confusedbiotch
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How's your sex life with virgo male?
Best advice: live him. You obviously won’t be happy in that relationship for much longer.
Is he virgin?
Is he waiting for marriage?
Has he had sex before?
Insecurities?
Vow of celibacy?
Is he waiting for marriage?
Has he had sex before?
Insecurities?
Vow of celibacy?
No sex, ever? Damn I think your Virgo is broken. Try mine..........no maybe not. You wouldn't survive it. No, I wouldn't kill you, but his libido would.
Wait, this is the same Virgo you obsessed over 4 years ago? The one who wouldn't reciprocate your love?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/please-advise-before-i-lose-my-freaking-mind-5100480/
He might love you as a friend, but he definitely doesn't love you as a partner. It also sounds like you're far more concerned with what you want, and you haven't stopped to ask him what he wants deep down. You're awfully selfish. People told you so 4 years ago the first time you asked, and you didn't like hearing the truth. Well, the truth hasn't changed in 2018:
No matter how bad you wanted it, it's obviously not happening. Because he doesn't want to have sex with you. And a relationship without sex is fucked........no pun intended. Unless you're both 100 years old and even a blowjob would kill either of you.
There's no "I" in love. If you truly love him, you would let him go because he's obviously not happy enough with you.
Wait, this is the same Virgo you obsessed over 4 years ago? The one who wouldn't reciprocate your love?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/please-advise-before-i-lose-my-freaking-mind-5100480/
Posted by confusedbiotchJudging from that & the follow-up, I'd say it sounds like he's only with you out of obligation. Virgos can be roped into a situation they'd rather not be in, but for some reason feel obligated to stay.
I am a Capricorn female who fell in love with a Virgo man. Can't tell ya anything other than that because I haven't asked him about his chart. We aren't dating due to a distance issue but it's been talked about. Anyhoo, this dude is more flip floppy than a freaking flap jack. I don't feel like he is intentionally trying to hurt me. He's never said anything hurtful to me. Even when I make a idiotic mistake, he's always been supportive and corrected it with humor and love. I know that he has emotional issues due to having a bad break up with a cheating ex who he loved with all his heart. He's mentioned that he needs to trust again. He's so confusing. He's shown me that he can be very emotional, sweet etc. but can also be distant and stop talking to me for days, sometimes weeks. Just recently I wrote out a letter pouring my heart out and his response was very straight forward and emotionless even though he gave me the answers I was seeking. Maybe I expect more because Ive seen how emotional he can be? I don't expect It 24/7. But feelings are nice to let me know he's still into me.
Any advice? thanks in advance :-)
He might love you as a friend, but he definitely doesn't love you as a partner. It also sounds like you're far more concerned with what you want, and you haven't stopped to ask him what he wants deep down. You're awfully selfish. People told you so 4 years ago the first time you asked, and you didn't like hearing the truth. Well, the truth hasn't changed in 2018:
No matter how bad you wanted it, it's obviously not happening. Because he doesn't want to have sex with you. And a relationship without sex is fucked........no pun intended. Unless you're both 100 years old and even a blowjob would kill either of you.
There's no "I" in love. If you truly love him, you would let him go because he's obviously not happy enough with you.
Posted by RooSagicornI second this question, especially relating to the sex.
Has it always been like this?
If not, you'll have to have a honest conversation with him and see what's up. It could be that he's stressed about something for example.
In terms of romance, what is it that you're expecting him to do that he's not doing?
Posted by IxionThat means nothing, because the way they started was a disaster to begin with. Look at the link I provided above. She's posted about the same guy before, 4 years ago, and she got the exact same answers. She simply didn't like them.
Also this notion of there being no "I" in a romantic situation is hogwash... Long-term relationships are an engineered system of which you as an individual are a critical component....in any engineered system if a critical component fails, breaks down, collapses, explodes the entire system is typically damaged or destroyed or at the very least will stop working as intended. Internal work is as much a part of being with someone healthily as them working on themselves is.
He was never into her, and she most likely guilt-tripped him into being with her. But his actions speak far louder than words: he wants no part of her. The only true romance is in her head. That's what I meant about there being no I in love. Hers is one-sided but she's too busy clinging onto a fantasy to consider his feelings (or lack thereof) and what he wants. If she really loves him, she would do the right thing and let him be. Just like I was prepared to do for my Virgin.
Does he never initiate? Or do you initiate and he shuts you down??
