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Just a vent...
Posted by EarthgoddessBetter? 😄
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I can not/ will not read this jumbled mess
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Posted by UnicornSagYeah I think you're right, he knows that I have feelings for him for sure. I thought it's mutual, it probably was at least for a certain amount of time. That makes the two of us 😄 I don't even know her name, I know most of his friends from the city he lives in (we both live in Europe btw) by observing and this one doesn't strike me at all. I have no way to check where she's from or who she is unless he tags her or something which he didn't do. Since we're not in commited relationship (or any relationship of kind) he can do whatever he wants to really. He just said he's travelling through Brasil and visiting friends. That's all he said and to be honest I don't even wanna talk to him now. I just think it doesn't matter whether he's there because of her (she really might be just his friend who knows) or because he wanted to travel and had a chance to go. I don't like his actions regardless of the reason he's there, so right now I'm not planning to play emotional detective and try to find out the truth. If he doesn't care about me, the truth doesn't matter anyway. I'm just gonna ignore him for now, for my own good being, I don't need to watch him having fun with someone else, I'm not a masochist. 😄 If he decideds to contact me I'll see if I'll feel like talking to him and I'll make sure he knows I'm not okay with the way he acts now, otherwise I have nothing to explain to him. Thank you for your insight! 🙂
Well I can tell you one thing-Virgo's know a lot more than you think, they feel your feelings and your thoughts, weird way to describe it I know, but don't know how else to say it. So I doubt he doesn't know how you feel about him. Some times I used to think Virgo has some weird way of reading my mind lol cause that's how accurate he could be, like saying out loud what I just thought about etc...
For your case I tried to stay positive about whole situation and think that he might just be holding back for some reason and will come stronger about you sooner or later. Honestly tho, I believe you just like me got a bit head over hills about whole situation(in your case more understandable cause at least you 2 met) but I feel like I have to say about my recent disappointing discovery that Cap is nothing like I thought he is and now I'm done with him for good after this discovery. I think you should discover more who the girl is to clear the situation. Like check where she's from etc. See if you can add up pieces to the story. If that's the reason he went to Brasil then you know your answers. It's better to seek out the truth even if it's the most hurtful one than to stay in ignorance believing in things that aren't there. I know it hurts but it will help you get over him easier if there's nothing to be done about him if truth is bad...
Posted by Arielle83Ahaha I agree. 😄
This is why social media destroys ppls brains.
Posted by UnicornSagYeah that might be right, my sis told me that he obviously makes enough money to go anywhere anytime he wants so if he really wanted he’d visit me already, and if he doesn’t well it’s all just excuses. My friend wanted to meet me today to speak about it and make sure I’m okay and she told me that he’s not trying right now and not to live in past and that I should just block him on instagram for my own good so I don’t watch him and also he keeps stalking me, whenever I post a story he’s one of first people that sees it. So I blocked him, I’m not really active anywhere else, he has my number, whatsapp and facebook so if he cares he’ll find a way to contact me if not at least I have my answer. She said I have nothing to lose and I’d say she’s right. I was bit worried at first that I made a mistake, but I realized people who care tries and make an effort. There’s really no point in knowing wheter she’s just friend or not because it wouldn’t make much difference so yeah 🙂 I think I’ll be okay it might take some time, but I think I did a good thing for me at least.Posted by BaruDid you look into his followers and people he follows? You may recognize her from photo and if profile isn't set to private may find out something more from it, that is if you want to do that at all. And if it was on instagram in the first place. Well I suggest this only cause it's my own way which may not suit others. I chose to make myself suffer rather than think what if and to go back to same old stories. I always dig for the truth and would rather face harsh truth than go back to things if something changes. Which is exactly what I did once again lol that's what makes me end things with people once and for all. I don't even tell them reasons why I no longer talk to them lol but I don't like questioning anything or having any doubts or hopes, I rather destroy it all than go up and down with someone over and over. However, if you feel