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Posted by librak924Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by librak924Posted by colliding99
you are desperate
Def not desperate, you’d know that if you could see the line of guys trying to get with me 🤷🏼♀️ But ya don’t so keep ya ignorance to ya self
Oooof that’s worse.
You have attention from single available men and are still thirsting after taken peen. Definitely some edge of desperation there. Own it.
I’m not desperate enough to go with the same available men that might even thirst after you, I own that 😽click to expand
Huh? What does this have to do with me...
I doubt we are even in the same state.
Posted by librak924Posted by Lola11223776682929Posted by librak924
Hello folks. New story, new crush. So this isn't as cute as my previous post about a certain dude, but this dude surely is as cute!
So I work with this guy, always thought he was cute but held back because I thought things would be well with the Aquarius I came here for. Didn't work, and two days later I bumped into this dude smoking a cigarette. We shook hands, and introduced ourselves. Been goofily waving, and saying hi to each other since. We work at a car dealership. I'm BDC manager/sales/sales manager. He's a mechanic, so we do not see each other often. Naturally, I crept him on Facebook. He has not one, but two kids. And a girlfriend, who is not the mother to either kid. The girlfriend bugs me, not the kids. Obviously, (before you trolls even start) I'm not gonna try anything. His birthday is 12 days before mine, although he's a year younger. The other day, we talked about how hot it is outside, and what we want to do other than be in work. He wanted to go swimming. I wanted to go fishing. I think he shit himself with excitement to hear that I, a pretty, dainty little thing likes fishing. And kayaking. He's been a bit standoffish since. Why?!? He still gives a weak "hi (my name)" but no more of the overexaggerated wave. What are Virgo men like? They have been dating for a year this month.
Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.
Thank you lovely folks for the advice in advance
standoffish , a weak hello. i think maybe he noticed you are interested in him, so maybe he is trying to stay loyal to his girlfriend. which is a good thing if you think about it. I think you can certainly find a better person for you that suits better. we all had crushes on taken people, it just happens sometimes.
The ball game has changed now. Thank you for your response. He’s ignored me for a bit at one point, which he’s now expressed is because he likes me so much and didn’t want the temptation. He’s in the process of breaking up with his gf. It’s not because of me though, which is all I wanted. He told me about their situation, and it is def not ideal. I hoped they’d be over because not happy. Not because of me. But I think we def can start something this year. He wants to take things slow and not jump relationship and does not want me as a reboundclick to expand
You should know the reason he s breaking up with her. If the reason that its not ideal, nothing is ideal. I wouldn't trust a guy that would break up with a girl for a trivial or ridiculous reason its never a good sign. Unless he is breaking up with her for a real reason, thats a different story. Don't get fooled. Eitherways good luck to all.
expect to get humped and dumped lmao
Posted by Lola11223776682929Posted by librak924Posted by Lola11223776682929Posted by librak924
Hello folks. New story, new crush. So this isn't as cute as my previous post about a certain dude, but this dude surely is as cute!
So I work with this guy, always thought he was cute but held back because I thought things would be well with the Aquarius I came here for. Didn't work, and two days later I bumped into this dude smoking a cigarette. We shook hands, and introduced ourselves. Been goofily waving, and saying hi to each other since. We work at a car dealership. I'm BDC manager/sales/sales manager. He's a mechanic, so we do not see each other often. Naturally, I crept him on Facebook. He has not one, but two kids. And a girlfriend, who is not the mother to either kid. The girlfriend bugs me, not the kids. Obviously, (before you trolls even start) I'm not gonna try anything. His birthday is 12 days before mine, although he's a year younger. The other day, we talked about how hot it is outside, and what we want to do other than be in work. He wanted to go swimming. I wanted to go fishing. I think he shit himself with excitement to hear that I, a pretty, dainty little thing likes fishing. And kayaking. He's been a bit standoffish since. Why?!? He still gives a weak "hi (my name)" but no more of the overexaggerated wave. What are Virgo men like? They have been dating for a year this month.
Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.
Thank you lovely folks for the advice in advance
standoffish , a weak hello. i think maybe he noticed you are interested in him, so maybe he is trying to stay loyal to his girlfriend. which is a good thing if you think about it. I think you can certainly find a better person for you that suits better. we all had crushes on taken people, it just happens sometimes.
The ball game has changed now. Thank you for your response. He’s ignored me for a bit at one point, which he’s now expressed is because he likes me so much and didn’t want the temptation. He’s in the process of breaking up with his gf. It’s not because of me though, which is all I wanted. He told me about their situation, and it is def not ideal. I hoped they’d be over because not happy. Not because of me. But I think we def can start something this year. He wants to take things slow and not jump relationship and does not want me as a rebound
You should know the reason he s breaking up with her. If the reason that its not ideal, nothing is ideal. I wouldn't trust a guy that would break up with a girl for a trivial or ridiculous reason its never a good sign. Unless he is breaking up with her for a real reason, thats a different story. Don't get fooled. Eitherways good luck to all.click to expand
Thank you again for the respectful response. He wants to break up because of her not being as loving, even cold for a while. Her ex has harassed him through most of their relationship and her response is just “oh he’s harmless” although the ex has sent him videos of them having sex, claiming it’s recent. He’s damaged his car. She’s nonchalant about it and does not care. He’s going to slowly move her out of his dads house, which they live in. His son has become attached to her. She is not allowed to see her kids via her ex
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by librak924Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by librak924Posted by colliding99
you are desperate
Def not desperate, you’d know that if you could see the line of guys trying to get with me 🤷🏼♀️ But ya don’t so keep ya ignorance to ya self
Oooof that’s worse.
You have attention from single available men and are still thirsting after taken peen. Definitely some edge of desperation there. Own it.
I’m not desperate enough to go with the same available men that might even thirst after you, I own that 😽
Huh? What does this have to do with me...
I doubt we are even in the same state.click to expand
What I meant was, they’re all trash. I don’t want trash. You seem like trash
Posted by colliereborn
expect to get humped and dumped lmao
I wouldn’t allow myself to be associated with someone who’d “hump and dump” me. Sorry about what you’ve clearly been through though. Gotta have your standards and love yourself 💞💞
Sounds messy.
Posted by jeane
Sounds messy.
It’s so messy 😂🤷🏼♀️ But I think it can be cleaned up so well in time. Like finally talking in depth we’d be sooooo good together. We’re perfectly goofy and weird together and he could be my best friend. He feels the same. He’s just got some lose ends to tie up. The fact he told me he wants to be single before he’s with me so I’m not a rebound. Idk I’m happy but I’m like “omg is this really going to happen”
Posted by jeane
Sounds messy.
It’s so messy 😂🤷🏼♀️ But I think it can be cleaned up so well in time. Like finally talking in depth we’d be sooooo good together. We’re perfectly goofy and weird together and he could be my best friend. He feels the same. He’s just got some lose ends to tie up. The fact he told me he wants to be single before he’s with me so I’m not a rebound. Idk I’m happy but I’m like “omg is this really going to happen”
Posted by Arielle83
Why is the gfs ex so obsessed with him?