Posted by confusedbiotchSee this sounds like romance to me...what exactly do you want from him. Candlelight dinners? Gifts? Poetry?
He's always telling me he loves me, always kissing me and is attentive.
Yes, it's always been like this. We've done other things, but not actual intercourse.
Is he virgin? No
Is he waiting for marriage? No
Has he had sex before? Yes
Insecurities? Maybe, but his dick shouldn't be one of them if you catch my drift
Vow of celibacy? No
Is he virgin? No
Is he waiting for marriage? No
Has he had sex before? Yes
Insecurities? Maybe, but his dick shouldn't be one of them if you catch my drift
Vow of celibacy? No
Posted by confusedbiotch
We've been together for 2 years and live together. He's always telling me he loves me, always kissing me and is attentive. However, he doesnt want to have sex. Ever. We're both in our mid 20's so I am confused. I did ask him about it and he brushes it off. I don't press the issue because I hate confrontation. It's making me feel very confused because hes always attentive and loving yet he doesnt want to have sex!
Also, he's not very romantic. Is that a thing with virgo guys? I mean, I'm not too romantic myself but dang, a little romance every now and then is nice. I just don't want to tell him how to act..I want it to come from him. just needing advice. =/
Gurl just grab it then hop on it 😉
Mine isn't romantic at all he shows his love by buying things or helping me with a task.
Just last night he tried to buy his way out of going to the movies smh.. but that's just his way. Everybody isn't the same but you know that.
Tell him how you feel. You must communicate because nobody can read minds.Trust me, you are going to continue being disappointed. I had to teach my dude how to make love to me.
Good luck..
Like I said in my post, he's affectionate and attentive in every other way. Makes future plans, Constantly telling me he loves me, kisses me, holds my hand, etc. in every other way EXCEPT for sex. He did no such thing before when we were friends (which we've been for 6 years now) As for me being ''selfish'', that's awfully ignorant to assume based on what little information I have provided. However regarding that, I have asked him when we first started and we laid all our shit out in regards to what we see for a life. He's always known my position on relationships that if one partner is unhappy, then they should leave. I'm not into that resentful childs play and we would still be friends. Some people just aren't a match. I however don't believe that sex is the make it or break it when everything is pretty damn good in all other areas. Also, he's the one who couldn't tell me what the problem was. So I didn't push it. If I was selfish, I would have pushed and I would have demanded his dick right there and then or decided to pull some bs my friend did and go cheat on him then rub it in his face because he couldn't provide me with his man log. So ''letting him go'' is his choice and he knows it.
My question is not advice on what I should do in my relationship. It's regarding the sex aspect of a male virgo. I know a few and they are all fucking weird in their relationships. They have amazing qualities besides that though.
Ixion- Thank you very much for your advice. I know, it's such a huge issue for me in all areas of life. I have social anxiety so the least bit of confrontation leaves me extremely uncomfortable and as a result, leaves issues to fester. lol I will check that link out.
Mhmmm- Maybe a romantic date or something? Had an issue about these types of things with my last ex too. We are both home bodies and rarely leave.
LadyNeptune- The pasts few times I've initiated, he shut me down and made an excuse. He used to write poetry when he was younger, a poem would be nice. lmao
HeavyEntertainmentShow- It was a completly different situation before. It was one sided and it wasn't a good situation to be in. And again, assumptions. He was the one initiating as far as contact and being a couple but didn't know how to handle his shit before because the last woman he was with was a whore who slept with the whole town. So I never got on his ass about why he was being wishy washy because honestly, if I was ever cheated on, I probably wouldn't date at all. There was no guilt tripping involved. There was no fantasy involved. We live together, share the same bed. He CHOSE all of this, I didn't force him nor lure him.
Please don't deflect your personal crap onto me. Whether you feel frustrated and you're genuinly trying to help because you've been in a familiar situation or you're just here to bash.
Yodi- LMAO That's exactly what my friend said! lol But since he's turned down my advances, I wouldn't feel right about doing it. Otherwise I TOTALLY would. And it is refreshing to hear about your story. That's what it feels like..I have to teach him. Because all the times we would do intimate things, he seemed almost timid about it. He talked real nasty to me and got me pumped until we got together and it was nothing like that. lmao (we never did anything sexual until we got into a relationship)
Time to strap on the big girl panties and communicate like a big girl and not a avoidant piece of doo. =p
Mhmmm- Maybe a romantic date or something? Had an issue about these types of things with my last ex too. We are both home bodies and rarely leave.
