help dicepher this msg.

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by raerae2one8 on Tuesday, December 31, 2013 and has 6 replies.

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@raerae2one8
13 Years

we been seeing each other.. everything is great perfect, showing me more affection than when we were together in the past. telling family i am his girlfriend anyway. last i talked to him was sat. everything fine. then no contact from him and I sent fb msg that said this """whats up? idk, i miss you, i need you to be real with me, if u need space tell me, if you dont want me tell me K? plz dont ignore me, it isnt nesscsary, we are friends, I just miss you and wonder what is going on. hope i hear from you"" that is what i sent him sun. I just knew something was wrong. I have always had strong instincts about him, us. no response. texted him last night, no response. but he just sent this msg. on fb. from virgo "yea i know we good friends but yes sorry i do need space right now. Dont know whats really going on in my life just. Just need to sit back and think about the future right now. Sorry i been ignoring you tho feel like shit for that hope we still friends tho"""

Friends— how can i be friends with this man i love, and want>>> somebody plzzzz explain to me, because I dont understand. I know he feels same for me... I know!!!!

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

What do you need explained? He told you plain and clear. You need to move on. I was suspired that after the earlier split you guys had that you restarted things with him. I know you explained that it was due to the ex's but that is just an excuse to end things, If the relationship mattered, it wouldn't have ended, period!

I avoided commenting on your other threads, since I tend to be blunt and after so many threads from females stating the same stuff over and over and over-it gets old. Plus, what's the point in everyone giving the advise, y'all tend to not listen to the advise that is give and explain/rationalize away everything that is different than your own opinion.

You can't change him or how he feels; no mater how much you love him. Sorry it ended, but to be honest it ended the first time you split months ago. Find someone else AFTER you allow yourself to heal and to truly move on from him.

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@raerae2one8
13 Years

THANKS, I MEAN, IT HURTS, I CARE BOUT HIM, I WANT US TO BE TOGETHER BECAUSE ITS NOT BAD. WE GET ALONG SO WELL, WE JUST TOOK OUR RELATIONSHIP TO A NEW LEVEL AND ITS EVEN HARDER. I GUESS, IF I REALLY WANT TO BE IN HIS LIFE, I WILL AS A FRIEND IF THAT IS ALL I CAN BE., ITS BETTER THAN NOTHING, BECAUSE HE IS A GREAT GUY. I JUST MISS HIM. ITS HARD. iTS OKAY TO GET NEGATIVE RESPOSES, NOT EVERYONE WILL SEE IT THE SAME. i WENT ON VIRGO FORUM, BECASUE I WANTED A VIRGOS ADVISE OR TAKE AT IT. THATS WHAT THESE BOARDS ARE FOR, NO? TO UNDERSTAND, SHARE. HOPE EVERYONE IS HAVING A HAPPY NEW YEAR

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@P-Angel
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Posted by raerae2one8

plz dont ignore me, it isnt nesscsary, we are friends

he just sent this msg ..."yea i know we good friends ...

Friends— how can i be friends with this man i love, and want>>> somebody plzzzz explain to me

What a fucking joke !!!

So, you tell him in a message not to ignore you because it isn't necessary, and make the implication that the reason it isn't necessary is because you two are friends ..... so when he responds back confirming what YOU SAID ... you then lose your fucking mind.

You're so fucking delusional, it isn't even funny.

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@raerae2one8
13 Years

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by raerae2one8

plz dont ignore me, it isnt nesscsary, we are friends

he just sent this msg ..."yea i know we good friends ...

Friends— how can i be friends with this man i love, and want>>> somebody plzzzz explain to me

What a fucking joke !!!

IS THIS ALL YOU DO? YOUR A FUCKING JOKE.

So, you tell him in a message not to ignore you because it isn't necessary, and make the implication that the reason it isn't necessary is because you two are friends ..... so when he responds back confirming what YOU SAID ... you then lose your fucking mind.

You're so fucking delusional, it isn't even funny.

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