better not knowing what is behind his trip and did he have someone else or not then you should stay with that and not do a thing about him further more. Also to me one thing speaks loud enough as well-he can't do ldr thing normally with you who he has on the same continent at least but he can go to another continent for entire month just for the sake of it. But again that's only my perception of things, you have absolute right to not agree with me lolPosted by UnicornSagYeah I think you're right, he knows that I have feelings for him for sure. I thought it's mutual, it probably was at least for a certain amount of time. That makes the two of us 😄 I don't even know her name, I know most of his friends from the city he lives in (we both live in Europe btw) by observing and this one doesn't strike me at all. I have no way to check where she's from or who she is unless he tags her or something which he didn't do. Since we're not in commited relationship (or any relationship of kind) he can do whatever he wants to really. He just said he's travelling through Brasil and visiting friends. That's all he said and to be honest I don't even wanna talk to him now. I just think it doesn't matter whether he's there because of her (she really might be just his friend who knows) or because he wanted to travel and had a chance to go. I don't like his actions regardless of the reason he's there, so right now I'm not planning to play emotional detective and try to find out the truth. If he doesn't care about me, the truth doesn't matter anyway. I'm just gonna ignore him for now, for my own good being, I don't need to watch him having fun with someone else, I'm not a masochist. 😄 If he decideds to contact me I'll see if I'll feel like talking to him and I'll make sure he knows I'm not okay with the way he acts now, otherwise I have nothing to explain to him. Thank you for your insight! 🙂
Well I can tell you one thing-Virgo's know a lot more than you think, they feel your feelings and your thoughts, weird way to describe it I know, but don't know how else to say it. So I doubt he doesn't know how you feel about him. Some times I used to think Virgo has some weird way of reading my mind lol cause that's how accurate he could be, like saying out loud what I just thought about etc...
For your case I tried to stay positive about whole situation and think that he might just be holding back for some reason and will come stronger about you sooner or later. Honestly tho, I believe you just like me got a bit head over hills about whole situation(in your case more understandable cause at least you 2 met) but I feel like I have to say about my recent disappointing discovery that Cap is nothing like I thought he is and now I'm done with him for good after this discovery. I think you should discover more who the girl is to clear the situation. Like check where she's from etc. See if you can add up pieces to the story. If that's the reason he went to Brasil then you know your answers. It's better to seek out the truth even if it's the most hurtful one than to stay in ignorance believing in things that aren't there. I know it hurts but it will help you get over him easier if there's nothing to be done about him if truth is bad...
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Posted by BaruIf you were never told of the trip he was never interested from the start.
So to continue from my last post...
The last time I texted him was on Saturday which was 10 days ago, we had conversation flowing pretty well, I succeeded in something concerning our mutual hobby, he seemed really happy for me, so I opened up to him bit more saying that if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be able to do it since he gave me courage to do it by supporting me and inspiring me... he was surprised in a good way so he asked more about it, but when I replied saying those things I mentioned above he just read it and haven’t replied ever since. I don’t know what was so wrong about saying it since I didn’t confess my undying love for him or anything like that, but that’s not the point...
I thought he needs space maybe and that he’s preoccupied with his one-month trip to Brasil (he left last Thursday without saying anything just liking my post on instagram which is pretty lame if you ask me 🙄). Well last night he started posting on his instagram stories photos of some girl... I don’t know who she is, I just remember him saying he’s visiting some friends. So maybe this is one of his “friends” or whatever.
Anyway what I meant to say is that I thought we had something good going on, I thought we had a connection and that he cared about me... At least everything seemed to be that way. I never doubted it till now. I honestly feel bit sick to my stomach and hurt and if he ever contacts me again (he probably will sooner or later) I don’t even know if I wanna talk to him anymore. He has to know I see all of it, so either he provokes me on purpose or he’s clueless and thinks it means nothing to me. Either way I’m just bit heartbroken and needed to vent.
