Help! Virgo man doesn't want a relationship but only cuddle up with me no sex

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I met this Virgo man and we have been on and off for the last 6 months. I am Scorpio woman, he was born on 20th of September( Virgo/Libra cusp ?). He is the weirdest guy I ever met! He says he doesn't want a relationship because he is emotionally unavailable. We haven't had sex yet because I want him to equally want to be with me (emotionally). We have mutual friends and most of the times we hangout with them I stay over his place. We have a drink, talk and cuddle up. He tells me he wants me to stay over, he says I can do it as much as I want and that he likes it. He tells me I am pretty,sexy, smart and our differences compliment each other. He says we don't have to have sex and sure thing we go to sleep and most of the times he doesn't even try to get intimate. That never happened to me before.. to sleep next to a guy and he doesn't try to have sex with me wow he doesn't talk to other girls, he is saying i am the only one who has slept at his place for a long time. I like this guy, he is very honest, affectionate, intelligent, sophisticated. I don't get it, he doesn't want a relationship but acts differently.

What should I do to get him want to commit?
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Posted by Teena
But how is he being different? He said he doesn't want a relationship n he acts like he doesn't want one!
He tells me he wants me to come over, he is fine just sleeping next to me without getting intimate, when I get frustrated and I want to leave his place he holds me and asks me to stay. He gets nervous when I say I like him. He remembers every word I say. It just his body language that is different than what he says
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Posted by TomSawyer
This is interesting.

1) His d1ck is small

2) he's very low on testo

3) he's been castrated

4) he's insane and keeping it low key

5)...anything goes

^add a few if you need to

Scorpios are having a hard time with virgos this summer
Hahha you made me laugh.. no, his package is nice, not small. He has try to sleep with me before, we made out. Just many times if I warned him i am not ready to have sex he takes it, hugs me and falls asleep, or sometimes he doesn't even try but just cuddles up. What kind of man will wait for sex so patiently for more than 5 months if that's what he is after?! He is not seeing anyone else.. I am hot this guy lays down and falls asleep.. any other will not fall asleep until he has me even I say no
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Posted by Foreign_flower
Posted by TomSawyer
This is interesting.

1) His d1ck is small

2) he's very low on testo

3) he's been castrated

4) he's insane and keeping it low key

5)...anything goes

^add a few if you need to

Scorpios are having a hard time with virgos this summer
Hahha you made me laugh.. no, his package is nice, not small. He has try to sleep with me before, we made out. Just many times if I warned him i am not ready to have sex he takes it, hugs me and falls asleep, or sometimes he doesn't even try but just cuddles up. What kind of man will wait for sex so patiently for more than 5 months if that's what he is after?! He is not seeing anyone else.. I am hot this guy lays down and falls asleep.. any other will not fall asleep until he has me even I say no

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Your reading too much into it. Just because he respected your limits and didn't rape you doesn't mean he wants to wife you.
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Posted by Foreign_flower
I met this Virgo man and we have been on and off for the last 6 months. I am Scorpio woman, he was born on 20th of September( Virgo/Libra cusp ?). He is the weirdest guy I ever met! He says he doesn't want a relationship because he is emotionally unavailable. We haven't had sex yet because I want him to equally want to be with me (emotionally).

What should I do to get him want to commit?
he's weird because he's honest?

and you can't.

he sounds gay though, to be honest lol

but likes the attention
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Foreign_flower
I met this Virgo man and we have been on and off for the last 6 months. I am Scorpio woman, he was born on 20th of September( Virgo/Libra cusp ?). He is the weirdest guy I ever met! He says he doesn't want a relationship because he is emotionally unavailable. We haven't had sex yet because I want him to equally want to be with me (emotionally).

What should I do to get him want to commit?
he's weird because he's honest?

and you can't.

he sounds gay though, to be honest lol

but likes the attention
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He is weird not because he is honest.. but he does sound gay , yeah haha
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Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by Foreign_flower
Posted by TomSawyer
This is interesting.

1) His d1ck is small

2) he's very low on testo

3) he's been castrated

4) he's insane and keeping it low key

5)...anything goes

^add a few if you need to

Scorpios are having a hard time with virgos this summer
Hahha you made me laugh.. no, his package is nice, not small. He has try to sleep with me before, we made out. Just many times if I warned him i am not ready to have sex he takes it, hugs me and falls asleep, or sometimes he doesn't even try but just cuddles up. What kind of man will wait for sex so patiently for more than 5 months if that's what he is after?! He is not seeing anyone else.. I am hot this guy lays down and falls asleep.. any other will not fall asleep until he has me even I say no


Okie, makes sence..

What you have on your hands is called " A champ"

A champ resembles a bear or a lion.

He wakes up, expands his horizon and takes a look if there are any females available for mating.

If there are n0ne, he's back in dreamland in seconds.

If there are, and he's not tired himself out from doing something, he will attempt to sprint to the vagina.

If the female sends this male negative signals, he will tell himself "oh well fuck it, I'm tired", quit and go to sleep.

If you want this fine man, you'll have to put more work in.

A king does not chase peasant snatch.

You know what to do.

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Thanks! It makes sense to me. Are you also a Scorpio I am curious?
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Posted by MiZLeo
I'm not an expert on Virgo behavior, but I do have a long time Virgo FWB. I also have a long time former fwb who is a libra. I see some similarities, so I'll try to break it down.

1. You are reading WAY to much into his behaviour. He told you he didn't want a relationship with you. He's not going to change his mind about that.

2. Libras like to cuddle. I think my Libra friend use to go by cuddlegod online at one point. With him, it was all about the cuddling on the couch watching tv or playing video games. We would do this for hours b4 having sex. It was like foreplay.

3. Virgo and Libra are always respectful. At this point he sees you as a friend. Meaning, No matter what he's going to be your friend. Both Libras and Virgos are pretty loyal to friends no matter what type of friendship it is. Libra I've known him for over 13 yrs. When I first seperated from my husband he helped set me up with a new phone. Doesnt sound like much but it was a huge help for me getting on my feet. He tomd me then hed always be there for me. It was one of those situations i was ready to break down and cry from but he got me through it. Virgo, there have been times I thought he was going to run for the hills and when I told him I'm surprised he's still around he just laughs and says "why? We are friends arent we? No matter what I will always be atleast that."


Thanks for the input 🙂 I will just back off and let him do something if he wants to.