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LibertarinVirgo,

That is so interesting.

I too have many friends and make new friends easily.
I am organized at home, but not as others would assume.
I do live in my mind often, but don't worry about things that aren't worth it.
I am very selective about who is closest to me and who I date romantically, this is true, but I am open to meet all sorts of people and chat with everyone.
I so observe and study people's behavior and learn tons by just being in touch with reality, but woudn't let people know my thoughts about them, unless they ask.
I value details and appreciate abstract beaty and things that need deeper understandings.

Like, Lady_m, I do not like nagger nancy's and debby downers either. Although I would let them be, haha, I would not be able to get along with them as much, because I tend to be more of positive thinker and very laid-back.

Perhaps the chart's explain some more..

I have noticed some because attributes that haven't changed from virgo women, no matter what month they are born, age, or background...such as selectiveness, analytical ways, and a liking for deeper conversations and details. I used to think all of us were a bit more innocent than the rest of our friends, but lately I've been meet some few that can be a little scandalous and VERY confusing, so I understand why some men and other women would be frustrated with some few virgos.

Hopefully, the rest of ones that have more balanced lives and happy thoughts would try to represent some more! 😉

Abee

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woah, i come here after months and recieve such an awesome thread 🙂 haha.

so i am a virgo woman and i promise i am not a nagger nancy or a debby downer, but again, i'm sure you wouldn't know unless you would meet me.

however, i can be very picky (true!) and i do like asking questions when i meet people in order to know what i'm dealing with. so that, yes, i accept.

i also wanted to say something...i am an august virgo and have notice a little difference between me and other girls i know who are september virgo. some september virgos i know are a little wilder and more confusing that what i ever knew...so true. i think august virgos are a bit more reserved and not as scandalous, but then again, who knows. each side must have and need a crazy, right? 🙂

lady_m thanks for sharing some of your thoughts, it has been actually interesting to read and i hope you get to meet more sane, fun, unique women virgo friends out there, i promise you some of us are actually non-dramatic, loyal, and very easy-going!

cappy_sweetie, i hope you get the chance to meet some nice virgo women friends too, i am telling you, it isn't as bad as it might seem. ha.

oh and as far as the comments of cancers, oh please, they are so sweet but sometimes dating them feels like participating in a soap opera, they are lovely, but oh...so confused with their emotions. sigh. however i dated 3 of them for a while, so i better not say anything bad, haha.

my future roomies are an aqua girl (i dated a fun aqua for a while) and a gemini guy (i love talking with geminis people) so we will see how it goes!!

cheers!

abee



Ditto. This thread has to be the best on the block of dxpnet lol

Lady M I'm sure u had some bad encounters with virgos, but I'm sure many of those born within the months are separate from those girls (their behaviors). I sure as hell know I am. Especially the part where someone pointed out how they are sexually exploiting lol but yeah, it's pretty crazy to read some of these posts, but I think it could go for anyone. I've encountered girls like that before, never chose to be around them and they were born within other months, so who knows. But I can tell u for certain I don't sexually exploit and just sleep with anyone and I sure as hell despise nagging = my mother 😛 She always needs to keep the place dirt-free crystal clean or she'll go crazy -- a s
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or she'll go crazy -- a sagittarian. Still love her though 🙂 I think it all depends on the person than their signs in general. But u know.. it's a big world, there are a lot of varied hoopties out there. So it isn't really fair to just point all the problems towards just a particular group, u probably just had some bad encounters with a few of those people, but they just happen to be born under that sign. I'm sorry about that anyway.
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Virleogirl09,

I have some Leo in my chart too 🙂 I'm not sure what that means, but it's fun to see someone out there with it too (apparently some sagi and libra as well).

Have you met other virgo women friend? One of my favorite study budddies is another Virgo. We get along really well and have no problem agreeing to disagree since we obviously do have different opinions about certain things. But when we hang out with other friends, we try to keep our conversations not so deep, for the sake of everyone, haha, so we keep it simple 😉

However, I have met just recently (which is why finding this post Lady_M made so interesting) some virgo females who although look very innocent have shared some things with me that are rather a bit scandalous, haha, I was like --> :O

So, apparently we all seem to have some things in common, such as the appreciation for intelligent people, deep conversations, unique outlooks of life, etc, but also feel not so fond of vulgarity and empty heads or souls. Yet, it seems to me (through some recent evaluation) that some of us have mastered the use of analysis about people in the "flirtatious" arena more than others, lol. I guess what I mean by this is. I have seen the shy type of virgos (I think most of us tend to be shy at the beginning) that are genuinely just a tiny bit clueless and upfront with regards to feelings and attractions they might have towards someone (i.e. me!) yet are very friendly and somehow get lucky from time to time 😉 Yet, there there the other type of virgo females who start shy first (as most) BUT have used their minds to understand more about guys or girls or people in general when it comes to laws of attraction and attention, and could use this knowledge for better or worst. You know what I mean? Have you seen that? I recently have and it has been very interesting.