LadyNeptune- The pasts few times I've initiated, he shut me down and made an excuse. He used to write poetry when he was younger, a poem would be nice. lmao
HeavyEntertainmentShow- It was a completly different situation before. It was one sided and it wasn't a good situation to be in. And again, assumptions. He was the one initiating as far as contact and being a couple but didn't know how to handle his shit before because the last woman he was with was a whore who slept with the whole town. So I never got on his ass about why he was being wishy washy because honestly, if I was ever cheated on, I probably wouldn't date at all. There was no guilt tripping involved. There was no fantasy involved. We live together, share the same bed. He CHOSE all of this, I didn't force him nor lure him.
Please don't deflect your personal crap onto me. Whether you feel frustrated and you're genuinly trying to help because you've been in a familiar situation or you're just here to bash.
Yodi- LMAO That's exactly what my friend said! lol But since he's turned down my advances, I wouldn't feel right about doing it. Otherwise I TOTALLY would. And it is refreshing to hear about your story. That's what it feels like..I have to teach him. Because all the times we would do intimate things, he seemed almost timid about it. He talked real nasty to me and got me pumped until we got together and it was nothing like that. lmao (we never did anything sexual until we got into a relationship)
Time to strap on the big girl panties and communicate like a big girl and not a avoidant piece of doo. =p
Posted by confusedbiotch
Yodi- LMAO That's exactly what my friend said! lol But since he's turned down my advances, I wouldn't feel right about doing it. Otherwise I TOTALLY would. And it is refreshing to hear about your story. That's what it feels like..I have to teach him. Because all the times we would do intimate things, he seemed almost timid about it. He talked real nasty to me and got me pumped until we got together and it was nothing like that. lmao (we never did anything sexual until we got into a relationship)
Time to strap on the big girl panties and communicate like a big girl and not a avoidant piece of doo. =p
Hahaha I'm glad I could help..
Just like you have to teach him..you need to learn him too..study him.. figure out what triggers him to engage in those intimate moments yall do share. I understand you don't want to push him. They can be very stubborn and only move when they want to
Try answering the door with just your panties on and act normal asf.. Sitting on his lap helps too.. when all else fails buy a vibrator and leave it where he can see it.. let me know what's his reaction lol
I have some more if you want but it's too
x rated 😅 btw he sounds like a sweetheart.
LOL oh dear, you haven't changed a bit, have ya?
Madness is doing the same thing over and over again & expecting different results. People told you what's up the first time 4 years ago but you were too weak-minded to handle the truth. That obviously hasn't changed. Only weaklings call honesty bashing. Voila.
He may have initiated whatever but it's beyond obvious that at some stage he changed his mind. But he feels close to you in a platonic way and that's why he's still there. Maybe he feels bad for misleading you with his words, and that's where the obligation thing can come in. But his unwillingless to have sex with you speaks far louder than anything he might say.
How do I know? Because I've dated 4 Virgos in my time, two of them were the biggest loves of my life, one is THE love of my life & my current partner. It didn't work out with the previous guy because there was an ex girlfriend with his kid involved whom he still had great chemistry with, and I knew he was too nice to leave me after the amazing year+ we had together (the obligation thing FTW), so I ended it myself. Not that it was easy, I still loved him like crazy.
But I'm a realist and I saw reason, and I wanted the kid to have a chance at a life with both parents. It almost killed me in the end, but it was the right thing to do. Whatever happened with them was their problem. My current guy is the best one ever, and the most difficult one to start. It's been a rollercoaster but he's the man of my dreams and I wouldn't change a thing about him.
What they all had in common is their libido, and they had no problem getting it up. My current one is a frikkin godamn sexual tyrannosaurus
up for it 24/7. The other day he woke me up twice during the night for zug-zug. So when they are at peace, they will fuck you until your eyes pop all the way to the back of your head, and will fuck you until they pop right back out.
#what-a-healthy-Virgo-sex-life-looks-like
So your guy has problems, and you only care about yourself. He's better off without you. Virgos carry a shit-ton of baggage, and what can make them fall in love is when their partner has the ability to alleviate their burden & make them feel better about themselves and everything else. When they come home heavy of mind & heart, they need their partner to give them a long hug and a kiss, and help them relieve the stress of everyday life by showing them the bright side.
THAT'S what I can do, and that's why my beautiful man is with me (among other reasons). Because I am capable of putting him first ahead of my own desires. I don't nag or snipe or emotionally guilt-trip him. I help him unload and get that weight off him, and by the time we're ready for bed that smile up there seems incapable of leaving his face or his Mr Winky's. And that's the biggest reward in the world for me.
