My male Virgo doesnt like to kiss.... (Page 2)

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Yawn.... So lotus have you gotten that kiss yet?

Yawn? Lmao!!! You're dumber than I thought. Hahaha. But you're bored with me remember? You're the one sending ME PM's, chasing me to the Virgo boards. Yawn? Am I chasing you? STOP FUCKING SWEATING ME bitch Damn...you foolish little cunt.

Why do you care so much? Just ignore her.

Sheesh the immaturity and blatant lack of emotional control of some people on these boards

Call it what the fuck you want. If you don't like what's going on here...GTFO.

Nope πŸ™‚ I'm staying right here *sits*

So stop bitching & shut the fuck up. Sit until your ass gets numb. Kudos to you!!! πŸ˜„

Thanks πŸ™‚

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Hahahaha...you're quite welcome. πŸ˜„

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Kit I love your furry hat/hood did you get it at http://spirithoods.com/ ? I want to get one but they are kinda expensive.

I actually got it here

www.chelseasofnewyork.com/

My mom and sister all got different hoods and we were different animals/characters for halloween with our hoods. Pricey, but they are made very well

Thanks for the link girl πŸ™‚

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No prob

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I was w/ a guy who loved to kiss me 'down there' almost obsessively but seemed like unless I initiated making out he only liked to kiss my face hello and good-bye.... go figure! LOL! He was not a Virgo but his Venus was Virgo.

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Posted by MiaSangria
I was w/ a guy who loved to kiss me 'down there' almost obsessively but seemed like unless I initiated making out he only liked to kiss my face hello and good-bye.... go figure! LOL! He was not a Virgo but his Venus was Virgo.

What were his other placements? (I'm guessing in my head-lol)

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btw, I've asked a couple male friends how they felt about kissing (neither Virgo) and they both said they weren't that into it but recognize that women like it so they do it for them - or to set the mood.

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Posted by lotuslilly
IS something wrong....β€” and no, i dont have bad breath or cavities.... I was the first to kiss him, after a few dates and 10 months later, he is still not into kissing... or much affection.... 😒 Confused airy Libran....

and yes we are bf/gf.
not sure how much longer I can do this... I'm almost done with trying to figure him out.

Kissing is very personal for some people. Quite frankly it's more intimate than sex. Remember the movie Pretty Woman? She didn't want to kiss because it was too emotional &/or intense. πŸ˜›

Yeah Lotuslilly,

maybe he is a prostitute.

Uh...no. I was referencing the fact that she didn't like to kiss because it was too personal. Not that she was a prostitute. Where exactly did you read that in anything I wrote? I missed it.

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It was a joke. I was comparing HIM to Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman as per your comment.
Here I'll break it down on how I came up with the joke. It wasnt at your expense but at me playing dumb.
See when writing comedy or in my case- attempting to do so, one shall take a comment and find the least relevant corelation within the subjects being addressed. Him being a prostitute who dislikes the intimacy of kissing is a funnier picture to paint than just a guy who rather be texting than kissing.

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Posted by zd1987
I've seen many posts on virgo's not being the affectionate type. I have to say I may be the exception, I know we come off "cold" but lack of affection is far from the truth. One of my good friends is a virgo as well, and we had this discussion. Very affectionate when we feel loved/important.

They're not hearing you.

If a particular Virgo doesn't show emotion towards them, then ALL Virgos are cold.

It's why they stay hunting this section, looking for answers.

And when they actually get answers from our sign, they choose to ignore it, and listen to the "answers" from other signs who wish they knew as much about us as they swear to.

Bottomline, they're searching for what they want to hear, not the truth--and if another sign can come in and tell them it's the Virgo's fault and not their own for trying to control/berate/force us, they'll readily agree, only to come back less than a week later to cry about being put on ignore, or just plain straight flat out left.

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14 Years

Sorry havent gotten the kiss yet.... I'm close to really dumping him now.... I think hes got a lot stuff on his mind.... Ive texted him and no response abotu Friday hangout later.......

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Posted by RealTalk
I know it was a joke Wgamador2, silly billy I was pulling your leg...hehehehe. I knew what you meant. πŸ™‚

hahahaha....you got me. I was like,
Whats wrong with Real Talk....why is she taking me serious?

hahahahaha.

Wooooooooooo!!

