra too correct?
lol
Okay, now we're on to something...How far do you like them to take it?
other women? i don't care. one woman offered her naked minge to him the other day. we laughed about it.
i trust him. women can do their very best. we know what we have. if he decides it's no longer for him, he is free to go.
Exactly. There’s a difference between being secure and insecure. I’m the same way? Oh you like my man? Yea isn’t he cute? What he decides is up to him
waaaaait a second though. that's not to say i would do it to another woman's fella.
there is enough men to go around. i'm not getting involved in another woman's business.
Not exactly trying to
well, if you are on the straight and narrow and respect the other woman enough not to cause her problems then as i said above be friends.
but don't go in silently hoping that he is going to break up with her because you are an almighty catch. nothing good comes as a result of causing someone else pain.
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That’s the plan. I’m just not expecting anything but I could def see us being friends. Hell even with the girlfriend too. Not saying it’d get to that, but thank you for not being ignorant in this post and actually reading what I’m saying lol
You can’t ‘steal’ someone out of their relationship. They go willingly.
And you get the prize of having ‘won’ someone without loyalty.
Just remember, how you find em is how they leave you.
I appreciate this one. I’m not doing anything to steal anyone. It’s like what, am I not allowed to talk to him because he has a girlfriend? It’s silly. I’m not wanting him to leave her for me, I’m hoping he’ll leave if he’s not happy
And your assuming he’s unhappy cause he’s never mentioned her to you? That’s a big jump.
He lives with this girl so it must be serious if he has his kids around her. She is helping raise them, she’s part of his family.
A crush is all well and good but aside from getting your lady boner hard off his looks, do you really want to deal with 2 kids and the 2 baby mama drama that comes with? That’s assuming he dumps her and wants to give you the gf crown like your hoping for.
He comes with ALOT of baggage. And for all you know his gf is preggers with his 3rd.
I wasn’t assuming anything and idk if they live together. Once I get to know him better, if he’s worth it I’d accept baggage and all
I thought I read in the thread you said they lived together... nvermind then.
Hmmm, well the reason I said that you assume he's unhappy cause he's never mentioned her was based on what you've indicated in the thread thus far...
But I don’t see how happy if pretty much (from my knowledge) no one knows he has a gf. I just find it so bizarre he never mentions her
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What traits would he need to have to make it 'worth it' to shoulder his baggage? Not loyalty certainly...
But as far as virgos go, ime...
They are the initiators, they will let you know if they are interested.
So my advice is tone down your thirst cause you’ve been the aggressor thus far. You’ve been the one to suggest hanging out and you’ve been the one to give him your number. Everything on his end can be chalked up to polite interaction with a coworker. Or maybe he’s feeling you...who knows.
But if he is, he would call. Ijs
Also I wouldn’t put much stock in the fact that he doesn’t talk about his gf at work. Most guys don’t go around talking about their relationships, that’s more of a female trait.
Yes he mentioned his kids to you. But did he mention them in order to use them as an excuse to turn you down “I’m busy this weekend I got the kids”. Seems like it...
Noted. I wouldn’t say I’ve been thirsty though. He asked to go one time first, I just followed up a few weeks after. “Hey think I might be going fishing after work” “cool! If you do you should take me and show me your best spots” “only if you keep them secret”
Few weeks later “hey wanna go fishing sometime?” “Yes! Can’t tonight have my son are you on fb? How about tomorrow?” Then we were interrupted
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Whoops missed this one.
So sit back and see if he's really interested in a fishing hangout or if it was just polite small talk at work. Balls in his court.
I'd say if you do go fishing together and he gets flirty ask him innocently if he has a gf or is seeing anyone. His answer will tell you alot about the kinda person he is.
And please don't be naive enough to think throwing your pussy is gonna make him choose to be with you over her. If anything that'll cement your place as a side chick.
If you really see long term potential with this man you should go about it in a respectful way. Be strictly his platonic friend. If and when he becomes available to pursue romantically you'll have peace of mind. Otherwise if you get with him while he's still with another it'll always be in the back of your head that he's not trustworthy based on how he acted with you (the other woman). That doubt alone will destroy whatever kinda relationship you might have with him.
But as far as virgos go, ime...
They are the initiators, they will let you know if they are interested.