I think what Lady_M has been exposed to has been the extremes of both sides...the extreme perfectionist that criticize a lot and aren't very exciting sometimes or the extreme crazies that pretty much a bit dramatic and very good at getting the people they want and then do whatever they would like with them.

I consider myself to be more in the middle, tending more towards the more prude side than not with some rare fun situations in between the serious side 😉

Just some thoughts.

ABee
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have to cut it down a bit, lol.

Virleogirl09,

I have some Leo in my chart too 🙂 I'm not sure what that means, but it's fun to see someone out there with it too (apparently some sagi and libra as well).


Yeah that is interesting, I guess with the Leo, it makes us more upfront about things when it comes to social situations in general. It gives us that umph lol

Have you met other virgo women friend? One of my favorite study budddies is another Virgo. We get along really well and have no problem agreeing to disagree since we obviously do have different opinions about certain things. But when we hang out with other friends, we try to keep our conversations not so deep, for the sake of everyone, haha, so we keep it simple 😉


Yeah, I have a few friends who were virgo. I had one of the best friendships with them, we did everything together. Like you said, we had things that we agreed and disagreed on, but they were all in good terms. We definitely just loved to have fun and mess around at the time and funny enough have the same reaction towards things, but that can just be common or coincidential for everyone.

However, I have met just recently (which is why finding this post Lady_M made so interesting) some virgo females who although look very innocent have shared some things with me that are rather a bit scandalous, haha, I was like --> :O
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I have to agree with you on this, there are definitely some virgos who do have dark secrets, until they share it. I definitley know one friend, but she's a libran with virgo in moon. At the time she held in a lot of things inward, but til this day.. she does not have a care in the world what anyone thinks - once you give yourself to someone you are like a bird with flying wings lol. She's not a w.h.o.r.e though. I just personally don't know anyone that they described like that to the extreme, but I bet there are a few out there that are However.. lol. Three-some is just nuts in my opinion, kind of sick, if u know what I mean. I would certainly stay away from them.
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So, apparently we all seem to have some things in common, such as the appreciation for intelligent people, deep conversations, unique outlooks of life, etc, but also feel not so fond of vulgarity and empty heads or souls.


I definitely agree with this. I really do appreciate people with different outlooks in life, especially ones that are very admiring.. it makes me look at things at a different angle. You hit the spot with all of that.

Yet, it seems to me (through some recent evaluation) that some of us have mastered the use of analysis about people in the "flirtatious" arena more than others, lol. I guess what I mean by this is. I have seen the shy type of virgos (I think most of us tend to be shy at the beginning) that are genuinely just a tiny bit clueless and upfront with regards to feelings and attractions they might have towards someone (i.e. me!) yet are very friendly and somehow get lucky from time to time 😉 Yet, there there the other type of virgo females who start shy first (as most) BUT have used their minds to understand more about guys or girls or people in general when it comes to laws of attraction and attention, and could use this knowledge for better or worst. You know what I mean? Have you seen that? I recently have and it has been very interesting.
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I think it just depends on the individual.. I haven't really analyzed virgos in that way or thought of doing so, but from what you said it is true. Many virgos are however shy when it comes to approaching.. they either can be the go-for-it types the now-or-never and then there are those who really are unsure about what to do within the situation. We definitely ask a lot of questions though when it comes to this, especially to ourselves and some of us just feel like we do know through our minds. That's how I am. I definitely analyze through the situation and see how the other half reacts to them lol, but I am also shy, can't deny that. It may just be the Leo facade for all I know.

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I think what Lady_M has been exposed to has been the extremes of both sides...the extreme perfectionist that criticize a lot and aren't very exciting sometimes or the extreme crazies that pretty much a bit dramatic and very good at getting the people they want and then do whatever they would like with them.

I consider myself to be more in the middle, tending more towards the more prude side than not with some rare fun situations in between the serious side 😉


Yeah, I can see where that is coming from.. that has to suck, lol. Well I guess not much luck on Lady_M's side with that one. But yeah same here, it's all neutral, you know, no problems. Haha..


That is a lot of posting right there... lol.
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shaks,

i hope you get the chance to enter into the inner world of more fun and loving virgo female friend or girlfriends. i am glad that at least you did meet some.
the ones that do care about people and issues in the world tend to be very inspiring. i am saying this because i have seen it in others, but i have no problem admitting that some virgo women seem to have use their intellect to worldly things mostly and that tends to limit their ability to develop the other sides the could potentially be very good at too, such as inpiration for better things...deeper things in life.

you seem to be a sweet guy shaks! if you ever meet a virgo trouble maker, let me know and i'll have a talk with them 😉

virleogurl09,

yes, new outlooks at life...it is so refreshing and interesting to find that. i completely get you in that it doesn't have to be necessary something necessarily new but defenitely containing new theories or ways of presentation. i love it when people bring something new in my life that i never heard before, which to be quiet honest is rare, because i tend to investigate most things haha, so when i meet people who do i'm very happy.

as far as the scandolous part of some virgo females. i was thinking about this a bit before i wrote back and you know, i wonder if the meaning of what is crazy and wild changes from person to person really, even from sign to sign, because some things i consider scandalous might be actually quiet normal for other signs.

