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Crush on Virgo coworker, who is not single (Page 2)
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How do you seduce a greasy mechanic at work?
Is he covered in oil?
Is he like Joey Buttafuoco, and your his Amy Fisher?
Hot
As to your first comment, I like kids. As to your second comment, I have a thing for labor workers. They work hard for an honest living, he is not covered in oil, aaaand grow up
I like labor workers too. You’re going to have to stop getting so offended if you want a tradie. They’re usually more harder and direct in personality.
You seem a bit too soft and think everything is an offence.
Chill the fuck up.
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Lol not the first one I’d have, and it’s the internet with a stranger so for all I know you’re a cunt irl, therefore I’m defending myself
I've had two male Virgo interactions in my life. One is my husband and another was a male who worked in another department at work.
He started trying to ask me out just before I was getting back with my husband.
So one day we were in the elevator I told I'm moving and I got back with my husband. So, good-bye.
That motherfucker kissed me on the mouth.
So, all these threads women create with all these machinations of attraction are... idk?... all I know is men come full fucking throttle when they want something, period.
You don't have to wonder or chase or think or call back, set a trap, etc.
When I blogged, it was to make sure, I didn't fuck up, fuck a guy over, reciprocated properly, etc.
I'vr had two male Virgo interactions in my life. One is my husband and another was a male who worked in another department at work.
He started trying to ask me out just before I was getting back with my husband.
So one day we were in the elevator I told I'm moving and I got back with my husband. So, good-bye.
That motherfucker kissed me on the mouth.
So, all these threads women create with all these machinations of attraction are... idk?... all I know is men come full fucking throttle when they want something, period.
You don't have to wonder or chase or think or call back, set a trap, etc.
When I blogged, it was to make sure, I didn't fuck up, fuck a guy over, reciprocated properly, etc.
Noted and thank you, I’ve been learning the whole patience thing
Just keep acting the way you are...he'll ghost soon enough.
Cardinal women life style lol
🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
You're probably a very attractive libra lady, you're probably making him nervous as he may want to stay faithful to his lover
Virgos are nervous around people they find attractive
Thank you and totally cardinal women life style ! Friends are like "oh forget him" I'm like "it's fun having a work crush" lol
But I was thinking that too kind of, like the being standoffish is like "oh shit, she's pretty cool gotta avoid her cause I gotta be a good boy"
I do think I see nervousness, but he was pretty straight up. he shook my hand and introduced myself before he did and was like "what do you do here? I see you everywhere" and just started talking like that. His lover is a Libra as well!
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Then forget it! He's got all the charm and beauty he needs at home waiting for him. He doesn't want to phuck it up!
You cant wreck a home if ur not invited in.
You can sleep with whoever u want. She doesn't owe that woman anything. She doesn't even know her lol
U guys are weird af
You cant wreck a home if ur not invited in.
You can sleep with whoever u want. She doesn't owe that woman anything. She doesn't even know her lol
U guys are weird af
Seriously lol I like to hope some of these comments are trolls. The thread is “what are Virgo men like” not “how can I shag him and get him to dump his girlfriend” and I’m certainly not gonna tell him “you have a girlfriend that you didn’t tell me about let’s stop flirting”
This thread is like from another planet lol. It is a girl, wondering how to steal someone's man and calling anyone with morals or common sense "trolls". This was a surreal thing to read.
Maybe the reason he was "standoffish" that day was his wifey probably blew him that morning so he had a temporary feeling of guilt. Maybe she even cut the crust off his sandwiches too.
Feel guilty for what?
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Apparently for talking to a member of the opposite sex
This thread is like from another planet lol. It is a girl, wondering how to steal someone's man and calling anyone with morals or common sense "trolls". This was a surreal thing to read.
Maybe the reason he was "standoffish" that day was his wifey probably blew him that morning so he had a temporary feeling of guilt. Maybe she even cut the crust off his sandwiches too.
Here we have another idiot cancer who clearly can’t read
This thread is like from another planet lol. It is a girl, wondering how to steal someone's man and calling anyone with morals or common sense "trolls". This was a surreal thing to read.
