Hey Virguys! Do you approach your love at all?

Concerning love and relationships, would you rather follow your heart even when it's a bit complicated and unpredictable,

or would you rather choose the comfy way and not take any risks?

If so, what would need to happen to make you dare to follow your heart?

Would be especially happy to hear from Gem moons! 🙂

Virgos go by logic. I have never met a virgo that follows their heart. I think even if/when they do follow their heart, they would’ve had to weigh up all the pros and cons of something. Even if they wanted something with enough emotional force behind it, they would still go by their logic.

Virgos dont access their heart compartment. Everything is a logical decision, weighing things out, even if they have an amazing person in front of them, they'l still take their time and overthink. If their heart gets involved they'll distance/cut it out to gain control of themselves.

Yes I am.

My heart gets me in trouble

And my dick gets me in trouble

Sometime my heart and dick fight each other while my brain laughs about not being apart of such nonsense.

Who ever wins ofcourse the brain will oblige because it can learn something from it...

Like don't trust your son of a bitch heart always trust your dick!

Posted by Weeds

My heart gets me in trouble

And my dick gets me in trouble

Sometime my heart and dick fight each other while my brain laughs about not being apart of such nonsense.

Who ever wins ofcourse the brain will oblige because it can learn something from it...

Like don't trust your son of a bitch heart always trust your dick!

Sooo brain isn’t even considered? 😂🧠👩🏻‍🍳

They are logical. I have two Virgo brothers and a husband.

As an example, my husband asked my sister about me for months before deciding to meet me or even seeing me. And, I knew nothing about it... like a british novel or some shit.

Posted by Weeds

My heart gets me in trouble

And my dick gets me in trouble

Sometime my heart and dick fight each other while my brain laughs about not being apart of such nonsense.

Who ever wins ofcourse the brain will oblige because it can learn something from it...

Like don't trust your son of a bitch heart always trust your dick!

Even this description is describing a logical deduction.

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Virgos dont access their heart compartment. Everything is a logical decision, weighing things out, even if they have an amazing person in front of them, they'l still take their time and overthink. If their heart gets involved they'll distance/cut it out to gain control of themselves.

That makes sense. I have this special connection with this Virgo and I feel like he cuts me out because he feels it too, and getting involved would make everything a bit messy...

That's why I was also asking if there is anything that they need to make them listen to their heart and you know be brave enough to leave something behind to go for what they love.

But I guess chances aren't good ^^

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Posted by aquatar1

Virgos dont access their heart compartment. Everything is a logical decision, weighing things out, even if they have an amazing person in front of them, they'l still take their time and overthink. If their heart gets involved they'll distance/cut it out to gain control of themselves.

That makes sense. I have this special connection with this Virgo and I feel like he cuts me out because he feels it too, and getting involved would make everything a bit messy...

That's why I was also asking if there is anything that they need to make them listen to their heart and you know be brave enough to leave something behind to go for what they love.

But I guess chances aren't good ^^

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Be consistent and patient, that'll make them let their guard down slowly. You have to show yourself to be stable, serious and genuine about them, and even make yourself somewhat vulnerable while still respecting yourself. In my experience, the virgo I know was always impressed by my intellect and observational abilities, when I could pin point personality traits of his that he specifically had or needed work on, he was impressed by that for some reason. They're sticklers for detail. You have to be paying attention, cause they definitely are. Most importantly, show that you're stable and not fickle.

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Posted by aquatar1

Virgos dont access their heart compartment. Everything is a logical decision, weighing things out, even if they have an amazing person in front of them, they'l still take their time and overthink. If their heart gets involved they'll distance/cut it out to gain control of themselves.

That makes sense. I have this special connection with this Virgo and I feel like he cuts me out because he feels it too, and getting involved would make everything a bit messy...

That's why I was also asking if there is anything that they need to make them listen to their heart and you know be brave enough to leave something behind to go for what they love.

But I guess chances aren't good ^^

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If it would make everything messy, it would only be logical for him to not follow his heart.

You’re only hope would be to present yourself as someone who could make his life 10 x better than the current situation he’s in.

If whatever situation he’s in right now meets his standards... he ain’t gonna leave it even if he feels a deep connection with you.

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Posted by hbbrnaqua

Posted by aquatar1

Virgos dont access their heart compartment. Everything is a logical decision, weighing things out, even if they have an amazing person in front of them, they'l still take their time and overthink. If their heart gets involved they'll distance/cut it out to gain control of themselves.

That makes sense. I have this special connection with this Virgo and I feel like he cuts me out because he feels it too, and getting involved would make everything a bit messy...

That's why I was also asking if there is anything that they need to make them listen to their heart and you know be brave enough to leave something behind to go for what they love.

But I guess chances aren't good ^^

If it would make everything messy, it would only be logical for him to not follow his heart.

You’re only hope would be to present yourself as someone who could make his life 10 x better than the current situation he’s in.

If whatever situation he’s in right now meets his standards... he ain’t gonna leave it even if he feels a deep connection with you.

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Thanks for the help!

Sounds like a really sad life though haha. Imagine being in a relationship with a Virgo. You would never know if they desire someone else and only stick to the relationship because you're the most justified option. I feel sorry for their partners, that doesn't sound like they have very honest relationships.

Well and I have bad luck that it happened to be a Virgo that I have this connection with.

Posted by VirgoOfTheMaleType

All the horrible comments about Virgos but I see a comment here and there from one and it's usually them defending why they aren't the way that's being described.

I can only speak for myself, I always use logic in everything because using my heart will only result in getting hurt. I can't understand how people approach situations without using logic.

Sometimes logic gets in the way.

Freeing yourself from your own prison of thought in order to give one hundred percent is the only real way to go.

Facing the fear of the unknown. It's the most stupidest thing in the world but it's a good feeling at the same time.