So I’m guessing she’s going back with the “harmless” guy?
I hope she doesn’t act like her ex, in regards to virgo and his kid.
I’m not sure, I can only assume jealousy, although I don’t like assuming.
He said hopefully move in with her family.
But all in conclusion, I hope it’s not all bullshit on his end. Of course I’m thinking of all possible sides, but one thing I know for sure is that he wouldn’t hurt me knowingly. I think he’s going to take his sweet time doing what he has to because of comfort. But he’s told me many times he does not want to drag me into his bullshit. I’m taking that too just giving space, although he usually texts me first asking how my day has been and whatnot. Which I’m ok with. No more crossing the line.
I’m curious to see this Thursday coming up. Some of us co workers going to hang out, play pool, go bowling. He’s going because I’m going. He said she’s not going (if she does it’ll be our third time seeing/meeting and goodness does she already hate me)
Posted by Arielle83Posted by librak924Posted by Arielle83
Why is the gfs ex so obsessed with him?
So I’m guessing she’s going back with the “harmless” guy?
I hope she doesn’t act like her ex, in regards to virgo and his kid.
I’m not sure, I can only assume jealousy, although I don’t like assuming.
He said hopefully move in with her family.
But all in conclusion, I hope it’s not all bullshit on his end. Of course I’m thinking of all possible sides, but one thing I know for sure is that he wouldn’t hurt me knowingly. I think he’s going to take his sweet time doing what he has to because of comfort. But he’s told me many times he does not want to drag me into his bullshit. I’m taking that too just giving space, although he usually texts me first asking how my day has been and whatnot. Which I’m ok with. No more crossing the line.
I’m curious to see this Thursday coming up. Some of us co workers going to hang out, play pool, go bowling. He’s going because I’m going. He said she’s not going (if she does it’ll be our third time seeing/meeting and goodness does she already hate me)
Did he move fast with her? Like move in and introduce kid really quick?
You got to make sure he’s not one of those codependents that jump from one relationship to the next. Some single dads do that because they want a mommy figure to help out and make their life easier. I’d move real slow with him. Or don’t get emotionally attached and put him on a pedestal.click to expand
Yes I’m very cautious about that, but he seems to be too. He did say he wants to be single and get to know me before anything otherwise “how could I be a good boyfriend?” As he said, which I totally respect. I honestly think that was the case with his current gf. They both have two kids, he has one and sees the other 3 days a week. She sees hers when she can. I think that was their “bond” and she’s more dependent on him. She has his car more often than he does. He works at least 45 hours a week and still goes home to clean and cook
Posted by librak924Posted by jeane
Sounds messy.
It’s so messy 😂🤷🏼♀️ But I think it can be cleaned up so well in time. Like finally talking in depth we’d be sooooo good together. We’re perfectly goofy and weird together and he could be my best friend. He feels the same. He’s just got some lose ends to tie up. The fact he told me he wants to be single before he’s with me so I’m not a rebound. Idk I’m happy but I’m like “omg is this really going to happen”click to expand
Well I hope it works out the way you want it to.
I would just advise you not to get to far ahead of yourself. I know that is easier said than done but I think when there are kids involved then there is another level of complications to get over. Their feelings and making sure they dont pay the price for others decisions (or the smallest price possible) is essential.
Maybe work on getting to the stage of being best friends for a while. He'll need lots of support while the whole thing disentangles itself. I think a good friend is just what he'll need.
Posted by jeanePosted by librak924Posted by jeane
Sounds messy.
It’s so messy 😂🤷🏼♀️ But I think it can be cleaned up so well in time. Like finally talking in depth we’d be sooooo good together. We’re perfectly goofy and weird together and he could be my best friend. He feels the same. He’s just got some lose ends to tie up. The fact he told me he wants to be single before he’s with me so I’m not a rebound. Idk I’m happy but I’m like “omg is this really going to happen”
Well I hope it works out the way you want it to.
I would just advise you not to get to far ahead of yourself. I know that is easier said than done but I think when there are kids involved then there is another level of complications to get over. Their feelings and making sure they dont pay the price for others decisions (or the smallest price possible) is essential.
Maybe work on getting to the stage of being best friends for a while. He'll need lots of support while the whole thing disentangles itself. I think a good friend is just what he'll need.click to expand
Thank you so much. I promised him I’m very patient too. I offered good friends. But do you think a line could be drawn? Like I don’t want to cross line anymore with us “sexting”’which we won’t do anymore. But do you think there’s a line that I could be annoying? That’s the last thing I want to be. I told him I’d message him once a day. Message is..
“Remember it’s none of your business what people think of you. What matters is you love yourself”
I’m thinking of doing that later in the day tomorrow because day off, and he’s been kind of slipping away again yet sweetheart. See if he texts me first? Idk
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by librak924Posted by Lola11223776682929Posted by librak924Posted by Lola11223776682929Posted by librak924
Hello folks. New story, new crush. So this isn't as cute as my previous post about a certain dude, but this dude surely is as cute!
So I work with this guy, always thought he was cute but held back because I thought things would be well with the Aquarius I came here for. Didn't work, and two days later I bumped into this dude smoking a cigarette. We shook hands, and introduced ourselves. Been goofily waving, and saying hi to each other since. We work at a car dealership. I'm BDC manager/sales/sales manager. He's a mechanic, so we do not see each other often. Naturally, I crept him on Facebook. He has not one, but two kids. And a girlfriend, who is not the mother to either kid. The girlfriend bugs me, not the kids. Obviously, (before you trolls even start) I'm not gonna try anything. His birthday is 12 days before mine, although he's a year younger. The other day, we talked about how hot it is outside, and what we want to do other than be in work. He wanted to go swimming. I wanted to go fishing. I think he shit himself with excitement to hear that I, a pretty, dainty little thing likes fishing. And kayaking. He's been a bit standoffish since. Why?!? He still gives a weak "hi (my name)" but no more of the overexaggerated wave. What are Virgo men like? They have been dating for a year this month.
Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.
Thank you lovely folks for the advice in advance
standoffish , a weak hello. i think maybe he noticed you are interested in him, so maybe he is trying to stay loyal to his girlfriend. which is a good thing if you think about it. I think you can certainly find a better person for you that suits better. we all had crushes on taken people, it just happens sometimes.
The ball game has changed now. Thank you for your response. He’s ignored me for a bit at one point, which he’s now expressed is because he likes me so much and didn’t want the temptation. He’s in the process of breaking up with his gf. It’s not because of me though, which is all I wanted. He told me about their situation, and it is def not ideal. I hoped they’d be over because not happy. Not because of me. But I think we def can start something this year. He wants to take things slow and not jump relationship and does not want me as a rebound
You should know the reason he s breaking up with her. If the reason that its not ideal, nothing is ideal. I wouldn't trust a guy that would break up with a girl for a trivial or ridiculous reason its never a good sign. Unless he is breaking up with her for a real reason, thats a different story. Don't get fooled. Eitherways good luck to all.