So my advice is tone down your thirst cause you’ve been the aggressor thus far. You’ve been the one to suggest hanging out and you’ve been the one to give him your number. Everything on his end can be chalked up to polite interaction with a coworker. Or maybe he’s feeling you...who knows.
But if he is, he would call. Ijs
Also I wouldn’t put much stock in the fact that he doesn’t talk about his gf at work. Most guys don’t go around talking about their relationships, that’s more of a female trait.
Yes he mentioned his kids to you. But did he mention them in order to use them as an excuse to turn you down “I’m busy this weekend I got the kids”. Seems like it...
Noted. I wouldn’t say I’ve been thirsty though. He asked to go one time first, I just followed up a few weeks after. “Hey think I might be going fishing after work” “cool! If you do you should take me and show me your best spots” “only if you keep them secret”
Few weeks later “hey wanna go fishing sometime?” “Yes! Can’t tonight have my son are you on fb? How about tomorrow?” Then we were interrupted
Whoops missed this one.
So sit back and see if he's really interested in a fishing hangout or if it was just polite small talk at work. Balls in his court.
I'd say if you do go fishing together and he gets flirty ask him innocently if he has a gf or is seeing anyone. His answer will tell you alot about the kinda person he is.
And please don't be naive enough to think throwing your pussy is gonna make him choose to be with you over her. If anything that'll cement your place as a side chick.
If you really see long term potential with this man you should go about it in a respectful way. Be strictly his platonic friend. If and when he becomes available to pursue romantically you'll have peace of mind. Otherwise if you get with him while he's still with another it'll always be in the back of your head that he's not trustworthy based on how he acted with you (the other woman). That doubt alone will destroy whatever kinda relationship you might have with him.
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not to mention, if she cuts the process of their relationship short, there is a good chance there will be unresolved feelings between them.
you gotta let it run its course without any interference.
But as far as virgos go, ime...
They are the initiators, they will let you know if they are interested.
So my advice is tone down your thirst cause you’ve been the aggressor thus far. You’ve been the one to suggest hanging out and you’ve been the one to give him your number. Everything on his end can be chalked up to polite interaction with a coworker. Or maybe he’s feeling you...who knows.
But if he is, he would call. Ijs
Also I wouldn’t put much stock in the fact that he doesn’t talk about his gf at work. Most guys don’t go around talking about their relationships, that’s more of a female trait.
Yes he mentioned his kids to you. But did he mention them in order to use them as an excuse to turn you down “I’m busy this weekend I got the kids”. Seems like it...
Noted. I wouldn’t say I’ve been thirsty though. He asked to go one time first, I just followed up a few weeks after. “Hey think I might be going fishing after work” “cool! If you do you should take me and show me your best spots” “only if you keep them secret”
Few weeks later “hey wanna go fishing sometime?” “Yes! Can’t tonight have my son are you on fb? How about tomorrow?” Then we were interrupted
Whoops missed this one.
So sit back and see if he's really interested in a fishing hangout or if it was just polite small talk at work. Balls in his court.
I'd say if you do go fishing together and he gets flirty ask him innocently if he has a gf or is seeing anyone. His answer will tell you alot about the kinda person he is.
And please don't be naive enough to think throwing your pussy is gonna make him choose to be with you over her. If anything that'll cement your place as a side chick.
If you really see long term potential with this man you should go about it in a respectful way. Be strictly his platonic friend. If and when he becomes available to pursue romantically you'll have peace of mind. Otherwise if you get with him while he's still with another it'll always be in the back of your head that he's not trustworthy based on how he acted with you (the other woman). That doubt alone will destroy whatever kinda relationship you might have with him.
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Strictly platonic. And wouldn’t not date someone else if something came along. Just super curious and absolutely wouldn’t want him to be unloyal to her and would absolutely not throw kitty given the opportunity. Just seeing where things go day by day. Today, his sister came in. I thought she was a customer, but came in for job interview. She’s going to start working here which may be interesting
But as far as virgos go, ime...
They are the initiators, they will let you know if they are interested.
So my advice is tone down your thirst cause you’ve been the aggressor thus far. You’ve been the one to suggest hanging out and you’ve been the one to give him your number. Everything on his end can be chalked up to polite interaction with a coworker. Or maybe he’s feeling you...who knows.
But if he is, he would call. Ijs
Also I wouldn’t put much stock in the fact that he doesn’t talk about his gf at work. Most guys don’t go around talking about their relationships, that’s more of a female trait.
