onix
@onix
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If a Virgo likes you, does he ....
I wish I could help hun... I just dealt with a kind of similar situation with a Virgo and found out that he wasn't into me but he portrayed that he did to me. So honestly Virgo's are a HUGE question mark in the mind of this Pieces. I thought Virgo's were above playing games with a person they are not into. So I duuno.
There are MANY knowledgeable and helpful Virgos on these boards so hopefully they can chime in and help. Just remember Taurus be nice! lol Not too say you won't! Just be aware Virgo's (especially on this board) don't put with bullbutter. Honestly they shouldn't have to.
There are MANY knowledgeable and helpful Virgos on these boards so hopefully they can chime in and help. Just remember Taurus be nice! lol Not too say you won't! Just be aware Virgo's (especially on this board) don't put with bullbutter. Honestly they shouldn't have to.
They do test. And they like freedom, not clingy, but like to know u put them first in a relationship. Everything you said you didn't like, they do, but don't do it yourself..yes its a contradictory. if u put limits on them, they will run or do it more. let him be who he is and he'll appreciate that more.
Posted by onix
.... plays mind games & put you in testing situations ?
Okay, let me give a li'l details, I really like a Virgo guy & we get along pretty well. I've given him many hints that I like him ... he reciprocated by caring for me & by offering help, whenever I needed.
Once I told him that I feel hurt if am ignored, I feel jealous if my partner would flirt with other girls, that am li'l impatient & I seek a lot of attention.
Since then he has started behaving weird .... not giving me much attention like before, making me jealous by flirting with girls in front of me (at facebook too), ignoring to respond back to my text messages often, keeping me on wait .... & doing everything that would make me feel upset & stressed😢
He is often being so sarcastic & picking a lot at me .....
I'm really confused, if he doesn't like me ... or he actually likes me, just playing with my mind?
How should I react now ?
Plz help me with your opinions, thank you 🙂
i HAVE BEEN DEALIN WITH AN SIMILIAR SITUATION ALSO, BUT WHAT I LEARNED HERE IS THAT THEY WANT WOMEN THAT ARE INDEPENDENT, BAD BITCHES WITH ATTITUDES SUCH AS I DONT NEED YO AZZ BUT ITS KOOL YOUR AROUND...I TOO MADE THAT SAME MISTAKE ABOUT TELLIN I GET JEALOUS CAUSE IM POSSESSIVE WHICH HE DID THE SAME THINGS AS FLIRTED TO SEE HOW I WOULD REACT, THEN HE SEEN I WOULDNT ACT A FOOL CAUSE I FEEL IM TOO CLASSY FOR THAT WE WERE FINE FOR A WHILE, IT IS A BIG QUESTION MARK WITH THEM BUT THEY WANT SOMEONE TO BE IN THEIR CORNER 100% BUT THEY TEST YA TOO DAMN MUCH AND LONG TO SEE IF YOU WILL BE MADE OR BROKEN ....GIVE HIM SOME SPACE FOR A WHILE, STAY OFF EMOTIONAL TALKIN , JUST CONSIDER THIS, IF YOU ARE AS IMPATIENT AS YOU SAY YOU CAN BE SOMETIMES, THAT IS WHY HE IS TORTURING YOU, NOW IS THE TIME TO BE KOOL AND LAID BACK ON HIS ASS, AND IF HE DOESNT WANT YOU THEN CONTINUE TO JUST BE HIS FRIEND AND IF ITS MENT IT WILL BE....I JUST MADE A THREAD ON WEATHER OR NOT I SHOULD STAY WITH MY VIRGO OR CHOOSE TO BE BACK WITH MY BABYDAD, BUT THEIR CHARTS ARE SIMILIAR BUT BD IS A LEO....SO WITH YOUR VIRGO HAVE YOU DONE HIS CHART COMPARISON TO YOURS YET AT CAFE ASTROLOGY.COM—?IF NOT GO DO IT THEN POST IT, WHO KNOWS YOU MAY JUST BE TO COMPATIABLEE WITH HIM AND HE'S SCARED THAT YOU MAY NOT ADD UP TO BE THE WOMAN THAT HE PORTRAYED YOU TO BE IN THE BEGINNING...BUT MY COUSIN IS A TAURUS SO I KNOW YOUR A NEATFREAK, WHICH VIRGOS LOVE AN ORGANIZED WO
Posted by capbaby
They do test. And they like freedom, not clingy, but like to know u put them first in a relationship. Everything you said you didn't like, they do, but don't do it yourself..yes its a contradictory. if u put limits on them, they will run or do it more. let him be who he is and he'll appreciate that more.
