I've tolerated his ignorance as long as I can .... (Page 2)

LMFAOOOOO--you are cool people, cappy

And I have to say, I'm intrigued as HELL over a Cap/Scorp pairing!!!!

Posted by 69virgo
@capsweetie..that's right don't tell him nothing else until he open up a lil bit...damn scorp trying to be all fucking mysterious..lol..make him play detective sometimes...tell him a and do b..keep him off balance.

I'm thinking that's the best thing to do with this scorpio man, to keep him off balance lol. I'm thinking that's what needs to happen. I will see.

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Posted by MsLovelyLibra

Posted by CLCNY30

Posted by MsLovelyLibra
wow...when someone gets you to this point, its really best to let it go.

Sincerely hope you're not referring to me, since you're the one she claimed was the type to get raped.

Thats why I stopped typing in my thread cause I knew it wasnt going to stop with her, so why even bother. You cant control how someone behaves when in front of a computer but you can control whether to feed into the maddness.

lol


Would you like for me to post the PM you sent me ... I can remain silent and let the fools bump their heads against each other because they have self control issues, and I've done so thus far .. however, you just told a lie on me, and I have a PM to prove it ... so, if your intention is not to feed into me, then you better be careful because I have the evidence to prove that lie you just told right there.

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I PM'd you TWO DAYS AGO...I posted the PM on my thread and I will post it again...Mmmmkay??/

Chile boo..Better yet..

This was my PM to P-Angel on the 29th and today is the whaaat?

Im not going to keep cyber arguing with you
from MsLovelyLibra sent on 11/29/2010 at 2:56:59 PM
I GET what you have been saying but it doesnt seem like you get what I have been saying. Mr Virgo is behaving the way he is because of MY behavior. I take responsibility for that which I said time and time again in that thread. Why do I give him the time of day? Because I know things that Im sure he thinks I know nothing about. I know he has issues concerning women steming from issues with his ex wife. (1) IF I see him again, I have to stop the physical contact. (2) I need to decide if Im willing to stick it out with him considering what he is dealing with at the moment.

You made it seem as though Id go to his house and just start bumping and grinding on him. That is not the case. Im usually at his house for about 6 hrs and for the first 4 hrs or so, we are good but then we'd start kissing, which would lead to the 'dry humping', Id gather my senses, tell him we need to stop and thats when he'd get frustrated. He is a man, so of course he is g

Posted by CLCNY30
LMFAOOOOO--you are cool people, cappy

And I have to say, I'm intrigued as HELL over a Cap/Scorp pairing!!!!

Thanks 🙂
I hope you keep that opinion of me xD I'm an aquarius mooner, people seem to stay mad with me lol. You've always been cool, I read some of your posts but I don't comment, don't ask me why :/ I should lol

I wish I wasn't intrigued by it ... Cap/ Scorp can be scary ... yes.

11/29/2010 1:05:19 PM


At that time is when I warned you that those kind of actions done to a man will get you raped ... and I'm glad you posted that openly, so the time can be seen.

My point was .... careful what you say, if you plan on lying, because people keep track.

Posted by CLCNY30
Smmfh.

This is why I tell people to mind their business.

Be careful who you defend, they just might throw your ass to the sharks.

Are you referring to me? What the hell did/do you want me to do? Im sorry, well NO Im not, Im not into cyber arguing. What the hell is the point? Now if this had happened offline, it'll be different. I knew what P-angel was non sense which is why I stopped typing to her.

Correction: I knew that P-Angel was with that non sense.

Posted by 69virgo
@matto..if you don't come to the board everyday then why or you coming in talking shit about something you don't know shit about!...mind your own fucking business!..and don't think clcny is coming to my rescue..because i can handle my own shit lol..but i do like the way she is give it too p motherfucking ass..haha...

This is the internet. Don't get angry when someone posts their opinion on it.

11/30/2010 6:05:59 PM


And second, that ^^ was the last time you talked about this issue in your thread, which is on page seven, and I posted on page one .. so in reality it isn't true that you stopped posted because of me .. you continued to post up to page seven.


