VirgoVixxxen
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Lol--stop tryna make sense, Vvxxx. They'll never get it--didn't you hear? They're on some evolved level where they see the brilliance of bullies, and their schizophrenic ways shock and awe them to tears of pure joy. It's so beautiful! Get with it, Vvxxx! Jeez! Lmfao.
At the end of the day, people thought Hitler and Charles Manson were absolutely brilliant. Never mind the minds and lives they destroyed. Absolutely disgusting.
But let them think they're reaching nirvana in here, and transcending heights the rest of us could never fathom.
This thread is so full of itself its head is stuck up its own ass.
At the end of the day, people thought Hitler and Charles Manson were absolutely brilliant. Never mind the minds and lives they destroyed. Absolutely disgusting.
But let them think they're reaching nirvana in here, and transcending heights the rest of us could never fathom.
This thread is so full of itself its head is stuck up its own ass.
And anyone who thinks doing favors for friends and family won't get you taken advantage of even WORSE needs more help than any little pill could ever give them. Friends and family are the WORST offenders.
Bottomline is I'd rather go pick a woman up out of the cold than to be in a sexless marriage. The delusional wife not asking HERself why her hubby is fine with not touching her, and proudly boasting about not enjoying the greatest gift of a blessed union is the true sucker.
But that's just me and my reality-driven mind. Don't let me stop your fish fantasies of having a normal marriage.
Bottomline is I'd rather go pick a woman up out of the cold than to be in a sexless marriage. The delusional wife not asking HERself why her hubby is fine with not touching her, and proudly boasting about not enjoying the greatest gift of a blessed union is the true sucker.
But that's just me and my reality-driven mind. Don't let me stop your fish fantasies of having a normal marriage.
And DON'T come at me with any "oh she's got you riled up too" BS, because she DOESN'T.
What I'm DISGUSTED about is the fact that she continues to get a PASS for being the biggest asshole on DXP and the moment someone puts that bitchnitch in her place, they get told to sit down?
Folks are 'intent on hate' and all kinds of strong and overly ridiculous statements?
I see SHE'S not the only one up in "la la land". LMAO!
What I'm DISGUSTED about is the fact that she continues to get a PASS for being the biggest asshole on DXP and the moment someone puts that bitchnitch in her place, they get told to sit down?
Folks are 'intent on hate' and all kinds of strong and overly ridiculous statements?
I see SHE'S not the only one up in "la la land". LMAO!
The fact that they have to break things down for her to digest is sickening.
I doubt she even knows how to wipe herself properly after using the bathroom, unless someone explains WHY it needs to be done, speaks existentially about the benefits of removing fecal matter from private areas, and assures her that it doesn't mean she's become a sheep and is still a free-wheeling individual.
Like a child, that one. A helmet-wearing, short bus riding child. And they encourage it.
52-years-old.
Sweet Jesus this world is ending soon.
I doubt she even knows how to wipe herself properly after using the bathroom, unless someone explains WHY it needs to be done, speaks existentially about the benefits of removing fecal matter from private areas, and assures her that it doesn't mean she's become a sheep and is still a free-wheeling individual.
Like a child, that one. A helmet-wearing, short bus riding child. And they encourage it.
52-years-old.
Sweet Jesus this world is ending soon.
If folks can't handle HER getting 'beat up on' (WTF—?), THEN GOING FORWARD, I suggest you close your eyes and turn your heads and stop imposing DOUBLE STANDARDS.
SHE'S already proven time and again that she can DISH IT, BUT CAN'T TAKE IT (flagging countless threads of her own when people go in and give it to her straight and put her stupid ass theories to shame) - so PRAY TELL, who's weak— COME AGAIN— LMMMMMMFAO!
SHE'S already proven time and again that she can DISH IT, BUT CAN'T TAKE IT (flagging countless threads of her own when people go in and give it to her straight and put her stupid ass theories to shame) - so PRAY TELL, who's weak— COME AGAIN— LMMMMMMFAO!
Posted by CancerMoonPosted by VirgoVixxxen
And DON'T come at me with any "oh she's got you riled up too" BS, because she DOESN'T.
What I'm DISGUSTED about is the fact that she continues to get a PASS for being the biggest asshole on DXP and the moment someone puts that bitchnitch in her place, they get told to sit down?
Folks are 'intent on hate' and all kinds of strong and overly ridiculous statements?
I see SHE'S not the only one up in "la la land". LMAO!
Well, that's the way it is everywhere. The moment you raise your voice to respond to someone you turn yourself from victim into offender. And added to this is the fact that for most people it is absolutely okay to be rude and insulting towards Virgos. That's what we're here for.click to expand
Ah, so I'm not the only one who notices.
