@itsnoteasybeingavirgo
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Virgo Girls are the Hardest to get
Why Virgo Females Are Considered the Hardest to Attract
Virgo girls are often seen as difficult to get due to their cautious nature, high standards, and desire for genuine connection. They value honesty and practicality, which can make them seem reserved. Building trust with Virgo women requires patience and sincerity. Understanding their analytical mindset helps in forming meaningful relationships.
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They have certainly been elusive in my life...
wow, what a GAY^ pic
and what's to get? if they're mature representatives, they act like grown ass women.
if not, they're petty, spiteful, hypocritical, self-conscious, miserable, austere bitches.
Yes.
Here is a sample of what I'm used to hearing/reading (message board inquiries on the internet) etc:
"Why are Virgo women so hard to woo?"
"Why are Virgo women so cold?"
"Why are Virgo women so aloof?"
"Why are Virgo women so distant?"
"Why are Virgo women so detached?"
"Why are Virgo women so hot/cold?"
"Why are Virgo women so stuck up?"
"Why are Virgo women so quiet?"
"Help! Can't tell if this Virgo girl likes me?"
"How can you tell if a Virgo girl is into you?"
"Why are Virgo women so mean?"
"Virgo girl is confusing!"
"Are Virgo women the biggest bitches of the zodiac?"
"Why are Virgo women so evil?"
"How do I get closer to this Virgo girl?"
"Virgo girl sending mixed signals. Does she like me or does she just see me as a friend?"
From personal experience... yep. I can be difficult sometimes lol.
It's about simply being selective.Are we a fit? Why waste our time? If a person ticks off most of the boxes then we move forward.If not,I've got 5 other things I could be doing.
Here is a sample of what I'm used to hearing/reading (message board inquiries on the internet) etc:
"Why are Virgo women so hard to woo?"
"Why are Virgo women so cold?"
"Why are Virgo women so aloof?"
"Why are Virgo women so distant?"
"Why are Virgo women so detached?"
"Why are Virgo women so hot/cold?"
"Why are Virgo women so stuck up?"
"Why are Virgo women so quiet?"
"Help! Can't tell if this Virgo girl likes me?"
"How can you tell if a Virgo girl is into you?"
"Why are Virgo women so mean?"
"Virgo girl is confusing!"
"Are Virgo women the biggest bitches of the zodiac?"
"Why are Virgo women so evil?"
"How do I get closer to this Virgo girl?"
"Virgo girl sending mixed signals. Does she like me or does she just see me as a friend?"
I see exactly those same claims/questions with similar frequency in just about any other board than the Virgo one, when guys refer to females. I've been on dxp almost 6 years now.
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.
Posted by itsnoteasybeingavirgo
"Virgo Girls are the Hardest to get out of all Zodiac Signs"Read this line many times and many people say this too.
Do you agree ?
If yes, then what do you think are the reasons behind?
Yes. I've had many guys just give up on trying to get with me. I move waaaay to slow for them and I am waaaaay too careful.
Here is a sample of what I'm used to hearing/reading (message board inquiries on the internet) etc:
"Why are Virgo women so hard to woo?"
"Why are Virgo women so cold?"
"Why are Virgo women so aloof?"
"Why are Virgo women so distant?"
"Why are Virgo women so detached?"
"Why are Virgo women so hot/cold?"
"Why are Virgo women so stuck up?"
"Why are Virgo women so quiet?"
"Help! Can't tell if this Virgo girl likes me?"
"How can you tell if a Virgo girl is into you?"
"Why are Virgo women so mean?"
"Virgo girl is confusing!"
"Are Virgo women the biggest bitches of the zodiac?"
"Why are Virgo women so evil?"
"How do I get closer to this Virgo girl?"
"Virgo girl sending mixed signals. Does she like me or does she just see me as a friend?"
I see exactly those same claims/questions with similar frequency in just about any other board than the Virgo one, when guys refer to females. I've been on dxp almost 6 years now.
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I know that. These types of questions are not exclusive to females of any one particular sign.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.
Ok. A guy can "get" us if he is patient. Usually men don't want to get that deep. They are on the move to the next one that is more willing to get him to move in with them yesterday. If a man moves too quickly, we think that he is trying to pull one on us.
And thats exactly your handicap compared to other female signs, you "think" on ocassions you're supposed to just feel.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
And thats exactly your handicap compared to other female signs, you "think" on ocassions you're supposed to just feel.
