
ABee
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Posted by ABee
woah, i come here after months and recieve such an awesome thread 🙂 haha.
so i am a virgo woman and i promise i am not a nagger nancy or a debby downer, but again, i'm sure you wouldn't know unless you would meet me.
however, i can be very picky (true!) and i do like asking questions when i meet people in order to know what i'm dealing with. so that, yes, i accept.
i also wanted to say something...i am an august virgo and have notice a little difference between me and other girls i know who are september virgo. some september virgos i know are a little wilder and more confusing that what i ever knew...so true. i think august virgos are a bit more reserved and not as scandalous, but then again, who knows. each side must have and need a crazy, right? 🙂
lady_m thanks for sharing some of your thoughts, it has been actually interesting to read and i hope you get to meet more sane, fun, unique women virgo friends out there, i promise you some of us are actually non-dramatic, loyal, and very easy-going!
cappy_sweetie, i hope you get the chance to meet some nice virgo women friends too, i am telling you, it isn't as bad as it might seem. ha.
oh and as far as the comments of cancers, oh please, they are so sweet but sometimes dating them feels like participating in a soap opera, they are lovely, but oh...so confused with their emotions. sigh. however i dated 3 of them for a while, so i better not say anything bad, haha.
my future roomies are an aqua girl (i dated a fun aqua for a while) and a gemini guy (i love talking with geminis people) so we will see how it goes!!
cheers!
abee



have to cut it down a bit, lol.
Virleogirl09,
I have some Leo in my chart too 🙂 I'm not sure what that means, but it's fun to see someone out there with it too (apparently some sagi and libra as well).
Yeah that is interesting, I guess with the Leo, it makes us more upfront about things when it comes to social situations in general. It gives us that umph lol
Have you met other virgo women friend? One of my favorite study budddies is another Virgo. We get along really well and have no problem agreeing to disagree since we obviously do have different opinions about certain things. But when we hang out with other friends, we try to keep our conversations not so deep, for the sake of everyone, haha, so we keep it simple 😉
Yeah, I have a few friends who were virgo. I had one of the best friendships with them, we did everything together. Like you said, we had things that we agreed and disagreed on, but they were all in good terms. We definitely just loved to have fun and mess around at the time and funny enough have the same reaction towards things, but that can just be common or coincidential for everyone.
However, I have met just recently (which is why finding this post Lady_M made so interesting) some virgo females who although look very innocent have shared some things with me that are rather a bit scandalous, haha, I was like --> :Oclick to expand
I have to agree with you on this, there are definitely some virgos who do have dark secrets, until they share it. I definitley know one friend, but she's a libran with virgo in moon. At the time she held in a lot of things inward, but til this day.. she does not have a care in the world what anyone thinks - once you give yourself to someone you are like a bird with flying wings lol. She's not a w.h.o.r.e though. I just personally don't know anyone that they described like that to the extreme, but I bet there are a few out there that are However.. lol. Three-some is just nuts in my opinion, kind of sick, if u know what I mean. I would certainly stay away from them.

So, apparently we all seem to have some things in common, such as the appreciation for intelligent people, deep conversations, unique outlooks of life, etc, but also feel not so fond of vulgarity and empty heads or souls.
Yet, it seems to me (through some recent evaluation) that some of us have mastered the use of analysis about people in the "flirtatious" arena more than others, lol. I guess what I mean by this is. I have seen the shy type of virgos (I think most of us tend to be shy at the beginning) that are genuinely just a tiny bit clueless and upfront with regards to feelings and attractions they might have towards someone (i.e. me!) yet are very friendly and somehow get lucky from time to time 😉 Yet, there there the other type of virgo females who start shy first (as most) BUT have used their minds to understand more about guys or girls or people in general when it comes to laws of attraction and attention, and could use this knowledge for better or worst. You know what I mean? Have you seen that? I recently have and it has been very interesting.click to expand

I think what Lady_M has been exposed to has been the extremes of both sides...the extreme perfectionist that criticize a lot and aren't very exciting sometimes or the extreme crazies that pretty much a bit dramatic and very good at getting the people they want and then do whatever they would like with them.
I consider myself to be more in the middle, tending more towards the more prude side than not with some rare fun situations in between the serious side 😉