You obviously can't do that, otherwise he'd be getting it up and KEEPING it up. Mental self-cockblock. Ouch. If you can't take the heat, get your ass outta the kitchen. And grow a skin. And brush your teeth.
#blunthonestyFTW
Madness is doing the same thing over and over again & expecting different results. People told you what's up the first time 4 years ago but you were too weak-minded to handle the truth. That obviously hasn't changed. Only weaklings call honesty bashing. Voila.
He may have initiated whatever but it's beyond obvious that at some stage he changed his mind. But he feels close to you in a platonic way and that's why he's still there. Maybe he feels bad for misleading you with his words, and that's where the obligation thing can come in. But his unwillingless to have sex with you speaks far louder than anything he might say.
How do I know? Because I've dated 4 Virgos in my time, two of them were the biggest loves of my life, one is THE love of my life & my current partner. It didn't work out with the previous guy because there was an ex girlfriend with his kid involved whom he still had great chemistry with, and I knew he was too nice to leave me after the amazing year+ we had together (the obligation thing FTW), so I ended it myself. Not that it was easy, I still loved him like crazy.
But I'm a realist and I saw reason, and I wanted the kid to have a chance at a life with both parents. It almost killed me in the end, but it was the right thing to do. Whatever happened with them was their problem. My current guy is the best one ever, and the most difficult one to start. It's been a rollercoaster but he's the man of my dreams and I wouldn't change a thing about him.
What they all had in common is their libido, and they had no problem getting it up. My current one is a frikkin godamn sexual tyrannosaurus
up for it 24/7. The other day he woke me up twice during the night for zug-zug. So when they are at peace, they will fuck you until your eyes pop all the way to the back of your head, and will fuck you until they pop right back out.
#what-a-healthy-Virgo-sex-life-looks-like
So your guy has problems, and you only care about yourself. He's better off without you. Virgos carry a shit-ton of baggage, and what can make them fall in love is when their partner has the ability to alleviate their burden & make them feel better about themselves and everything else. When they come home heavy of mind & heart, they need their partner to give them a long hug and a kiss, and help them relieve the stress of everyday life by showing them the bright side.
THAT'S what I can do, and that's why my beautiful man is with me (among other reasons). Because I am capable of putting him first ahead of my own desires. I don't nag or snipe or emotionally guilt-trip him. I help him unload and get that weight off him, and by the time we're ready for bed that smile up there seems incapable of leaving his face or his Mr Winky's. And that's the biggest reward in the world for me.
You obviously can't do that, otherwise he'd be getting it up and KEEPING it up. Mental self-cockblock. Ouch. If you can't take the heat, get your ass outta the kitchen. And grow a skin. And brush your teeth.
#blunthonestyFTW
Yodi- Stop reading my mind! lol =p I have one and left it out last week. Not on purpose, I was charging it and wasnt expecting him to come home so early. I used it so wasnt in the mood for anything even if he was gonna initiate. lol I didnt realize it until he kept looking down (its in the very bottom drawer) when we were talking .lmao He truly is a sweetheart, which is why I don't think sex is just an automatic break up unless there's a serious reason involving me somehow. He seems really shy which is just so weird to me because usually guys jump at anything sex related super quick so Im totally not used to this type of behavior!
LethalFantasia- I'm hoping for that lmaoo
RooSagicorn-you know it drives me crazy hahaha like a fat kid in a candy store who's mother says no candy! =p
LethalFantasia- I'm hoping for that lmaoo
RooSagicorn-you know it drives me crazy hahaha like a fat kid in a candy store who's mother says no candy! =p
Posted by topesHe's the Virgo lol Maybe he thinks she's not clean enough. Maybe he only wants it fresh out the shower 😄
Why am i thinking he may have something wromg downstairs? Is he not clean or something?
He's not potentially gay is he? Or Asexual? Or demisexual? Not even trying to joke here, just surprised not to see those as possibilities...
topes- Certainly not. Nothing to be ashamed about down stairs for him. 😉
saggurl88- Haaa..not.
earlorg16- No, he's not. But can be celibate for long periods of time with no problem.
My friend's bf (who's not a virgo) was doing the exact same thing, only every time they did try to have sex, he got soft.
saggurl88- Haaa..not.
earlorg16- No, he's not. But can be celibate for long periods of time with no problem.