People really expect too much from us. We're to remain quiet as others bash us, but the second we speak up, WE'RE either the bullies, or are giving others "power over us".
Here's some Confucius for your asses--that same sick smirk your ratfaced idol wears as she types to me is the same smirk I wear when I type to her. Just like you feel I perceive her words as bullets that threaten to end my life, I feel you perceive my keystrokes as crying with snot runnning down my trembling lips as I respond to her. Fail.
Let me break it down even further - once the computer shuts off, we don't give a sh1t about the other. Don't kid yourselves that we do.
Wrap your minds around that, if you can.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
If folks can't handle HER getting 'beat up on' (WTF—?), THEN GOING FORWARD, I suggest you close your eyes and turn your heads and stop imposing DOUBLE STANDARDS.
SHE'S already proven time and again that she can DISH IT, BUT CAN'T TAKE IT (flagging countless threads of her own when people go in and give it to her straight and put her stupid ass theories to shame) - so PRAY TELL, who's weak— COME AGAIN— LMMMMMMFAO!
They only see what's done towards her.
They refuse to acknowledge what she did to instigate it.
Like I said, they think they're helping her, and all they're doing is feeding into her sickness.
Let them believe they're helping, if it helps them sleep better at night. *shrugs*
Good luck with that
Posted by CancerMoonPosted by VirgoVixxxen
And DON'T come at me with any "oh she's got you riled up too" BS, because she DOESN'T.
What I'm DISGUSTED about is the fact that she continues to get a PASS for being the biggest asshole on DXP and the moment someone puts that bitchnitch in her place, they get told to sit down?
Folks are 'intent on hate' and all kinds of strong and overly ridiculous statements?
I see SHE'S not the only one up in "la la land". LMAO!
Well, that's the way it is everywhere. The moment you raise your voice to respond to someone you turn yourself from victim into offender. And added to this is the fact that for most people it is absolutely okay to be rude and insulting towards Virgos. That's what we're here for.click to expand
Bingo!
CLC is FAAAAAAAAAAR from a hateful person who will never get it. Hell did that come from? *SMMFH*
She started a thread about Virgos being taken advantage of and then KABOOM! - 'SPLINTER' SHOWS UP WITH WORDS OF WISDOM. LMFAO!
So she can dig us, but when we dig her back, we're the aggressive weak ones?
The funniest part of it all was that I never asked for anything back from her. Nowhere in my thread did I say I needed/wanted thanks, and in FACT, I said I did it because I'd want the same done for me if I were in such a dire situation. There was no way of me knowing she'd just expect it from me after that -- you live, you learn, and I learned. But the reason for this thread was FALSELY linked to my own.
Like I said, the rat sees what she wants to see. Even those in here trying to explain what she means are telling her she has it wrong.
Crazy, I tell you.
Like I said, the rat sees what she wants to see. Even those in here trying to explain what she means are telling her she has it wrong.
Crazy, I tell you.
Posted by CancerMoonPosted by P-AngelPosted by CancerMoon
In my experience this is a Pisces trait. I've got around 50 + Pisces in my family and whenever they do something good they expect you to applaud them.
wow, 50 Pisces?
What are the odds that your people are Pisces at 100 percent ratio .... there are 12 signs, law of average would dictate that a Pisces hits 1/12 .... that would mean you are talking about 600 family members.
With all that fucking, it's amazing you even have time to eat and shit, much less post on a forum.
And there are people still thinking that hair-splitting is a Virgo trait. Didn't know taht 50 people equal 600 people. Thanks for clearing that up for me.click to expand
lol, now that was funny
A person that has their panties wedged so far up their ass that it would cause them to do that
Posted by CLCNY30
The funniest part of it all was that I never asked for anything back from her. Nowhere in my thread did I say I needed/wanted thanks, and in FACT, I said I did it because I'd want the same done for me if I were in such a dire situation. There was no way of me knowing she'd just expect it from me after that -- you live, you learn, and I learned. But the reason for this thread was FALSELY linked to my own.
Like I said, the rat sees what she wants to see. Even those in here trying to explain what she means are telling her she has it wrong.
Crazy, I tell you.
Stop explaining yourself this instant.
If they want to jump on the 'splinter bandwagon', then let them go on ahead.
She used this thread to project her own anger over her problems at home. It's pretty obvious.
She probably bends over backwards for her Virgo man who doesn't even acknowledge her presence until he needs a court jester, meanwhile he does some little pathetic gesture for her, and expects to be crowned King Wonderful, and it's somehow me and my thread's fault.
Projection. It's just another part of her sickness.
She probably bends over backwards for her Virgo man who doesn't even acknowledge her presence until he needs a court jester, meanwhile he does some little pathetic gesture for her, and expects to be crowned King Wonderful, and it's somehow me and my thread's fault.
