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Posted by stopePosted by GemitatiPosted by stopePosted by GemitatiPosted by stopePosted by Arielle83
Sounds like he has too much going on and you overtexting and then calling him just gave him reason to not care enough.
Bingo.
As a dad having to deal with child complications of this nature way back when, i had no emotional time for anyone. For much longer than you'd think, OP.
Kids > you.
Apparently you haven’t met someone who would care about you and your child and you would care about her to the point you would WANT to make it work.
I don’t know about anyone else but to me this thread is an eye opener and huge help! 🤝
Case by case i guess.
Yeah...I do realize how unlikely is this to happen and I’ve heard ‘maybe I am not ready for rships’ but only once...
Were you a single dad?
Yep. A lot of stuff went down. Went thru hell. Sleepless nights, juggling work, adjusting.. It all adds up.click to expand
Yep! Thats how parenting is even for coupled people...You must see exactly what went down in OPs case.
When did you get into rships if ever?
Posted by Sjess
Woah just HOLD ON NOW WAIT A MINUTE...
1. He is going through a massively stressful custody situation with his ex and CPS
2. He currently had his daughter during your visit and she probably is all fuc ked up because of the situation and needs her father
3. You ask to see him regardless not thinking about his poor daughter, and the fact that right now isn’t the time to be DEMANDING he take his attention away from his child who NEEDS him.
So....
1. Are you a mother? Cause as a mother my first inclination would be to step aside and let his daughter heal with her father and family alone.
2. You aren’t in a serious relationship. You have seen the man three times ffs get over yourself. You cannot demand anything from anyone at this point and especially not from a father who is struggling with family issues
3. As a mother, again if I were in his shoes, I would have probably done the same as he did. I am guessing from the real story that was finally pulled out of you, he realized you are some sort of narcissist who shouldn’t be around his child.
Your post is rife with red flags for me, and as a domestic abuse survivor of 18 years that has learnt a hell of a lot, I see a lot of really early warning signs all over the fkn place, that he should stay TF away from you for his children’s sake.
You aren’t the queen and don’t hold rank over anyone’s children.
Shame on you for knowing his and his poor daughters situation and then showing up demanding he entertain you like his life is full of roses without any cares. You should have done the “decent human” thing and cancelled your trip. But you seem like a potential narcissist so that would be impossible for you to do if this is the case.
IMO
Did you even read what I wrote. This trip was in the making 3 months prior to me coming to see him. He went through the whole CPS/custody situation 2 weeks before I came to visit. I always ask it is a good time before I even start to make plans. So at what point is he held responsible for not telling me this was going on before I flew to see him?
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