CAP BABY YOU MADE TOO MUCH SENSE WITH THAT THERE. WHICH IS SOMETHIN THEY DO TEND TO DO, WHEN YOU GIVE EM THEIR CHANCE TO BE THEM AND THEY DO COME BACK THEY TEND TO BE SO LOVIN WHICH CONFUSES THE HELL OUT OF YA CAUSE THEY TELL YOU ITS DONE THEN COME BACK AND SAY THEY DIDNT MEAN IT LIKE THAT , THEY WERE TALKIN ABOUT BEIN DONE WITH THE EMOTIONAL STUFF WE PUT THEM THRU.....WHATS YALL MOON SIGNS>>MINES IS VIRGO MOON
Again??
No. When a Virgo likes you, he doesnt play games.
He might play games with himself but not with the person he truly desires.
See I wouldnt want to waste time letting you know how I feel for you because some other asshole might have the same feelings for you and there is no way im letting anyone get the upper-hand....especially cause I was too busy playing games id punch myself in the face if I lost you to someone because I wasted time.
So to answer your question.....
NO.
(Unless there is no competition. I guess that would be the only time I would feel comfortable playing mind games and testing you, i rather get to testing your stamina, than testing how much you like me, know what im saying? , O-face...Ohhh-Oohh)
No. When a Virgo likes you, he doesnt play games.
He might play games with himself but not with the person he truly desires.
See I wouldnt want to waste time letting you know how I feel for you because some other asshole might have the same feelings for you and there is no way im letting anyone get the upper-hand....especially cause I was too busy playing games id punch myself in the face if I lost you to someone because I wasted time.
So to answer your question.....
NO.
(Unless there is no competition. I guess that would be the only time I would feel comfortable playing mind games and testing you, i rather get to testing your stamina, than testing how much you like me, know what im saying? , O-face...Ohhh-Oohh)
:::: shakes head ::::
No matter how many times we tell them .. they still come here with this bullshit.
Ok, from what you wrote, you seek drama .. and this seeking of your drama is what pushed him away. It has nothign to do with tests.
You tell a guy to whom isn't even your boyfriend, in fact, you two are nothing except friends and you tell him things like .... I'm the jealous type, and don't like to be ignored ... there is no reason for you to tell him this unless you had an expectation of him to respond to it by means of giving you more attention and to stop talking to other girls.
The ONLY REASON you told him that ... was to play for his attention .. rather than actually be a mature adult female and attempt to develop a reasonable courtship process with him.
In his mind, he saw at that moment that you're an attention whore and so is fuckign with you because you deserve it .. deserve it because you put expectations on him (by saying those things) to provide you with your whoring gratification.
Seriously ... wtf is it with people and their entitlement issues?
No matter how many times we tell them .. they still come here with this bullshit.
Ok, from what you wrote, you seek drama .. and this seeking of your drama is what pushed him away. It has nothign to do with tests.
You tell a guy to whom isn't even your boyfriend, in fact, you two are nothing except friends and you tell him things like .... I'm the jealous type, and don't like to be ignored ... there is no reason for you to tell him this unless you had an expectation of him to respond to it by means of giving you more attention and to stop talking to other girls.
The ONLY REASON you told him that ... was to play for his attention .. rather than actually be a mature adult female and attempt to develop a reasonable courtship process with him.
In his mind, he saw at that moment that you're an attention whore and so is fuckign with you because you deserve it .. deserve it because you put expectations on him (by saying those things) to provide you with your whoring gratification.
Seriously ... wtf is it with people and their entitlement issues?
yea for the most part, that is completely true, but do virgo men NOT>>tell you to be truthful—
So when you let that aspect be known , they do tend to do exactly what you say bugs you . bein an attention whore is the way they would portray it, so holdin on to what you will not tolerate is showing them it is ok....i really
Again??