Thank you again for the respectful response. He wants to break up because of her not being as loving, even cold for a while. Her ex has harassed him through most of their relationship and her response is just “oh he’s harmless” although the ex has sent him videos of them having sex, claiming it’s recent. He’s damaged his car. She’s nonchalant about it and does not care. He’s going to slowly move her out of his dads house, which they live in. His son has become attached to her. She is not allowed to see her kids via her ex
😂🤣🤣🤣😂 what her signclick to expand
Libra too 😬🤣😁 but second decan!
Posted by librak924Posted by jeanePosted by librak924Posted by jeane
Sounds messy.
It’s so messy 😂🤷🏼♀️ But I think it can be cleaned up so well in time. Like finally talking in depth we’d be sooooo good together. We’re perfectly goofy and weird together and he could be my best friend. He feels the same. He’s just got some lose ends to tie up. The fact he told me he wants to be single before he’s with me so I’m not a rebound. Idk I’m happy but I’m like “omg is this really going to happen”
Well I hope it works out the way you want it to.
I would just advise you not to get to far ahead of yourself. I know that is easier said than done but I think when there are kids involved then there is another level of complications to get over. Their feelings and making sure they dont pay the price for others decisions (or the smallest price possible) is essential.
Maybe work on getting to the stage of being best friends for a while. He'll need lots of support while the whole thing disentangles itself. I think a good friend is just what he'll need.
Thank you so much. I promised him I’m very patient too. I offered good friends. But do you think a line could be drawn? Like I don’t want to cross line anymore with us “sexting”’which we won’t do anymore. But do you think there’s a line that I could be annoying? That’s the last thing I want to be. I told him I’d message him once a day. Message is..
“Remember it’s none of your business what people think of you. What matters is you love yourself”
I’m thinking of doing that later in the day tomorrow because day off, and he’s been kind of slipping away again yet sweetheart. See if he texts me first? Idkclick to expand
I think drawing a line will be tough but not impossible.
You have to the right thing. Does that mean him potentially seeing you as annoying? Would you prefer not be seen as annoying but also doing something that's not the best course of action, that could result in things going pear shaped anyway?
For me, doing the right thing is the most important. I will take the consequences knowing that my conscience is clear.
As for the message...don't know. I dont know him. He might appreciate that but that screams to me that it might be something that a woman would appreciate, a guy not so much. He might be "slipping away" because he is dealing with stuff. It's likely not personal.
I would just say, you're friends so behave like you do with your other friends. Do you worry about texting them first? Friends just text right?
Posted by jeanePosted by librak924Posted by jeanePosted by librak924Posted by jeane
Sounds messy.
It’s so messy 😂🤷🏼♀️ But I think it can be cleaned up so well in time. Like finally talking in depth we’d be sooooo good together. We’re perfectly goofy and weird together and he could be my best friend. He feels the same. He’s just got some lose ends to tie up. The fact he told me he wants to be single before he’s with me so I’m not a rebound. Idk I’m happy but I’m like “omg is this really going to happen”
Well I hope it works out the way you want it to.
I would just advise you not to get to far ahead of yourself. I know that is easier said than done but I think when there are kids involved then there is another level of complications to get over. Their feelings and making sure they dont pay the price for others decisions (or the smallest price possible) is essential.
Maybe work on getting to the stage of being best friends for a while. He'll need lots of support while the whole thing disentangles itself. I think a good friend is just what he'll need.
Thank you so much. I promised him I’m very patient too. I offered good friends. But do you think a line could be drawn? Like I don’t want to cross line anymore with us “sexting”’which we won’t do anymore. But do you think there’s a line that I could be annoying? That’s the last thing I want to be. I told him I’d message him once a day. Message is..
“Remember it’s none of your business what people think of you. What matters is you love yourself”
I’m thinking of doing that later in the day tomorrow because day off, and he’s been kind of slipping away again yet sweetheart. See if he texts me first? Idk
I think drawing a line will be tough but not impossible.
You have to the right thing. Does that mean him potentially seeing you as annoying? Would you prefer not be seen as annoying but also doing something that's not the best course of action, that could result in things going pear shaped anyway?
For me, doing the right thing is the most important. I will take the consequences knowing that my conscience is clear.
As for the message...don't know. I dont know him. He might appreciate that but that screams to me that it might be something that a woman would appreciate, a guy not so much. He might be "slipping away" because he is dealing with stuff. It's likely not personal.
I would just say, you're friends so behave like you do with your other friends. Do you worry about texting them first? Friends just text right?click to expand
The line was crossed when we basically told each other we won’t to break each other in bed and even just suck each other’s tongues all night. I cannot do that physically while he has a gf. Shit I can’t even talk about it while he has a gf. And idk if he’d see me as annoying, but I don’t want to lose respect. I do think he super appreciates the message, but now maybe too much from me. Like he def loves it. He’s super insecure. He’s super down on himself. But he’s so into me and ugh I think he’s slipping to make him and gf good again idk
Posted by jeanePosted by librak924Posted by jeanePosted by librak924Posted by jeane
Sounds messy.
It’s so messy 😂🤷🏼♀️ But I think it can be cleaned up so well in time. Like finally talking in depth we’d be sooooo good together. We’re perfectly goofy and weird together and he could be my best friend. He feels the same. He’s just got some lose ends to tie up. The fact he told me he wants to be single before he’s with me so I’m not a rebound. Idk I’m happy but I’m like “omg is this really going to happen”
Well I hope it works out the way you want it to.
I would just advise you not to get to far ahead of yourself. I know that is easier said than done but I think when there are kids involved then there is another level of complications to get over. Their feelings and making sure they dont pay the price for others decisions (or the smallest price possible) is essential.
Maybe work on getting to the stage of being best friends for a while. He'll need lots of support while the whole thing disentangles itself. I think a good friend is just what he'll need.
Thank you so much. I promised him I’m very patient too. I offered good friends. But do you think a line could be drawn? Like I don’t want to cross line anymore with us “sexting”’which we won’t do anymore. But do you think there’s a line that I could be annoying? That’s the last thing I want to be. I told him I’d message him once a day. Message is..
“Remember it’s none of your business what people think of you. What matters is you love yourself”
I’m thinking of doing that later in the day tomorrow because day off, and he’s been kind of slipping away again yet sweetheart. See if he texts me first? Idk
I think drawing a line will be tough but not impossible.
You have to the right thing. Does that mean him potentially seeing you as annoying? Would you prefer not be seen as annoying but also doing something that's not the best course of action, that could result in things going pear shaped anyway?
For me, doing the right thing is the most important. I will take the consequences knowing that my conscience is clear.
As for the message...don't know. I dont know him. He might appreciate that but that screams to me that it might be something that a woman would appreciate, a guy not so much. He might be "slipping away" because he is dealing with stuff. It's likely not personal.