I didn't get to you any sooner..
virleogurl09,
yes, new outlooks at life...it is so refreshing and interesting to find that. i completely get you in that it doesn't have to be necessary something necessarily new but defenitely containing new theories or ways of presentation. i love it when people bring something new in my life that i never heard before, which to be quiet honest is rare, because i tend to investigate most things haha, so when i meet people who do i'm very happy.
Yeah, I suppose we're really good at doing the investigation lol .. our brains need to be kept stimulated.
as far as the scandolous part of some virgo females. i was thinking about this a bit before i wrote back and you know, i wonder if the meaning of what is crazy and wild changes from person to person really, even from sign to sign, because some things i consider scandalous might be actually quiet normal for other signs.
for example, the threesome idea, totally unnecessary, i completely agree!
Well, you know, I'm sure there will be people like that within any month.. I mean in this big world.. it's not going to be so perfect. I think it really depends on the individual and what they were surrounded by or what situation they were in to get their selves to do things in those ways. Iunno.. it really just depends on the person, I guess some people just don't really care and enjoy what they consider "fun", even though.. it really is over the Top. But who knows, you might be onto something, it may be more common for some others than we know.
i want to experience the world and experience many things, but some of them are really unnecessary and of no value to me...such a threesomes or cheating...it simply makes no sense in my mind to seek for such experiences. i know the possible outcomes of it all at different levels for me and for everyone involved and they don't seem worth it, in my opinion.click to expand
Yeah it is unnecessary.. I guess some people just get caught up in it by their own mistakes or just other people who got them into it. Maybe even for just money, this isn't quite a jolly world.
Now about experience.. Venice should be pinned, which is most certainly a High priority on my list currently. Waaaay off topic.. lol

i have many friends who are extremely liberal and others who are extremely conservative and i respect them all. afterall, they need to be free to make their own decisions, but i know my limits well, there are some things i really wouldn't be interested in testing.
by the way, new friend, i have a venus in libra too, which personally i would rather not have :p it kind of makes my love life a bit more necessary than what it should, haha, you know what i mean? i joke around with friends about it, because it is like my desire for singleness fights it!click to expand

Yeah it is unnecessary.. I guess some people just get caught up in it by their own mistakes or just other people who got them into it.
Now about experience.. Venice should be pinned, which is most certainly a High priority on my list currently. Waaaay off topic.. lol

by the way, new friend, i have a venus in libra too, which personally i would rather not have :p it kind of makes my love life a bit more necessary than what it should, haha, you know what i mean? i joke around with friends about it, because it is like my desire for singleness fights it!

Posted by passwordnotfoundPosted by cappysweetie
lol, its a simply reason why a virgo can't have a capricorn boss. Virgo's aren't good at being told what to do ^_^.
It's true enough. It is not about any particular sign, we just don't like authority when it is not us.click to expand

Posted by No1delete2
cappy: Virgo's aren't good at being told what to do ^_^.
That's because we don't have to be told - we can see what needs to be done ourselves...
The Cappies I've dealt with didn't like being "bossed" around, either -- Hell! They didn't even like to be assisted - and it was my job at the time to perform desk side computer support. It's like they thought I was secretly joking about the stupid things they did on their computer - way too sensitive for that particular situation...

Posted by ABee
woah, i come here after months and recieve such an awesome thread 🙂 haha.
so i am a virgo woman and i promise i am not a nagger nancy or a debby downer, but again, i'm sure you wouldn't know unless you would meet me.
however, i can be very picky (true!) and i do like asking questions when i meet people in order to know what i'm dealing with. so that, yes, i accept.
i also wanted to say something...i am an august virgo and have notice a little difference between me and other girls i know who are september virgo. some september virgos i know are a little wilder and more confusing that what i ever knew...so true. i think august virgos are a bit more reserved and not as scandalous, but then again, who knows. each side must have and need a crazy, right? 🙂
lady_m thanks for sharing some of your thoughts, it has been actually interesting to read and i hope you get to meet more sane, fun, unique women virgo friends out there, i promise you some of us are actually non-dramatic, loyal, and very easy-going!
cappy_sweetie, i hope you get the chance to meet some nice virgo women friends too, i am telling you, it isn't as bad as it might seem. ha.
oh and as far as the comments of cancers, oh please, they are so sweet but sometimes dating them feels like participating in a soap opera, they are lovely, but oh...so confused with their emotions. sigh. however i dated 3 of them for a while, so i better not say anything bad, haha.
my future roomies are an aqua girl (i dated a fun aqua for a while) and a gemini guy (i love talking with geminis people) so we will see how it goes!!
cheers!
abee


Posted by Jason2213
Virgo girls are good comedians.