My friend's bf (who's not a virgo) was doing the exact same thing, only every time they did try to have sex, he got soft.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo27Hopefully you give the same courtesy!Posted by saggurl88Posted by topes
Why am i thinking he may have something wromg downstairs? Is he not clean or something?
He's the Virgo lol Maybe he thinks she's not clean enough. Maybe he only wants it fresh out the shower
Ain't it 👊
I wouldn't want it any other way. click to expandclick to expand
HeavyEntertainmentShow, you just stated that you had a rough start to your relationship so don't act all high and mighty with your condescending bull shit.
Posted by Nevamorewe've done sexual things before...his weenie is all good in that regard.=p lolol
Astrology aside, I had a feeling that he might have a disease going on his dick. Like std or something else. I mean he did had sex before and perhaps he wants yo protect you for not having it same.
Posted by confusedbiotchPosted by PotHeadVirgo27Posted by confusedbiotchPosted by PotHeadVirgo27Posted by saggurl88Posted by topes
Why am i thinking he may have something wromg downstairs? Is he not clean or something?
He's the Virgo lol Maybe he thinks she's not clean enough. Maybe he only wants it fresh out the shower
Ain't it 👊
I wouldn't want it any other way. click to expand
Hopefully you give the same courtesy!
Definitely. click to expand
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*insert thumbs up emoji here*
Posted by confusedbiotchMy Virgo husband is also a homebody and not really one to plan dates/trip etc. So normally I’ll plan them and we’ll go together and have a good time.
Mhmmm- Maybe a romantic date or something? Had an issue about these types of things with my last ex too. We are both home bodies and rarely leave
I think the main issue with both the romance and Sex here is that you’re not communicating your wants and needs with him. You know your Virgo better than anyone on here so we can all only advice you so much. Talk to him.
Posted by VirgalLuvsCoffee
“ Virgos carry a shit-ton of baggage, and what can make them fall in love is when their partner has the ability to alleviate their burden & make them feel better about themselves and everything else. When they come home heavy of mind & heart, they need their partner to give them a long hug and a kiss, and help them relieve the stress of everyday life by showing them the bright side...”
Your words here are deep! If only people thought just like you. You definitely know your Virgos. Kudos 🙌🏽😬 what’s your sign btw?
Pisces sun + Virgo moon = recipe for Virgo success (+ Aries-dominant)
My beautiful man is Leo/Virgo cusp sun + Cap moon (+ Leo-dominant)
and what I described up there happened with him just an hour ago. He was wiped. And where is he now? He got in the car & drove to the shopping center 25 minutes away to buy me my favorite icecream brand that is a bit hard to find, after paying a large personal bill of mine & bought me a huge Nandos dinner.
Posted by confusedbiotchHad a rough start because I'm gay and he was straight, my brainiac sweetie. Add to that our significant age gap and things became difficult. But we became instant best friends & 4 years later he's the one who gave himself to me, all on his own.
HeavyEntertainmentShow, you just stated that you had a rough start to your relationship so don't act all high and mighty with your condescending bull shit.
So come & spend 24 hours in our new home, then tell everyone how difficult it looks now.
Nevamore- My original post is what happened the last time I confronted. He is picking up dinner on the way home from work and I plan on laying it out all on the table tonight, so we'll see!
Mhmmm- I asked my friend who's dating a virgo man about the romance and she said the same thing! lol She has to do all the work and he'll just come along for the ride. lol
HeavyEntertainmentShow-
''Had a rough start because I'm gay and he was straight, my brainiac sweetie''
Is it REALLY that hard to write something without being condescending? I know you're a Pisces so you feel you have to always be right but jesus christ, get over yourself. Also, you want to belittle our beginning, insinuate that I'm crazy and weak yet you fell for someone who you couldn't even have and someone who wasn't ready to be with you at the time..literally my situation 4 years ago. So shoo with your negative ass self.
Mhmmm- I asked my friend who's dating a virgo man about the romance and she said the same thing! lol She has to do all the work and he'll just come along for the ride. lol
HeavyEntertainmentShow-
''Had a rough start because I'm gay and he was straight, my brainiac sweetie''
Is it REALLY that hard to write something without being condescending? I know you're a Pisces so you feel you have to always be right but jesus christ, get over yourself. Also, you want to belittle our beginning, insinuate that I'm crazy and weak yet you fell for someone who you couldn't even have and someone who wasn't ready to be with you at the time..literally my situation 4 years ago. So shoo with your negative ass self.