for example, the threesome idea, totally unnecessary, i completely agree!

i want to experience the world and experience many things, but some of them are really unnecessary and of no value to me...such a threesomes or cheating...it simply makes no sense in my mind to seek for such experiences. i know the possible outcomes of it all at different levels for me and for everyone involved and they don't seem worth it, in my opinion.

i have many friends who are extremely liberal and others who are extremely conservative and i respect them all. afterall, they need to be free to make their own decisions, but i know my limits well, there are some things i really wouldn't be interested in testing.

by the way, new friend, i have a venus in libra too, which personally i would rather not have :p it kind of makes my love life a bit more necessary than what it should, haha, you know what i mean? i joke around with friends about it, because it is like my desire for singleness fights it! 🙂
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I didn't get to you any sooner..

virleogurl09,

yes, new outlooks at life...it is so refreshing and interesting to find that. i completely get you in that it doesn't have to be necessary something necessarily new but defenitely containing new theories or ways of presentation. i love it when people bring something new in my life that i never heard before, which to be quiet honest is rare, because i tend to investigate most things haha, so when i meet people who do i'm very happy.


Yeah, I suppose we're really good at doing the investigation lol .. our brains need to be kept stimulated.

as far as the scandolous part of some virgo females. i was thinking about this a bit before i wrote back and you know, i wonder if the meaning of what is crazy and wild changes from person to person really, even from sign to sign, because some things i consider scandalous might be actually quiet normal for other signs.

for example, the threesome idea, totally unnecessary, i completely agree!


Well, you know, I'm sure there will be people like that within any month.. I mean in this big world.. it's not going to be so perfect. I think it really depends on the individual and what they were surrounded by or what situation they were in to get their selves to do things in those ways. Iunno.. it really just depends on the person, I guess some people just don't really care and enjoy what they consider "fun", even though.. it really is over the Top. But who knows, you might be onto something, it may be more common for some others than we know.

i want to experience the world and experience many things, but some of them are really unnecessary and of no value to me...such a threesomes or cheating...it simply makes no sense in my mind to seek for such experiences. i know the possible outcomes of it all at different levels for me and for everyone involved and they don't seem worth it, in my opinion.
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Yeah it is unnecessary.. I guess some people just get caught up in it by their own mistakes or just other people who got them into it. Maybe even for just money, this isn't quite a jolly world.

Now about experience.. Venice should be pinned, which is most certainly a High priority on my list currently. Waaaay off topic.. lol
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i have many friends who are extremely liberal and others who are extremely conservative and i respect them all. afterall, they need to be free to make their own decisions, but i know my limits well, there are some things i really wouldn't be interested in testing.


I would rather just stay out of it all together, even though I lean more towards being Liberal. You never know... if u get yourself caught up in it.. any extreme politic may get their knockers out or even go and start a Riot down at Main Street for all we know lol

by the way, new friend, i have a venus in libra too, which personally i would rather not have :p it kind of makes my love life a bit more necessary than what it should, haha, you know what i mean? i joke around with friends about it, because it is like my desire for singleness fights it!
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Yeah I kinda know what you mean by that, I always get caught up in that stir, one too many times have I been in those corners.
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leovirgirl09,


Yeah it is unnecessary.. I guess some people just get caught up in it by their own mistakes or just other people who got them into it.

Now about experience.. Venice should be pinned, which is most certainly a High priority on my list currently. Waaaay off topic.. lol



I hear ya on the first statement. The reason why I'm not drawn towards certain scandalous situations is not because I couldnt have that (because chances are everywhere!) or because there haven't been times when I have human curious side, it's just that my mind knows better about something really important that I try to avoid at all cost: unnecessary drama!

As far as Venice, 🙂, are you planning to travel there? How awesome! My mom, sister, and I are planning a trip there sometime in the near future too. I can't wait to travel some more! I've been so focused on my studies lately.

Continued...
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by the way, new friend, i have a venus in libra too, which personally i would rather not have :p it kind of makes my love life a bit more necessary than what it should, haha, you know what i mean? i joke around with friends about it, because it is like my desire for singleness fights it!


Yeah I kinda know what you mean by that, I always get caught up in that stir, one too many times have I been in those corners.



it is my current dilemma friend. it's hard. it's like a duality within me. one side enjoys singleness and knows that it is a stage i need to go through right now, but the venus in libra kicks it here and there...making it a bit more complicated within me. hopefully, i'll keep my mind focused on the things i need to accomplish before i get into anything that isn't worth my heart.
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lol, its a simply reason why a virgo can't have a capricorn boss. Virgo's aren't good at being told what to do ^_^.



It's true enough. It is not about any particular sign, we just don't like authority when it is not us.
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This is true. I'm sorry, but most of the time, virgos need alot of help in the decision-making dept ^_^.
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cappy: Virgo's aren't good at being told what to do ^_^.

That's because we don't have to be told - we can see what needs to be done ourselves...