Projection. It's just another part of her sickness.
Posted by CancerMoonPosted by P-AngelPosted by CancerMoonPosted by P-AngelPosted by CancerMoon
In my experience this is a Pisces trait. I've got around 50 + Pisces in my family and whenever they do something good they expect you to applaud them.
wow, 50 Pisces?
What are the odds that your people are Pisces at 100 percent ratio .... there are 12 signs, law of average would dictate that a Pisces hits 1/12 .... that would mean you are talking about 600 family members.
With all that fucking, it's amazing you even have time to eat and shit, much less post on a forum.
And there are people still thinking that hair-splitting is a Virgo trait. Didn't know taht 50 people equal 600 people. Thanks for clearing that up for me.
lol, now that was funny
A person that has their panties wedged so far up their ass that it would cause them to do that
http://media.photobucket.com/image/peanut butter jelly time/kiddphan1/peanut.gif?o=8" target="_blank">click to expand
LOL. You are too cute!
Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by CLCNY30
The funniest part of it all was that I never asked for anything back from her. Nowhere in my thread did I say I needed/wanted thanks, and in FACT, I said I did it because I'd want the same done for me if I were in such a dire situation. There was no way of me knowing she'd just expect it from me after that -- you live, you learn, and I learned. But the reason for this thread was FALSELY linked to my own.
Like I said, the rat sees what she wants to see. Even those in here trying to explain what she means are telling her she has it wrong.
Crazy, I tell you.
Stop explaining yourself this instant.
If they want to jump on the 'splinter bandwagon', then let them go on ahead.click to expand
I explained myself for others, not her. She'll never get it.
It's why our sign upsets her so much. We don't kowtow, we don't praise false idols, and we don't appreciate people trying to control us. She needs those 3 things in order to feel close to someone. It's why she has problems with her husband. It's why she's here.
She truly wants to understand, but doesn't wan't to HEAR the truth. That's true weakness, to be honest. Living in a sad situation, for the sake of being close-minded.
You'll never understand us, P-nis. No matter how hard you try. We're just so simple to get, yet elusive as hell to you because you can't get past your own ego.
Just give it up, and stick to your own sign.
Posted by CancerMoonPosted by P-AngelPosted by CancerMoonPosted by P-AngelPosted by CancerMoon
In my experience this is a Pisces trait. I've got around 50 + Pisces in my family and whenever they do something good they expect you to applaud them.
wow, 50 Pisces?
What are the odds that your people are Pisces at 100 percent ratio .... there are 12 signs, law of average would dictate that a Pisces hits 1/12 .... that would mean you are talking about 600 family members.
With all that fucking, it's amazing you even have time to eat and shit, much less post on a forum.
And there are people still thinking that hair-splitting is a Virgo trait. Didn't know taht 50 people equal 600 people. Thanks for clearing that up for me.
lol, now that was funny
A person that has their panties wedged so far up their ass that it would cause them to do that
http://media.photobucket.com/image/peanut butter jelly time/kiddphan1/peanut.gif?o=8" target="_blank">click to expand
Posted by CLCNY30Posted by CancerMoonPosted by P-AngelPosted by CancerMoonPosted by P-AngelPosted by CancerMoon
In my experience this is a Pisces trait. I've got around 50 + Pisces in my family and whenever they do something good they expect you to applaud them.
wow, 50 Pisces?
What are the odds that your people are Pisces at 100 percent ratio .... there are 12 signs, law of average would dictate that a Pisces hits 1/12 .... that would mean you are talking about 600 family members.
With all that fucking, it's amazing you even have time to eat and shit, much less post on a forum.
And there are people still thinking that hair-splitting is a Virgo trait. Didn't know taht 50 people equal 600 people. Thanks for clearing that up for me.
lol, now that was funny
A person that has their panties wedged so far up their ass that it would cause them to do that
http://media.photobucket.com/image/peanut butter jelly time/kiddphan1/peanut.gif?o=8" target="_blank">
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LOL!
Posted by Scorporella
... the situation with CLCNY was one in which she did something to help an acquaintance, and that acquaintance continued to want that assistance, and did take advantage of CLCNY's original good intent.
I completely disagree in that you associate her continued asking as being relative to the original intent.
Her continuing in asking has nothing to do with the original intent .... the original intent was for Clown to satisfy her own feelings as she has stated that she would feel bad for leaving the girl out at night .. when in reality, Clown wasn't leaving her out at all .. the girl herself created her own situation.
The first time this happened to Clown shame on the girl .. every time after that was shame on the Clown for being a sucker.
I'm still trying to figure out what the point was in the physical descriptions of the people, what their hair looked like, how they dressed. Was this to lay some grounding for people to also form a prejudice in their head against them?