I decided to distance myself from him for now, I’ll ignore all of his instagram stories and if he posts something I’ll just ignore it too. I’m big on trust and I used to think that more or less I can trust him, because everything he said always turned out to be truth. Oh well maybe I’m just naive. If he talks to me sometime I’ll see how I’ll feel about talking to him, since I don’t have any real evidence he’s fucking this girl and we’re not really in relationship so it’s not like I can tell him what to do, but still his actions are not acceptable if he wants to keep me in his life... I deserve better than that so he better bring his A game or I’m out for good! The end of vent.
Only an interested virgo will tell you of plans.
Posted by JambalayaHe did tell me about it though.... I knew about it, I don’t know if I mentioned it in this post, but it’s said in the previous one.Posted by BaruIf you were never told of the trip he was never interested from the start.
So to continue from my last post...
The last time I texted him was on Saturday which was 10 days ago, we had conversation flowing pretty well, I succeeded in something concerning our mutual hobby, he seemed really happy for me, so I opened up to him bit more saying that if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be able to do it since he gave me courage to do it by supporting me and inspiring me... he was surprised in a good way so he asked more about it, but when I replied saying those things I mentioned above he just read it and haven’t replied ever since. I don’t know what was so wrong about saying it since I didn’t confess my undying love for him or anything like that, but that’s not the point...
I thought he needs space maybe and that he’s preoccupied with his one-month trip to Brasil (he left last Thursday without saying anything just liking my post on instagram which is pretty lame if you ask me 🙄). Well last night he started posting on his instagram stories photos of some girl... I don’t know who she is, I just remember him saying he’s visiting some friends. So maybe this is one of his “friends” or whatever.
Anyway what I meant to say is that I thought we had something good going on, I thought we had a connection and that he cared about me... At least everything seemed to be that way. I never doubted it till now. I honestly feel bit sick to my stomach and hurt and if he ever contacts me again (he probably will sooner or later) I don’t even know if I wanna talk to him anymore. He has to know I see all of it, so either he provokes me on purpose or he’s clueless and thinks it means nothing to me. Either way I’m just bit heartbroken and needed to vent.
I decided to distance myself from him for now, I’ll ignore all of his instagram stories and if he posts something I’ll just ignore it too. I’m big on trust and I used to think that more or less I can trust him, because everything he said always turned out to be truth. Oh well maybe I’m just naive. If he talks to me sometime I’ll see how I’ll feel about talking to him, since I don’t have any real evidence he’s fucking this girl and we’re not really in relationship so it’s not like I can tell him what to do, but still his actions are not acceptable if he wants to keep me in his life... I deserve better than that so he better bring his A game or I’m out for good! The end of vent.
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Just curious... how often do the two of you talk on the phone or just text?
Posted by CreativeCapWe just text, he never asked to call me although he does have my number, but I don’t really like talking on phone so that’s not a problem with me. Normally few times a week, it differs, but at least twice a week, sometimes almost all week depends if we have something to talk about... well not right now obviously and since I blocked him who knows when or if ever again 😂 but I felt like I needed to do it for my own good, if he cares he’ll find a way... I do care about him, but I have to put myself first.
Just curious... how often do the two of you talk on the phone or just text?
He just messsged me on facebook asking if I deleted my instagram... There you go, sneaky little bastard 😬 what do I do now lol 😂🤷🏻♀️
Posted by BaruHow long has it been since you heard from him prior to this message
He just messsged me on facebook asking if I deleted my instagram... There you go, sneaky little bastard 😬 what do I do now lol 😂🤷🏻♀️
I wouldn’t respond.. make him hit you on your cell. Give him a little chase
Posted by BaruIsn’t it immature to block someone on one media and leave them open on others?
He just messsged me on facebook asking if I deleted my instagram... There you go, sneaky little bastard 😬 what do I do now lol 😂🤷🏻♀️
What’s the point of it?