The Cappies I've dealt with didn't like being "bossed" around, either -- Hell! They didn't even like to be assisted - and it was my job at the time to perform desk side computer support. It's like they thought I was secretly joking about the stupid things they did on their computer - way too sensitive for that particular situation...



I agree lol, okay, you do have a point. Being bossed around is not what I enjoy. But theres a difference in being bossed around verses being told what to do.
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woah, i come here after months and recieve such an awesome thread 🙂 haha.

so i am a virgo woman and i promise i am not a nagger nancy or a debby downer, but again, i'm sure you wouldn't know unless you would meet me.

however, i can be very picky (true!) and i do like asking questions when i meet people in order to know what i'm dealing with. so that, yes, i accept.

i also wanted to say something...i am an august virgo and have notice a little difference between me and other girls i know who are september virgo. some september virgos i know are a little wilder and more confusing that what i ever knew...so true. i think august virgos are a bit more reserved and not as scandalous, but then again, who knows. each side must have and need a crazy, right? 🙂

lady_m thanks for sharing some of your thoughts, it has been actually interesting to read and i hope you get to meet more sane, fun, unique women virgo friends out there, i promise you some of us are actually non-dramatic, loyal, and very easy-going!

cappy_sweetie, i hope you get the chance to meet some nice virgo women friends too, i am telling you, it isn't as bad as it might seem. ha.

oh and as far as the comments of cancers, oh please, they are so sweet but sometimes dating them feels like participating in a soap opera, they are lovely, but oh...so confused with their emotions. sigh. however i dated 3 of them for a while, so i better not say anything bad, haha.

my future roomies are an aqua girl (i dated a fun aqua for a while) and a gemini guy (i love talking with geminis people) so we will see how it goes!!

cheers!

abee




Awww @ Abee ^_^.

Well, I hope I meet some nice ones, that would be cool.
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cappysweetie,

🙂 we are out there, i promise. if you make us feel safe around you and challenge us mentally, you will be someone we would like to be in touch and we can be very reliable friends. we can be very objective giving advices and very giving when we love.

however, if you meet the confusing or inmature type of virgos...yes, you have all the right to put them on hold until they grow. i have seen them and met them, they are our there too. they don't mean bad, but their inner struggles need a bit more peace and order before they can be good in any relationships, at least for some time.

by the way, cappricorns can be confusing sometimes too! :p the problem is that they tend to be sweet and cute. haha.


rumi,

what is the answer to the question to the virgo, i have no clue! 😉

now that you mention the other signs...

sagis are so fun. i love them. they are a bit eccentric sometimes, so i couldn't date any sagi i met yet, ha, but they are wonderful 'fun' friends. very easy-going too, so we get along well. we can chill together, chat, and laugh. i can be myself around them.

there are always scorpios popping into my life and liking something about me for some reason and they usually dont give up! i currently i'm being persuaded by one (again! 🙂). i never dated one but heard their breakups are like world war II, :o, so i'm a bit scared. they seem a bit flaky at times, but i can tell deep inside they can love deeply... i just haven't felt safe enough and understood enough by any yet, maybe one day.

i tend to feel attracted to aries, aquarius, and lately other virgos :o

my latest attraction to other virgos has been very interesting. it's been almost like a mini experiment that has allowed me to understand better how others might percieve us...and yes, some virgos can be so confusing!

i tend to date cancers. inspite of feeling like you are part of a soap opera once you date them. they have managed to win my love over and over throughout time. they can be warm and so sweet when they love and for the most part they are relationship material.

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my latest attraction to other virgos has been very interesting. it's been almost like a mini experiment that has allowed me to understand better how others might percieve us...and yes, some virgos can be so confusing!
ABee



do tell abt this 'mini experiment'.. what did you find?
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V and V.. is a great match, i think.. much better than any same sign pairing.
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oh rumi...

if i could only tell you everything...the good, the bad, and the confusing 🙂

i need to go to bed now, but i will come back and let you know at least a little bit of my experience and the results of the experiment this far 😉

ttyl friend.
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Well, for her to join a sex club- someone must have really hurt her or she had some kind of bad experience in life to make those choices. Unless she just doesn't care at all what so ever lol .. sorry for your experience though Scorp, I'm sure you'll meet better virgo's out there. It's a Circus World I'll tell ya 🙂

ABee
No, no trip to Venice anytime soon.. but I soo want to visit Italy. It's like a different world there, you're so lucky. You should take pictures while you're there and share them on the Travel Board, that would be awesome 🙂 You shouldn't miss out on Rome either my goodness that place is Beautiful! lol

it is my current dilemma friend. it's hard. it's like a duality within me. one side enjoys singleness and knows that it is a stage i need to go through right now, but the venus in libra kicks it here and there...making it a bit more complicated within me. hopefully, i'll keep my mind focused on the things i need to accomplish before i get into anything that isn't worth my heart.