Again, be careful what you say, if you plan on lying.

I love how every new generation of Dxp'ers jumps on the "I Hate P-Angel" bandwagon. It's always entertaining.

Posted by MsLovelyLibra

Posted by CLCNY30
Smmfh.

This is why I tell people to mind their business.

Be careful who you defend, they just might throw your ass to the sharks.

Are you referring to me? What the hell did/do you want me to do? Im sorry, well NO Im not, Im not into cyber arguing. What the hell is the point? Now if this had happened offline, it'll be different. I knew what P-angel was non sense which is why I stopped typing to her.

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Actually, more referring to matofla--but anyone who came in to defend her really.

What happens between you and her is just that though, between you and her.

You just told me to learn to let it go cuz it's not that serious, don't go back on your own words...

Posted by MsLovelyLibra
Correction: I knew that P-Angel was with that non sense.

Let me get this straight .... you cock tease your Virgo, then push him away, which creates a scene in which he becomes angry at you for getting him aroused .. I spend three days trying to get you to realize that it's your actions that is causing this man to get angry at you all the time, and that it's your actions of arousing him that is getting him bent, and trying to get you to realize it in acutality, not just words .... every person in that thread agreed and told you the same thing in their own words of course ....


.. and you think it's nonsense?


So, does this mean that still after all this .. you still believe that he should be okay with you arousing him into an erection, just to be pushed away .. so long as you don't have feelings for the man?


Seriously?



Again ... women who get men to that point, put themselves at great risk of getting raped. You need to know that, because according to what you wrote .... you would bring him to a very intense and passionate state before saying "no"

Posted by 69virgo
Clcny i saw your christmas site and i must say that i like it..and one reason i do is because i like to see people happy and that's what it's all about..family coming together and having a good time....and since im a big kid i do enjoy playing with some of the stuff that we get our kids..i mean santa gets them😉...growing up my mom was a hider...meaning she would hide all our shit until xmas night then bring it out while we were sleep...and she gave me a heart attack every year thinking i was'nt getting nothing cause i had been bad..lol..and i was bad.

Oh I BET you were bad, LOL! I could imagine teachers saying "HE HAS SO MUCH POTENTIAL, IF HE WOULD ONLY BEHAVE!"

Classic Virgo kid stamp, LMFAO.

Posted by P-Angel
11/29/2010 1:05:19 PM


At that time is when I warned you that those kind of actions done to a man will get you raped ... and I'm glad you posted that openly, so the time can be seen.

My point was .... careful what you say, if you plan on lying, because people keep track.

Go sit down somewhere. Lying? I have NO need to lie. I wasnt paying no attention to that whole rape issue cause youre on some bullish to even say that. I was agreeing to some things you had mentioned and then the next thing I know, your ass starts going way to the left, but hey, whatever floats your boat sweety.

AT 11/29/2010 3:24:23 PM - I told you to STFU and GTFO my thread..you continued. I wrote NOTHING to you from that point on cause it was USELESS!!

My last post was at: 11/30/2010 6:05:59 PM - When I came back to summarize and then I posted again on my thread not to long ago.

Im bout to go crawl into bed and watch a movie. I refuse to cyber argue with an idiot. Gooodnight!!

Posted by Mattofla
I love how every new generation of Dxp'ers jumps on the "I Hate P-Angel" bandwagon. It's always entertaining.

It's because they are used to being pampered, and not used to being told straight up without any fluff .. they can hate all they want .. my emotions are solid as a rock. 😉

Posted by MsLovelyLibra
wow...when someone gets you to this point, its really best to let it go.

You can chant that if you like 😉

The IGNORE feature truly works...

Posted by 69virgo
@Lovelylibra.. oh i won't throw clcny under the bus..i don't even know her and already like her..😉 she my fucking dog..

HAHAHA, anyone who's against P-nis is okay in my book 😉

iDied @ her dubbing herself as solid as a rock.

It seems her "husband's" dik hasn't been since the 70's, unfortunately...