Could be a medical thing. Time to have a serious conversation so that your relationship can stay strong. Your needs matter too.
But first try this....
Have him get naked or at least down to his chonies...and give him a relaxing massage with oil. Almond or coconut oil is best. Half way through have him flip over onto his back. If theres a tent staring at you make your way down and then ride him to glory. Yw.
But first try this....
Have him get naked or at least down to his chonies...and give him a relaxing massage with oil. Almond or coconut oil is best. Half way through have him flip over onto his back. If theres a tent staring at you make your way down and then ride him to glory. Yw.
Posted by confusedbiotchThats his virgo moon, not pisces sun. lol
HeavyEntertainmentShow-
''Had a rough start because I'm gay and he was straight, my brainiac sweetie''
Is it REALLY that hard to write something without being condescending? I know you're a Pisces so you feel you have to always be right but jesus christ, get over yourself. Also, you want to belittle our beginning, insinuate that I'm crazy and weak yet you fell for someone who you couldn't even have and someone who wasn't ready to be with you at the time..literally my situation 4 years ago. So shoo with your negative ass self.
I just know my bff is Pisces and as much as I love that damn girl, she ALWAYS has to be right! lmao She'll fight about something that she's wrong about even when we're all lookin at her like, girl, everybody knows. Maybe she has virgo in her moon, too. lol
Posted by confusedbiotch
Yodi- Stop reading my mind! lol =p I have one and left it out last week. Not on purpose, I was charging it and wasnt expecting him to come home so early. I used it so wasnt in the mood for anything even if he was gonna initiate. lol I didnt realize it until he kept looking down (its in the very bottom drawer) when we were talking .lmao He truly is a sweetheart, which is why I don't think sex is just an automatic break up unless there's a serious reason involving me somehow. He seems really shy which is just so weird to me because usually guys jump at anything sex related super quick so Im totally not used to this type of behavior!
LethalFantasia- I'm hoping for that lmaoo
RooSagicorn-you know it drives me crazy hahaha like a fat kid in a candy store who's mother says no candy! =p
Hahaha oh really?!.. and you have a rechargeable one too 😅 you little freak you lol.. I have one too 😅😅
I'm not all that surprised he didn't say anything when he saw it. But I was hoping for some type of reaction like.. " can I use it on you or watch you" or at least a "wtf is that" reaction lol
He probably sniff it when you left the house 😋
Sex isn't a deal breaker and I'd much rather deal with a dude that takes his time or that has a low sex drive then a horny cheating azz mfer..
I'm rooting for yall..
Posted by YodiPosted by confusedbiotchLMAO you're a riot. I'll surprise him by using it on him once things start steaming up. LMAO And truuue. I don't have a high libido so I can't deal with a man who has one either. lol We have an amazing emotional connection, and although we may not be as passionate as a soap opera, I'm hoping for some good romps in pound town.
Hahaha oh really?!.. and you have a rechargeable one too 😅 you little freak you lol.. I have one too 😅😅
I'm not all that surprised he didn't say anything when he saw it. But I was hoping for some type of reaction like.. " can I use it on you or watch you" or at least a "wtf is that" reaction lol
He probably sniff it when you left the house 😋
Sex isn't a deal breaker and I'd much rather deal with a dude that takes his time or that has a low sex drive then a horny cheating azz mfer..
I'm rooting for yall.. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by confusedbiotchMy Pisces sun has nothing to do with anything. It's all my Aries Mercury/Venus/Mars that have no patience for thick-skulled people who make the same stupid mistakes over and over again without ever learning anything. And when - surprise surprise - things don't go their way, they arm themselves with a lame sob story & expect other people to solve their problems for them. I'm definitely glad I looked at your post history in the beginning.
Nevamore- My original post is what happened the last time I confronted. He is picking up dinner on the way home from work and I plan on laying it out all on the table tonight, so we'll see!
Mhmmm- I asked my friend who's dating a virgo man about the romance and she said the same thing! lol She has to do all the work and he'll just come along for the ride. lol
HeavyEntertainmentShow-
''Had a rough start because I'm gay and he was straight, my brainiac sweetie''
Is it REALLY that hard to write something without being condescending? I know you're a Pisces so you feel you have to always be right but jesus christ, get over yourself. Also, you want to belittle our beginning, insinuate that I'm crazy and weak yet you fell for someone who you couldn't even have and someone who wasn't ready to be with you at the time..literally my situation 4 years ago. So shoo with your negative ass self.