Yeah, that is very true.. same here. Having venus in Libra can be a serious struggle at times, you just want to kick it to the side and leave it there. It can end us up in situations where we don't want to be, but at the same time do. Strange, huh? Sounds kinda confusing.. it's like a tug-a-war, you're pulling on one rope, while at the same time the other. Not good for studying, I can tell u this for certain.. that's where we need to completely keep it aside to be well focused with everything else that is important or else we can get easily carried away and just leave everything else behind.. if we chose to. This venus Libra thing must be true. Raises hand personal experience with the bulloni .. lol
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rumi,

i still need to get back and share some thoughts about the mini experiment, i'm in vacation right now so i'm unable to write that much but i will write over the weekend once i can sit down and tell you about the different cases i have faced!

virgoleogirl09,

its so good to know that understand the complexity of the whole venus un libra thing in a virgo woman. oh man! i wonder if its one of those things that we are supposed to deal with so that it will keep us humble 🙂 haha.

yes, those desires to be in meaningful relationships or certain closeness are strong when they kick in and contradict anything else planned. luckily, we are still aware of this event so my hope is that, we will make good decisions based upon the right timing and right person for us.

i don't know about you, but i have a blast when i go out and i do enjoy having lots of fun, but i'm more a relationship type of girl (whereas that comes from the libra side or virgo or a combination of both) so i can only enjoy that randomless purposeless fun to a certan extent...more like a temporary thing, but deep within i enjoy something more meaningful and lasting for sure. the problem is that unlike other friends, i can't rush into relationships either (which might be a good thing) given my pickyness.

i have enjoyed experiencing what i have experiencing about love this far though, inspite of all the complications and confusions at times. i have felt very blessed to have dated the people i did. i was very sure before i dated them for a while that i wanted to take a chance with them and if thinsg didn't work out they didn't because of outside factors, such as timing, distance, or a being at different places in life...you learn from everything you know?

as far as the short term fun things (which in my case it isnt anything huge), i am glad that they were only that and nothing more and yet nothing else, because you learn from them too.

stay focused friend, after all you need to follow your dreams and passions because nobody else will do it for you and when the right person comes along (for whatever reasons) you will know that they are worth your time and affection. you are not alone in this quest of finding purpose and love while still learning to live here...it is a matter of time before we find out what is the next step and everyday is such a gift!!

hope you and all the girls who have been writing are having a good one!

abee
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its so good to know that understand the complexity of the whole venus un libra thing in a virgo woman. oh man! i wonder if its one of those things that we are supposed to deal with so that it will keep us humble 🙂 haha.


Hm, who knows, I guess it makes us express in ways to be people friendly..

i don't know about you, but i have a blast when i go out and i do enjoy having lots of fun, but i'm more a relationship type of girl (whereas that comes from the libra side or virgo or a combination of both) so i can only enjoy that randomless purposeless fun to a certan extent...more like a temporary thing, but deep within i enjoy something more meaningful and lasting for sure. the problem is that unlike other friends, i can't rush into relationships either (which might be a good thing) given my pickyness.
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Ditto, I can see what you're saying.. I'm not much of a every night party goer myself, I think that kind of stuff gets old rather quickly and it just plays a role in giving headaches. It certainly is best to find a relationship that is true to the core and not one just for having a side partner for fun -- that is only considered a friendship imo, but I think it's good to have a balance of both of that.. but more so something meaningful. And yes, I'm not much of a rusher either, it seems quite intimidating to me to just rush into things. Especially when you aren't so certain about the other person.. it's best to get a very good idea where he is coming from and if he's right to go any further. Rushing only results to problems.
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i have enjoyed experiencing what i have experiencing about love this far though, inspite of all the complications and confusions at times. i have felt very blessed to have dated the people i did. i was very sure before i dated them for a while that i wanted to take a chance with them and if thinsg didn't work out they didn't because of outside factors, such as timing, distance, or a being at different places in life...you learn from everything you know?


Yeah, that is true.. you do learn from a lot, the good and the bad.. and it certainly is what molds us into what we are. But, you know, life is what it is.. you meet the right people and you don't.

as far as the short term fun things (which in my case it isnt anything huge), i am glad that they were only that and nothing more and yet nothing else, because you learn from them too.


Yeah, u definitely do.. whether they were mistakes or not, at least you collect a bit of knowledge before dodging into them again.

stay focused friend, after all you need to follow your dreams and passions because nobody else will do it for you and when the right person comes along (for whatever reasons) you will know that they are worth your time and affection. you are not alone in this quest of finding purpose and love while still learning to live here...it is a matter of time before we find out what is the next step and everyday is such a gift!!
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It certainly is.. there is always something to learn about on any given day & I'm sure the right person will come around.. even though I'm not so sure what that is at this time and moment (even though I can be quite idealistic myself and hold up my own standard), but it will come around.
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my latest attraction to other virgos has been very interesting. it's been almost like a mini experiment that has allowed me to understand better how others might percieve us...and yes, some virgos can be so confusing!
ABee



do tell abt this 'mini experiment'.. what did you find?
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V and V.. is a great match, i think.. much better than any same sign pairing.
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Rumi!

I'm finally able to come back here to type. I had to take a mini vacation so I didn't use the internet for weeks, hopefully you will get the chance to still read this (virgoleogirl09 a message for you is coming too).