For example: If you were reporting a crime, and the officer asked if he was black, would there be an automatic perception for association?
What difference did it matter within this situation about their personal care and style ?
Martyrdom ...... complete and total
Woe is you ... look at how badly you were treated within a situation, while giving yourself praise for this enduring this bad treatment .. eventhough you had total control of your own actions within this situation.
Woe is you ... look at how badly you were treated within a situation, while giving yourself praise for this enduring this bad treatment .. eventhough you had total control of your own actions within this situation.
Lmfao.
There is just no hope for you. Good luck with that.
There is just no hope for you. Good luck with that.
Yes, and let this be a LESSON to those of us who haven't "gotten it yet".
When SHE comes into your thread to 'play with you', simply tell her to "get lost" and YOU keep it mov'n.
This way you won't have to stoop so low as to giving her a dose of her own medicine, and risk being called 'aggressive' and 'weak' all at once - S&S (serious & sarcastic)
And they say Virgos are boring - fuck if we do, fuck if we don't.
When SHE comes into your thread to 'play with you', simply tell her to "get lost" and YOU keep it mov'n.
This way you won't have to stoop so low as to giving her a dose of her own medicine, and risk being called 'aggressive' and 'weak' all at once - S&S (serious & sarcastic)
And they say Virgos are boring - fuck if we do, fuck if we don't.
Posted by Scorporella
P-Angel, people don't truly want to look at themselves. It requires inner contemplation, and most people would rather focus on outer things. For myself, I've always wanted to understand why I react to certain things, why I act in certain ways, why certain people create within me a certain reaction or feeling. I'm not content with just saying "it's you, you cause this," I'd rather look and see why you cause this within me, and generally I find that it's not related to that person so much as it is related to an insecurity or fear that I have which they triggered. People don't like looking at their own fears or insecurities, because they believe those fears and insecurities make them weak or cause them to appear weak. So they kind of charge ahead through life, knocking aside anything or anyone in their way, pretending at being strong, because they are so afraid of being weak.
I know ... I comment on this very thing and promote self-accountibility with every thing I post. If you see that as being an instigator, then sobeit .... because I am trying to instigate a situation in which people see themselves and how they are accountible.
Posted by Scorporella
Regarding the physical appearance, I gathered from reading it that her intent in giving the description was merely to help people understand why she felt so sorry for the girl to begin with and wanted to help her out the first time.
I didn't get that ^^^^ at all. Below is what she said, that there doesn't appear to be any pity in place, rather a description of how a person looks and carries themself. After this, she facepalms .. which doesn't indicate feeling sorry for a person.
"my first impression of her was her stumbling into class like half-an-hour late, with a long coat that reached down to her feet. She took the coat off, placed it on the back of her chair, and that's when I noticed her hair--it was frizzy, unkempt, and had streaks of pink and purple or something like that all throughout. I shrugged, went back to listening to the professor, and forgot about her, until she attempted to take a seat. She missed the chair completely, fell on her ass on the floor, and giggled for a minute straight as a guy next to her tried to help her up."
Posted by CLCNY30
She used this thread to project her own anger over her problems at home. It's pretty obvious.
She probably bends over backwards for her Virgo man who doesn't even acknowledge her presence until he needs a court jester, meanwhile he does some little pathetic gesture for her, and expects to be crowned King Wonderful, and it's somehow me and my thread's fault.
Projection. It's just another part of her sickness.
If I didn't know any better I'd think that I wrote this. ^^^ I have said this many times, at least I know that I'm not alone. I mean, we can't all be wrong, can we?
Projection is an epidemic on dxp, and I believe that she's ground zero. *smh*
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by Scorporella
Regarding the physical appearance, I gathered from reading it that her intent in giving the description was merely to help people understand why she felt so sorry for the girl to begin with and wanted to help her out the first time.
I didn't get that ^^^^ at all. Below is what she said, that there doesn't appear to be any pity in place, rather a description of how a person looks and carries themself. After this, she facepalms .. which doesn't indicate feeling sorry for a person.
"my first impression of her was her stumbling into class like half-an-hour late, with a long coat that reached down to her feet. She took the coat off, placed it on the back of her chair, and that's when I noticed her hair--it was frizzy, unkempt, and had streaks of pink and purple or something like that all throughout. I shrugged, went back to listening to the professor, and forgot about her, until she attempted to take a seat. She missed the chair completely, fell on her ass on the floor, and giggled for a minute straight as a guy next to her tried to help her up."
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Oh wow, weird! You mean like how your first impression of OP3 was to be your usual b1tchy self, all because you lumped him together with his sign, but NOW--after time has passed, you saw him differently—
LOL. I can't believe you don't see how you project. It's downright scary!