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Posted by Mattofla
I love how every new generation of Dxp'ers jumps on the "I Hate P-Angel" bandwagon. It's always entertaining.

Hey! I was a new generation once and I never joined that bandwagon. :-/

She's always been nothing but nice to me. And then again, I hope that I've always been respectful and nice to her as well. I see no reason to engage in the negativity. There's enough of that in the real world around me, why would I want to engage in it online? I don't dig the drama and see no need for it.

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I'm nice to everybody who holds themself accountible, and doesn't blame the other person for their own issues .. you've always been real, among many others.

Yes--the way you attacked me in that thread earlier--reeeeeeeeeeeeal nice. It was unecessary, especially since we'd had no words with each other for a long time, but you can't teach an old dog...well, anything it seems : $

Hypocritical bullshat that only your followers lap up.

Build a statue of her already and get it over with.

Posted by 69virgo
She talking bout people use too being pampered...hell she needs to do that to her husband so she can get some snake..

No no--she's celibate. Don't insult her precious sensibilities and pious beliefs so!

(O_O)

wow virgos fighting virgos lmao.

Respectable, Decan.

Well, not the Scorpio women hating part, LOL. I love Scorps, you need to leave them be 😛

Posted by 25thDecan
Too many pages. Why dedicate it. And for the comment on "jumping the p-angel bandwagon"....and "she's just blunt"....no...it's comments like "virgos have no empathy". When she is met with responses in kind, it's "you're...insert false "I'm smarter than you" comment here".
THAT is my "net-issue"...because it's really pointless. Yet, everyone has the right...so far...to vent here and in person. To read and observe or not to. So sure...some people on the net are blunt. Of course. And...some people on the net curse. Which of these is illegitimate? Best way for p-angel to address the guy's choice of avatar would've been a simple pm...a respectful one. P-angel isn't anyone's mother on here. Seniority notwithstanding, how is she more correct to act as if she's somehow THE person to point out someone else's flaws? I'm not talking about SOME points she makes, I'm talking about blatant "I am MOM" things she says. It angers people. Why should SHE claim the high road afterwards like what she does is completely necessary? Personally, I love to vent. It needs to get out. In person, I address issues when they arise and avoid those that I can. Its maturity. Don't dedicate page after page to p-angel's insulting way of her own personal moderation folks. And, yeah 69, some people probably find that stuff unsettling, but I gather you know that.

Scorpio women are horrible. 🙂

ur right decan and they say first decan virgos are bad and arent intelligent pfffffffffffff lmfao.

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Posted by 25thDecan
Too many pages. Why dedicate it. And for the comment on "jumping the p-angel bandwagon"....and "she's just blunt"....no...it's comments like "virgos have no empathy". When she is met with responses in kind, it's "you're...insert false "I'm smarter than you" comment here".
THAT is my "net-issue"...because it's really pointless. Yet, everyone has the right...so far...to vent here and in person. To read and observe or not to. So sure...some people on the net are blunt. Of course. And...some people on the net curse. Which of these is illegitimate? Best way for p-angel to address the guy's choice of avatar would've been a simple pm...a respectful one. P-angel isn't anyone's mother on here. Seniority notwithstanding, how is she more correct to act as if she's somehow THE person to point out someone else's flaws? I'm not talking about SOME points she makes, I'm talking about blatant "I am MOM" things she says. It angers people. Why should SHE claim the high road afterwards like what she does is completely necessary? Personally, I love to vent. It needs to get out. In person, I address issues when they arise and avoid those that I can. Its maturity. Don't dedicate page after page to p-angel's insulting way of her own personal moderation folks. And, yeah 69, some people probably find that stuff unsettling, but I gather you know that.

Scorpio women are horrible. 🙂

ur right decan and they say first decan virgos are bad and arent intelligent pfffffffffffff lmfao.

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Who says this? Why does everyone hate us first decans so much? lol

Also, I just noticed this

25thDecan - Aug 25th
Me - August 27th
LV - Aug 29th

It goes by twos.