Also, a few days ago and again today, I spoke to a young woman who is a rape survivor. I know her personally and she is an important person in my man's life. Her strength has blown me away completely. Then I see you, a clueless thin-skinned broad who has, for years, been emotionally leeching off a poor guy who is too nice for his own good. What the hell are you doing with your life, woman?
And your rant up there further proves my point. You have no idea what real love is. If you did, you'd know that you don't choose who you fall in love with - my Jed is the LAST person I'd ever expect to fall in love with. The main difference between you and me, however, is that I never once pressured him to do anything he didn't want to do.
I told him I was gay from the start because I didn't want to pretend around him. He said he was fine with it but asked me not to make any moves on him because he's "not into that". I completely respected his wishes, I promised I would never cross the line and I kept that promise. And I certainly did not put pressure on him by confessing my love. I loved him for 3 years and I never even told him that I liked him in that way until he forced it out of me.
Because I am capable of being selfless. You are not, because you are too wrapped up in your own delusional world to give a shit about anyone but yourself. It was true 4 years ago - and people called you out on that bullshit, and it's still true today.
2 years ago I was suicidal but as soon as I found out my boy was hurting, it's like a switch was flipped. All I could think about was comforting him. All my suicidal tendencies disappeared completely. I reached out to him and I promised I would do everything in my power to help him and that I would be there for him 24/7. I meant it and I kept my promise because I love him more than anything in this world, that's how he learned to love me back.
And he learned that his life is better with me in it, that's why he didn't want to let me go & why we're together today. I didn't accomplish that by rubbing my expectations in his face, but by being 100% selfless and being his rock when he needed one most. He would call me up anytime during the day and night, keep me awake for hours or would even turn up past midnight at my doorstep just to talk and unload. Yeah I lost quite a bit of sleep because I was so worried about him, but it didn't matter. I was helping him through his crisis and the visible difference I was making in him was all the reward I needed, seeing him smile again at the end until next time.
Your guy has major issues and all you care about is that he's not having sex with you, whereas the FIRST thing you should be concerned with IF you truly love him is helping HIM deal with his psychological wounds, not adding to them by being an emotional succubus with your self-centered approach to everything.
You are suffocating him, and you don't even give a shit. I wouldn't be surprised if you Norma Bate-d him just to keep him around. And indeed, I'm not "insinuating" that you are crazy & weak; that's beyond obvious. You're not the victim here, the Virgo man is YOUR victim.
This is most likely totally unrelated, but I crushed hard on a Virgo, and since I live in my head and fantasize a lot I would picture us in a relationship, and for some reason I would vision us only having sex once, and never again. I don't know why that kept popping up in my mind, but it would. I was a virgin at that time btw.
Years later I mentioned to a friend that I use to like him a lot, and I know he liked me because he'd always stare at me, and she said they had classes together and he'd always comment on her shoes. In a nutshell she thought he was gay. I believe my sister thought so too. A few years after that I saw him somewhere and he was carrying himself like a gay male, but saw me and straightened up, which was so weird. I never personally got that vibe from him when we were in school together, but I wonder if that's a reason why I couldn't see us having sex like that.
Anyway, in your case, I couldn't imagine a guy not being sexually attracted to someone he has feelings for, unless he's saving himself for marriage? Idk
Years later I mentioned to a friend that I use to like him a lot, and I know he liked me because he'd always stare at me, and she said they had classes together and he'd always comment on her shoes. In a nutshell she thought he was gay. I believe my sister thought so too. A few years after that I saw him somewhere and he was carrying himself like a gay male, but saw me and straightened up, which was so weird. I never personally got that vibe from him when we were in school together, but I wonder if that's a reason why I couldn't see us having sex like that.