No. When a Virgo likes you, he doesnt play games.
He might play games with himself but not with the person he truly desires.
IF THIS IS TRUE THEN WHAT TYE OF GAMES WOULD IT BE THEY WOULD PLAY WITH THEMSELVES?
wOULD IT BE ISOLATING IN HIS HOME?
FEELIN LIKE HE IS NOT WORTHY OF THIS WOMAN ?
i WOULD LIKE TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THAT ONE
So when you let that aspect be known , they do tend to do exactly what you say bugs you . bein an attention whore is the way they would portray it, so holdin on to what you will not tolerate is showing them it is ok....i really
Again??
No. When a Virgo likes you, he doesnt play games.
He might play games with himself but not with the person he truly desires.
IF THIS IS TRUE THEN WHAT TYE OF GAMES WOULD IT BE THEY WOULD PLAY WITH THEMSELVES?
wOULD IT BE ISOLATING IN HIS HOME?
FEELIN LIKE HE IS NOT WORTHY OF THIS WOMAN ?
i WOULD LIKE TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THAT ONE
ITA with Pangel "The ONLY REASON you told him that ... was to play for his attention .. rather than actually be a mature adult female and attempt to develop a reasonable courtship process with him...deserve it because you put expectations on him (by saying those things) to provide you with your whoring gratification.'
'WHEN YOU GIVE EM THEIR CHANCE TO BE THEM AND THEY DO COME BACK THEY TEND TO BE SO LOVIN'
-yep.
'WHEN YOU GIVE EM THEIR CHANCE TO BE THEM AND THEY DO COME BACK THEY TEND TO BE SO LOVIN'
-yep.
'When a Virgo likes you, he doesnt play games. '
Yes he does. I did something to mine and he said for the rest of the day i was going to pay for it. The day after, it was forgotton. LOL..it was all in teasing but still..
They are a walking contradictory sometimes but if you are a woman who will put them in their place when they need it, lovingly, you stand a fair better chance.
You try and make them jealous...they will do it to you twofold.
You try and tell them their wrong, they wont admit it..well they might but they dont like it.LOL
You give them unconditional love, you will receive it from them.
They will do anything for you, but act ungrateful, use them, or stab them in the back, they will reciprocate.
if he says he loves you, he does and dont question it.
Sometimes they need space, give it to him. Doesnt mean he loves u any less.
You had better be secure in yourself and your relationship.
Mine has moon in Aquarius. And my moon is in Sag. we're both friendly freedom lovers and respect that about each other.
Yes he does. I did something to mine and he said for the rest of the day i was going to pay for it. The day after, it was forgotton. LOL..it was all in teasing but still..
They are a walking contradictory sometimes but if you are a woman who will put them in their place when they need it, lovingly, you stand a fair better chance.
You try and make them jealous...they will do it to you twofold.
You try and tell them their wrong, they wont admit it..well they might but they dont like it.LOL
You give them unconditional love, you will receive it from them.
They will do anything for you, but act ungrateful, use them, or stab them in the back, they will reciprocate.
if he says he loves you, he does and dont question it.
Sometimes they need space, give it to him. Doesnt mean he loves u any less.
You had better be secure in yourself and your relationship.
Mine has moon in Aquarius. And my moon is in Sag. we're both friendly freedom lovers and respect that about each other.
SO IT IS JUST ALL ABOUT ENJOYIN WHAT YOU GOT INSTEAD OF TRYIN TO PUT LIMITATIONS ON IT . . SO YEA THOSE ARE POINTS THE VIRGO MEN MAKE WITH THEIR ACTIONS. TODAY IM REALLY OUT OF IT, BUT THE FOCUS WAS ALWAYS ABOUT WEATHER OR NOT THEY MAKE YOU HAPPY ENOUGH TO WAIT FOR THEM, CAUSE IF ATTENTION WHORES IS WHAT WE ARE THEN THE GUY WE NEED RIGHT NOW ARE NOT THEM, CAUSE THEY WANT IT THEIR WAY ...LIKE THE VIRGIN KMSL
Hello everyone & thanks a lot for all your helpful infos .... I've realized now that I've done a big mistake by letting him know my expectations from him ... he didn't like me putting any limitations ....as once he even said that I can't bound him .... but he also said he likes me .... so that made me confused!