My husband was born August 25th

And my husband is nothing like him .. nothing.


my man is a gentlemen through and through and would rather die than behave like him

I would love to have met your husband here.

I've been wondering what kind of person he is.

I could ask him how deals with his Social Anxiety.

Are you talking to me?

Yes.

P-angel only says what she says to lay off the fact that she secretly admires 25thdecan.

I can ask him if he wants to talk to you, Jason, but, it's doubtful if he would in public .. he might consider talking to you in private. Large crowds freak him out a tad. I think it's because he has this fear of composure-exposure, if that makes any sense.

Like .. what if he's in public and says something wrong? What if he offends someone? Even if he's not, even if he's being just fine .. he could easily wierd himself out thinking he wasn't acting right.

Of course, I'm always there, and he can jump behind me because surely I have no fear in looking however I am at that moment.

How he copes?

Well, he holds on tight, and let's me talk if he's getting wierd. But, this is only in large crowds .. he can do small groups fine.

In movie theatres, or any kind of cramped with people places .. he medicates himself. It's just a relaxer so he wont' freak out .. but, he's still nervous about being there.

He knows that I know, when he's getting anxious, I can tell he's going there, and so I hold on tight to reassure him I won't let him embarrass himself .. and he is usually able to withstand the stress in knowing that.

But, this is talking about a small fraction of him ... normally, he's the life of the party, smiles and hugs for all .. especially the ladies.

Dude, 69virgo, just more obscene photos...

Just post more obscene photos...

Posted by P-Angel

Like .. what if he's in public and says something wrong? What if he offends someone? Even if he's not, even if he's being just fine .. he could easily wierd himself out thinking he wasn't acting right.

I am that and more. The irrational fear of letting people down developed in me at a very young age.

My parents would often whip me with a long bamboo or a thick blunt stick when I hadn't done something right or the way they wanted, yell at me, and leave me by myself to tend to my bright red ass/legs and the swollen fingers that tried to protect them. So doing anything in front of them and anyone else would raise my blood pressure.

To imagine that I've made people disappointed is the same as remembering my parents whipping me.

http://www.livestrong.com/article/14669-people-pleasing-personality/>People-pleasing Personality That is why I am this kind of person.

That fear of letting people down stems into fear of negative evaluation.

Of course, I'm always there, and he can jump behind me because surely I have no fear in looking however I am at that moment.

How he copes?

Well, he holds on tight, and let's me talk if he's getting wierd. But, this is only in large crowds .. he can do small groups fine.

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Its nice that you're there for him. I don't really have anyone close to me that would be there for me when it becomes too much. They just give me weird looks or like what my mom told me, "Chew some gum."

I looked at your list, he has most of those ... but, once away from public view, he's extremely introverted. Sometimes, like sitting in a restaurant, a person only has to look at him and I can see that he's getting frantic.

Hummmm ... he was beating quite severly when he was a child, also, for any little infraction .. interesting.

People don't know it, Jason, he never lets anybody see this in him ... perhaps, I'm the only one who sees it, of course, after 28 years of marriage, lol

You are a lot like him in your disposition .. he's very gentle and kind. You two would probably hit it off very well.

Posted by PandorasBox
Amandus.. Do you know how many people are on this planet? Some will love you, others will be alright, and others will (sorry to say) not like you or will be indifferent.

Its how the world works. You cant please everyone while at the same time pleasin YOU! Look out for your best interest always and dont lose that genuine caring side 🙂. Its lovely. Remember, there are different ways to say "no", the nicest one usually does the trick 😛

So, you don't even get what he was saying?

Posted by 69virgo
@cappysweetie...you don't like the new one?

I like the new one 69virgo! 🙂

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Posted by P-Angel

Like .. what if he's in public and says something wrong? What if he offends someone? Even if he's not, even if he's being just fine .. he could easily wierd himself out thinking he wasn't acting right.

I am that and more. The irrational fear of letting people down developed in me at a very young age.

My parents would often whip me with a long bamboo or a thick blunt stick when I hadn't done something right or the way they wanted, yell at me, and leave me by myself to tend to my bright red ass/legs and the swollen fingers that tried to protect them. So doing anything in front of them and anyone else would raise my blood pressure.