Lmfao @ my first impression of her 6 months ago and my fear for a woman late alone at night in the cold and dark not seeming like 2 different things in your mind.
I wish you sex.
Soon.
Might give you back those lost marbles.
Posted by GeminiMindPosted by CLCNY30
She used this thread to project her own anger over her problems at home. It's pretty obvious.
She probably bends over backwards for her Virgo man who doesn't even acknowledge her presence until he needs a court jester, meanwhile he does some little pathetic gesture for her, and expects to be crowned King Wonderful, and it's somehow me and my thread's fault.
Projection. It's just another part of her sickness.
If I didn't know any better I'd think that I wrote this. ^^^ I have said this many times, at least I know that I'm not alone. I mean, we can't all be wrong, can we?
Projection is an epidemic on dxp, and I believe that she's ground zero. *smh*click to expand
Trust me, the majority of us see it. Only those trying to make a saint out of Satan don't.
Posted by CLCNY30
We never hung out, never had a serious conversation, nothing like that.
A person has to realize who is in your life .... a person cannot aid a stranger in this manner and expect a return.
It's like handing a street-person money or food ... you can't bitch about it if they hold their hand out the next time you walk by. Eventually, you have to have control of yourself and just keep walking if you don't want to give them any more money.
You can't then bitch, rant and rave because the homeless person didn't give you anything back, or didn't go get their own money ... if you're dropping another dollar in their hand.
This is about self-accountibility here. An adult has to make the determination who is worthy of your generosity, and if you choose the wrong person to aid based on you not understanding your feelings of un-associated guilt .. then that is your demon to find within, and it doesn't give you a right to lay the blame on the person you are giving to.
It's not that difficult to get ...
Posted by ScorporellaPosted by VirgoVixxxen
Yes, and let this be a LESSON to those of us who haven't "gotten it yet".
When SHE comes into your thread to 'play with you', simply tell her to "get lost" and YOU keep it mov'n.
This way you won't have to stoop so low as to giving her a dose of her own medicine, and risk being called 'aggressive' and 'weak' all at once - S&S (serious & sarcastic)
And they say Virgos are boring - fuck if we do, fuck if we don't.
VirgoVixxxen - I've read your comments in the thread. This is the first time I have responded to you in this thread, however, you seem to take my comments as being directed at you. This was simply not the case.
Regarding the "being called 'aggressive'" - CLCNY stated: "And you're damn right I respond aggressively towards her..." Therefore that is merely an observation of a reaction that CLCNY has confirmed as being fact. Therefore, how can you take offense to my comment that she responds aggressively towards P-Angel, when she herself has said that she does this? It's not an accusation, it's an observation that she has confirmed as fact.
Regarding the comment I made about being "weak" - I stated that it was my opinion and it could be wrong. It is merely an opinion I hold about people who react impulsively and quickly in situations, almost over-reacting. But it is merely my opinion and we all hold our own opinions regarding certain things. So you take offense to an opinion that was stated could be wrong?
Defensive much?click to expand
Yes, she did confirm it as being fact, and while you are more than entitled to your opinion, your very first statement was completely out of left field - and wrong.
Who's intent on being hateful? What gives you the right to draw a conclusion like that based on some aggressive reactions that were purposely provoked?
So CLC is hateful and unable to 'not get it' because in your opinion, she's weak because she allowed P-Angel to rile her up. Trust, I understand the 'bully dynamic' but you were way out of line.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by CLCNY30
We never hung out, never had a serious conversation, nothing like that.
A person has to realize who is in your life .... a person cannot aid a stranger in this manner and expect a return.
It's like handing a street-person money or food ... you can't bitch about it if they hold their hand out the next time you walk by. Eventually, you have to have control of yourself and just keep walking if you don't want to give them any more money.
You can't then bitch, rant and rave because the homeless person didn't give you anything back, or didn't go get their own money ... if you're dropping another dollar in their hand.
This is about self-accountibility here. An adult has to make the determination who is worthy of your generosity, and if you choose the wrong person to aid based on you not understanding your feelings of un-associated guilt .. then that is your demon to find within, and it doesn't give you a right to lay the blame on the person you are giving to.
It's not that difficult to get ...click to expand
A husband should want to have relations with his wife.
If he's supposed to love you, and care for you, and want to strengthen your bond, not wanting to be intimate with you proves that your relationship really means nothing.
Giving "advice" (I put that in parenthesis, because I think you just spew bs, but that's my take) to "strangers" on the interwebs is akin to me helping that girl out. You're wasting your time in most instances, as your way of speaking to people is gutter, and they don't want to hear anymore after your first "helpful" intrusion--yet you don't stfu, or (in your own words) "don't learn" and "are a sucker" for not getting the message and continuing to "help" when you really should have stopped before you started.