Excuse me....we "feel" like he is trying to pull one on us.
I wasnt specifically referring to that particular sentence.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I wasnt specifically referring to that particular sentence.
Hahahaha! I get it. I'm just joking around wicha ! 😛
Yeah they have a particular capricious nature about them. Trying to gain there favor can be a tedious process so you better pack a lunch because it might be a while.
yup but i still got them lol. If you are a virgo just think about how you would like to be approached it works 95% of the time.
Some dxp virgo girls might be the exception (Candeh for instance 🙂) but talking to lots Virgo girls can be as boring as talking to Gem females (can I puke now?), both concerned with minutiae no one really cares about. Thank goodness both tend to get a lot more interesting as they get older.
Disagree.
Virgo women are easy.
Posted by caligula
wow, what a GAY^ pic
Thank you for your valuable and insightful contribution.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.click to expand
I once read, trying to learn how they think is like committing mental rape.
I could'nt agree more...
"I once read, trying to learn how they think is like committing mental rape."
^^ Too funny!! 🙂
a passage from virgo women astrology..
"it's often difficult for Virgo to really be 'married' in any deep sense of the word. There's a quality about the Virgo woman which is psychologically untouchable, and if you try to invade it you get the same reaction as if you tried physical rape"
The reason why I am very very hard to get is
1. I don't trust anyone easily. I don't trust what the other person says, what important to me is what he don't say. I strongly believe that a person is not what he shows but he is what he hides. So body language and minor gestures matter more to me than words.
2. I am too cautious. One day you did something that built my trust upon you, I will be a bit open and will move two step forward towards you. Next day you did something that gave me suspicion about your real intention, I will be recoiled and move 10 steps backward. Being an analyzer this process of observation and analyzing will last forever.
Disagree.
Virgo women are easy.
LoL. Unwavering in your opinion. I like it.
Posted by itsnoteasybeingavirgo
The reason why I am very very hard to get is1. I don't trust anyone easily. I don't trust what the other person says, what important to me is what he don't say. I strongly believe that a person is not what he shows but he is what he hides. So body language and minor gestures matter more to me than words.
2. I am too cautious. One day you did something that built my trust upon you, I will be a bit open and will move two step forward towards you. Next day you did something that gave me suspicion about your real intention, I will be recoiled and move 10 steps backward. Being an analyzer this process of observation and analyzing will last forever.
Yes. I observe body language and gestures as well. To me, it's not what you say but what you do.
Depends on what your place is in their to-do list though 🙂
If they shut up, they might be worth doing.. the problem is to get them to shut up.
They like being cockslapped in the mouth though, its the only thing that gets them quiet 🙂
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
If they shut up, they might be worth doing.. the problem is to get them to shut up.
Hmmm,I said my piece and moved on.YOU keep chatting...LOL
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ahhh, they display penis envy then...
Thanks for that Shaks ! 🙂
Seems like your the one with penis envy.Noted that when you reach into relationship threads or talks turns sexual you go all junior high on us.Just saying.
Posted by itsnoteasybeingavirgo
"Virgo Girls are the Hardest to get out of all Zodiac Signs"Read this line many times and many people say this too.
Do you agree ?
If yes, then what do you think are the reasons behind?
I've never had a problem. 😉
Posted by itsnoteasybeingavirgo
"Virgo Girls are the Hardest to get out of all Zodiac Signs"Read this line many times and many people say this too.
Do you agree ?
If yes, then what do you think are the reasons behind?
I've never had a problem. 😉
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Aww thanks GM.
You know me babe. It's all about closing my eyes and still finding you beautiful. Just sayin.
Posted by GeminiMind
You know me babe. It's all about closing my eyes and still finding you beautiful. Just sayin.
OMG, hahahahaha!
In general, if you're patient and once you'ved gained a virgos trust, you will get the freak that you need in your life. Modest in public and Sasha Fierce in the bedroom. Are we the hardest to get? What does that mean, really? Any women who values herself should be hard to get.
Posted by GeminiMind
You know me babe. It's all about closing my eyes and still finding you beautiful. Just sayin.
The dual nature of the Gem sees it all
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.Smart man.
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so how do other female signs usually surrender themselves to anyone when in love? and what's the difference in the mannerism of a virgo girl?
Posted by itsnoteasybeingavirgo
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.Smart man.
so how do other female signs usually surrender themselves to anyone when in love? and what's the difference in the mannerism of a virgo girl?