Maybe the reason he was "standoffish" that day was his wifey probably blew him that morning so he had a temporary feeling of guilt. Maybe she even cut the crust off his sandwiches too.
Here we have another idiot cancer who clearly can’t read
Don't be mean to me, it's my birthday : ( lol
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You started it, but happy birthday! 🙂
And just for update, no more nervousness just flirty, flirty when we do see each other
You cant wreck a home if ur not invited in.
You can sleep with whoever u want. She doesn't owe that woman anything. She doesn't even know her lol
U guys are weird af
Ever been married or ever plan on getting married?
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To me it doesn't matter, title or no title, I can only be responsible for my own actions, and put trust in someone else's actions. I cant have high expectations of strangers
You cant wreck a home if ur not invited in.
You can sleep with whoever u want. She doesn't owe that woman anything. She doesn't even know her lol
U guys are weird af
Ever been married or ever plan on getting married?
To me it doesn't matter, title or no title, I can only be responsible for my own actions, and put trust in someone else's actions. I cant have high expectations of strangers
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Exactly
So update. Still flirty. Told me he has kids. Took my number to go fishing sometime. No more hold backs. Opening up more. Patiently waiting to see if anything will happen. Glad we haven’t hung out cuz yea gf. We’ll see
I've never known a libra to be a home wrecker. In my sarcastic voice. Do your thing home skillet, he's a virgo anyways.
His gf is too lmao. But he’s highly amused my bday is 12 days after his. Asked what I did for my bday, I told him, and he said “that’s what I’d like to do too”
What you mean he’s a Virgo anyways? I don’t know much about them
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
I've never known a libra to be a home wrecker. In my sarcastic voice. Do your thing home skillet, he's a virgo anyways.
His gf is too lmao. But he’s highly amused my bday is 12 days after his. Asked what I did for my bday, I told him, and he said “that’s what I’d like to do too”
What you mean he’s a Virgo anyways? I don’t know much about them
he probably won't mind cheating with you. I'm sure he senses your thirst. If his gf his a virgo they'll get on each other's nerves soon enough.
What are your placements? Rising, moon etc
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His gf is also libra
For me rising Sag
Moon Aries
Mercury Virgo
Venus Leo
Mars Libra
For him rising Scorpio
Moon Pisces
Mercury Virgo
Venus Libra
Mars cancer
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
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If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Don’t do it
Oh, I'm just reading his gf is Libra, not Virgo
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
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Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
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Did you just stalk the girlfriend
Oh my god
You’re sick
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
Did you just stalk the girlfriend
Oh my god
You’re sick
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Get a grip, it’s just on social media. Picture of girl with kid that looks exactly like her
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
Did you just stalk the girlfriend
Oh my god
You’re sick
Get a grip, it’s just on social media. Picture of girl with kid that looks exactly like her
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Even in astrology, things will never work out good between you two 🤷🏻♀️
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
Did you just stalk the girlfriend
Oh my god
You’re sick
Get a grip, it’s just on social media. Picture of girl with kid that looks exactly like her
Even in astrology, things will never work out good between you two 🤷🏻♀️
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May I ask why?
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
Well, it's good that you're having fun at work. Selfish ass.
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He started it 🤷🏼♀️
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
Did you just stalk the girlfriend
Oh my god
You’re sick
Get a grip, it’s just on social media. Picture of girl with kid that looks exactly like her
Even in astrology, things will never work out good between you two 🤷🏻♀️
May I ask why?
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The sex will be awful, your sun mars /venus square his mars
His moon square your rising
ect
Sounds hot.
Married Pisces coworker would mention kids, but not wife.
Was I meant to catch something there with him then?
Huh lol
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
Did you just stalk the girlfriend
Oh my god
You’re sick
Get a grip, it’s just on social media. Picture of girl with kid that looks exactly like her
Even in astrology, things will never work out good between you two 🤷🏻♀️
May I ask why?