Yes he mentioned his kids to you. But did he mention them in order to use them as an excuse to turn you down “I’m busy this weekend I got the kids”. Seems like it...
Noted. I wouldn’t say I’ve been thirsty though. He asked to go one time first, I just followed up a few weeks after. “Hey think I might be going fishing after work” “cool! If you do you should take me and show me your best spots” “only if you keep them secret”
Few weeks later “hey wanna go fishing sometime?” “Yes! Can’t tonight have my son are you on fb? How about tomorrow?” Then we were interrupted
Whoops missed this one.
So sit back and see if he's really interested in a fishing hangout or if it was just polite small talk at work. Balls in his court.
I'd say if you do go fishing together and he gets flirty ask him innocently if he has a gf or is seeing anyone. His answer will tell you alot about the kinda person he is.
And please don't be naive enough to think throwing your pussy is gonna make him choose to be with you over her. If anything that'll cement your place as a side chick.
If you really see long term potential with this man you should go about it in a respectful way. Be strictly his platonic friend. If and when he becomes available to pursue romantically you'll have peace of mind. Otherwise if you get with him while he's still with another it'll always be in the back of your head that he's not trustworthy based on how he acted with you (the other woman). That doubt alone will destroy whatever kinda relationship you might have with him.
Strictly platonic. And wouldn’t not date someone else if something came along. Just super curious and absolutely wouldn’t want him to be unloyal to her and would absolutely not throw kitty given the opportunity. Just seeing where things go day by day. Today, his sister came in. I thought she was a customer, but came in for job interview. She’s going to start working here which may be interesting
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Depending on her (the sister's) relationship with his gf she will most likely serve as the ultimate cock blocker. I'd imagine he won't be as flirty with you, if at all, if she's around to report back to his misses.
But as far as virgos go, ime...
They are the initiators, they will let you know if they are interested.
So my advice is tone down your thirst cause you’ve been the aggressor thus far. You’ve been the one to suggest hanging out and you’ve been the one to give him your number. Everything on his end can be chalked up to polite interaction with a coworker. Or maybe he’s feeling you...who knows.
But if he is, he would call. Ijs
Also I wouldn’t put much stock in the fact that he doesn’t talk about his gf at work. Most guys don’t go around talking about their relationships, that’s more of a female trait.
Yes he mentioned his kids to you. But did he mention them in order to use them as an excuse to turn you down “I’m busy this weekend I got the kids”. Seems like it...
Noted. I wouldn’t say I’ve been thirsty though. He asked to go one time first, I just followed up a few weeks after. “Hey think I might be going fishing after work” “cool! If you do you should take me and show me your best spots” “only if you keep them secret”
Few weeks later “hey wanna go fishing sometime?” “Yes! Can’t tonight have my son are you on fb? How about tomorrow?” Then we were interrupted
Whoops missed this one.
So sit back and see if he's really interested in a fishing hangout or if it was just polite small talk at work. Balls in his court.
I'd say if you do go fishing together and he gets flirty ask him innocently if he has a gf or is seeing anyone. His answer will tell you alot about the kinda person he is.
And please don't be naive enough to think throwing your pussy is gonna make him choose to be with you over her. If anything that'll cement your place as a side chick.
If you really see long term potential with this man you should go about it in a respectful way. Be strictly his platonic friend. If and when he becomes available to pursue romantically you'll have peace of mind. Otherwise if you get with him while he's still with another it'll always be in the back of your head that he's not trustworthy based on how he acted with you (the other woman). That doubt alone will destroy whatever kinda relationship you might have with him.
Strictly platonic. And wouldn’t not date someone else if something came along. Just super curious and absolutely wouldn’t want him to be unloyal to her and would absolutely not throw kitty given the opportunity. Just seeing where things go day by day. Today, his sister came in. I thought she was a customer, but came in for job interview. She’s going to start working here which may be interesting
Depending on her (the sister's) relationship with his gf she will most likely serve as the ultimate cock blocker. I'd imagine he won't be as flirty with you, if at all, if she's around to report back to his misses.