Posted by GemitatiThe point was for him to see he can lose me if he keeps acting the way he does. It was sort of a test... I blocked him on instagram, because he keeps stalking me, but is not able to act the way I deserve... I opened up to him, he left me with silence and went to Brasil without saying single word and posted photos of other girl on his stories. It hurt me, this is not the way to treat me. We are both most active on instagram stalking each other like crazy people... Someone had to put an end to this stupidity. 😅 I left other media open so he had chance to reach out in case he really cares and is just an idiot. I just didn’t expect him to be so fast. 😁 I don’t wanna lose him, I actually care about him I just want him to open his eyes. But if he’s not able to do that and be honest then there is no other option left. I don’t wanna waste my time with someone who doesn’t care about me.Posted by BaruIsn’t it immature to block someone on one media and leave them open on others?
He just messsged me on facebook asking if I deleted my instagram... There you go, sneaky little bastard 😬 what do I do now lol 😂🤷🏻♀️
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Posted by CreativeCap10 days since my last message to him, we text on instagram because we’re used to it and it’s his most favorite social media. I knew he’ll notice sooner or later he can’t search (stalk) me up. I’m gonna go to sleep anyway now, it’s like 3 am in my country and I need some sleep and then some good thinking time before replying to him. I don’t wanna play too many games I prefere honest approach, this was just meant to be test to see if he cares if I’m around... 😊Posted by BaruHow long has it been since you heard from him prior to this message
He just messsged me on facebook asking if I deleted my instagram... There you go, sneaky little bastard 😬 what do I do now lol 😂🤷🏻♀️click to expand
Posted by BaruCareful girl! You are too involved and I hope you can pull out of it with minimum harm!Posted by GemitatiThe point was for him to see he can lose me if he keeps acting the way he does. It was sort of a test... I blocked him on instagram, because he keeps stalking me, but is not able to act the way I deserve... I opened up to him, he left me with silence and went to Brasil without saying single word and posted photos of other girl on his stories. It hurt me, this is not the way to treat me. We are both most active on instagram stalking each other like crazy people... Someone had to put an end to this stupidity. 😅 I left other media open so he had chance to reach out in case he really cares and is just an idiot. I just didn’t expect him to be so fast. 😁 I don’t wanna lose him, I actually care about him I just want him to open his eyes. But if he’s not able to do that and be honest then there is no other option left. I don’t wanna waste my time with someone who doesn’t care about me.Posted by BaruIsn’t it immature to block someone on one media and leave them open on others?
He just messsged me on facebook asking if I deleted my instagram... There you go, sneaky little bastard 😬 what do I do now lol 😂🤷🏻♀️
What’s the point of it?
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Posted by BaruAgree with gemititi you should be careful, you’re being a typical paranoid Capricorn when you have no reason to be. What if it’s just a friend? All of that for nothing. You could be playing yourself this whole time. I’ve had my cap do things like that too Block me here and there and after a while it gets old. People care at first that you do that but it’s just giving someone a sooner time and easier time to get over you.Posted by CreativeCap10 days since my last message to him, we text on instagram because we’re used to it and it’s his most favorite social media. I knew he’ll notice sooner or later he can’t search (stalk) me up. I’m gonna go to sleep anyway now, it’s like 3 am in my country and I need some sleep and then some good thinking time before replying to him. I don’t wanna play too many games I prefere honest approach, this was just meant to be test to see if he cares if I’m around... 😊Posted by BaruHow long has it been since you heard from him prior to this message
He just messsged me on facebook asking if I deleted my instagram... There you go, sneaky little bastard 😬 what do I do now lol 😂🤷🏻♀️
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He said he was going to visit friends I’m sure it’s just a friend. He can have friends no? How is that treating you bad? You could of asked too btw, blocking is so extreme.