I would just say, you're friends so behave like you do with your other friends. Do you worry about texting them first? Friends just text right?click to expand
The line was crossed when we basically told each other we won’t to break each other in bed and even just suck each other’s tongues all night. I cannot do that physically while he has a gf. Shit I can’t even talk about it while he has a gf. And idk if he’d see me as annoying, but I don’t want to lose respect. I do think he super appreciates the message, but now maybe too much from me. Like he def loves it. He’s super insecure. He’s super down on himself. But he’s so into me and ugh I think he’s slipping to make him and gf good again idk
Posted by librak924Posted by jeanePosted by librak924Posted by jeanePosted by librak924Posted by jeane
Sounds messy.
It’s so messy 😂🤷🏼♀️ But I think it can be cleaned up so well in time. Like finally talking in depth we’d be sooooo good together. We’re perfectly goofy and weird together and he could be my best friend. He feels the same. He’s just got some lose ends to tie up. The fact he told me he wants to be single before he’s with me so I’m not a rebound. Idk I’m happy but I’m like “omg is this really going to happen”
Well I hope it works out the way you want it to.
I would just advise you not to get to far ahead of yourself. I know that is easier said than done but I think when there are kids involved then there is another level of complications to get over. Their feelings and making sure they dont pay the price for others decisions (or the smallest price possible) is essential.
Maybe work on getting to the stage of being best friends for a while. He'll need lots of support while the whole thing disentangles itself. I think a good friend is just what he'll need.
Thank you so much. I promised him I’m very patient too. I offered good friends. But do you think a line could be drawn? Like I don’t want to cross line anymore with us “sexting”’which we won’t do anymore. But do you think there’s a line that I could be annoying? That’s the last thing I want to be. I told him I’d message him once a day. Message is..
“Remember it’s none of your business what people think of you. What matters is you love yourself”
I’m thinking of doing that later in the day tomorrow because day off, and he’s been kind of slipping away again yet sweetheart. See if he texts me first? Idk
I think drawing a line will be tough but not impossible.
You have to the right thing. Does that mean him potentially seeing you as annoying? Would you prefer not be seen as annoying but also doing something that's not the best course of action, that could result in things going pear shaped anyway?
For me, doing the right thing is the most important. I will take the consequences knowing that my conscience is clear.
As for the message...don't know. I dont know him. He might appreciate that but that screams to me that it might be something that a woman would appreciate, a guy not so much. He might be "slipping away" because he is dealing with stuff. It's likely not personal.
I would just say, you're friends so behave like you do with your other friends. Do you worry about texting them first? Friends just text right?
The line was crossed when we basically told each other we won’t to break each other in bed and even just suck each other’s tongues all night. I cannot do that physically while he has a gf. Shit I can’t even talk about it while he has a gf. And idk if he’d see me as annoying, but I don’t want to lose respect. I do think he super appreciates the message, but now maybe too much from me. Like he def loves it. He’s super insecure. He’s super down on himself. But he’s so into me and ugh I think he’s slipping to make him and gf good again idkclick to expand
If that's the case and he is trying to patch things up with his gf (sorry I think I misunderstood. I thought they had broken up) then you have to step back. You gotta respect that.
I get the sense that you want to swoop in as a saviour but you dont belong is this equation as a romantic partner if he is already taken. Be friends and support his choices. If you cant be friends, then there is only one solution.
Posted by jeanePosted by librak924Posted by jeanePosted by librak924Posted by jeanePosted by librak924Posted by jeane
Sounds messy.
It’s so messy 😂🤷🏼♀️ But I think it can be cleaned up so well in time. Like finally talking in depth we’d be sooooo good together. We’re perfectly goofy and weird together and he could be my best friend. He feels the same. He’s just got some lose ends to tie up. The fact he told me he wants to be single before he’s with me so I’m not a rebound. Idk I’m happy but I’m like “omg is this really going to happen”
Well I hope it works out the way you want it to.
I would just advise you not to get to far ahead of yourself. I know that is easier said than done but I think when there are kids involved then there is another level of complications to get over. Their feelings and making sure they dont pay the price for others decisions (or the smallest price possible) is essential.
Maybe work on getting to the stage of being best friends for a while. He'll need lots of support while the whole thing disentangles itself. I think a good friend is just what he'll need.
Thank you so much. I promised him I’m very patient too. I offered good friends. But do you think a line could be drawn? Like I don’t want to cross line anymore with us “sexting”’which we won’t do anymore. But do you think there’s a line that I could be annoying? That’s the last thing I want to be. I told him I’d message him once a day. Message is..
“Remember it’s none of your business what people think of you. What matters is you love yourself”
I’m thinking of doing that later in the day tomorrow because day off, and he’s been kind of slipping away again yet sweetheart. See if he texts me first? Idk
I think drawing a line will be tough but not impossible.
You have to the right thing. Does that mean him potentially seeing you as annoying? Would you prefer not be seen as annoying but also doing something that's not the best course of action, that could result in things going pear shaped anyway?
For me, doing the right thing is the most important. I will take the consequences knowing that my conscience is clear.
As for the message...don't know. I dont know him. He might appreciate that but that screams to me that it might be something that a woman would appreciate, a guy not so much. He might be "slipping away" because he is dealing with stuff. It's likely not personal.
I would just say, you're friends so behave like you do with your other friends. Do you worry about texting them first? Friends just text right?
The line was crossed when we basically told each other we won’t to break each other in bed and even just suck each other’s tongues all night. I cannot do that physically while he has a gf. Shit I can’t even talk about it while he has a gf. And idk if he’d see me as annoying, but I don’t want to lose respect. I do think he super appreciates the message, but now maybe too much from me. Like he def loves it. He’s super insecure. He’s super down on himself. But he’s so into me and ugh I think he’s slipping to make him and gf good again idk
If that's the case and he is trying to patch things up with his gf (sorry I think I misunderstood. I thought they had broken up) then you have to step back. You gotta respect that.
I get the sense that you want to swoop in as a saviour but you dont belong is this equation as a romantic partner if he is already taken. Be friends and support his choices. If you cant be friends, then there is only one solution.click to expand
Yes I think def course of action. Let them work it out if they can. I just want him to be happy. But I do hope he updates me. We have this this thing coming Thursday, co workers. That’ll be like my personal ultimatum. He said she ain’t coming. But I think she might. Which is totally cool. But if she does, I will tap out again. I won’t give him this ultimatum, it’ll just be silent. And I want to be his friend, but we need to hold hands if we’re smoking a cig at the same time now. It’s hard to shut off feelings, which I know he has too. But I totally respect the fact he has a gf, and I do not want to be the reason it ends. Yet he does not want me to wait for him
And meanwhile nobody gives a s**t that his son has become attached to her. The only memorable thing I read in this whole nonsense- little man appreciates having mommy figure around. That virgo is dumb, so are you, match made in heaven definitely. Kids feel things instinctively and if she wasn't suitable he wouldn't get attached, the fact that she's loving and caring to his kids should tell you something but you miss the whole point, that virgo wants to f*** brainlessly, according to you, just wow, kudos to disclaimer lol I have a feeling you'll be f-ed hard and thrown out after he gets bored.. I feel sorry for kids tho, they don't deserve that kind of mess.