Once again, hypocrisy.
It's okay, I know you know I'm right. No need to admit it aloud. We all know.
Posted by ScorporellaPosted by VirgoVixxxen
Yes, and let this be a LESSON to those of us who haven't "gotten it yet".
When SHE comes into your thread to 'play with you', simply tell her to "get lost" and YOU keep it mov'n.
This way you won't have to stoop so low as to giving her a dose of her own medicine, and risk being called 'aggressive' and 'weak' all at once - S&S (serious & sarcastic)
And they say Virgos are boring - fuck if we do, fuck if we don't.
VirgoVixxxen - I've read your comments in the thread. This is the first time I have responded to you in this thread, however, you seem to take my comments as being directed at you. This was simply not the case.
Regarding the "being called 'aggressive'" - CLCNY stated: "And you're damn right I respond aggressively towards her..." Therefore that is merely an observation of a reaction that CLCNY has confirmed as being fact. Therefore, how can you take offense to my comment that she responds aggressively towards P-Angel, when she herself has said that she does this? It's not an accusation, it's an observation that she has confirmed as fact.
Regarding the comment I made about being "weak" - I stated that it was my opinion and it could be wrong. It is merely an opinion I hold about people who react impulsively and quickly in situations, almost over-reacting. But it is merely my opinion and we all hold our own opinions regarding certain things. So you take offense to an opinion that was stated could be wrong?
Defensive much?click to expand
Angry, mad, annoyed, frustrated, whatever, but hateful - no.
Way too strong of a statement especially when the only hateful one here is P-Angel, and this is evident to many on dxp.
Why is it that water signs have to have an emotion attached to something in order for it to make sense to them? Talk about thinking out of your own pocket. *smh*
The emotion is usually inapplicable to the person that they're speaking too. Yet, it describes how they'd feel if they were in that position. This is the genesis of projection.
Posted by GeminiMind
The emotion is usually inapplicable to the person that they're speaking too. Yet, it describes how they'd feel if they were in that position. This is the genesis of projection.
Wholeheartedly agree.
Posted by Scorporella
Cont.
..."It is in our reaction to situations and people that we either show our strength or weakness, and imho, it takes a stronger person to remain calm and peaceful in adverse situations. Weaker people tend to react much more easily and in more negative ways. Though, that is just my opinion and it could be wrong, but that has been my experience."
No where in that statement have I accused CLCNY of being weak. I stated that is in my opinion that we show our strength or weakness in our reactions and that a stronger person can remain calm and peaceful in adverse situations, weaker people react much more easily and in negative ways. And again, I said that is my opinion and it could be wrong, but it has been my experience to see that. It seems to me you are reading much more into what I am saying than what is there.
You implicated it, and if that makes her weak - responding to P-Angel with aggressive posts, then that is something CLC can address if she sees fit.
Again, and as I've stated before, I don't think anyone will disagree with the fact that when someone "takes you there", they take your power too.
To make things crystal clear, what was most annoying to me was your outlandish implication that she was intent on being hateful. Am I reaching much here? Or did you actually say that?
No, it was you who were reaching, and please don't play the defensive card with me - I don't have a reason to be. passionate right now - yes, but not defensive.
The last time I checked, people are actually allowed to get fed up when they are constantly being harassed, and then when they retaliate, someone comes in and says that they are being hateful, and will never get it. What don't you get about that?
Posted by PurrHiss
Can I just say that I love Virgos? Especially the women. Just thought I'd throw that out there.
Awwww...love you too Hissy!
*Blows a kiss*
Posted by Scorporella
They won't catch on, they are too intent on hating.
I'm amazed at P-Angel's strength and power (and I'm not being sarcastic here). I've seen her say things, in which I know she is merely attempting to antagonize someone, and she is usually successful at it. It truly doesn't bother her when people come at her in the way that some do, because she is getting exactly the reaction from them that she originally set out to get, months or even years previously. I tell my children the way to beat a bully is to not give that bully the reaction they are looking for. A bully bullies because they expect and want a certain reaction from the one they are bullying. Their behavior is reinforced by getting that reaction. As long as they continue to get the reaction, they continue to behave in the way they behave. However, if you stop reacting to the bully, after a little while, the bully is no longer having his actions reinforced and he/she will stop and move on to someone else, because you are showing you are stronger than the bully by not reacting to them. It is in our reaction to situations and people that we either show our strength or weakness, and imho, it takes a stronger person to remain calm and peaceful in adverse situations. Weaker people tend to react much more easily and in more negative ways. Though, that is just my opinion and it could be wrong, but that has been my experience.