Posted by RumiPosted by ABee
my latest attraction to other virgos has been very interesting. it's been almost like a mini experiment that has allowed me to understand better how others might percieve us...and yes, some virgos can be so confusing!
ABee
do tell abt this 'mini experiment'.. what did you find?
🙂
V and V.. is a great match, i think.. much better than any same sign pairing.click to expand


it is my current dilemma friend. it's hard. it's like a duality within me. one side enjoys singleness and knows that it is a stage i need to go through right now, but the venus in libra kicks it here and there...making it a bit more complicated within me. hopefully, i'll keep my mind focused on the things i need to accomplish before i get into anything that isn't worth my heart.


its so good to know that understand the complexity of the whole venus un libra thing in a virgo woman. oh man! i wonder if its one of those things that we are supposed to deal with so that it will keep us humble 🙂 haha.
i don't know about you, but i have a blast when i go out and i do enjoy having lots of fun, but i'm more a relationship type of girl (whereas that comes from the libra side or virgo or a combination of both) so i can only enjoy that randomless purposeless fun to a certan extent...more like a temporary thing, but deep within i enjoy something more meaningful and lasting for sure. the problem is that unlike other friends, i can't rush into relationships either (which might be a good thing) given my pickyness.click to expand

i have enjoyed experiencing what i have experiencing about love this far though, inspite of all the complications and confusions at times. i have felt very blessed to have dated the people i did. i was very sure before i dated them for a while that i wanted to take a chance with them and if thinsg didn't work out they didn't because of outside factors, such as timing, distance, or a being at different places in life...you learn from everything you know?
as far as the short term fun things (which in my case it isnt anything huge), i am glad that they were only that and nothing more and yet nothing else, because you learn from them too.
stay focused friend, after all you need to follow your dreams and passions because nobody else will do it for you and when the right person comes along (for whatever reasons) you will know that they are worth your time and affection. you are not alone in this quest of finding purpose and love while still learning to live here...it is a matter of time before we find out what is the next step and everyday is such a gift!!click to expand

Posted by RumiPosted by ABee
my latest attraction to other virgos has been very interesting. it's been almost like a mini experiment that has allowed me to understand better how others might percieve us...and yes, some virgos can be so confusing!
ABee
do tell abt this 'mini experiment'.. what did you find?
🙂
V and V.. is a great match, i think.. much better than any same sign pairing.click to expand




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thanks for being so understanding. i appreciate the way you respond to my comments and i am so glad that you can understand so many of my thoughts. that's really cool.
i had some questions related to something you said...
Posted by VirLeogurl09its so good to know that understand the complexity of the whole venus un libra thing in a virgo woman. oh man! i wonder if its one of those things that we are supposed to deal with so that it will keep us humble 🙂 haha.
Hm, who knows, I guess it makes us express in ways to be people friendly..
i don't know about you, but i have a blast when i go out and i do enjoy having lots of fun, but i'm more a relationship type of girl (whereas that comes from the libra side or virgo or a combination of both) so i can only enjoy that randomless purposeless fun to a certan extent...more like a temporary thing, but deep within i enjoy something more meaningful and lasting for sure. the problem is that unlike other friends, i can't rush into relationships either (which might be a good thing) given my pickyness.
Ditto, I can see what you're saying.. I'm not much of a every night party goer myself, I think that kind of stuff gets old rather quickly and it just plays a role in giving headaches. It certainly is best to find a relationship that is true to the core and not one just for having a side partner for fun -- that is only considered a friendship imo, but I think it's good to have a balance of both of that.. but more so something meaningful. And yes, I'm not much of a rusher either, it seems quite intimidating to me to just rush into things. Especially when you aren't so certain about the other person.. it's best to get a very good idea where he is coming from and if he's right to go any further. Rushing only results to problems.click to expand
when you evaluate people how do you evaluate them?
i observe the way they behave with others, the things they say, the way they act, but also the way they make me feel...
interestingly enough even when i meet people with lots of potential i still can't move so fast. its like a new level arises and its the one of fearing getting hurt...because i know i could potentially like this person. do you feel that way sometimes too?
sometimes i wish i was a bit more bold, a bit more impulsive, a bit crazier...but i'm not, unless i've been dr


when you evaluate people how do you evaluate them?
i observe the way they behave with others, the things they say, the way they act, but also the way they make me feel...
interestingly enough even when i meet people with lots of potential i still can't move so fast. its like a new level arises and its the one of fearing getting hurt...because i know i could potentially like this person. do you feel that way sometimes too?
sometimes i wish i was a bit more bold, a bit more impulsive, a bit crazier...but i'm not, unless i've been drinking, which i mostly do it socially if i have to, but i rarely get even tipsy because i don't like being out of my mind and or lack self-control in silly ways, i rather help others and give rides and just dance a little and remember everything 😉
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anyway, i appreciate my silly self even with the complications, but i wish i could better closing the deal with people i like sometimes or simply feel attracted too, especially now that i am single. i don't have to work hard at getting people to approach me or even tell me that they like me, but they usually have to be the ones to kiss me first and flirt with me, it would be nice to just kiss someone i like first for a change you know? i just don't know how in the world people do that. i freeze and i just don't have any lines or moves that would help out. hmm...they should have some classes for people who want to learn to be bold once in a blue moon! 🙂
oh one more question. do you think you like challenging people? my friends tease me saying i do...and i never thought about that before.click to expand