Posted by EarthgoddessYeah I did this morning, we’ll see how it goes from there. 😊
You stop playing games and ask where u stand.... or at least ask questions u want the answers to
Posted by MoonshineLeoI admit I might have been paranoid about the girl. Of course he can have friends! I have friends too, I don’t see anything wrong with it 😂 So what are you suggesting? That I should let him do anything he wants? Even if it’s disrepectful towards me? I don’t have a problem with leaving him have his space if he needs it, but this time it felt like too much. Men respond better to actions than words, of course I already told him that I blocked him, but I explained my reasons why, without emotional turmoil. I just said how I felt I don’t wanna hurt him I just want to be honest with him and see how he reacts to that. This is actually the first time I blocked somebody and yes it does feel extreme and I can’t say I enjoed it, but it felt necessary.Posted by BaruAgree with gemititi you should be careful, you’re being a typical paranoid Capricorn when you have no reason to be. What if it’s just a friend? All of that for nothing. You could be playing yourself this whole time. I’ve had my cap do things like that too Block me here and there and after a while it gets old. People care at first that you do that but it’s just giving someone a sooner time and easier time to get over you.Posted by CreativeCap10 days since my last message to him, we text on instagram because we’re used to it and it’s his most favorite social media. I knew he’ll notice sooner or later he can’t search (stalk) me up. I’m gonna go to sleep anyway now, it’s like 3 am in my country and I need some sleep and then some good thinking time before replying to him. I don’t wanna play too many games I prefere honest approach, this was just meant to be test to see if he cares if I’m around... 😊Posted by BaruHow long has it been since you heard from him prior to this message
He just messsged me on facebook asking if I deleted my instagram... There you go, sneaky little bastard 😬 what do I do now lol 😂🤷🏻♀️
He said he was going to visit friends I’m sure it’s just a friend. He can have friends no? How is that treating you bad? You could of asked too btw, blocking is so extreme.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiIf having feelings and wanting the best for myself is being too involved. Then I guess I’m too involved. I already honestly told him everything now it’s up to him, I don’t wanna play games, I told him I want to be able to be honest and have an honest and open communication with him.Posted by BaruCareful girl! You are too involved and I hope you can pull out of it with minimum harm!Posted by GemitatiThe point was for him to see he can lose me if he keeps acting the way he does. It was sort of a test... I blocked him on instagram, because he keeps stalking me, but is not able to act the way I deserve... I opened up to him, he left me with silence and went to Brasil without saying single word and posted photos of other girl on his stories. It hurt me, this is not the way to treat me. We are both most active on instagram stalking each other like crazy people... Someone had to put an end to this stupidity. 😅 I left other media open so he had chance to reach out in case he really cares and is just an idiot. I just didn’t expect him to be so fast. 😁 I don’t wanna lose him, I actually care about him I just want him to open his eyes. But if he’s not able to do that and be honest then there is no other option left. I don’t wanna waste my time with someone who doesn’t care about me.Posted by BaruIsn’t it immature to block someone on one media and leave them open on others?
He just messsged me on facebook asking if I deleted my instagram... There you go, sneaky little bastard 😬 what do I do now lol 😂🤷🏻♀️
What’s the point of it?
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So good news is he took it well, he’s not angry, he apologized twice he didn’t respond to my message, he said he meant to respond properly, he didn’t want to say just anything and needed time to do that, but then he got busy. He said it’s just a trip and he didn’t realize I’ll get angry when he won’t message me since we don’t message all the time. And reminded me he did say he’ll be visiting friends in Brazil. All good! We talked it out. Honestly I’m glad I did it, at least I know he cares if I’m there or not and now he knows I’m not gonna accept all of his BS. It wasn’t even an argument I just said how I felt, he acknowledged it and apologized, said his side of story so I think it’s good.
Posted by BaruHe told you about it but he never told when he was leaving right?Posted by JambalayaHe did tell me about it though.... I knew about it, I don’t know if I mentioned it in this post, but it’s said in the previous one.Posted by BaruIf you were never told of the trip he was never interested from the start.
So to continue from my last post...