Rumi...are you a virgo too? Anyway, here are some observations I've had about the Virgo and Virgo "love" or "attraction" interactions based on 3 subjects I have gone on dates with and liked.

1 - V and V share an nutual interest, whereas intellectual or simply physical, but getting to the liking stage came for me, as a surprising thing! Basically, I would always think any of these people as nice looking and intriguing enough to either talk to or have fun with...but I didn't initially thought I would develop little crushes on them. So in brief, Virgo and Virgo can be (at leats in my opinion) a fun surprise but it takes a good conversation or at least one interaction to see that. 🙂

2 - V and V can be so slow when they like each other sometimes, at least in my experience, because they analyze and take their breaks in between, haha, so it's cute, but unless someone pulls the trigger first, it's just not going to happen right away...and when I mean right away, I'm talking about weeks, maybe months before a kiss or a date even if they both are into each other (funny fact).

3 - In order to work something out I think both Virgos need to be free of any emotional attachments from previous relationships and be in a similar place in life. Two of those Virgos I dated briefly were still dealing with exes and I didn't want that since I know when Virgos are new in the relationship world (at least the ones I met) they might need lots of time to process and get over things, otherwise you could become a rebound (regardless of your sign of course).

4 - Even though I don't think I will end up dating any of the Virgos I went on relationships with and that I had fun with I am still
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4 - Even though I don't think I will end up dating any of the Virgos I went on relationships with and that I had fun with I am still very attracted to them and know by a fact that we could have a great time and could have worked out as a couple, but the ex factor doesn't fit in my safe area right now. The third one is a friend I have known for a while. He is the shyer of all of them but also the more stable and trustworhty right now. I do trust the others, but until they get out of their 'getting over an ex' funk, I am not putting myself there fully (maybe one day or an occasional check would do)). So my third Virgo, could be a relationship material, yet ironically, unlike the others, he hasn't got my attention often and with him I don't feel like I want to know...I just want for things to happen as they may, since he is a great friend too anyways. I want to be ready for it too, because I would never want to hurt his feelings.

5 - Virgo women can be very complicated! I have met some few too and love hanging out with them, but the party/outgoing type could ocasionally seem veru confusing because of all the anaysis and yet behavior they display. I understand better now why guys and some girls here complain about Virgo women so much here sometimes...the sane peaceful ones are amazing, but the girls who are in a 'confusing' stage in their love life can be quiet the trip 🙂 unless you buckle yourself up pretty well.

6 - Virgos are cute and loyal when they like someone 😉

7 - V and V ultimate turn on is intelligence.

I have to run now. I hope this helped a bit.

Virgoleogirl09, I'll have to get back with our conversation later...hope your day is awesome friend!

Abee
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!

thanks for being so understanding. i appreciate the way you respond to my comments and i am so glad that you can understand so many of my thoughts. that's really cool.

i had some questions related to something you said...

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its so good to know that understand the complexity of the whole venus un libra thing in a virgo woman. oh man! i wonder if its one of those things that we are supposed to deal with so that it will keep us humble 🙂 haha.


Hm, who knows, I guess it makes us express in ways to be people friendly..

i don't know about you, but i have a blast when i go out and i do enjoy having lots of fun, but i'm more a relationship type of girl (whereas that comes from the libra side or virgo or a combination of both) so i can only enjoy that randomless purposeless fun to a certan extent...more like a temporary thing, but deep within i enjoy something more meaningful and lasting for sure. the problem is that unlike other friends, i can't rush into relationships either (which might be a good thing) given my pickyness.



Ditto, I can see what you're saying.. I'm not much of a every night party goer myself, I think that kind of stuff gets old rather quickly and it just plays a role in giving headaches. It certainly is best to find a relationship that is true to the core and not one just for having a side partner for fun -- that is only considered a friendship imo, but I think it's good to have a balance of both of that.. but more so something meaningful. And yes, I'm not much of a rusher either, it seems quite intimidating to me to just rush into things. Especially when you aren't so certain about the other person.. it's best to get a very good idea where he is coming from and if he's right to go any further. Rushing only results to problems.
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when you evaluate people how do you evaluate them?

i observe the way they behave with others, the things they say, the way they act, but also the way they make me feel...

interestingly enough even when i meet people with lots of potential i still can't move so fast. its like a new level arises and its the one of fearing getting hurt...because i know i could potentially like this person. do you feel that way sometimes too?

sometimes i wish i was a bit more bold, a bit more impulsive, a bit crazier...but i'm not, unless i've been dr
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unless i've been drinking, which i mostly do it socially if i have to, but i rarely get even tipsy because i don't like being out of my mind and or lack self-control in silly ways, i rather help others and give rides and just dance a little and remember everything 😉

anyway, i appreciate my silly self even with the complications, but i wish i could better closing the deal with people i like sometimes or simply feel attracted too, especially now that i am single. i don't have to work hard at getting people to approach me or even tell me that they like me, but they usually have to be the ones to kiss me first and flirt with me, it would be nice to just kiss someone i like first for a change you know? i just don't know how in the world people do that. i freeze and i just don't have any lines or moves that would help out. hmm...they should have some classes for people who want to learn to be bold once in a blue moon! 🙂

oh well, in the meantime, i'll enjoy the little i know and the effortless situations i guess.

oh one more question. do you think you like challenging people? my friends tease me saying i do...and i never thought about that before.

its making me think...

hope your night is great!

abee
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when you evaluate people how do you evaluate them?

i observe the way they behave with others, the things they say, the way they act, but also the way they make me feel...


