@Beergo85
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Relationship Drama
Do Virgos Sometimes Seek Relationship Drama
Virgos may sometimes create relationship tension intentionally to add excitement or rekindle passion, often driven by a desire for emotional stimulation or intimacy. This behavior can serve as a way to break monotony and reignite connection with their partner. Understanding their need for balance can help maintain healthier relationships without unnecessary conflict.
LOL Leo Moon AND Leo Venus.. and you're gonna blame your Virgo Sun for liking all the thrill and pizazz of drama? 😉
.. oh, and let's not forget Sag Rising 😉
🙂 I know right. I surprised that I haven't drove my Aquarius girlfriend insane. She probably craves that butter too. 😛
Is it me or we Virgos craves it from time to time.
From time to time —
More like ... all the time !!
That's impossible P.
I'm at work most of the time. 😛
Us lovely leo influenced babies love to have fun. 😛
Even with a Virgo sun and moon I'm still influenced more by Leo and...thats not what I like.
Posted by Amandus
Even with a Virgo sun and moon I'm still influenced more by Leo and...thats not what I like.
Yeah, but YOU'RE a little sweetie pie, and if I didn't know better, I'd think you were a Pisces or a Cancer 😛
i dont like drama no time for i usually detach myself from it.
there's money 2 be made 🙂
It keeps things interesting, but I prefer not to be a part of it.
I much rather comment on it 😛
Heated philosophical debates are a turn on for me (when it's done in jest, but yet still heated). If he could get my wheels turning in that category, he'd be getting some good good from me all night long.
I love all you leo influenced virgos.
Must be from Venus or Moon...defs not from Virgo Sun.
HATE DRAMA!!!! in ALL aspects of life except for on a silver screen.
First, I will try to ignore it & if that doesnt work, I will call it out & SHUT.IT.DOWN.
Drama usually stays the hailz away from me.
Yeah I don't like drama either....Moon, Venus and Mars in Leo.
I may say something then I usually just walk away
One time I was helping to move a friends father, and the father walked in the apartment to pick up another box and randomly announced ...
I was driving down 495 and I changed lanes, then I saw in my mirror a huge accident .. cars crashing everywhere.
Me: Oh my gosh, Howard, what did you do?
What do you mean, what did I do? I went to my doctors appointment.
That ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is what comes to mind when I think of this topic. Drama is started often, totally unbeknownst.
My Saggi friend loves relationship drama...she has an Aqua moon...no Leo influence or even Earth.
I'm pretty sure she's Venus in Scorp, Mars in Aries.
In fact, not only is it unbeknownst by them ... if you ask them, they think they don't like it at all and don't do it.
Reality is a beautiful thing ......
Posted by P-Angel
One time I was helping to move a friends father, and the father walked in the apartment to pick up another box and randomly announced ...I was driving down 495 and I changed lanes, then I saw in my mirror a huge accident .. cars crashing everywhere.
Me: Oh my gosh, Howard, what did you do?
What do you mean, what did I do? I went to my doctors appointment.
That ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is what comes to mind when I think of this topic. Drama is started often, totally unbeknownst.
Serious question... how did that start drama?
Posted by LibraSid Serious question... how did that start drama?
The drama is in the accident. The families of those involved are affected.
Posted by brianafay
My Saggi friend loves relationship drama...she has an Aqua moon...no Leo influence or even Earth.
I'm pretty sure she's Venus in Scorp, Mars in Aries.
Dangerous combo
Posted by LibraSid Serious question... how did that start drama?
The drama is in the accident. The families of those involved are affected.
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Yeah but it didn't effect them. He was just saying what he saw. Crashes like that happen, especially on the 495 I know. Maybe I just misunderstood something.
You misunderstand everything I say ..... therefore, I won't ever answer you, only tell you to check yourself.
Posted by P-Angel
You misunderstand everything I say ..... therefore, I won't ever answer you, only tell you to check yourself.
There's probably no sense in my responding to this since you've made your stance clear but this is silly. I don't misunderstand what you say, you just usually take shit too far. Most of the time when you post I start off agreeing with you. You have a different instinct than a lot of people and you make some really good points and observations. Then, you keep talking. You seem to like turning simple questions into major issues with the poster. You find some little quirk and run with it and you come up with some absurd statements. For instance, telling me to check myself... BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Well I do hope you checked yourself Sid-O..and brought enough bubblegum for everyone. 😛
As to drama, some feed off it. Me, loathe it. Especially in relationship. Ew. When friends bring it to me to observe, ask for feedback, etc. I try to squash it. Too many other important things happening in the world to fuss and stress over Johnny being a bit of an ass from time to time. Or Sally being a bag. But hey, if discord is your bread and butter..go for it. I'll be in the kitchen. Shaking my head.
Posted by P-Angel
One time I was helping to move a friends father, and the father walked in the apartment to pick up another box and randomly announced ...I was driving down 495 and I changed lanes, then I saw in my mirror a huge accident .. cars crashing everywhere.
Me: Oh my gosh, Howard, what did you do?
What do you mean, what did I do? I went to my doctors appointment.
That ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is what comes to mind when I think of this topic. Drama is started often, totally unbeknownst.
Serious question... how did that start drama?
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I think she was insinuating that he probably caused the accident...and didn't even realize it...but since she's a Pisces and has a perfect sense of reality she realized it.
🙂
*looks to P*
😄
I think drama is part of loving healthy relationship. I think u need to let emotion free from time to time. 😛
I absolutely adore a partner I can have little arguments and disagreements with. I feel like they're testing me, to see my staying power and ability to stand up for myself, and it's really vice-versa, lol. I had this with a Taurus man, and it was wonderful--he was the most intelligent man I have ever met, he really opened my eyes to a lot things I never would have sought out on my own (history, for example. I've loathed History classes ever since elementary school, but the way he'd give his take on things and shed a new light on certain events...he'd end his point, and I'd be thirsty for more, LOL! It was wonderful)
I need a sign/partner that isn't too emotional--a grown man crying during a debate is not something I want to have to deal with. I might act like I'm deadset against their views, but secretely I'm taking very good points they're making and saving them for later to mull over, lol.
But at the end of the day, there will be no sleeping on the couch, or cold shoulders in the bedroom. We'll duke it out during the day, and work it out sexually at night. No little show of dramatics is worth losing a good partner over, imho. But it's fun, lol.
Posted by Beergo85
I think drama is part of loving healthy relationship. I think u need to let emotion free from time to time. 😛
I wouldn't say that "drama" is part of a healthy relationship but I see where you were trying to go with it. No one relationship is perfect. There is going to be disagreements and how you deal with them is what either brings on the drama or the solution.
Posted by Beergo85
I think drama is part of loving healthy relationship. I think u need to let emotion free from time to time. 😛
Beergo .... there is an error here that I point out to Virgos on a continual basis.
To have emotions isn't drama ... for some reason, the Virgo thinks that they can "think" their way through life, and for this reason is why they always find themselves at the short end of the stick in situations where it involves that they have to understand feelings.
Look at all situations just in here where the Virgo has created a thread about something they have done for someone, and you will begin to see that they don't know how to process emotions and find themselves feeling used and taken, when that is usually not even the case.
And here it pops up again, from your mind .... you associate having emotions with drama.
And another thing .. so long as you have that boob thread going, in which you say you don't like the boobs being covered?
So, uncover your bouncing boobs for the occasion !!!
....Wow, I haven't been here in a minute. Anywho, Virgos absolutely do not like drama. But when a Virgo hasn't matured yet, they tend to attract drama; if that makes any sense.
Posted by DreamyEyes
....Wow, I haven't been here in a minute. Anywho, Virgos absolutely do not like drama.
Thank you.
Posted by DreamyEyes
....Wow, I haven't been here in a minute. Anywho, Virgos absolutely do not like drama. But when a Virgo hasn't matured yet, they tend to attract drama; if that makes any sense.
yes ur right i avoid it like the black plague lmao.
Hey LeGendary Virgo! I think I remember you. 🙂 I haven't been here in a while.
Posted by DreamyEyes
Hey LeGendary Virgo! I think I remember you. 🙂 I haven't been here in a while.
lmao u do i forget about people that i havent spoke to in a while i apologize about that nice to me u again if u really remember me.
Posted by DreamyEyes
Hey LeGendary Virgo! I think I remember you. 🙂 I haven't been here in a while.lmao u do i forget about people that i havent spoke to in a while i apologize about that nice to me u again if u really remember me.
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That's ok nice to meet you too. I think most people on here may not remember me. I pop in here once in a while but I rarely comment.
Posted by 25thDecan
I'll clarify a little further from my perspective...even one dealing with abuse and domestic violence.
I don't like drama. I nip it in the bud and move on. BUT...if an argument mus ensue I'll listen intently then usually respond with a calm rebuttal(if I feel I'm not wrong). Or I'll start with: "lower your voice. Don't put yourself in that place with me." There is no negotiation. Don't scream, don't yell and don't throw things. Keep it calm and so will I. I will, in fact always keep it calm, cool and collective. And, my mate will too. Or things will get ugly and she'll be deleted. Stfu with the yelling or you're gonna be in a situation you cannot handle. We'll make up later but I cannot be in a woman's presence who tries to emasculate or abuse me.
2 thumbs up. I also listen intently without interjecting. It shortens the length of the discusion. I don't like it when people jump in while getting loud and hostile before I have finished making my statement. BUT, I can hyphy when I need to but it's rare.
Posted by SassyVirgo
The only time I will add some drama into a relationship on purpose is I want that person to leave me. But my ex ended up staying and I had to do the dumping and being labeled as the bad person LOL
I've been guilty of trying to do things that are not as favorable to a boyfriend so that he'd want to break up with me as well. I didn't work. He still wanted to be with me just as yours did. I learned very early just to be honest about where the relationship is/isn't going with someone.
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Is it me or we Virgos craves it from time to time.
I sometimes stir it intentionally when i feel like the relationship is becoming so dull to the point of losing interest to that person. I'm probably just looking forward to make up sex or something. It's always the best when your partner is mad at u for some reason. 😛