The last time I texted him was on Saturday which was 10 days ago, we had conversation flowing pretty well, I succeeded in something concerning our mutual hobby, he seemed really happy for me, so I opened up to him bit more saying that if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be able to do it since he gave me courage to do it by supporting me and inspiring me... he was surprised in a good way so he asked more about it, but when I replied saying those things I mentioned above he just read it and haven’t replied ever since. I don’t know what was so wrong about saying it since I didn’t confess my undying love for him or anything like that, but that’s not the point...
I thought he needs space maybe and that he’s preoccupied with his one-month trip to Brasil (he left last Thursday without saying anything just liking my post on instagram which is pretty lame if you ask me 🙄). Well last night he started posting on his instagram stories photos of some girl... I don’t know who she is, I just remember him saying he’s visiting some friends. So maybe this is one of his “friends” or whatever.
Anyway what I meant to say is that I thought we had something good going on, I thought we had a connection and that he cared about me... At least everything seemed to be that way. I never doubted it till now. I honestly feel bit sick to my stomach and hurt and if he ever contacts me again (he probably will sooner or later) I don’t even know if I wanna talk to him anymore. He has to know I see all of it, so either he provokes me on purpose or he’s clueless and thinks it means nothing to me. Either way I’m just bit heartbroken and needed to vent.
I decided to distance myself from him for now, I’ll ignore all of his instagram stories and if he posts something I’ll just ignore it too. I’m big on trust and I used to think that more or less I can trust him, because everything he said always turned out to be truth. Oh well maybe I’m just naive. If he talks to me sometime I’ll see how I’ll feel about talking to him, since I don’t have any real evidence he’s fucking this girl and we’re not really in relationship so it’s not like I can tell him what to do, but still his actions are not acceptable if he wants to keep me in his life... I deserve better than that so he better bring his A game or I’m out for good! The end of vent.
Only an interested virgo will tell you of plans.
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Posted by JambalayaNope I knew when he was leaving and for how long he’s going to be there. I’ve already discussed it with him, since the last message I sent to him before he left was quite deep and meaningful, he said he wanted to give me good answer not just any answer and he needed time to think about it, but then got busy. He didn’t realize I’d get angry about it since we don’t message every day and now has apologized about it twice and said I didn’t do anything wrong. He seemed genuinly upset. We’ve talked it out... He’s just a human, in the end he judged himself more than I judged him so I told him not to worry about it anymore. We have liked each other since the beginning, now I know again he does care if I’m around or not and he wants me in his life.Posted by BaruHe told you about it but he never told when he was leaving right?Posted by JambalayaHe did tell me about it though.... I knew about it, I don’t know if I mentioned it in this post, but it’s said in the previous one.Posted by BaruIf you were never told of the trip he was never interested from the start.
So to continue from my last post...
The last time I texted him was on Saturday which was 10 days ago, we had conversation flowing pretty well, I succeeded in something concerning our mutual hobby, he seemed really happy for me, so I opened up to him bit more saying that if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be able to do it since he gave me courage to do it by supporting me and inspiring me... he was surprised in a good way so he asked more about it, but when I replied saying those things I mentioned above he just read it and haven’t replied ever since. I don’t know what was so wrong about saying it since I didn’t confess my undying love for him or anything like that, but that’s not the point...
I thought he needs space maybe and that he’s preoccupied with his one-month trip to Brasil (he left last Thursday without saying anything just liking my post on instagram which is pretty lame if you ask me 🙄). Well last night he started posting on his instagram stories photos of some girl... I don’t know who she is, I just remember him saying he’s visiting some friends. So maybe this is one of his “friends” or whatever.
Anyway what I meant to say is that I thought we had something good going on, I thought we had a connection and that he cared about me... At least everything seemed to be that way. I never doubted it till now. I honestly feel bit sick to my stomach and hurt and if he ever contacts me again (he probably will sooner or later) I don’t even know if I wanna talk to him anymore. He has to know I see all of it, so either he provokes me on purpose or he’s clueless and thinks it means nothing to me. Either way I’m just bit heartbroken and needed to vent.