Ditto, I just try to understand how they see things from their perspective, so I can relate with them somehow.

interestingly enough even when i meet people with lots of potential i still can't move so fast. its like a new level arises and its the one of fearing getting hurt...because i know i could potentially like this person. do you feel that way sometimes too?


Yes, I do get this way as well.. Definitely. You're not alone, generally I think a Lot of people go through this. But you know, sometimes, taking the risk wouldn't hurt.. if you're willing to take it. It's always an option, But that fear of getting hurt can definitely hold back. It's like taking 2 steps, but then 5 steps back. That's why it's always best to get to know the person 1st mutually, so you can get an idea where he is coming from or what u can get out of it, just to see -- If it's worth it or not.. if the person is right for you, etc.

sometimes i wish i was a bit more bold, a bit more impulsive, a bit crazier...but i'm not, unless i've been drinking, which i mostly do it socially if i have to, but i rarely get even tipsy because i don't like being out of my mind and or lack self-control in silly ways, i rather help others and give rides and just dance a little and remember everything 😉
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Okay this is where we have our differences, Where is the Leo in you Hun? Alright to get to the point, I think it all depends on how comfortable we are in the situation.. but I can be quite a goof sometimes and careless. Don't drink often that much though, I don't like the after feeling personally.. it only makes me want to go to sleep lol. But you know, I know what you mean about self-control, but girl you gotta spread those wings sometimes .. But I can understand, having some control is good, so things don't go waaay out of hand.
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anyway, i appreciate my silly self even with the complications, but i wish i could better closing the deal with people i like sometimes or simply feel attracted too, especially now that i am single. i don't have to work hard at getting people to approach me or even tell me that they like me, but they usually have to be the ones to kiss me first and flirt with me, it would be nice to just kiss someone i like first for a change you know? i just don't know how in the world people do that. i freeze and i just don't have any lines or moves that would help out. hmm...they should have some classes for people who want to learn to be bold once in a blue moon! 🙂


Just go for it! If it's right... but you know, iunno you're situation in that. But you shouldn't worry about it, however guys are suppose to make the 1st move -- although rules don't always count, right? Just go against the grain and maybe you'll be able to reach that point 😉 and go "Oh, The hell with it!" 😛

But I seriously will hold back if I don't think there is something right about Him. So yes, if it's right.. just get more comfortable with the person and if you go with your feelings, I think you will know. It's all about timing and the right moment. You'll know. I'm pretty sure He will feel just the same as you, so there is no difference and there should be nothing to worry about.

oh one more question. do you think you like challenging people? my friends tease me saying i do...and i never thought about that before.
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Hm, not that I know of.. not really. Maybe in sporting events or when I am balling with some friends, playing soccer or something lol then Yes a Challenge is Always good. Bring it ONN.. 😄

Anyway it's always good to chat with you, hope you're having a good one 2 🙂

Sh... I triple post, sorry about that.
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Posted by Scorpio_Nympho
I dont like any Virgo females that I have been introduced to. They have been snotty, conceited, and they nit pick at things, and theyre just ughh!



scorpio_nympho,

i really hope you meet some nice virgo females at some point. i know we seem a bit snotty sometimes, but its not because all of us we meant to, its just that some of us are a bit more shy and/or need more time to get to know someone better and open up... i hear you about the pickyness, but some of us have been able to deal with it a bit differently. i have made my first scorpio friend recently and so far we are bonding okay...baby steps. i used to be scared of scorpios because they wouldn't give up once they like you and because they were a bit intense, but now i know that i could actually meet some that are going to be okay w getting to know someone slowly but surely...
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Virleogurl0,

What's up friend! 🙂

I laughed so hard at your thought of "just go for it and think, the heck with it!" haha. I will keep that on my mind next time I'm near someone I like 😉 afterall whar is the worst that can happen right??

Yes, I do want to be the first one to make a move one day soon, like give someone a kiss first and shock them! that should be exciting 🙂

As far as loosing up a bit...I mean I do have a little party side in me okay and I'm sure I can become so fun when I'm typsy, but I just don't feel safe doing that at clubs or public places. However, I will try to connect with the Leo in me and have an occasional crazy time one of these days ok? 😉

Finally, what I meant by challenging people is not sometimes that I like to challenge them (which is fun too) but more I tend to feel attracted to people who seem to be a challenge...makes sense? I haven't noticed that until some friend mentioned and its a bit true. But perhaps because their is a relationship between showing indepence and seeming a challenge? I don't think I feel that way towards them because its like a game, but rather because they have qualities, such as independence, that I like...but maybe I need to think about this some more to make sure I'm not just doing it for the wrong reasons...