To imagine that I've made people disappointed is the same as remembering my parents whipping me.

http://www.livestrong.com/article/14669-people-pleasing-personality/>People-pleasing Personality That is why I am this kind of person.

That fear of letting people down stems into fear of negative evaluation.

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I am/used to be that as well Jason. I was devastatingly shy when I was young to a point where I could be literally unable to function in social settings. I am still very much a people pleaser and try not to ever rock the boat at least in most situations but I have come a loooooonnnnggg way. I attribute a lot of it to spirituality and learning to like who I was as a person and realizing my opinions matter. I also went through counseling and had fabulous friends who stuck by me through thick and thin that would be so supportive of me. I have always loved who you are since I joined DXP even though we haven't had much direct conversations with one another! It has been a slow process for me all of these years but now I am very outgoing and people can't believe that I ever used to be like that. I may not have been in exactly the same situation as you but I hope I can give a ray of hope to you to not give up! 🙂

I wasn't beaten physically but I went through some very horrible and traumatic things in my childhood and grew up with a single, alcoholic mother that wasn't around a whole lot. I never knew my father and still don't know him. She loved and took care of me the best she could but unfortunately I just wasn't protected from a lot of things and I am sure this contributed to what became of me as far as this debilitating social anxiety.

This is part of the reason I think we should all be careful on how we address people on these threads and if you want to make your opinion it can be said in such a way that it's not so harsh and demeaning. Remember that any point can be spoken many different ways and until you really KNOW that person why not try and be a little kinder in your responses. This is why I haven't been able to really take P-Angel's advice. She was very harsh on me and she didn't know me at all as I was very new on DXP. If the advice would've been given in a more constructive criticism way then maybe I would've been able to see the POV she was expressing more effectively. Even when I tried to have a truce and thought our squabble was water under the bridge she attacked me again. 😢

What is really needed is the opportunity to be able to speak your TRUE mind without fear of getting throttled for it ... you already know how to be nice, you learned that when you didn't have to go find a big bamboo stick.

Being contrary is what you really need to learn how to be .. if that is what you think/feel. Being able to truly express yourself without fear of being beat is your medicine, Jason.

Are you still living at home?



You should see my husband do it, it freaks him out .. but it also very rewarding to him to be able to please himself, once in a while WHEN this pleasing of the self is in opposition of another ..... I provide him much opportunity 😉

Posted by PandorasBox
Amandus.. Do you know how many people are on this planet? Some will love you, others will be alright, and others will (sorry to say) not like you or will be indifferent.

Its how the world works. You cant please everyone while at the same time pleasin YOU! Look out for your best interest always and dont lose that genuine caring side 🙂. Its lovely. Remember, there are different ways to say "no", the nicest one usually does the trick 😛

That is why my fears are irrational. Because even while I know all this it is still unbelievably difficult to overcome. I cannot just tell my self to toughen up because by then I am already experiencing an internal panic attack. No one outside of me will know this unless I mess up.

And oh did my whole chemistry class find this out in my junior year of high school. Me and a good friend were tagged together for a presentation. I practiced and practiced before the day came and when it was our turn to go up I got so caught up in my fear of disappointing him that by the time I was to speak I panicked. I stuttered and froze in front of the whole class. What made it worse was that my chemistry teacher was the teacher I looked up to and respected most. We ended up with a C for that presentation because he did so well and I did so poorly. My friend was fine with it and seemed understanding and supportive. But I died on the inside that day. My fear had become reality in front of a whole class of 30+ students.

It hurts so much even now as if it just happened years later.

Posted by Stpatrickspisces

She was very harsh on me and she didn't know me at all as I was very new on DXP.

Jesus Fucking Christ ... I looked at all your pics and then told you that all of them are the same pose, wtf was up with that?

And you cried a river, saying you're being attacked .. saying it still .. when in reality, I'm asking wtf is up with all the pics with same pose?