I decided to distance myself from him for now, I’ll ignore all of his instagram stories and if he posts something I’ll just ignore it too. I’m big on trust and I used to think that more or less I can trust him, because everything he said always turned out to be truth. Oh well maybe I’m just naive. If he talks to me sometime I’ll see how I’ll feel about talking to him, since I don’t have any real evidence he’s fucking this girl and we’re not really in relationship so it’s not like I can tell him what to do, but still his actions are not acceptable if he wants to keep me in his life... I deserve better than that so he better bring his A game or I’m out for good! The end of vent.
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Posted by BaruIf he continues to tell you of his plans and is willing to talk about them then more than likely he's interested.Posted by JambalayaNope I knew when he was leaving and for how long he’s going to be there. I’ve already discussed it with him, since the last message I sent to him before he left was quite deep and meaningful, he said he wanted to give me good answer not just any answer and he needed time to think about it, but then got busy. He didn’t realize I’d get angry about it since we don’t message every day and now has apologized about it twice and said I didn’t do anything wrong. He seemed genuinly upset. We’ve talked it out... He’s just a human, in the end he judged himself more than I judged him so I told him not to worry about it anymore. We have liked each other since the beginning, now I know again he does care if I’m around or not and he wants me in his life.Posted by BaruHe told you about it but he never told when he was leaving right?Posted by JambalayaHe did tell me about it though.... I knew about it, I don’t know if I mentioned it in this post, but it’s said in the previous one.Posted by BaruIf you were never told of the trip he was never interested from the start.
So to continue from my last post...
The last time I texted him was on Saturday which was 10 days ago, we had conversation flowing pretty well, I succeeded in something concerning our mutual hobby, he seemed really happy for me, so I opened up to him bit more saying that if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t be able to do it since he gave me courage to do it by supporting me and inspiring me... he was surprised in a good way so he asked more about it, but when I replied saying those things I mentioned above he just read it and haven’t replied ever since. I don’t know what was so wrong about saying it since I didn’t confess my undying love for him or anything like that, but that’s not the point...
I thought he needs space maybe and that he’s preoccupied with his one-month trip to Brasil (he left last Thursday without saying anything just liking my post on instagram which is pretty lame if you ask me 🙄). Well last night he started posting on his instagram stories photos of some girl... I don’t know who she is, I just remember him saying he’s visiting some friends. So maybe this is one of his “friends” or whatever.
Anyway what I meant to say is that I thought we had something good going on, I thought we had a connection and that he cared about me... At least everything seemed to be that way. I never doubted it till now. I honestly feel bit sick to my stomach and hurt and if he ever contacts me again (he probably will sooner or later) I don’t even know if I wanna talk to him anymore. He has to know I see all of it, so either he provokes me on purpose or he’s clueless and thinks it means nothing to me. Either way I’m just bit heartbroken and needed to vent.
I decided to distance myself from him for now, I’ll ignore all of his instagram stories and if he posts something I’ll just ignore it too. I’m big on trust and I used to think that more or less I can trust him, because everything he said always turned out to be truth. Oh well maybe I’m just naive. If he talks to me sometime I’ll see how I’ll feel about talking to him, since I don’t have any real evidence he’s fucking this girl and we’re not really in relationship so it’s not like I can tell him what to do, but still his actions are not acceptable if he wants to keep me in his life... I deserve better than that so he better bring his A game or I’m out for good! The end of vent.
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But do you know who the girl was tho? lol
Tbh what you guys have sounds detached af and him saying he'll reply properly to you doesn't equate to you knowing where you stand.
But if this situationship suits you then it's good I guess.
Tbh what you guys have sounds detached af and him saying he'll reply properly to you doesn't equate to you knowing where you stand.
But if this situationship suits you then it's good I guess.
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