Is it OK to send a happy valentines text to your Virgo ex?

Long story shot. I want to send my virgo ex a happy valentines day text. Just to let her know that she will be forever in my heart. We have been apart for close to 10 months now. What do you think Virgos? will she freak out or just ignore my text?What will exactly go on in that ever working and analyzing mind of hers.

Posted by chris19

Long story shot. I want to send my virgo ex a happy valentines day text. Just to let her know that she will be forever in my heart. We have been apart for close to 10 months now. What do you think Virgos? will she freak out or just ignore my text?What will exactly go on in that ever working and analyzing mind of hers.

I KNEW St. Valentine's Day would be brought up!! (was feeling it since last month; for y'all NOT for me!)...this topic I mean.



🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge

Depends on where you’re both at now? Has it been no contact or are you friends who hangout?

We don't talk anymore. She broke up with me. We went separate ways. So there is been no contact at all.

Uhh, so you told her happy V-day, 9 days before hand? LOL

Posted by nikkistar

Uhh, so you told her happy V-day, 9 days before hand? LOL

I haven't yet done that. I was just thinking of doing it maybe a day before V-Day.

Posted by chris19

Posted by nikkistar

Uhh, so you told her happy V-day, 9 days before hand? LOL

I haven't yet done that. I was just thinking of doing it maybe a day before V-Day.

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LOL, I can't. Sorry, but this comes off as really over analyzing to the point of being neurotic. You are sitting on a website, asking a bunch of strangers, if you should text an ex, a week and a half before that text would even be delivered.

Can we just sit back for a second, and see just how weird that is? lol

Do it do it do it do it do it

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Posted by nikkistar

Uhh, so you told her happy V-day, 9 days before hand? LOL

I haven't yet done that. I was just thinking of doing it maybe a day before V-Day.

LOL, I can't. Sorry, but this comes off as really over analyzing to the point of being neurotic. You are sitting on a website, asking a bunch of strangers, if you should text an ex, a week and a half before that text would even be delivered.

Can we just sit back for a second, and see just how weird that is? lol

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I am a little sensitive. I just wanted

to find out how you would feel if you were in her shoes. I respect her needing the space and don't want to ruin that.

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Posted by nikkistar

Uhh, so you told her happy V-day, 9 days before hand? LOL

I haven't yet done that. I was just thinking of doing it maybe a day before V-Day.

LOL, I can't. Sorry, but this comes off as really over analyzing to the point of being neurotic. You are sitting on a website, asking a bunch of strangers, if you should text an ex, a week and a half before that text would even be delivered.

Can we just sit back for a second, and see just how weird that is? lol

I am a little sensitive. I just wanted

to find out how you would feel if you were in her shoes. I respect her needing the space and don't want to ruin that.

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As a girl, if I broke up with a guy, and he texted me on Valentine's day, after almost a year of no contact, I would think it was weird and creepy.

I was hoping to get back with her. I am hoping to take things slow this time because the last time I was aggressive.

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Posted by nikkistar

Uhh, so you told her happy V-day, 9 days before hand? LOL

I haven't yet done that. I was just thinking of doing it maybe a day before V-Day.

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Is she in a relationship? That wouldn't be a good idea, if so. If not she may come around and give you some if she's lonely 😄

Awkward

Why would you tell her the day before—————————————————————————?

What good is that?

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Posted by chris19

I was hoping to get back with her. I am hoping to take things slow this time because the last time I was aggressive.

Don't do it, it's not worth it

Its just your Leo moon obsessing

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Thanks, its hard to forget her. I almost got rid of thinking about her until recently. Something hit me like hell and made me think of her. I am currently working on my life, finding time for myself appreciating myself, getting busy with my projects and work. I haven't had time for dating lately. I have been avoiding other potential mates lately. I feel like I need closure with her.

Posted by nanobot

Who wants a happy vday text from someone you broke up with and haven't spoken to for 10 months?

Don't even go there. Vday is lame to begin with even if you have talked to her in the past 10 months.

And no I'm not single and bitter. I'm just bitter 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Or send the text so she can show it to her vday date over dinner and they can giggle and bond over how cringe it is.

As long as the breakup wasn't horrific, I would think it was sweet/flattering that someone thought of me. And start reminiscing, but I'm leeb moon sappy that way...

I say go for it but not Valentine's day....just reach out to her now. If she doesn't respond...you have your answer and can move on.

Lol @ how non virgos are telling you no but the Virgals are telling you yes.

Tbh I’d say Life is short, go for it. But maybe not on Valentine’s Day per se.

I would absolutely not, sorry 😄

Not answering the question, but I just want to say fuck nikkistar hardcore (and not even the fun way like on v-day).

Asking for help, advice, and a detached, objective, outsider's opinion......... yeah, so neurotic. What a psychopath this guy must be! Ehhhhh go fuck yourself, niks.

Idk why but calling him neurotic for asking a question just super rubs me the wrong way (and not even the fun way like I'm gonna do myself on v-day).

1.) You're in a *forum*

2.) You're in a *Virgo* forum

3.) Y'lost? ...We ask questions here...

Posted by chris19

Just to let her know that she will be forever in my heart.

Exactly the thing i love about water sign.

I would listen to the Virgo women in this topic OP.

Wouldn't do it on Valentine's day but if you just want to send a message and have no expectations tied into it..just keep it simple and sweet and honest. Don't put any pressure.

"Hey, you crossed my mind lately and I wanted you to know this.". Keep it simple and go with the flow depending on how she answers.

I hope you're not into the arrogant type of Virgo diva but even so, I can guarantee she would smile upon reading and wouldn't consider you lame. Might not answer etc but she wouldn't judge against a moment of emotional honesty/openness.

Posted by Damnata

I would listen to the Virgo women in this topic OP.

Wouldn't do it on Valentine's day but if you just want to send a message and have no expectations tied into it..just keep it simple and sweet and honest. Don't put any pressure.

"Hey, you crossed my mind lately and I wanted you to know this.". Keep it simple and go with the flow depending on how she answers.

I hope you're not into the arrogant type of Virgo diva but even so, I can guarantee she would smile upon reading and wouldn't consider you lame. Might not answer etc but she wouldn't judge against a moment of emotional honesty/openness.

Thanks, that ,makes sense.I will contact her at the right time and definitely not V-day I guess.

Posted by ineedmorespace

Any update?

I sent her message a week before V day. I believe she saw it. However, she didn't reply to it.

One more thing is that she some how didn't block the contact I used. Sometime last year I used to send her random messages after we broke up and she blocked the contacts I was using. However, she didn't block the contact I used now or recently. I am thinking there is hope for her to give me another chance. I don't know what she is thinking right now. I don't think she has already moved on with another person. I believe she is not in a relationship or dating someone else.

Another, thing is that she is unpredictable. She is a typical Sept Virgo. She has mood swings sometimes. I guess I just have to wait and see. But I am planning to go and see her with a bouquet of flowers sometime soon. I am expecting the worst but hoping for the best.