The sex will be awful, your sun mars /venus square his mars
His moon square your rising
ect
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Never understood that stuff. Other things I’ve read said all would be good
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
Did you just stalk the girlfriend
Oh my god
You’re sick
Get a grip, it’s just on social media. Picture of girl with kid that looks exactly like her
Even in astrology, things will never work out good between you two 🤷🏻♀️
May I ask why?
The sex will be awful, your sun mars /venus square his mars
His moon square your rising
ect
Never understood that stuff. Other things I’ve read said all would be good
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With his cancer mars
Okai
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
Did you just stalk the girlfriend
Oh my god
You’re sick
Get a grip, it’s just on social media. Picture of girl with kid that looks exactly like her
Even in astrology, things will never work out good between you two 🤷🏻♀️
May I ask why?
The sex will be awful, your sun mars /venus square his mars
His moon square your rising
ect
Never understood that stuff. Other things I’ve read said all would be good
With his cancer mars
Okai
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From what I’ve read my Venus Leo would be good with mars cancer. And his Venus libra obvi good good with my mars libra.
Okai
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
Did you just stalk the girlfriend
Oh my god
You’re sick
Get a grip, it’s just on social media. Picture of girl with kid that looks exactly like her
Even in astrology, things will never work out good between you two 🤷🏻♀️
May I ask why?
The sex will be awful, your sun mars /venus square his mars
His moon square your rising
ect
Never understood that stuff. Other things I’ve read said all would be good
With his cancer mars
Okai
From what I’ve read my Venus Leo would be good with mars cancer. And his Venus libra obvi good good with my mars libra.
Okai
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I’m good astrologer actually
I’m waiting to see 😆
I'm a Virgo guy with a Libra. You're the evil Libra kind though
Possibly. Would you consider it odd he’s never once mentioned her? Mentioned kids though
If what you're telling us about him is true, he most likely likes you so it's not odd, at all.
Not to try and give you hope or anything, but reading your story actually made me realize I did "leave" a Virgo girl for my current Libra. It was after my second date with the Virgo that I met Libra though. I immediately left Virgo and went for Libra (still going strong after 3 years)
Yea I’m trying my best not to have hope. His gf now is also a libra, one year together. She has kids too (yes yes I’m a creep) but no matter what happens, makes work fun. Luckily we don’t work in same department
Did you just stalk the girlfriend
Oh my god
You’re sick
Get a grip, it’s just on social media. Picture of girl with kid that looks exactly like her
Even in astrology, things will never work out good between you two 🤷🏻♀️
May I ask why?
The sex will be awful, your sun mars /venus square his mars
His moon square your rising
ect
Never understood that stuff. Other things I’ve read said all would be good
With his cancer mars
Okai
From what I’ve read my Venus Leo would be good with mars cancer. And his Venus libra obvi good good with my mars libra.
Okai
I’m good astrologer actually
I’m waiting to see 😆
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Will keep you posted. The things we have in common are insane
Do you go out? Are you able to attract other men
Nope. I work a minimum of 50 hours a week and days off are never guaranteed. When I do go out it’s usually with co workers. He almost joined us one time but I honestly feel like he backed out last minute because I backed out last minute. I do have other options, but I don’t wanna give them the time of day. Boring life I live lol but someone’s gotta pay the bills
Do you go out? Are you able to attract other men
Nope. I work a minimum of 50 hours a week and days off are never guaranteed. When I do go out it’s usually with co workers. He almost joined us one time but I honestly feel like he backed out last minute because I backed out last minute. I do have other options, but I don’t wanna give them the time of day. Boring life I live lol but someone’s gotta pay the bills
gotcha. I know you guys live on those lot's. That's why you make the big bucks. There's plenty of fish out there. You don't want that karma.