Posted by Shaks
bla bla blah typical virgo girl bullshit, if theres one thing theyre good at is bullshitiing their way out of everything and mind fucking people for pleasure.
No, I dont wanna hear the excuses. Dont say anything, shut up.



Posted by Shaks
obviously she wants to portray herself as the innocent virgin, but we all know youre closet whores virgo girls, so SHUT UP AGAIN!

Posted by VirLeogurl09Posted by Shaks
obviously she wants to portray herself as the innocent virgin, but we all know youre closet whores virgo girls, so SHUT UP AGAIN!
What is with you? Please explain lolclick to expand

Posted by Hypnotic1o1
maybe we do.. more important: are you hot ?

Posted by ABeePosted by VirLeogurl09Posted by Shaks
obviously she wants to portray herself as the innocent virgin, but we all know youre closet whores virgo girls, so SHUT UP AGAIN!
What is with you? Please explain lol
i think charming Shaks needs some love and/or a good meal! 😉 lol
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Posted by Scorpio_Nympho
I dont like any Virgo females that I have been introduced to. They have been snotty, conceited, and they nit pick at things, and theyre just ughh!

Posted by Hypnotic1o1
your e-vibes are telling me.. you are.. this shy-online..
hottie..
You will never display your pic, therefore I won't hide my sadness
😢😢
laters



Posted by ShaksPosted by ABeePosted by VirLeogurl09Posted by Shaks
obviously she wants to portray herself as the innocent virgin, but we all know youre closet whores virgo girls, so SHUT UP AGAIN!
What is with you? Please explain lol
i think charming Shaks needs some love and/or a good meal! 😉 lol
Stupid virgo bitches, always act like everyone is expecting their advice or suggestions SHUT UP.click to expand

What's up friend! 🙂
I laughed so hard at your thought of "just go for it and think, the heck with it!" haha. I will keep that on my mind next time I'm near someone I like 😉 afterall whar is the worst that can happen right??
Yes, I do want to be the first one to make a move one day soon, like give someone a kiss first and shock them! that should be exciting 🙂
As far as loosing up a bit...I mean I do have a little party side in me okay and I'm sure I can become so fun when I'm typsy, but I just don't feel safe doing that at clubs or public places. However, I will try to connect with the Leo in me and have an occasional crazy time one of these days ok? 😉
Finally, what I meant by challenging people is not sometimes that I like to challenge them (which is fun too) but more I tend to feel attracted to people who seem to be a challenge...makes sense? I haven't noticed that until some friend mentioned and its a bit true. But perhaps because their is a relationship between showing indepence and seeming a challenge? I don't think I feel that way towards them because its like a game, but rather because they have qualities, such as independence, that I like...but maybe I need to think about this some more to make sure I'm not just doing it for the wrong reasons...click to expand



Posted by Shaks
haha, teasing virgo girls is so easy 😉 had even one of them send me a long PM asking me what was going on when I dont even know her lol

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That is so interesting.
I too have many friends and make new friends easily.
I am organized at home, but not as others would assume.
I do live in my mind often, but don't worry about things that aren't worth it.
I am very selective about who is closest to me and who I date romantically, this is true, but I am open to meet all sorts of people and chat with everyone.
I so observe and study people's behavior and learn tons by just being in touch with reality, but woudn't let people know my thoughts about them, unless they ask.
I value details and appreciate abstract beaty and things that need deeper understandings.
Like, Lady_m, I do not like nagger nancy's and debby downers either. Although I would let them be, haha, I would not be able to get along with them as much, because I tend to be more of positive thinker and very laid-back.
Perhaps the chart's explain some more..
I have noticed some because attributes that haven't changed from virgo women, no matter what month they are born, age, or background...such as selectiveness, analytical ways, and a liking for deeper conversations and details. I used to think all of us were a bit more innocent than the rest of our friends, but lately I've been meet some few that can be a little scandalous and VERY confusing, so I understand why some men and other women would be frustrated with some few virgos.
Hopefully, the rest of ones that have more balanced lives and happy thoughts would try to represent some more! 😉
Abee