
Need advice... I found a woman's name and phone number tucked under the Scorp's windshield wiper this morning when I left for work. What do I do after I calm down?



Posted by Jules-ll
Need advice... I found a woman's name and phone number tucked under the Scorp's windshield wiper this morning when I left for work. What do I do after I calm down?

Posted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.


Posted by MyStarsShine
Call the number to see who it is?

Posted by PinsNNeedles
Definitely cool your anger. One can do really dumb shit when their feeling angry. Then all of sudden it's not about what made you angry, it's about you being angry. And that'll be worse when you want to be heard.

Posted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.

Posted by Jules-llPosted by MyStarsShine
Call the number to see who it is?
I did a reverse phone look up, registered to a man. Looked him up on FB, he's single. Yeah, my mars is fully activated right now Stars. I'll call the number when I calm down.click to expand

Posted by Jules-llPosted by MyStarsShine
Call the number to see who it is?
I did a reverse phone look up, registered to a man. Looked him up on FB, he's single. Yeah, my mars is fully activated right now Stars. I'll call the number when I calm down.click to expand


Posted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
The note had a woman's name, phone number and said "I saw you pulling into the complex". Who would randomly put their phone number on a man's windshield without some sort of encouragement? I wouldn't, but maybe I'm guarded?click to expand


Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
No, I found it and took it with me.
Do you have reason to suspect him of anything prior to this?click to expand

Posted by Boots1313Posted by Jules-ll
Need advice... I found a woman's name and phone number tucked under the Scorp's windshield wiper this morning when I left for work. What do I do after I calm down?
Call it,
Also if you need someone in a sting operation, im your girlllllclick to expand

Posted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
No, I found it and took it with me.
Do you have reason to suspect him of anything prior to this?
Hmm not sure about this. He has lied about going to a baseball game with a female friend he used to date, told me he was going with his daughter. Also has lied about going to dinner with his ex wife. I wouldn't even care about him seeing them, just don't lie to me about it. That to me is the biggest insult anyone can give.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
The note had a woman's name, phone number and said "I saw you pulling into the complex". Who would randomly put their phone number on a man's windshield without some sort of encouragement? I wouldn't, but maybe I'm guarded?
Oof. That's not encouraging, but it could still be innocent. If I were worried, I would have left it there and camped out to see his reaction. Is that crazy?click to expand

Posted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
The note had a woman's name, phone number and said "I saw you pulling into the complex". Who would randomly put their phone number on a man's windshield without some sort of encouragement? I wouldn't, but maybe I'm guarded?
Oof. That's not encouraging, but it could still be innocent. If I were worried, I would have left it there and camped out to see his reaction. Is that crazy?
I had to leave for work... Maybe I'll hand it to him when I see him later without saying a word, gauge his reaction.click to expand

Posted by brianafay
Ask yourself why you’re so mad before you even know the scenario? Isn’t it possible she just saw him and thought he was cute and didn’t know anything about him - like if he was single or not?


Posted by brianafay
Wait, who are you even mad at?
You can’t possibly be mad at him about this?
This would be like him getting pissy with you because some construction worker catcalled you

Posted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
The note had a woman's name, phone number and said "I saw you pulling into the complex". Who would randomly put their phone number on a man's windshield without some sort of encouragement? I wouldn't, but maybe I'm guarded?click to expand


Posted by Pandora101
@Jules-II
"I did a reverse phone look up, registered to a man. Looked him up on FB, he's single. Yeah, my mars is fully activated right now Stars. I'll call the number when I calm down."
or do you think its him who is registered as the single man on FB, luring chicks?