Posted by pisceanloves
And meanwhile nobody gives a s**t that his son has become attached to her. The only memorable thing I read in this whole nonsense- little man appreciates having mommy figure around. That virgo is dumb, so are you, match made in heaven definitely. Kids feel things instinctively and if she wasn't suitable he wouldn't get attached, the fact that she's loving and caring to his kids should tell you something but you miss the whole point, that virgo wants to f*** brainlessly, according to you, just wow, kudos to disclaimer lol I have a feeling you'll be f-ed hard and thrown out after he gets bored.. I feel sorry for kids tho, they don't deserve that kind of mess.
Fuuuuuck you. You’re what’s wrong with people having access to talking to other people through the internet. Please stay inside so the rest of us adults aren’t affected by you being a dumb cunt
Posted by Arielle83Posted by librak924Posted by Arielle83Posted by librak924Posted by Arielle83
Why is the gfs ex so obsessed with him?
So I’m guessing she’s going back with the “harmless” guy?
I hope she doesn’t act like her ex, in regards to virgo and his kid.
I’m not sure, I can only assume jealousy, although I don’t like assuming.
He said hopefully move in with her family.
But all in conclusion, I hope it’s not all bullshit on his end. Of course I’m thinking of all possible sides, but one thing I know for sure is that he wouldn’t hurt me knowingly. I think he’s going to take his sweet time doing what he has to because of comfort. But he’s told me many times he does not want to drag me into his bullshit. I’m taking that too just giving space, although he usually texts me first asking how my day has been and whatnot. Which I’m ok with. No more crossing the line.
I’m curious to see this Thursday coming up. Some of us co workers going to hang out, play pool, go bowling. He’s going because I’m going. He said she’s not going (if she does it’ll be our third time seeing/meeting and goodness does she already hate me)
Did he move fast with her? Like move in and introduce kid really quick?
You got to make sure he’s not one of those codependents that jump from one relationship to the next. Some single dads do that because they want a mommy figure to help out and make their life easier. I’d move real slow with him. Or don’t get emotionally attached and put him on a pedestal.
Yes I’m very cautious about that, but he seems to be too. He did say he wants to be single and get to know me before anything otherwise “how could I be a good boyfriend?” As he said, which I totally respect. I honestly think that was the case with his current gf. They both have two kids, he has one and sees the other 3 days a week. She sees hers when she can. I think that was their “bond” and she’s more dependent on him. She has his car more often than he does. He works at least 45 hours a week and still goes home to clean and cook
So she’s useless. I hope he’s just not bagging on her to get you endeared to him.
And if you go in, make sure you pay attention as to whether or not he’s critical of you. He’s a Virgo and I find them pedantic and frustrating. If he starts being critical, it might be he’s just critical of every woman he’s with.click to expand
I think he’s just nervous oh being like “okay I’m done out!!!” Because where else would she go? He said her family but it’s a slow process.
He hasn’t been critical at all. Only thing he’s said was “everything about you so perfect, even you skin 😍😍😍 omg sorry I’m picking you apart, I know that’s rude”
Posted by librak924Posted by pisceanloves
And meanwhile nobody gives a s**t that his son has become attached to her. The only memorable thing I read in this whole nonsense- little man appreciates having mommy figure around. That virgo is dumb, so are you, match made in heaven definitely. Kids feel things instinctively and if she wasn't suitable he wouldn't get attached, the fact that she's loving and caring to his kids should tell you something but you miss the whole point, that virgo wants to f*** brainlessly, according to you, just wow, kudos to disclaimer lol I have a feeling you'll be f-ed hard and thrown out after he gets bored.. I feel sorry for kids tho, they don't deserve that kind of mess.
Fuuuuuck you. You’re what’s wrong with people having access to talking to other people through the internet. Please stay inside so the rest of us adults aren’t affected by you being a dumb cuntclick to expand
You contradicted yourself all too many times throughout the whole topic and mildly put you leave an impression of someone intellectually incapable, having no logical reasoning or grasping day to day most basic situations. Yes men want to f***k and reading the whole thing I realized you are only good for that. Your thirsty approach was way too obvious from the get go and nobody's that dumb to believe any of your bs. You've got multiple contradicting reasons as to what the hell you want out of this situation for each dxper that commented on here.. Throw insults all you want, it doesn't affect me at all lol
You are a liar, delusional, out of touch with reality, coward, intellectually challenged and the worst of all thirsty as f**k. Cheap woman as you portray yourself. Not only your behavior, your speech and general manners are perfectly aligned as well. Best of luck to you
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by librak924Posted by pisceanloves
And meanwhile nobody gives a s**t that his son has become attached to her. The only memorable thing I read in this whole nonsense- little man appreciates having mommy figure around. That virgo is dumb, so are you, match made in heaven definitely. Kids feel things instinctively and if she wasn't suitable he wouldn't get attached, the fact that she's loving and caring to his kids should tell you something but you miss the whole point, that virgo wants to f*** brainlessly, according to you, just wow, kudos to disclaimer lol I have a feeling you'll be f-ed hard and thrown out after he gets bored.. I feel sorry for kids tho, they don't deserve that kind of mess.
Fuuuuuck you. You’re what’s wrong with people having access to talking to other people through the internet. Please stay inside so the rest of us adults aren’t affected by you being a dumb cunt
You contradicted yourself all too many times throughout the whole topic and mildly put you leave an impression of someone intellectually incapable, having no logical reasoning or grasping day to day most basic situations. Yes men want to f***k and reading the whole thing I realized you are only good for that. Your thirsty approach was way too obvious from the get go and nobody's that dumb to believe any of your bs. You've got multiple contradicting reasons as to what the hell you want out of this situation for each dxper that commented on here.. Throw insults all you want, it doesn't affect me at all lol
You are a liar, delusional, out of touch with reality, coward, intellectually challenged and the worst of all thirsty as f**k. Cheap woman as you portray yourself. Not only your behavior, your speech and general manners are perfectly aligned as well. Best of luck to youclick to expand
Too long for me to care to read. It’s a post over 5 months long, obvi it’s gonna have different thoughts and feelings. You’re a see ya next Tuesday. Goodnight 😁
Posted by pisceanlovesPosted by librak924Posted by pisceanloves
And meanwhile nobody gives a s**t that his son has become attached to her. The only memorable thing I read in this whole nonsense- little man appreciates having mommy figure around. That virgo is dumb, so are you, match made in heaven definitely. Kids feel things instinctively and if she wasn't suitable he wouldn't get attached, the fact that she's loving and caring to his kids should tell you something but you miss the whole point, that virgo wants to f*** brainlessly, according to you, just wow, kudos to disclaimer lol I have a feeling you'll be f-ed hard and thrown out after he gets bored.. I feel sorry for kids tho, they don't deserve that kind of mess.
