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how to get my virgo ex back ?
Posted by TomSawyer
God damn it, couldn't you put all of this shit in 7 sentences?
"1)My bf is a mangina
2)I treated him like shit because he was getting all feminine, that confused me, so I left him.
3)While self-improving(for him..uhhuh), I gave him another shot and asked what he thinks - he managed to fuck it up again.
4)After this, he got anxiety over our shit, "some how" landed a new female and I noticed that I have a competitor. This made me see him as a valuable asset and I wanted him back. Once I got him back - instead of him learning anything from his previous mistakes, the mangina jumps back to me and waits for me to take the lead.
5) Instead of me learning how to grow up - I decided it's easier to shut down any of the thoughts that could help me grow as a person, make me more stable and ignore them as often as I can. If I don't open my eyes - there is no problem. Flawless logic.
6)Another girl was interested in him - Yep, he's a keeper, this increased his worth by 1000000000000000000000000000000000 $ and I can't afford to lose him. I'm afraid of dying alone so I'll settle AF.
7)Help me further feed my delusions because once the emotions appear - the brain shuts down.
^This is a fuckin recipe for a successful anything."
Now, it's good that he's gonna be a doctor or something.
You can clean his ass once you file for divorce.
Note. He'll probably kill himself at some point and you'll be left alone(you should probably get used to this idea) BUT with money.
Kinda Win - Win.
He's already yours, dumbass.
You don't have to do much work.
If he's watched your emotional ass for 7 and a half YEARS - he's not going anywhere.
He likes this arrangement.
Alrighty, good luck to you both.
Cyberhugs.
Love,
Virgo
1- English isn't my first lang thats why I have hard time knowing what I need to write correctly and I wanted to put as much info as I can to get the best help !
2-u don't need to respond if u were going to act like this no one smacked ur head and forced u to read anything
3- even though I wrote alot of shit as u say u still don't understand what the point is nor u got what the whole story is =)
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