Help please. Virgo woman got cold feet after accusations

2 things, 1st, no more picking up random girls to replace what you really want, unless she's like, died, you know what I mean, it never works dude. Take round 2 with her a lil slow.. she overreacted and she realized it so she unblocked you.. move slowly and reaffirm trust. I'd throw a feeler out there 2 days after the unblocking.. let her take the bait.. move at her pace.. or let her move at her pace, when you feel the trust has been reestablished go in and seal the deal, be candid about the ex no longer being part of your life, and tell her how you feel about her. I had a similar situation once, the only difference is that I was open about it on like, the second date with a girl, she appreciated that, women love honesty, it allows for trust, which allows them to feel safe, now, you're a man, you want your girl to feel safe right? Know what I mean.. Honesty > everything.

I totally agree. Communication, honesty, consistency - builds trust - and that is the world for the earth signs.

It's difficult when people find out things from other people that really are not quite the entire picture. It takes time and contact daily to learn that person in and out and be able to trust as well ...

if this is what you want, then take all the time she needs and it will work out

Mmmh as a Virgo the whole blocking thing sounds like something i would do if i am extremely hurt, to the point i would do this impulsively to release the pain, and would regret that because later on i would start missing you. I think that her feelings have been extremely hurt and she obviously realised that she overreacted, but she is not going to let her guard off for a while. She must be extremely shy about her feelings, and now she expects you to make a move. She might make a small move so be responsive and fast. Things are going to be slow, it seems like she trusted you and completely gave herself to you, and she probably feels ashamed and humiliated by the recent events. Just be there and take things at her rythm, and be serious, and it might work. I think that now she expects a lot of you, she might show you a more insecure and Silent side of her. It Will be hard, but if you guys have feelings for each other...

Thanks for the time you have taken to read and give me your opinions guys.

this chick clearly likes you bro. i'm a virgo and if i ever heard some 'shady' gossip about someone i really liked my mind would go into overdrive. i would convince my self that the person can't be trusted. i would need to be reassured. you need to reassure her that everything she is putting inside of her head isn't true. if you do that then it will blow over. her feelings about the situation will not last forever if you're persistent and reassure her. if she still doesn't understand then you need to move on.

I'll wait until maybe tmmrow evening and just say hi? maybe saturday. I'm going crazy.

I disagree with everyone in this topic and I think you should move on and forget about this chick.

Virgo women will give a lot of benefit of the doubt to partners because we overthink shit a lot...and it doesn't seem like she is doing that at all. I mean you did fuck up when you answered "well I didn't tell you because you didn't ask"..since that is like...say I find out my boyfriend is a serial killer and he'd answer back "well you never asked if I spend my weekends killing people". That was an asinine answer on your behalf....HOWEVER you went above and beyond with this. Drove to her place, talked to her friend, pleaded with her...what else are you supposed to do.

Virgos who are like that...if she takes you back...from that point on she won't respect you because it will always be about catering to her insecurities. She'll walk all over you in the long run. She isn't fair with the amount of groveling she's expecting you to do over no transgression whatsoever. People who would listen to others blindly without affording an opportunity to their partner to explain themselves are just...ill equipped to be partners.

Shes not a drama girl. Shes worth my time. I have nothing better to do.

Mermaid tell me what you think.

This is just my opinion. I'm a Virgo female, and also 26. Whenever I get bad news like that, I become immediately hurt and my process of analyzing and overthing comes into play. I suggest you don't give up but defiantly give her a good week, and please stop doing whatever you do every weekend if you plan on getting her back. Just remember when a Virgo female loses all feelings you can't get her back. Yes she will be friendly but romantic interest will disappear.

Also her unblocking you is a great sign! Good luck, as we are not easy to persuade, but it is very possible