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Yes my thoughts too but if that’s the case 🤷🏼♀️ We’ll see I’m def curious. I almost shit myself when she came in lmao. I didn’t know sister thought customer and she was like “hi I’m here to talk to *manager* I’m *her name*, *virgos sister*” it’ll be interesting. None of us work in the same department
ughhhh i hate this thread 😖😖😖
aries placements make people evil 😖😖😖😖
You sure it's not Cardinal signs @dilettante? I've seen this trait in all of them.
eh maybe?
i dont mind libra & cap though. cancer & aries are the two i dont fuck with.
aries has a particular vibe... the ego is unmatched, even more than ego driven signs, like leo. there are certain ways that aries placements will describe themselves, their situations. it really just rubs me very very wrong.
of course, #notallaries but i find A LOT exhibit this trait.
I've seen them all cheat. Except Cancer women, never known one that cheated. I agree about the Aries vibe, the baby of the zodiac...
And they say us mutables are scoundrels, wtf?
nah i am down w/ mutable energy. sometimes yall are frustrating but mostly, i really like how chill yall are.
i have a cardinal moon & venus. ive cheated once & felt so awful about it, i never did it again.
It's cool, I have a cardinal moon too. I try to keep that bitch in check most of the time, but I cheated once too and hated myself for it. That's why I'm replying on this thread. It's all fun and games until someone gets poked in the eye with a dick lol.
lmao i can relate. my cardinal placements square each other, making the energy run rampant & harder to control.
what element is your moon in? if you say fire, i am gonna laugh lol
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Oh you're going to laugh, I have a Libra moon...
To the OP:
y i k e s
Update: I’m mostly saying this story because from what I’ve read, Virgo are typically super private.
Anyway, out smoking today and he basically ran over to me saying wish took day off and just bullshit his co workers putting him through today. Told me he has anxiety and used to have horrible attacks when he was younger. Could this be like “oh I don’t know her well so I don’t care what she thinks” or “is this gonna make her run”
I ask for serious answers only and not judging me as a person please
You want a serious response? Here's a serious answer:
Do want to be sucked into potential girlfriend drama? There is always going to be more to the story than what he is allowing you to know. A Virgo will self-censor and omit in order to keep up with appearances. Take the advice of what someone said earlier and just be friends...
Update: I’m mostly saying this story because from what I’ve read, Virgo are typically super private.
Anyway, out smoking today and he basically ran over to me saying wish took day off and just bullshit his co workers putting him through today. Told me he has anxiety and used to have horrible attacks when he was younger. Could this be like “oh I don’t know her well so I don’t care what she thinks” or “is this gonna make her run”
I ask for serious answers only and not judging me as a person please
Okay, pure opinion with no judgment. I think he's trying to bond with you and he does like you. I'm not sure if it's as just a friend or more. And if it's more, I'm not sure if he wants to cheat or get himself a new girlfriend.
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Thank you, appreciated. If him cheating ever became an option, I would 100% not allow it to happen and would be 100% turned off
Telling you he has anxiety is like him wanting a mommy.
Turn off
One way to look at it
Our finance manager likes to joke around. Today, Virgo is walking through showroom, walks past my desk (needs to in order to go back in garage) and finance manager yells out “hey *virgo* good job!”
Virgo: “huh what?? What I do??”
(He was like a deer caught in headlights)
Finance guy: “oh idk.. good job”
Virgo: (quietly) “Jesus it’s nice someone says that around here”
Me: “aww”
So about 15 minutes later, I go to the bathroom. Gotta go through garage in order to do so. Walk out of bathroom and he’s in his bay, I run over and say “I’m sure you’re doing a great job!” And he runs over (he actually always runs over if he sees I have something to say) and smiles and gives me a few pats on the back and says “that guy always has random thing to say” then walked me to the door to the showroom and opened it for me.
I’m gonna bet he’s at least attracted to me and is def comfortable with me
Our finance manager likes to joke around. Today, Virgo is walking through showroom, walks past my desk (needs to in order to go back in garage) and finance manager yells out “hey *virgo* good job!”
Virgo: “huh what?? What I do??”
(He was like a deer caught in headlights)
Finance guy: “oh idk.. good job”
Virgo: (quietly) “Jesus it’s nice someone says that around here”
Me: “aww”
So about 15 minutes later, I go to the bathroom. Gotta go through garage in order to do so. Walk out of bathroom and he’s in his bay, I run over and say “I’m sure you’re doing a great job!” And he runs over (he actually always runs over if he sees I have something to say) and smiles and gives me a few pats on the back and says “that guy always has random thing to say” then walked me to the door to the showroom and opened it for me.