Anyway, in your case, I couldn't imagine a guy not being sexually attracted to someone he has feelings for, unless he's saving himself for marriage? Idk
HeavyEntertainmentShow- I'm done interacting with someone with your kind of mentality. Perhaps if you conversed like an adult and not like a 12 year old kid who feels the need to constantly throw around insults, we could, but that's obviously not reality. S good luck on life's journey. =)
lnana04- It's never been a worry. I mean, we have a mutual hot male friend who has the hots for my man so if he wanted to, he totally could. Even offered a threesome. lmao
We finally had a heart to heart talk last night and he told me that he is sexually attracted to me and that is not the reason why we haven't been more intimate. He said that he's sorry he didn't just come out and say it because he knew I wouldn't judge him but at the same time, he's been judged because of it by the past heifers he was with, the last one being a cheating whore (she has a sugar daddy who's in his late 70's so I guess it wasnt that big of a deal for her afterall lol) That he would never plan a life with someone if he didn't think we had no sexual chemistry. He has extreme performance anxiety and it's affected every relationship he's had which makes me sad to hear because he's an amazing guy lack of sex would not be enough to break up with him for. Apparently bj's are just fine but the actual sex part is what gets him. We talked about how we need to be more open with our communication and not be so timid because me not being open about how I feel is just as bad as him not being open about his problems. Basically said baby don't be so down about a time frame during sex. I get off quick so if you're a minute man, then it's all good. (his eyes lit up lmfao) I don't want to fuck for hours...all that friction...naah. lmao I'm on the rag so I wasn't trying to get frisky but eventually I'll ride it when the time comes.
lnana04- It's never been a worry. I mean, we have a mutual hot male friend who has the hots for my man so if he wanted to, he totally could. Even offered a threesome. lmao
We finally had a heart to heart talk last night and he told me that he is sexually attracted to me and that is not the reason why we haven't been more intimate. He said that he's sorry he didn't just come out and say it because he knew I wouldn't judge him but at the same time, he's been judged because of it by the past heifers he was with, the last one being a cheating whore (she has a sugar daddy who's in his late 70's so I guess it wasnt that big of a deal for her afterall lol) That he would never plan a life with someone if he didn't think we had no sexual chemistry. He has extreme performance anxiety and it's affected every relationship he's had which makes me sad to hear because he's an amazing guy lack of sex would not be enough to break up with him for. Apparently bj's are just fine but the actual sex part is what gets him. We talked about how we need to be more open with our communication and not be so timid because me not being open about how I feel is just as bad as him not being open about his problems. Basically said baby don't be so down about a time frame during sex. I get off quick so if you're a minute man, then it's all good. (his eyes lit up lmfao) I don't want to fuck for hours...all that friction...naah. lmao I'm on the rag so I wasn't trying to get frisky but eventually I'll ride it when the time comes.
Posted by confusedbiotch
HeavyEntertainmentShow- I'm done interacting with someone with your kind of mentality. Perhaps if you conversed like an adult and not like a 12 year old kid who feels the need to constantly throw around insults, we could, but that's obviously not reality. S good luck on life's journey. =)
lnana04- It's never been a worry. I mean, we have a mutual hot male friend who has the hots for my man so if he wanted to, he totally could. Even offered a threesome. lmao
We finally had a heart to heart talk last night and he told me that he is sexually attracted to me and that is not the reason why we haven't been more intimate. He said that he's sorry he didn't just come out and say it because he knew I wouldn't judge him but at the same time, he's been judged because of it by the past heifers he was with, the last one being a cheating just like me (she has a sugar daddy who's in his late 70's so I guess it wasnt that big of a deal for her afterall lol) That he would never plan a life with someone if he didn't think we had no sexual chemistry. He has extreme performance anxiety and it's affected every relationship he's had which makes me sad to hear because he's an amazing guy lack of sex would not be enough to break up with him for. Apparently bj's are just fine but the actual sex part is what gets him. We talked about how we need to be more open with our communication and not be so timid because me not being open about how I feel is just as bad as him not being open about his problems. Basically said baby don't be so down about a time frame during sex. I get off quick so if you're a minute man, then it's all good. (his eyes lit up lmfao) I don't want to treetrunk for hours...all that friction...naah. lmao I'm on the rag so I wasn't trying to get frisky but eventually I'll ride it when the time comes.
Do you see what happens when you put dem big girl drawls on 😋 gurl I am proud of you lol
One question tho.. does he bust quick during oral? and does he give back?
A minute man should be skilled with his tongue and fingers..
Okay that was two questions lol.. seriously tho as long as your satisfied your good.
LOL He's a giver as well. But during bj's I don't have to slow down because if he didnt tell me to stop, he'd bust quick like. lol I personally don't see a problem with nutting quick during bj but guess its a big downer for the fellas. lol
Posted by confusedbiotchMyb yo I didn't see this..
LOL He's a giver as well. But during bj's I don't have to slow down because if he didnt tell me to stop, he'd bust quick like. lol I personally don't see a problem with nutting quick during bj but guess its a big downer for the fellas. lol
Okay good 👍🏿 so he eats it 🙌🏿
I don't care if a dude bust quick either during oral.. I feel like I deserve a pat on the back the quicker I can get him to 😅
LOL
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