I don't have to know you AT ALL to have eyes to see all your pics .. seriously, wtf is up with people and the way they lose their mind over stupid shit?

Posted by P-Angel
What is really needed is the opportunity to be able to speak your TRUE mind without fear of getting throttled for it ... you already know how to be nice, you learned that when you didn't have to go find a big bamboo stick.

Being contrary is what you really need to learn how to be .. if that is what you think/feel. Being able to truly express yourself without fear of being beat is your medicine, Jason.

Are you still living at home?



You should see my husband do it, it freaks him out .. but it also very rewarding to him to be able to please himself, once in a while WHEN this pleasing of the self is in opposition of another ..... I provide him much opportunity 😉

Yes I'm still living at home.

I'm expressing myself now aren't I. It does feel good.

Posted by Stpatrickspisces

If the advice would've been given in a more constructive criticism way then maybe I would've been able to see the POV she was expressing more effectively. Even when I tried to have a truce and thought our squabble was water under the bridge she attacked me again.

Translation = I saw what P-Angel was saying and took a pic of just my ass, and posted it. The two days later, I made new pics of my old pose because I liked that better and P-Angle mentioned what she observed and it hurt my feelings that she was looking at me, eventhough I am actually gussying myself up to take amazing pics of myself for everyone to see.

It's just horrible that she mentioned that I took my ass pic off ... **** cries ****

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Posted by P-Angel
What is really needed is the opportunity to be able to speak your TRUE mind without fear of getting throttled for it ... you already know how to be nice, you learned that when you didn't have to go find a big bamboo stick.

Being contrary is what you really need to learn how to be .. if that is what you think/feel. Being able to truly express yourself without fear of being beat is your medicine, Jason.

Are you still living at home?



You should see my husband do it, it freaks him out .. but it also very rewarding to him to be able to please himself, once in a while WHEN this pleasing of the self is in opposition of another ..... I provide him much opportunity 😉

Yes I'm still living at home.

I'm expressing myself now aren't I. It does feel good.

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Yeah, I've actually heard you say several things in here to people that got my attention because they were so out-of-the-ordinary for you.

Or, were you talking about when you were crying over the party you wanted to have and wanted to invite two of your friends who hate each other, and so wouldn't attend if the other was going to be there, and you were so upset because you wanted them to come so you could make them be together so they could mend their differences and be happy, because it would make YOU happy .... and I pointed out to you that if you have a desire to do that for YOUR happiness, when in reality, it would make them unhappy .. then you aren't doing that for them, you are doing it for yourself, which = selfishness.


and you were like ... uhuh, no way .... I'm not selfish, it's for them, so they can be a happy part of our group of friends.


And I was like .. people are fucked up, so why did you take the ass pic down?

Sometimes when I'm in the mood I think about the destiny I was born with as soon as my parents named me.

Jason: Healer/A Healing

When people I know look at me they always say I look like "a Jason" and can think of no other name that could've been given to me.

If destiny is true then maybe I was born to end the long path of suffering my family, my parents, and their own parents had gone through. Maybe its why for some unknown reason I got into this thing called love at a very young age. Maybe I was supposed to do it right this time.


I may be delusional just so I can feel better but now that I'm older I think that its not that they wanted to beat me to raise me into an good, obedient child. I think they love(d) so much. They just didn't know any other way because thats how they themselves were raised.

I can only imagine how hard it must've been for my dad. He is a man and a Pisces who was raised in an old school family where physical discipline was correct and highly approved of in that society. He was the one who beat me and my siblings almost every time. My taurus mother would just watch and we couldn't go to her for any emotional support because she is submissive and would always side with him "like a good wife" that she was raised to be.

When I used to live in the boonies I would play hide & seek with my siblings and the other kids. Well one time I fell and landed my left knee onto the sharp edge a stump and received a nasty, blood-gushing wound. When my dad found out for a brief second I swore I saw fear in his eyes. But instead of rushing over to make sure I was okay he went for the wooden stick...and then yelled for me to never leave the house.

So knowing that they actually love me helps me come to terms with my anxieties...doesn't do anything to relieve them though.