I’m gonna bet he’s at least attracted to me and is def comfortable with me
you're bored
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Extremely bored. But still excited 😂
Our finance manager likes to joke around. Today, Virgo is walking through showroom, walks past my desk (needs to in order to go back in garage) and finance manager yells out “hey *virgo* good job!”
Virgo: “huh what?? What I do??”
(He was like a deer caught in headlights)
Finance guy: “oh idk.. good job”
Virgo: (quietly) “Jesus it’s nice someone says that around here”
Me: “aww”
So about 15 minutes later, I go to the bathroom. Gotta go through garage in order to do so. Walk out of bathroom and he’s in his bay, I run over and say “I’m sure you’re doing a great job!” And he runs over (he actually always runs over if he sees I have something to say) and smiles and gives me a few pats on the back and says “that guy always has random thing to say” then walked me to the door to the showroom and opened it for me.
I’m gonna bet he’s at least attracted to me and is def comfortable with me
you're bored
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Honestly though it’s good for me. This has been the best, most successful, quiet year I’ve ever lived. I’ve calmed down a lot from my “youth” and it’s all good. I literally don’t have friends or family that even believe how well I’m doing, therefore they won’t talk to me anymore. Lonely too I guess. But this dude!! Has been and is going through the same thing!!! We both had wild childhoods. And now we’re doing well. I just gotta learn the balance of doing fucking awesome, and hoping I can get a buddy by my side
you are desperate
Def not desperate, you’d know that if you could see the line of guys trying to get with me 🤷🏼♀️ But ya don’t so keep ya ignorance to ya self
Our finance manager likes to joke around. Today, Virgo is walking through showroom, walks past my desk (needs to in order to go back in garage) and finance manager yells out “hey *virgo* good job!”
Virgo: “huh what?? What I do??”
(He was like a deer caught in headlights)
Finance guy: “oh idk.. good job”
Virgo: (quietly) “Jesus it’s nice someone says that around here”
Me: “aww”
So about 15 minutes later, I go to the bathroom. Gotta go through garage in order to do so. Walk out of bathroom and he’s in his bay, I run over and say “I’m sure you’re doing a great job!” And he runs over (he actually always runs over if he sees I have something to say) and smiles and gives me a few pats on the back and says “that guy always has random thing to say” then walked me to the door to the showroom and opened it for me.
I’m gonna bet he’s at least attracted to me and is def comfortable with me
you're bored
Honestly though it’s good for me. This has been the best, most successful, quiet year I’ve ever lived. I’ve calmed down a lot from my “youth” and it’s all good. I literally don’t have friends or family that even believe how well I’m doing, therefore they won’t talk to me anymore. Lonely too I guess. But this dude!! Has been and is going through the same thing!!! We both had wild childhoods. And now we’re doing well. I just gotta learn the balance of doing fucking awesome, and hoping I can get a buddy by my side
how tall are you and how much do you weigh?
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Why?
Our finance manager likes to joke around. Today, Virgo is walking through showroom, walks past my desk (needs to in order to go back in garage) and finance manager yells out “hey *virgo* good job!”
Virgo: “huh what?? What I do??”
(He was like a deer caught in headlights)
Finance guy: “oh idk.. good job”
Virgo: (quietly) “Jesus it’s nice someone says that around here”
Me: “aww”
So about 15 minutes later, I go to the bathroom. Gotta go through garage in order to do so. Walk out of bathroom and he’s in his bay, I run over and say “I’m sure you’re doing a great job!” And he runs over (he actually always runs over if he sees I have something to say) and smiles and gives me a few pats on the back and says “that guy always has random thing to say” then walked me to the door to the showroom and opened it for me.
I’m gonna bet he’s at least attracted to me and is def comfortable with me
you're bored
Honestly though it’s good for me. This has been the best, most successful, quiet year I’ve ever lived. I’ve calmed down a lot from my “youth” and it’s all good. I literally don’t have friends or family that even believe how well I’m doing, therefore they won’t talk to me anymore. Lonely too I guess. But this dude!! Has been and is going through the same thing!!! We both had wild childhoods. And now we’re doing well. I just gotta learn the balance of doing fucking awesome, and hoping I can get a buddy by my side
how tall are you and how much do you weigh?