Now I'm trying to keep it cool .... earlier I used to do emotional displays when I felt hurt or ignored, but then he treated me cold!
How should I handle this situation in a matured way, so that he gradually stops doing all those annoying acts & behave normal like before ?
Now I'm trying to keep it cool .... earlier I used to do emotional displays when I felt hurt or ignored, but then he treated me cold!
How should I handle this situation in a matured way, so that he gradually stops doing all those annoying acts & behave normal like before ?
Posted by onix
Hello everyone & thanks a lot for all your helpful infos .... I've realized now that I've done a big mistake by letting him know my expectations from him ... he didn't like me putting any limitations ....as once he even said that I can't bound him .... but he also said he likes me .... so that made me confused!
Now I'm trying to keep it cool .... earlier I used to do emotional displays when I felt hurt or ignored, but then he treated me cold!
How should I handle this situation in a matured way, so that he gradually stops doing all those annoying acts & behave normal like before ?
Just continue to work on being calm and collected. Keep future conversations with him light and airy. Enjoy your life, there is so much in the world to experience. Be happy with or without him. Don't wait on him or wonder what he is doing. Let him contact you so that he feels in control. If he comes around then great, if he doesn't then that's ok, too. Learn your lesson from this and work on not repeating this the next time with someone else.
Thanks so much MoonMan & Georgia .... very helpful suggestions indeed.
I really needed to know, cause I was feeling so puzzled & messing up even more.
I'm learning to be cool & collected now .... just keeping up my hopes !
I really needed to know, cause I was feeling so puzzled & messing up even more.
I'm learning to be cool & collected now .... just keeping up my hopes !
'earlier I used to do emotional displays when I felt hurt or ignored, but then he treated me cold!'
-yep they will. they will walk away until you can collect yourself rationally..at least mine. but i am Cap/aqua cusp, so I don't display outlandish emotions often. I can calmly talk about things.
'IF ATTENTION WHORES IS WHAT WE ARE THEN THE GUY WE NEED RIGHT NOW ARE NOT THEM, CAUSE THEY WANT IT THEIR WAY ...LIKE THE VIRGIN '
they dont want drama. I've known my virgo 12 years..we were platonic best friends before a lover relationship started. I was in a 10 yr relationship, so we could never be more and respected that. He told me i broke his heart all those years ago when I became involved with someone. But I reminded him back then he was not in a position to get into a relationship, so he can't hold that against me. He did agree. So now is our time because this is where the path of life has led us...our destiny when the time was right.
-yep they will. they will walk away until you can collect yourself rationally..at least mine. but i am Cap/aqua cusp, so I don't display outlandish emotions often. I can calmly talk about things.
'IF ATTENTION WHORES IS WHAT WE ARE THEN THE GUY WE NEED RIGHT NOW ARE NOT THEM, CAUSE THEY WANT IT THEIR WAY ...LIKE THE VIRGIN '
they dont want drama. I've known my virgo 12 years..we were platonic best friends before a lover relationship started. I was in a 10 yr relationship, so we could never be more and respected that. He told me i broke his heart all those years ago when I became involved with someone. But I reminded him back then he was not in a position to get into a relationship, so he can't hold that against me. He did agree. So now is our time because this is where the path of life has led us...our destiny when the time was right.
Thanks a lot Capbaby ... this is so true!
I wish if I were at this forum earlier I would have been alert about these facts .... but I messed up with emotional stuff, & now paying off 😢
I wish if I were at this forum earlier I would have been alert about these facts .... but I messed up with emotional stuff, & now paying off 😢
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Once I told him that I feel hurt if am ignored, I feel jealous if my partner would flirt with other girls, that am li'l impatient & I seek a lot of attention.
Since then he has started behaving weird .... not giving me much attention like before, making me jealous by flirting with girls in front of me (at facebook too), ignoring to respond back to my text messages often, keeping me on wait .... & doing everything that would make me feel upset & stressed😢
He is often being so sarcastic & picking a lot at me .....
I'm really confused, if he doesn't like me ... or he actually likes me, just playing with my mind?
How should I react now ?
Plz help me with your opinions, thank you 🙂
btw ... am a Taurus girl.