Amen to that! I am not blind to this at all. I already know that dxp is her dildo. She gets off on it. I've said it before. If something MUST be said, it doesn't have to be said over and over again. My brother is a man of few words. He allows other people to look crazy and then he will answer with one sentence. He will make such a powerful point that he wouldn't have to conitinue to tell a person about themselves. He wouldn't even look twice at P-angel.
Awww, Scorpella. Don't do that. Remember, letting other's words affect you on the internetz is weakness.
Don't be weak 😢
No one should affect you that much, that you need to keep going, ya know?
There there.
Don't be weak 😢
No one should affect you that much, that you need to keep going, ya know?
There there.
Posted by Scorporella
Yes, you are reaching. Please show me where I said she was intent on being hateful. Again, you are reading way too much into my posts. I stated that she responds aggressively to P-Angel, she confirmed that. I did not say she was intent on being hateful. You may have read that into my words, but that was not stated, nor implied. I mentioned "aggressiveness" and I mentioned that she does give away her power everytime she responds to P-Angel in that way. No where did I imply or state she was intent on being hateful. So, you will continue to see what you want to see but that is you projecting whatever it is you want to project into my words, but my words are there in black and white for people to read and they can see themselves what was stated.
I explained that my original post was merely to point out the strong reaction that people give in response to P-Angel's posts. CLCNY then questioned my integrity and said I was defending P-Angel. No where was I defending P-Angel, again, only commenting upon the strong response "people" (note it is plural and is across all of DXP - not just the virgo forum) give to P-Angel. Everything I said, up to the point when CLCNY stated it was people like me who allow P-Angel to act as she does, was stated in the general sense. At that point I stated it was people like her and explained "So as long as she continues to get this kind of reaction from people (which she obviously will) she will continue to antagonize others because it's fun for her." And again CLCNY questioned my integrity and my compassion for others. No where did I ever state she was being "hateful", but rather pointed out several times "I'm just saying, you really respond aggressively towards her." And again, CLCNY supported and confirmed that statement.
So please, pray tell, VirgoVixxxen where in my comments I implied that she was intent on being hateful. Where in my comments was I questioning her integrity or compassion? Where in my comments did I say anything negative to her? If you want to read an implication in my words that is not there, again, that is on you, not me.
The mere fact that you are here explaining yourself over, and over, and over again, speaks volumes.
I see right through your game. Period.
At this point you're just going round and round like a dog trying to catch its own tail.
Posted by Scorporella
LMAO @ the both of you. You make an accusation towards me, I asked you merely to support your accusation. The fact that you would then turn it around and that I am the one playing a game speaks volumes. You cannot support your accusation. Case closed.
No, I am actually LMAO @ you.
Instigate, say something totally off the cuff without thinking someone wouldn't catch it, get called on it, try to flip it back on us, and then try to cover your tracks. Classic passive agressive tactic.
Standing ovation for you, babe.
Case is closed because at this point you were going into whine and cling mode and that's just oh so annoying.
Yeah, I gotta chime in at the LMAO @ you as well, Scorpella.
If you feel you are right, then keep it moving. You've stated your point, why continue driving it into the ground? Obviously we are not going to agree (which is A-OK, not sure if you know that, we don't all need to agree), but you seem frustrated by us not agreeing, and that completely contradicts what you've been saying in here, which is "let it go, don't give anyone that much power over you".
Let it go. We're not going to agree. We never will, and (say it with me, as we hold hands) "that's A-OK".
It's just the internet 🙂 doesn't affect our bank accounts--because yeah, then all hell would break loose.
If you feel you are right, then keep it moving. You've stated your point, why continue driving it into the ground? Obviously we are not going to agree (which is A-OK, not sure if you know that, we don't all need to agree), but you seem frustrated by us not agreeing, and that completely contradicts what you've been saying in here, which is "let it go, don't give anyone that much power over you".
Let it go. We're not going to agree. We never will, and (say it with me, as we hold hands) "that's A-OK".
It's just the internet 🙂 doesn't affect our bank accounts--because yeah, then all hell would break loose.
Posted by ScorporellaPosted by CLCNY30
Awww, Scorpella. Don't do that. Remember, letting other's words affect you on the internetz is weakness.
Don't be weak 😢
No one should affect you that much, that you need to keep going, ya know?
There there.
BTW, CLCNY, that is called sarcasm. As if either of you could affect me.click to expand
If we can't 'affect you' then why don't you go ahead and get gone like you stated two or so posts ago. LOL.
Didn't you close the case, detective? LMAO!
Posted by CLCNY30
Yeah, I gotta chime in at the LMAO @ you as well, Scorpella.
If you feel you are right, then keep it moving. You've stated your point, why continue driving it into the ground? Obviously we are not going to agree (which is A-OK, not sure if you know that, we don't all need to agree), but you seem frustrated by us not agreeing, and that completely contradicts what you've been saying in here, which is "let it go, don't give anyone that much power over you".