Fuuuuuck you. You’re what’s wrong with people having access to talking to other people through the internet. Please stay inside so the rest of us adults aren’t affected by you being a dumb cunt
You contradicted yourself all too many times throughout the whole topic and mildly put you leave an impression of someone intellectually incapable, having no logical reasoning or grasping day to day most basic situations. Yes men want to f***k and reading the whole thing I realized you are only good for that. Your thirsty approach was way too obvious from the get go and nobody's that dumb to believe any of your bs. You've got multiple contradicting reasons as to what the hell you want out of this situation for each dxper that commented on here.. Throw insults all you want, it doesn't affect me at all lol
You are a liar, delusional, out of touch with reality, coward, intellectually challenged and the worst of all thirsty as f**k. Cheap woman as you portray yourself. Not only your behavior, your speech and general manners are perfectly aligned as well. Best of luck to youclick to expand
You write eloquently, yet I see no substance to what you write besides pure ignorance. I feel as though if I were to kick you in the twat, I’d lose my shoe because your English professor loosened you so much. Don’t throw stones if you live in a glass house, you ignorant fuucking twit
Posted by librak924Posted by colliereborn
expect to get humped and dumped lmao
I wouldn’t allow myself to be associated with someone who’d “hump and dump” me. Sorry about what you’ve clearly been through though. Gotta have your standards and love yourself 💞💞click to expand
in the meantime do you talk to other guys or are you just focused on him only?
Posted by librak924Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by librak924Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by librak924Posted by colliding99
you are desperate
Def not desperate, you’d know that if you could see the line of guys trying to get with me 🤷🏼♀️ But ya don’t so keep ya ignorance to ya self
Oooof that’s worse.
You have attention from single available men and are still thirsting after taken peen. Definitely some edge of desperation there. Own it.
I’m not desperate enough to go with the same available men that might even thirst after you, I own that 😽
Huh? What does this have to do with me...
I doubt we are even in the same state.
What I meant was, they’re all trash. I don’t want trash. You seem like trashclick to expand
Your thirsting after taken peen with 2 kids of his own and 2 of his partners living in the home.
And I’m trash for pointing it out 🙃
Libra don't go after another woman's man, especially when there are kids involved. You will pay big through karma if you do. Let him be because you know you don't have a problem attracting men. Let this one go.
Posted by librak924Posted by Lola11223776682929Posted by librak924Posted by Lola11223776682929Posted by librak924
Hello folks. New story, new crush. So this isn't as cute as my previous post about a certain dude, but this dude surely is as cute!
So I work with this guy, always thought he was cute but held back because I thought things would be well with the Aquarius I came here for. Didn't work, and two days later I bumped into this dude smoking a cigarette. We shook hands, and introduced ourselves. Been goofily waving, and saying hi to each other since. We work at a car dealership. I'm BDC manager/sales/sales manager. He's a mechanic, so we do not see each other often. Naturally, I crept him on Facebook. He has not one, but two kids. And a girlfriend, who is not the mother to either kid. The girlfriend bugs me, not the kids. Obviously, (before you trolls even start) I'm not gonna try anything. His birthday is 12 days before mine, although he's a year younger. The other day, we talked about how hot it is outside, and what we want to do other than be in work. He wanted to go swimming. I wanted to go fishing. I think he shit himself with excitement to hear that I, a pretty, dainty little thing likes fishing. And kayaking. He's been a bit standoffish since. Why?!? He still gives a weak "hi (my name)" but no more of the overexaggerated wave. What are Virgo men like? They have been dating for a year this month.
Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.
Thank you lovely folks for the advice in advance
standoffish , a weak hello. i think maybe he noticed you are interested in him, so maybe he is trying to stay loyal to his girlfriend. which is a good thing if you think about it. I think you can certainly find a better person for you that suits better. we all had crushes on taken people, it just happens sometimes.
The ball game has changed now. Thank you for your response. He’s ignored me for a bit at one point, which he’s now expressed is because he likes me so much and didn’t want the temptation. He’s in the process of breaking up with his gf. It’s not because of me though, which is all I wanted. He told me about their situation, and it is def not ideal. I hoped they’d be over because not happy. Not because of me. But I think we def can start something this year. He wants to take things slow and not jump relationship and does not want me as a rebound
You should know the reason he s breaking up with her. If the reason that its not ideal, nothing is ideal. I wouldn't trust a guy that would break up with a girl for a trivial or ridiculous reason its never a good sign. Unless he is breaking up with her for a real reason, thats a different story. Don't get fooled. Eitherways good luck to all.
Thank you again for the respectful response. He wants to break up because of her not being as loving, even cold for a while. Her ex has harassed him through most of their relationship and her response is just “oh he’s harmless” although the ex has sent him videos of them having sex, claiming it’s recent. He’s damaged his car. She’s nonchalant about it and does not care. He’s going to slowly move her out of his dads house, which they live in. His son has become attached to her. She is not allowed to see her kids via her exclick to expand
All that is a very strange situation . what was her response to the fact her ex sent a sex tape of her ?
Posted by Lola11223776682929Posted by librak924Posted by Lola11223776682929Posted by librak924Posted by Lola11223776682929Posted by librak924
Hello folks. New story, new crush. So this isn't as cute as my previous post about a certain dude, but this dude surely is as cute!
So I work with this guy, always thought he was cute but held back because I thought things would be well with the Aquarius I came here for. Didn't work, and two days later I bumped into this dude smoking a cigarette. We shook hands, and introduced ourselves. Been goofily waving, and saying hi to each other since. We work at a car dealership. I'm BDC manager/sales/sales manager. He's a mechanic, so we do not see each other often. Naturally, I crept him on Facebook. He has not one, but two kids. And a girlfriend, who is not the mother to either kid. The girlfriend bugs me, not the kids. Obviously, (before you trolls even start) I'm not gonna try anything. His birthday is 12 days before mine, although he's a year younger. The other day, we talked about how hot it is outside, and what we want to do other than be in work. He wanted to go swimming. I wanted to go fishing. I think he shit himself with excitement to hear that I, a pretty, dainty little thing likes fishing. And kayaking. He's been a bit standoffish since. Why?!? He still gives a weak "hi (my name)" but no more of the overexaggerated wave. What are Virgo men like? They have been dating for a year this month.
Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.
Thank you lovely folks for the advice in advance
standoffish , a weak hello. i think maybe he noticed you are interested in him, so maybe he is trying to stay loyal to his girlfriend. which is a good thing if you think about it. I think you can certainly find a better person for you that suits better. we all had crushes on taken people, it just happens sometimes.