Why?
you might be my type. I love libras
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Lmao what’s your type?
5 ft 6 in and 134 pounds
Ya he sounds like he needs daily affirmations to deal with his anxiety.
Tell him he’s a “good worker” everyday.
Good boy.
I mean we all do in our line of work to keep motivated. Huge kudos to him for doing what he does at work, and outside of work.
I’ll tell him he’s a good worker if he is, which he is.
Fuck off little girl if you’re trying to be rude
Hi y’all. He’s officially almost single. He’s admitted to really liking me. We’ve been texting a lot. He told gf he’s not happy in the relationship. It’s hard because they live together at his dads house
you are desperate
Def not desperate, you’d know that if you could see the line of guys trying to get with me 🤷🏼♀️ But ya don’t so keep ya ignorance to ya self
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Oooof that’s worse.
You have attention from single available men and are still thirsting after taken peen. Definitely some edge of desperation there. Own it.
Hello folks. New story, new crush. So this isn't as cute as my previous post about a certain dude, but this dude surely is as cute!
So I work with this guy, always thought he was cute but held back because I thought things would be well with the Aquarius I came here for. Didn't work, and two days later I bumped into this dude smoking a cigarette. We shook hands, and introduced ourselves. Been goofily waving, and saying hi to each other since. We work at a car dealership. I'm BDC manager/sales/sales manager. He's a mechanic, so we do not see each other often. Naturally, I crept him on Facebook. He has not one, but two kids. And a girlfriend, who is not the mother to either kid. The girlfriend bugs me, not the kids. Obviously, (before you trolls even start) I'm not gonna try anything. His birthday is 12 days before mine, although he's a year younger. The other day, we talked about how hot it is outside, and what we want to do other than be in work. He wanted to go swimming. I wanted to go fishing. I think he shit himself with excitement to hear that I, a pretty, dainty little thing likes fishing. And kayaking. He's been a bit standoffish since. Why?!? He still gives a weak "hi (my name)" but no more of the overexaggerated wave. What are Virgo men like? They have been dating for a year this month.
Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.
Thank you lovely folks for the advice in advance
standoffish , a weak hello. i think maybe he noticed you are interested in him, so maybe he is trying to stay loyal to his girlfriend. which is a good thing if you think about it. I think you can certainly find a better person for you that suits better. we all had crushes on taken people, it just happens sometimes.
Hello folks. New story, new crush. So this isn't as cute as my previous post about a certain dude, but this dude surely is as cute!
So I work with this guy, always thought he was cute but held back because I thought things would be well with the Aquarius I came here for. Didn't work, and two days later I bumped into this dude smoking a cigarette. We shook hands, and introduced ourselves. Been goofily waving, and saying hi to each other since. We work at a car dealership. I'm BDC manager/sales/sales manager. He's a mechanic, so we do not see each other often. Naturally, I crept him on Facebook. He has not one, but two kids. And a girlfriend, who is not the mother to either kid. The girlfriend bugs me, not the kids. Obviously, (before you trolls even start) I'm not gonna try anything. His birthday is 12 days before mine, although he's a year younger. The other day, we talked about how hot it is outside, and what we want to do other than be in work. He wanted to go swimming. I wanted to go fishing. I think he shit himself with excitement to hear that I, a pretty, dainty little thing likes fishing. And kayaking. He's been a bit standoffish since. Why?!? He still gives a weak "hi (my name)" but no more of the overexaggerated wave. What are Virgo men like? They have been dating for a year this month.
Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.
Thank you lovely folks for the advice in advance
standoffish , a weak hello. i think maybe he noticed you are interested in him, so maybe he is trying to stay loyal to his girlfriend. which is a good thing if you think about it. I think you can certainly find a better person for you that suits better. we all had crushes on taken people, it just happens sometimes.
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The ball game has changed now. Thank you for your response. He’s ignored me for a bit at one point, which he’s now expressed is because he likes me so much and didn’t want the temptation. He’s in the process of breaking up with his gf. It’s not because of me though, which is all I wanted. He told me about their situation, and it is def not ideal. I hoped they’d be over because not happy. Not because of me. But I think we def can start something this year. He wants to take things slow and not jump relationship and does not want me as a rebound
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You can’t ‘steal’ someone out of their relationship. They go willingly.
And you get the prize of having ‘won’ someone without loyalty.
Just remember, how you find em is how they leave you.