Posted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
No, I found it and took it with me.
Do you have reason to suspect him of anything prior to this?
Hmm not sure about this. He has lied about going to a baseball game with a female friend he used to date, told me he was going with his daughter. Also has lied about going to dinner with his ex wife. I wouldn't even care about him seeing them, just don't lie to me about it. That to me is the biggest insult anyone can give.click to expand

Posted by Pandora101Posted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
The note had a woman's name, phone number and said "I saw you pulling into the complex". Who would randomly put their phone number on a man's windshield without some sort of encouragement? I wouldn't, but maybe I'm guarded?
Oof. That's not encouraging, but it could still be innocent. If I were worried, I would have left it there and camped out to see his reaction. Is that crazy?
I had to leave for work... Maybe I'll hand it to him when I see him later without saying a word, gauge his reaction.
"I had to leave for work... Maybe I'll hand it to him when I see him later without saying a word, gauge his reaction."
I still dont understand, how the reverse thing went, how that woman name is registered as a male and why are you mad at a single male (which you checked already)click to expand

Posted by Pandora101
@Jules-II
"I did a reverse phone look up, registered to a man. Looked him up on FB, he's single. Yeah, my mars is fully activated right now Stars. I'll call the number when I calm down."
or do you think its him who is registered as the single man on FB, luring chicks?

Posted by Phantom_Limbo
Is there a gym or laundry or something there where he might have talked to a woman who interpreted it as flirting ? Allow him to be innocent until proven guilty.
Posted by Foxy777
Don't tell him. Don't call it do nothing. Rip it up.
Make a copy of the number and name for a mental note though.


Posted by SeaLionPosted by Pandora101
@Jules-II
"I did a reverse phone look up, registered to a man. Looked him up on FB, he's single. Yeah, my mars is fully activated right now Stars. I'll call the number when I calm down."
or do you think its him who is registered as the single man on FB, luring chicks?
That's not always reliable. If it's a cell phone sometimes the name does not get changed when someone else gets the line. I had to have the phone company go in a manually change the name off my number cause I always kept getting calls for someone else. Once I had it changed I stopped getting those calls. OR the phone is registered under her husband or boyfriend. My dad buys all the phone so even when my mom calls from her phone the caller ID shows my dads name.click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
The note had a woman's name, phone number and said "I saw you pulling into the complex". Who would randomly put their phone number on a man's windshield without some sort of encouragement? I wouldn't, but maybe I'm guarded?
There is your answer!
If she knew anything about him they would be talking on media!
She just saw him and went ‘gotta have it’...
Don’t call! Show it to him because if you call it might anger her and make her want to play nastily like approaching him and saying shit and he will feel like a fool and you will be the one who did it to him...
Man is obviously unaware...
Jeez! Honestly...I would call but who said I am a good example? 🤦♀️click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by Pandora101Posted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
The note had a woman's name, phone number and said "I saw you pulling into the complex". Who would randomly put their phone number on a man's windshield without some sort of encouragement? I wouldn't, but maybe I'm guarded?
Oof. That's not encouraging, but it could still be innocent. If I were worried, I would have left it there and camped out to see his reaction. Is that crazy?
I had to leave for work... Maybe I'll hand it to him when I see him later without saying a word, gauge his reaction.
"I had to leave for work... Maybe I'll hand it to him when I see him later without saying a word, gauge his reaction."
I still dont understand, how the reverse thing went, how that woman name is registered as a male and why are you mad at a single male (which you checked already)
She could be married so the phone is in her husband name or father...you know...and how does it determine ‘single’? If he was single and then got married - where would that ‘update’ show up? I don’t think it would...click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Is there a gym or laundry or something there where he might have talked to a woman who interpreted it as flirting ? Allow him to be innocent until proven guilty.
Exactly! Apparently she doesn’t know shit about him!click to expand


Posted by RamOfPeacePosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
No, I found it and took it with me.
Do you have reason to suspect him of anything prior to this?
Hmm not sure about this. He has lied about going to a baseball game with a female friend he used to date, told me he was going with his daughter. Also has lied about going to dinner with his ex wife. I wouldn't even care about him seeing them, just don't lie to me about it. That to me is the biggest insult anyone can give.
Those are some shitty signs.click to expand

Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Is there a gym or laundry or something there where he might have talked to a woman who interpreted it as flirting ? Allow him to be innocent until proven guilty.
Exactly! Apparently she doesn’t know shit about him!
What? I understand the concern. It’s just best to hope for the best and not assume the worst since that will only make her feel horrible.click to expand

Posted by Jules-llPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Is there a gym or laundry or something there where he might have talked to a woman who interpreted it as flirting ? Allow him to be innocent until proven guilty.
Exactly! Apparently she doesn’t know shit about him!
I'm not assuming he's guilty, I just want to know what prompted this. Have you ever left your number on a man's windshield unless you tapped his car while he wasn't in it? Oh wait, you probably have @Gemitati lol.click to expand

Posted by Silverado
What does your BF do for a living?
My advice will depend on your answer.

Posted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
No, I found it and took it with me.
Do you have reason to suspect him of anything prior to this?
Hmm not sure about this. He has lied about going to a baseball game with a female friend he used to date, told me he was going with his daughter. Also has lied about going to dinner with his ex wife. I wouldn't even care about him seeing them, just don't lie to me about it. That to me is the biggest insult anyone can give.click to expand


Posted by Jules-llPosted by brianafay
Wait, who are you even mad at?
You can’t possibly be mad at him about this?
This would be like him getting pissy with you because some construction worker catcalled you
I'm not mad at him, I'm mad that something encouraged a woman to put her name and phone number on his windshield. This is the scorpio mars equivalent of scorpio moon when something upsets us, we want to figure things out and protect ourselves from being played.click to expand


Posted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Is there a gym or laundry or something there where he might have talked to a woman who interpreted it as flirting ? Allow him to be innocent until proven guilty.
Exactly! Apparently she doesn’t know shit about him!
What? I understand the concern. It’s just best to hope for the best and not assume the worst since that will only make her feel horrible.
I meant the author of the note...
Oh, gotcha. Seems she knows his name and his car. Nothing else is confirmed.click to expand

Posted by Boots1313
The one thing where he gets a pass is the bote said "saw you pull in"...
So it might have just been someone trying their luck.


Posted by brianafayPosted by Jules-llPosted by brianafay
Wait, who are you even mad at?
You can’t possibly be mad at him about this?
This would be like him getting pissy with you because some construction worker catcalled you
I'm not mad at him, I'm mad that something encouraged a woman to put her name and phone number on his windshield. This is the scorpio mars equivalent of scorpio moon when something upsets us, we want to figure things out and protect ourselves from being played.
I’m Scorpio mars too and I didn’t come to the same conclusion at all, but I am not in your relationship and don’t have the added trust issues obviously.
Especially after reading what the note said I feel there isn’t a screaming reason to suspect he has conversed with this person...sounds like she saw him, thought he was cute, and decided to shoot her shot.
It was irresponsible on her part to do so without knowing if he was available or not I guess, but how would she know? Realistically? I think his not calling her will be the message she needs to receive.
Or if it really is eating you up, you could text her (as him) and let her know the message was received but he’s not interested, thanks anyway ?click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_LimboPosted by GemitatiPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Is there a gym or laundry or something there where he might have talked to a woman who interpreted it as flirting ? Allow him to be innocent until proven guilty.
Exactly! Apparently she doesn’t know shit about him!
What? I understand the concern. It’s just best to hope for the best and not assume the worst since that will only make her feel horrible.
I meant the author of the note...
Oh, gotcha. Seems she knows his name and his car. Nothing else is confirmed.
Not even his name probably...
OP, did the note said his name?click to expand


Posted by Arielle83Posted by Jules-llPosted by Phantom_Limbo
Does he know about it yet or did you see it before he did? Don't assume he encouraged it. I mean, he might have, but he might not have.
The note had a woman's name, phone number and said "I saw you pulling into the complex". Who would randomly put their phone number on a man's windshield without some sort of encouragement? I wouldn't, but maybe I'm guarded?
Is he that attractive?
I’d never.
Unless he’s murdered someone and she saw and is a lawyer.click to expand
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