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They don't use their heads, they use their hearts. Bass ackwards, init?
Posted by itsnoteasybeingavirgo
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.Smart man.
so how do other female signs usually surrender themselves to anyone when in love? and what's the difference in the mannerism of a virgo girl?
They don't use their heads, they use their hearts. Bass ackwards, init?
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Agreed! my mind rules my heart.
Posted by Volkswagen
An did you just use Sasha Fierce as reference? That's just unbearable.
Really? Have you no sense of humor? Now THAT is what is unbearable. Wow.
i find it difficult to meet virgo women, i have met 2 or 3 virgo women in my life (talked to on a deeper level)
now i would like to meet more just as friends and maybe something romantic. i want to relate to another virgo, or maybe capricorn or taurus
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.Smart man.
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Have you ever dated a virgal Volkswagen?
me either haha
but you are a woman!
i know of one virgo woman who i was attracted to. she felt a bit insecure because she was very voluptuous and being criticised. really makes me wonder what it would be like if she knew that was ok for me because i never been with a virgo let alone any earth element. and i really regret not targeting earth element women now
Posted by Volkswagen
Zeoblade, I assume you're a Virgo? I've heard earth pairings (not to mention V+V in specific) can be very prosperous 🙂 My Virgo ex's and I still get along well and I have manymany Virgal friends.
yes i'm a virgo
thats good to hear, my eyes are peeled wide open for one to come into the radar haha
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.Smart man.
Have you ever dated a virgal Volkswagen?
No, I've never dated a Virgal. But generally speakin, these girls can be a little fearful (4 lack of a better term) when it comes to opening their hearts and placin them on their sleeves. If fearful doesn't apply or isn't the right terminology; then reluctant.. Or overly cautious.. Etc. Not saying it's a negative quality, just sayin they take some time to open up, like anyone else does. And of course this may not apply to all.. But I have seen it happen, and that is part of my assessment of this topic thus far.
I have yet to witness a Virgal who ::displays:: the natural underlying boldness of an Arien or say, the fervor of a Scorpion. But the qualities of other signs that Virgals go w/o they more than make up in a way unique to their sign.
They are like a great bottle of red wine..
Time is of the essence with these chicks.
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I completely agree with you, and that's why I asked. You seem to have a pretty good 'take' on us.
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.
I so agree to this. It is beneath me. I can fully give in to a man emotionally but I'm an agent of my own (a very intelligent one at that).
I have my deadlines. I can't just be allover someone or something for a period of time. It's usually for a while, and if the man cannot move on with me, I'm moving to to be the best I can be. I have no problems cutting ties.
Virgo is possibly the hardest to get period, gender aside. Dating and relationships don't appear to be the ultimate top priority, whether it be Virgo men or women. I admire this quality about the sign.
In contrast with Capricorn and Taurus, Virgos are not typically as prone to jump into relationships as the former, nor do they seem as likely to obsess over a significant other when seeing somebody.
obsess can be attractive in small doses, some people like it
Posted by Volkswagen
Zeoblade, I assume you're a Virgo? I've heard earth pairings (not to mention V+V in specific) can be very prosperous 🙂 My Virgo ex's and I still get along well and I have manymany Virgal friends.Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
You can't "get" a Virgo girl, since my experience tells me they never really surrender themselves to anyone in the manner other female signs usually do when in love.Smart man.
Have you ever dated a virgal Volkswagen?
No, I've never dated a Virgal. But generally speakin, these girls can be a little fearful (4 lack of a better term) when it comes to opening their hearts and placin them on their sleeves. If fearful doesn't apply or isn't the right terminology; then reluctant.. Or overly cautious.. Etc. Not saying it's a negative quality, just sayin they take some time to open up, like anyone else does. And of course this may not apply to all.. But I have seen it happen, and that is part of my assessment of this topic thus far.
I have yet to witness a Virgal who ::displays:: the natural underlying boldness of an Arien or say, the fervor of a Scorpion. But the qualities of other signs that Virgals go w/o they more than make up in a way unique to their sign.
They are like a great bottle of red wine..
Time is of the essence with these chicks.click to expand
Very well said!! 🙂
but if it were really 'obsessing', then a small dose is not possible.
so what can i expect? can you give an example?
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"Virgo Girls are the Hardest to get out of all Zodiac Signs"
Read this line many times and many people say this too.
Do you agree ?
If yes, then what do you think are the reasons behind?