The ball game has changed now. Thank you for your response. He’s ignored me for a bit at one point, which he’s now expressed is because he likes me so much and didn’t want the temptation. He’s in the process of breaking up with his gf. It’s not because of me though, which is all I wanted. He told me about their situation, and it is def not ideal. I hoped they’d be over because not happy. Not because of me. But I think we def can start something this year. He wants to take things slow and not jump relationship and does not want me as a rebound
You should know the reason he s breaking up with her. If the reason that its not ideal, nothing is ideal. I wouldn't trust a guy that would break up with a girl for a trivial or ridiculous reason its never a good sign. Unless he is breaking up with her for a real reason, thats a different story. Don't get fooled. Eitherways good luck to all.
Thank you again for the respectful response. He wants to break up because of her not being as loving, even cold for a while. Her ex has harassed him through most of their relationship and her response is just “oh he’s harmless” although the ex has sent him videos of them having sex, claiming it’s recent. He’s damaged his car. She’s nonchalant about it and does not care. He’s going to slowly move her out of his dads house, which they live in. His son has become attached to her. She is not allowed to see her kids via her ex
All that is a very strange situation . what was her response to the fact her ex sent a sex tape of her ?click to expand
“He’s harmless I’ll tell him to stop that was a while ago”
Like if that was me I’d be fucking fucking fuming at my ex not just like “please don’t do that”
Posted by Sassysailorscout
As a Virgo . . .
He is trying to make his ex jealous ! He is trying to hard to convince you and maybe himself that he wants more but he doesn't.
A Virgo will untangle you in alllllll their BS from start to finish if they want you. I tell my friends and new people trying to date me straight up if I'm in love with someone. Even when I want to date the new person. I tell them they can stick around at their own risk.
He's sweet talking wayyyy too much. He should be critical with you and fight you. Then he cares.
We generally don't care how it affects you because it's not your problem, also we don't trust easily. He shouldn't trust you esp after what his girl did. Hes angry and sees red. This is all about revenge. But. I could be wrong
But I'm not.
I'm physic that way.
Thank you! I like this advice. But I gotta say he’s said he’s not ready for a relationship. Needs to fix his shit first. Glad being friends. And at the same time this is after about 7 months of flirting on and off. But he’s made it 100% taking it slow, getting to know each other
C A R D I N A L
W O M E N
they take yo man
W O M E N
they take yo man
Posted by virgoOPPP
C A R D I N A L
W O M E N
they take yo man
She’s cardinal too, and she dumped him 🤷🏼♀️
Today, I went to the bathroom at one point. When I walked out, he walked in the restroom area from another door. We grabbed each other and made out 😁
Oh God, Libras!
Posted by thatlibralifePosted by librak924
Today, I went to the bathroom at one point. When I walked out, he walked in the restroom area from another door. We grabbed each other and made out 😁
Outrage coming in 3... 2...1...click to expand
Nah maybe everyone rolling their eyes I got my way 🤷🏼♀️
LOL so I really screwed the pooch on this one. Karma sucks I guess. I’m bored day off today. So, this past March we really hit it off. He devised a plan to get his ex to move out of his house so we could be together. He came to spend the night with me, she attacked him. They both got arrested. Next day, someone texted me from his phone asking for $ 540 to bail him out, as she was already bailed out. I gave the money to a friend of mine, and she cashapped the money to them. She then proceeded to get $ 1500 stolen from her bank account. I paid my friend the money back. The money was supposedly not used to bail him out. He got out a few days later. Told me he is in love with me and wants to start a family with me. Next day, decides I’m annoying and he wants nothing to do with me, and he doesn’t owe me shit. Heart broken. Work is super awkward now. His gf is evil and they are still together. She made a lot of threats to me the weekend he was “locked up”. I talked to his sister about it, and she said it is not his first time screwing over a good person, he always ruins things with good people, and that yes his gf is absolutely horrible, but has some kind of weird control over him. So yeah that was weird and I was 100000% wrong about who I thought he was.
Posted by librak924
LOL so I really screwed the pooch on this one. Karma sucks I guess. I’m bored day off today. So, this past March we really hit it off. He devised a plan to get his ex to move out of his house so we could be together. He came to spend the night with me, she attacked him. They both got arrested. Next day, someone texted me from his phone asking for $ 540 to bail him out, as she was already bailed out. I gave the money to a friend of mine, and she cashapped the money to them. She then proceeded to get $ 1500 stolen from her bank account. I paid my friend the money back. The money was supposedly not used to bail him out. He got out a few days later. Told me he is in love with me and wants to start a family with me. Next day, decides I’m annoying and he wants nothing to do with me, and he doesn’t owe me shit. Heart broken. Work is super awkward now. His gf is evil and they are still together. She made a lot of threats to me the weekend he was “locked up”. I talked to his sister about it, and she said it is not his first time screwing over a good person, he always ruins things with good people, and that yes his gf is absolutely horrible, but has some kind of weird control over him. So yeah that was weird and I was 100000% wrong about who I thought he was.
And above all, I’m kind of surprised he even had the balls to come back to work (twice!!) He was out for like a month and I was still working the whole time from the corona stuff going on. He came back for like 5 days, then left again because his gf “got the virus” and he came back again like 2 or 3 weeks later. He’s been back for almost a month now and I get really mad when I catch him staring at me all longingly and crap
Just venting
If this guy's ex is a Libra just forget about it. I am a Libra who was in love with a Virgo who's ex was a Libra and she had such a hold on this guy it seemed like nothing would break it.
Posted by DonnaLibra
If this guy's ex is a Libra just forget about it. I am a Libra who was in love with a Virgo who's ex was a Libra and she had such a hold on this guy it seemed like nothing would break it.
I just hope he apologizes someday and gives me my money
Posted by librak924
LOL so I really screwed the pooch on this one. Karma sucks I guess. I’m bored day off today. So, this past March we really hit it off. He devised a plan to get his ex to move out of his house so we could be together. He came to spend the night with me, she attacked him. They both got arrested. Next day, someone texted me from his phone asking for $ 540 to bail him out, as she was already bailed out. I gave the money to a friend of mine, and she cashapped the money to them. She then proceeded to get $ 1500 stolen from her bank account. I paid my friend the money back. The money was supposedly not used to bail him out. He got out a few days later. Told me he is in love with me and wants to start a family with me. Next day, decides I’m annoying and he wants nothing to do with me, and he doesn’t owe me shit. Heart broken. Work is super awkward now. His gf is evil and they are still together. She made a lot of threats to me the weekend he was “locked up”. I talked to his sister about it, and she said it is not his first time screwing over a good person, he always ruins things with good people, and that yes his gf is absolutely horrible, but has some kind of weird control over him. So yeah that was weird and I was 100000% wrong about who I thought he was.
Are you the one that got them arrested?