Have a great day friend!

Abee
P.S. Seems like you have a potential admirer here.
P.S. 2: Who knew women loved Virgo women so much...:o haha.
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obviously she wants to portray herself as the innocent virgin, but we all know youre closet whores virgo girls, so SHUT UP AGAIN!


What is with you? Please explain lol



i think charming Shaks needs some love and/or a good meal! 😉 lol



Stupid virgo bitches, always act like everyone is expecting their advice or suggestions SHUT UP.
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sweet shaks..

i'm sorry, but all i read is "cookiemonsters" and "shut up". i wish i could help you some more. you do make us smile though 🙂
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What's up friend! 🙂

I laughed so hard at your thought of "just go for it and think, the heck with it!" haha. I will keep that on my mind next time I'm near someone I like 😉 afterall whar is the worst that can happen right??


Exactly, just go for it, I know you got it in u 🙂

Yes, I do want to be the first one to make a move one day soon, like give someone a kiss first and shock them! that should be exciting 🙂

As far as loosing up a bit...I mean I do have a little party side in me okay and I'm sure I can become so fun when I'm typsy, but I just don't feel safe doing that at clubs or public places. However, I will try to connect with the Leo in me and have an occasional crazy time one of these days ok? 😉


Alright, well, good luck with that. But I know what you mean, it can be quite uncomfortable, but you know hey.. that's completely normal.

Finally, what I meant by challenging people is not sometimes that I like to challenge them (which is fun too) but more I tend to feel attracted to people who seem to be a challenge...makes sense? I haven't noticed that until some friend mentioned and its a bit true. But perhaps because their is a relationship between showing indepence and seeming a challenge? I don't think I feel that way towards them because its like a game, but rather because they have qualities, such as independence, that I like...but maybe I need to think about this some more to make sure I'm not just doing it for the wrong reasons...
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Oh yeah, I see where this is going now.. it's so funny how we're relating to so many issues! lol ... But you know I guess it's just one of those things.. it shows us that there's something more about them that is different from the others and that just happens to be something that we are attracted to in guys because it separates them from what's Typical in some way. And the quality thing is very true, I guess if a guy knows what he is doing in his own life and has everything going for him that is right can be a very attractive trait. I really hate games though to be honest it can be very draining, but a challenge of a person isn't so bad. I think you may know what I mean by this.

You know what, we should send this through the Email Messaging option they have on this Board. We're taking over the Topic lol

ABee you seriously scared me with that P.S. girlie 😛
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virgoleogurl09,

are you suggesting that we should leave this thread so it gets back to its real purpose...the venting of other women in the zodiac and shaks against virgo women? 🙂 sounds like a plan stan 🙂 and then they say virgo women are cookiemonsters...uh hum. clearly really cookiemonsters! 😉

i'll talk to you in private then friend. we will continue to unvail the mysteries of our life experiences and longings there 😉

abee.

p.s. 3: i wish i could have seen your face expression after reading p.s. 1 and 2...i understand where the confusion came! ahaha!

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You do have a point, I think the one thing some people shouldn't do is take a small minority and blame it on the rest. You know what I mean? It's kind of ridiculous.. but you know, astrology is astrology I don't think it should be taken too seriously. There are too many of us, to behave and do exactly the same thing. This world would be very strange if it were to operate that way, we ain't made out of wire lines and controlled by a remote control or some kind of operating machine. I mean, come on, ya know?

Abee you crack me up anyway 😄 lol.. Alright we can talk through messaging.. I'll chat up with ya then.
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it bothers me that this thread even exists. i'm sure there's some psycho bitches out there who happen to be virgos, but i've never met one, even though i've met plenty of psycho bitches with suns in aries, gemini, cancer (!!!), leo, scorpio, and aquarius. and i'd bet that the few psycho virgo women out there probably have one of those signs featured prominently in her chart, or maybe she spent her whole childhood getting molested by her uncle or something, which could make anyone a nutjob.

and probably some virgo women are boring or sad. but there's worse things to be. and they're only boring or sad when they don't have something to do, or don't feel appreciated for what they do, or they feel like they aren't good enough. for the most part, they're some of the sweetest people i've met. and i'd take sweet over exciting any day. and i mean sweet in the genuine sense, not the bs saccharine sense.
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Posted by Shaks
haha, teasing virgo girls is so easy 😉 had even one of them send me a long PM asking me what was going on when I dont even know her lol



tease us all you want shaky shaks! 😉 i don't know whoever wrote you and why would they, because some of us are actually having a good time here :p

i especially like it when i read the word cookiemonster in your posts...makes me think of sesame street 😉

and curious visitor, thanks for trying to somehow be fair. i don't think this was a bad post though. makes me evaluate some of the things i've seen and maybe also understand why others get frustrated. i believe some of us virgo women can actually be confusing when it comes to dealing with people who want to know us better, but its not for the reasons people think...and i'm sure there are crazies within each zodiacal signs anyways, but i think for us that is more the exception than the norm.

peace.

abee