Let it go. We're not going to agree. We never will, and (say it with me, as we hold hands) "that's A-OK".
It's just the internet 🙂 doesn't affect our bank accounts--because yeah, then all hell would break loose.
🙂
Posted by Scorporella
LMAO....if anyone has been whining and complaining, it has been you and CLCNY because there are those that do not hold to your opinion or bend over and kiss your ass. Sorry, but you just ain't my type for me to do that.
Still here? Thought you were leaving. Now you're just being downright ridiculous.
Posted by Scorporella
If you are both above any game playing, why do either one of you keep responding? I find you both to be fun to respond to. It's fun to watch the two of you jump on each other's shirt tails and get so riled up against a single poster.
What the...are you kidding me? You were the one who 'closed the case' first and now you're trying to flip it on us?
What game playing? Methinks the only one game playing here is you, missy.
If you're gonna skidaddle, then hurry up and scoot!
Posted by Scorporella
All I said was "case closed" VirgoVixxxen. I didn't say I was leaving the thread. I'm just still waiting on you to prove your point. It's obvious that isn't going to happen. So, I can continue to post if I so choose. Just as you can continue to post if you so choose.
I have already noted my stance on everything. Don't try that "I'm waiting for you to prove your point" shit. I even agreed with what you said in reference to allowing people to ruffle your feathers because that's the way I see it as well. All you need do is look at your initial post if you want answers, mizz passive agressive.
Ugh, I couldn't even read this thread without wanting to make mud pies in my toliet.
CLCNY and Vixxx.... why don't we just do what we do best? Let's just sit back and ignore. Wait for the glory filled day when Scorpella has an awful day and comes here to vent, ask for advice, etc etc.... Now you just know that on one of these occasions Pisser is likely to say something full of venom and hate. Then see who's laughing....
Defend or not, argue her rights or abilities or not, blah, frack, blah.
At the end of the day some people just plain fucking suck at life.
Pisser just plain fucking sucks at life. End of story.
CLCNY and Vixxx.... why don't we just do what we do best? Let's just sit back and ignore. Wait for the glory filled day when Scorpella has an awful day and comes here to vent, ask for advice, etc etc.... Now you just know that on one of these occasions Pisser is likely to say something full of venom and hate. Then see who's laughing....
Defend or not, argue her rights or abilities or not, blah, frack, blah.
At the end of the day some people just plain fucking suck at life.
Pisser just plain fucking sucks at life. End of story.
Posted by Scorporella
If you are both above any game playing, why do either one of you keep responding? I find you both to be fun to respond to. It's fun to watch the two of you jump on each other's shirt tails and get so riled up against a single poster.
You've already said I'm an agressive poster. Your own accusation is my excuse.
And yours, boo boo?
Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Ugh, I couldn't even read this thread without wanting to make mud pies in my toliet.
CLCNY and Vixxx.... why don't we just do what we do best? Let's just sit back and ignore. Wait for the glory filled day when Scorpella has an awful day and comes here to vent, ask for advice, etc etc.... Now you just know that on one of these occasions Pisser is likely to say something full of venom and hate. Then see who's laughing....
Defend or not, argue her rights or abilities or not, blah, frack, blah.
At the end of the day some people just plain fucking suck at life.
Pisser just plain fucking sucks at life. End of story.
Honest truth? LOL, because in Scorp's mind, we're terror sweating all over our keyboards and grinding teeth in anger when the truth is VVxxx and I are laughing off the boards with each other at this. We find it just as fun as P-nis. It's quite entertaining 🙂 Virgos love words and writing! So let's say we're just engaging in one of our fav hobbies right now 😉 !!!
And yeah, as I recall, a poster Scorp reminds us of (Kali) disappeared after she saw her posts on the Virgo board were only being answered by P-nis. We're not interested in helping those trying to defend those who don't believe in helping others. Let HER advise you. And good luck on said advice--if her husband won't touch her, that's where you're headed when you take her words of wisdom.
Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Ugh, I couldn't even read this thread without wanting to make mud pies in my toliet.
CLCNY and Vixxx.... why don't we just do what we do best? Let's just sit back and ignore. Wait for the glory filled day when Scorpella has an awful day and comes here to vent, ask for advice, etc etc.... Now you just know that on one of these occasions Pisser is likely to say something full of venom and hate. Then see who's laughing....
Defend or not, argue her rights or abilities or not, blah, frack, blah.
At the end of the day some people just plain fucking suck at life.
Pisser just plain fucking sucks at life. End of story.
Funny, my intuition tells me she's an old poster (also a scorp) who's back with a new screename.
You're right however, but watching her go round and round is amusing in an of itself.
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