Do Virgo men marry for love or are they users (Page 2)

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by canerleo101

Posted by Juicysbaby214
Of course he wldnt hes not a real man.

The olny reason why stayed interested in him this long is because i don't believe in sex before marriage and he had no problem with that but now it seems like he just purposely tried to get me to get close to him just to get me so attached that i would be stuck on him, are all Virgo me such opportunist and users.

The answer to that question is yes. If you don't jump to their needs at their convenience, they will drop you like hot cakes, because well they're not a priority, yet they don't make you a priority.

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CC hit the nail on the head as usual. That sounds JUST like a Virgo... Shxt to be honest... it sounds like all 3 earth signs LMFAO

Posted by TachiMichi
*sigh* they are the same all over the world.

No, but thanks for the laugh nevertheless.

Canerleo101,

Girl, you are better than that. NO woman deserves that treatment. Like others have said: move on! Plain and simple I would have cancelled him instantly. I can handle a Virgo's tactless comments, rude and sarcastic ways.. primarily because I can spit it right back with no problem... but I would never ACCEPT it. After I'm done saying what I have to say, I would cut all ties.

I hope you find someone much better ! I've seen your responses in this thread and you've handled it well. Some people tell the truth and mean well, but then you have those who just want to be down right nasty for no reason. Continue to ignore internet thugs, and pay attention to those who you feel are genuine with their words. You're in NY, huh? I have a place in Greenwich. Live it up ! There's plenty of meat in NY. LOL

Enjoy and be safe =)

Bee

Posted by virg_goki

Posted by PrettyQueenBee
I just feel like a man should MATCH what you have or SURPASS it. So if you make $ 100K a year after taxes, he should at least make the same or more!! That sounds fair to me. But he definitely shouldn't make less than you. There's no use in settling. Love isn't that important to me to the point where I'm willing to settle. lol puhlease

There's definitely nothing wrong with taking care of yourself as a woman though. You always wanna make sure you have your own and know how to take care of yourself, just in case a man cuts you off from his finances and other sources of support.

BUT... I'm definitely not the "miss independent" type. Men WANT to provide for their woman. I've had so many conversations with men who've admitted that overly independent women are a turn OFF. Key word.. OVERLY. The only men that appears to like those overly independent women are the cheap or broke guys.

you're nothing more than a self-entitled spoilt little girl who expects every man to by your stepping rug. Even the caps I see on this forum have more substance than you, and this is coming from a bias person that dislike caps.

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blah .......... blah ......... blah. Typical of a Virgo to ignore my points and shoot straight to the parts that pisses them off. Forget that I mentioned the importance of having your own as a woman (which I have). I won't even bring up my hard work and degrees to this battle, because it'll get ignored. If I wanted a man to be my "stepping rug" I never would have taken my ass to college TWICE, and I sure as hell wouldn't be working full time AND studying for the CPA exam. Nevertheless, I'll take ALL of what you said as a compliment. haha thanks love bug

Posted by TachiMichi

Posted by PrettyQueenBee

Posted by virg_goki

Posted by PrettyQueenBee
I just feel like a man should MATCH what you have or SURPASS it. So if you make $ 100K a year after taxes, he should at least make the same or more!! That sounds fair to me. But he definitely shouldn't make less than you. There's no use in settling. Love isn't that important to me to the point where I'm willing to settle. lol puhlease

There's definitely nothing wrong with taking care of yourself as a woman though. You always wanna make sure you have your own and know how to take care of yourself, just in case a man cuts you off from his finances and other sources of support.

BUT... I'm definitely not the "miss independent" type. Men WANT to provide for their woman. I've had so many conversations with men who've admitted that overly independent women are a turn OFF. Key word.. OVERLY. The only men that appears to like those overly independent women are the cheap or broke guys.

you're nothing more than a self-entitled spoilt little girl who expects every man to by your stepping rug. Even the caps I see on this forum have more substance than you, and this is coming from a bias person that dislike caps.

blah .......... blah ......... blah. Typical of a Virgo to ignore my points and shoot straight to the parts that pisses them off. Forget that I mentioned the importance of having your own as a woman (which I have). I won't even bring up my hard work and degrees to this battle, because it'll get ignored. If I wanted a man to be my "stepping rug" I never would have taken my ass to college TWICE, and I sure as hell wouldn't be working full time AND studying for the CPA exam. Nevertheless, I'll take ALL of what you said as a compliment. haha thanks love bug

you're in accounting as well? sugoi!! ^_^

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Yes ma'am, I am ^__^ - Can't wait to get started on the CPA exam.

Thank you, Tachi ! I really appreciate it !

My Venus is more dominant than my cardinal Aries Sun; but, they compliment each other... sextile. I love to serve and care for people. I had to learn that about myself. I feel a little awkward when it's the other way around. Can't blame no one for that. Doesn't matter what the other person says or does. He just has to be worthy. Doesn't mean that I'm going to commit to you or that I'm in love with you. I'll have 'em singing "This Woman's Work" by Maxwell.

I just happened to find someone deserving... and he's a Virgo.

Mine is a big, strong, confident, fearless, heart and it's never been broken.

"He got that thickness, the kind that make you get up makin' biscuits with breakfast, so gone..."

"So Gone," Jill Scott

He gives me breakfast in bed. That's his thing... and detailing me car... and cooking at least once a week. We both love doing laundry but, he's not good at it; so, he gets mad 'cause I won't allow him to do the laundry.

He detailed my car so much, I hurt his feelings when I told our son to tell him he needs to ask permission first... LOL! I didn't even think about the tone and the way I delivered that message. #ariesoutofcontrol

I'm afraid I don't really want to think about give or take really. I think the term "give or take" lends itself to the material world and there is so much more to life and relationships...

However, I want to be the angel...
...and didn't I set your world right side up before I left you?

I've been told that it is hurtful to care and not be in love; that it is perverse; that it's sending mixed messages; that I need to learn boundaries; that it's cold to love that way; inhuman.

That's just me.

CC,

As an Aries you can trust that I understand power.

Please believe me when I say that there ain't nothing powerful about taking. The real true power is in giving.

Think about it. Who's vulnerable? As the giver, you are only vulnerable if you have an m.o.

I wouldn't want to tie that to giving necessarily. You're a christian right? So?

For me personally, based on that psychological theory, what does a taker give you to miss? Wouldn't the giver be missed if anyone? I'm not a person that attaches easily to where something I give feels like a piece of me is gone. I have so much to give, I need to give you some. "Come share this with me," "here have some," "do you like that," do you feel better," sorta thing.

But, for a woman, it's best that he love you more than you love him.

When I met my husband, I expected him to be a one night stand and was thankful for ever having touched him. I enjoy the experience of loving another person. I enjoy loving. When it doesn't feel good, I don't want to do it anymore. Plan and simple... like a baby. But, I try really hard when I've been asked to make a commitment.

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