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Something will come along if nothing from this. Honestly though I’m good. Like I’d never try to get in the way of anything, but I check her fb sometimes to see if single 😬 just gonna keep being friendly and see what happens. I wouldn’t turn down a date from someone who I see potential being with. And I certainly wouldn’t want him to leave her for me, just leave if unhappy. But I don’t see how happy if pretty much (from my knowledge) no one knows he has a gf. The other night, we all went to a painting and drinking thing (I couldn’t make it, he didn’t) but like would he have brought her if he went? Who knows. I know my ex used to speak to the girls at work like “what should I get my gf for her bday” or “what’s a fun date night.” I just find it so bizarre he never mentions her
Also, I did ask him to go fishing one time (weeks after he asked first) and he said “YES” before I even spit it all out. We were interrupted. Then few days later I asked “still wanna go fishing sometime?” “Yes but super busy. I have 2 kids and taking all the OT I can but def sometime” and I have him my number. We will seeee
Go right ahead. The Virgo already has a history since he's on number 2 or 3. There's a reason why you're attracted to him... people attract what they are.
Huh
Go right ahead. The Virgo already has a history since he's on number 2 or 3. There's a reason why you're attracted to him... people attract what they are.
Huh
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Huh what? You’ve been called a slut. Capish?
Go right ahead. The Virgo already has a history since he's on number 2 or 3. There's a reason why you're attracted to him... people attract what they are.
Huh
Huh what? You’ve been called a slut. Capish?
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Just as stupid of a comment as I figured🤷🏼♀️
Go right ahead. The Virgo already has a history since he's on number 2 or 3. There's a reason why you're attracted to him... people attract what they are.
Huh
Huh what? You’ve been called a slut. Capish?
Just as stupid of a comment as I figured🤷🏼♀️
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Ask stupid question - get stupid answer. Surprise!
Go right ahead. The Virgo already has a history since he's on number 2 or 3. There's a reason why you're attracted to him... people attract what they are.
Huh
Huh what? You’ve been called a slut. Capish?
Just as stupid of a comment as I figured🤷🏼♀️
Ask stupid question - get stupid answer. Surprise!
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Go brush your teeth, must be almost ur bed time
Hey Libra, just putting this here, take from it what you want.
Was good friends with a Libra woman. She and I went out, met two guys. She started having an affair with one of them who was married with two kids. Wife had breast cancer, he didn't hide this info from her. Wife dies from breast cancer about a year later. Fast forward to about 6 years ago, my ex-friend (yeah, she disgusted me and I stopped speaking to her) got breast cancer. Be careful what you wish for and never underestimate karma is all I'm saying. And don't think for a minute that if a man is takeable, that he isn't takeable from you.
By the way, I'm a Virgo and I'm friendly to my coworkers too. Both male and female. But we usually are very business oriented and don't fuck where we work.
Hey Libra, just putting this here, take from it what you want.
Was good friends with a Libra woman. She and I went out, met two guys. She started having an affair with one of them who was married with two kids. Wife had breast cancer, he didn't hide this info from her. Wife dies from breast cancer about a year later. Fast forward to about 6 years ago, my ex-friend (yeah, she disgusted me and I stopped speaking to her) got breast cancer. Be careful what you wish for and never underestimate karma is all I'm saying. And don't think for a minute that if a man is takeable, that he isn't takeable from you.
By the way, I'm a Virgo and I'm friendly to my coworkers too. Both male and female. But we usually are very business oriented and don't fuck where we work.
Thanks for the story. Not trying to take him. Not even look to fuck, just get to know him. We’ll see where things go
Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.
Your own words, don't play stupid.
Anyway, he's super cute, and I would mind bouncing around on him.
Your own words, don't play stupid.
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Ah good point 😂 I wouldn’t mind but that’s not the first goal. That was a little bit ago and now I’d like to get to know him first and foremost
Thank you for reminding me of why my circle of friends has no Libras. Not a single one.
Thank you for reminding me of why my circle of friends has no Libras. Not a single one.
Nothing we’re losing out on 🤷🏼♀️
Thank you for reminding me of why my circle of friends has no Libras. Not a single one.
Nothing we’re losing out on 🤷🏼♀️
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At least we agree on this. Good luck to the Virgo's girlfriend.
ughhhh i hate this thread 😖😖😖
aries placements make people evil 😖😖😖😖
You sure it's not Cardinal signs @dilettante? I've seen this trait in all of them.
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nobody is talking about the virgo man here. if he is flirting, that will be the 3rd (maybe 4th) woman since his baby mother