Posted by Jules-llPosted by librak924
LOL so I really screwed the pooch on this one. Karma sucks I guess. I’m bored day off today. So, this past March we really hit it off. He devised a plan to get his ex to move out of his house so we could be together. He came to spend the night with me, she attacked him. They both got arrested. Next day, someone texted me from his phone asking for $ 540 to bail him out, as she was already bailed out. I gave the money to a friend of mine, and she cashapped the money to them. She then proceeded to get $ 1500 stolen from her bank account. I paid my friend the money back. The money was supposedly not used to bail him out. He got out a few days later. Told me he is in love with me and wants to start a family with me. Next day, decides I’m annoying and he wants nothing to do with me, and he doesn’t owe me shit. Heart broken. Work is super awkward now. His gf is evil and they are still together. She made a lot of threats to me the weekend he was “locked up”. I talked to his sister about it, and she said it is not his first time screwing over a good person, he always ruins things with good people, and that yes his gf is absolutely horrible, but has some kind of weird control over him. So yeah that was weird and I was 100000% wrong about who I thought he was.
Are you the one that got them arrested?click to expand
Of course not lol he was texting me as she was attacking him and said cops on their way. I almost don’t even believe anyone was actually arrested
Anyone else out there?
this is so crazy omagahh
Posted by virgoOPPP
this is so crazy omagahh
Writing it out for the first time made my jaw drop like “wait did this really happen?” My bank account says yes
so he just wanted your money all along?
god i hate men like that
god i hate men like that
Posted by virgoOPPP
so he just wanted your money all along?
god i hate men like that
I really have no idea. I still see him as the victim from his gf (if she really is abusive, I imagine he sleeps in the basement or something) but that is probably silly of me. I’m thinking she’d try to get his son taken away or something. I think my “friend” may have had something to do with it too, because she suddenly fell off the planet. But what I know 100% is his gf is bad, bad, bad. I just hope he has some good bone in him that feels bad about what happened. His sister did literal backflips when I told her they were done and me and him were gonna start being a thing. She says he has a good heart, but makes questionable decisions and no one ever really knows what he’s up too. I work with his sis too, we became pretty good friends and I only told her everything after he was arrested and I was worried I only heard from his gf harassing me.
I didn’t even realize I was still affected by it until I heard “Happy Ending” by Avril Lavigne on the radio the other day and started crying like a baby
Hi y’all. So yesterday, he talked to me 😐 . He saw that I was showing a car to a customer, and the sales people aren’t allowed on the test drive anymore because of Corona so I went to smoke a cig while they were on the drive. He was sitting on the bench smoking, and before I had the chance to walk away (as I’ve been doing when I see him on the bench) he asked me if I had sold said car. We got to talking about work and this and that. He asked me for help with something (As he always does) just where a certain key might be to a certain vehicle. He then went to walk back inside and said “I miss being your friend.”
I kinda knew that would happen at some point because of the way he’s been staring at me, not even trying to hide it anymore but it happened sooner than I expected. Is this the hallmark of a psychopath? Like bro you or your gf or whomever stole $ 1500 from me and all you gotta say is “I miss being your friend”?
I’m confused. And happy. And mad that I’m happy. And glad I have today off.
I kinda knew that would happen at some point because of the way he’s been staring at me, not even trying to hide it anymore but it happened sooner than I expected. Is this the hallmark of a psychopath? Like bro you or your gf or whomever stole $ 1500 from me and all you gotta say is “I miss being your friend”?
I’m confused. And happy. And mad that I’m happy. And glad I have today off.
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When virgos start becoming overly critical, is it a good thing or bad thing? My partner and I have been living together for about a year and a half now but I feel like she’s become more critical.
She’s always criticized me in the past about certain things
Hello again people!!
Okay so this one is kinda confusing. Not ugly but confusing. So we have had plenty of ugly fights in June. June was BAD but then we always find our way back to each other and get normal.
Now, he has an extremely important exam on mid
If you've been jokingly flirting and talking to a virgo who seemed to be into you too, and then you make a remark about doing a specific activity together with them that they also wanted to do, and they say "oh yes just gotta get everything lined up first
He has virgo sun/aquarius moon/leo venus/Virgo mars)
We've known each other over a year and were intimate for months before I left his country.
He's been in touch almost daily, which I like and that's why we're going to "reunite" in Sept., like a holida
Who do you think I should date?
Include the imaginary guys sun, moon and Venus and why. I’m curious
My placements: Virgo sun, sag moon, Leo Venus
I’ll be recording and tallying these stats to see which sun sign gets voted the most.
Thx 😚
Hi! Okay so a virgo interest of mine had asked me out on a date, we arranged the date and location, its on Friday. However, due to some stress from work I ended up being a little rude/distant toward him yesterday, though technically it wasnt that bad and
Hi its me. Ive been dealing with a virgo for some time now, as i posted before, we had some communication issues but we seemed to iron that out and things were fine for a while.
I took the advice on here and I tried to be more clear about my feelings so
Are air signs less emotional than us or no?
I’m an honest person. I don’t sugar coat stuff and will say the things their parents should say to them but don’t .
For example :
I had to tell my friend lil sister she wasted tuition on 3 years of community college and still don’t care about school to
Male:
Aquarius sun
Gemini moon
Aquarius mercury
Capricorn venus
Pisces mars
Female:
Virgo sun
Taurus moon
Virgo mercury
Leo venus
Libra mars
I've read conflicting views on virgos doing disappearing acts at starts of relationships etc.
I'd like opinions from virgos or those who know them pleaseee
Some say they have a lot going on and need space, others say its cause they're developing feels??
ive been talking to~ a virgo for a while. seemed like a nice person and all that. but ive noticed lately hes a little condescending and explains~ things to me as if I dont know?? Like...— I am notttt the one to be doing this with (lol). is this a virgo
I know a few virgo moons. They seem to go from being totally enthussiastic to dissapearing for days. I feel like Virgo moons are better in person. More difficult to communicate with via text. They seem to want to make sure they're responding in an almost
ive been dealing with a virgo for some time, he seemed? interested in me, complimenting me etc, and then he got my number and texted me legit the same night
we texted back and forth for a few days and it seemed to be going well, he seemed eager to talk t
Hi. I'm dealing with a virgo interest and I was curious as to the stages of how they develop feelings from someone and what to expect??
My virgo was quite reserved, then friendly, and then it seemed like overnight he changed and began to actually pursue m
what do you make of this person?
Virgo sun 12H (archetypal house of Pisces/Neptune)
Taurus moon 8H (archetypal house of Scorpio/Pluto)
Leo venus 11H (archetypal house of Aquarius/Uranus)
Libra mars 1H (archetypal house of Aries/Mars)
If a virgo likes something physically about you, like for example if they say they love how you look in red....are you supposed to then start wearing red more around them or will they take it the wrong way if you dont?? lol. Do they give compliments or ar
Male:
Scorpio sun
Gemini moon
Scorpio mercury
Scorpio venus
Gemini mars
Female:
Virgo sun
Taurus moon
Virgo mercury
Leo venus
Libra mars
I know a lot of advice has been given to specific users' scenarios on here but can someone enlighten me on general signs a virgo is interested in someone, as opposed to them being just friendly/friends? What to look for?
What does that even mean? So, does that mean we can analyze thoughts but not feelings? I'm not buying. Sell me it
I’m not desperate enough to go with the same available men that might even thirst after you, I own that 😽