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I was w/ a guy who loved to kiss me 'down there' almost obsessively but seemed like unless I initiated making out he only liked to kiss my face hello and good-bye.... go figure! LOL! He was not a Virgo but his Venus was Virgo.

What were his other placements? (I'm guessing in my head-lol)

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Whats ur guess? Does Scorpio moon explain it?

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I know it was a joke Wgamador2, silly billy I was pulling your leg...hehehehe. I knew what you meant. πŸ™‚

Ooohhhh silly billlllyyy

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Go suck on your fathers balls you miserable twat. You're just pissed off because it was a joke & you thought I was mad. Jokes on you raggedy Ann ass bitch. Keep on following me around like a lap dog...I love having power over people. You eat, sleep & shit DXP. Tell ya what, go on eBay & see if they have a life for sale you sad walking corpse. SMH.

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I know it was a joke Wgamador2, silly billy I was pulling your leg...hehehehe. I knew what you meant. πŸ™‚

Ooohhhh silly billlllyyy

Go suck on your fathers balls you miserable twat. You're just pissed off because it was a joke & you thought I was mad. Jokes on you raggedy Ann ass bitch. Keep on following me around like a lap dog...I love having power over people. You eat, sleep & shit DXP. Tell ya what, go on eBay & see if they have a life for sale you sad walking corpse. SMH.

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eBay is currently out of lives for sale;( bummer.

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I was w/ a guy who loved to kiss me 'down there' almost obsessively but seemed like unless I initiated making out he only liked to kiss my face hello and good-bye.... go figure! LOL! He was not a Virgo but his Venus was Virgo.

What were his other placements? (I'm guessing in my head-lol)

Whats ur guess? Does Scorpio moon explain it?

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Ooooh it could. What are his other placements? Post chart?

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I know it was a joke Wgamador2, silly billy I was pulling your leg...hehehehe. I knew what you meant. πŸ™‚

Ooohhhh silly billlllyyy

Go suck on your fathers balls you miserable twat. You're just pissed off because it was a joke & you thought I was mad. Jokes on you raggedy Ann ass bitch. Keep on following me around like a lap dog...I love having power over people. You eat, sleep & shit DXP. Tell ya what, go on eBay & see if they have a life for sale you sad walking corpse. SMH.

eBay is currently out of lives for sale;( bummer.

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So try hanging youself.

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I know it was a joke Wgamador2, silly billy I was pulling your leg...hehehehe. I knew what you meant. πŸ™‚

Ooohhhh silly billlllyyy

Go suck on your fathers balls you miserable twat. You're just pissed off because it was a joke & you thought I was mad. Jokes on you raggedy Ann ass bitch. Keep on following me around like a lap dog...I love having power over people. You eat, sleep & shit DXP. Tell ya what, go on eBay & see if they have a life for sale you sad walking corpse. SMH.

eBay is currently out of lives for sale;( bummer.

So try hanging youself.

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Nawwww, unlike you I have a pretty bright future.

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A bright future....hmmmmm, ponders that. So for you that consists of allowing people to hurt your feelings on the uh...Internet, follow them around the boards because you're upset, stalk them by sending PM's, having me on your mind all day & night, losing sleep, & obsessing about someone you never met. Hehehehehehe...pretty bright indeed. Walk into the light CarolAnn you crazy ass poltergeist ass bitch. Such a sad individual. I almost feel sorry for you, but I don't. You know being a Virgo & all. Hahaha. Stiff bitch.

Toodles!!!!

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I was w/ a guy who loved to kiss me 'down there' almost obsessively but seemed like unless I initiated making out he only liked to kiss my face hello and good-bye.... go figure! LOL! He was not a Virgo but his Venus was Virgo.

What were his other placements? (I'm guessing in my head-lol)

Whats ur guess? Does Scorpio moon explain it?

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😱 Hey! You leave the scorpio moon out of it. If you read you'll actually see that we love sensual things. Kissing is very sensual and I love to kiss

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OH nnoooooooooooooCajun.... trust to finda a Trini here!!!! i knew youwere one too πŸ™‚ LOL yes goin for a stag about now....

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I was w/ a guy who loved to kiss me 'down there' almost obsessively but seemed like unless I initiated making out he only liked to kiss my face hello and good-bye.... go figure! LOL! He was not a Virgo but his Venus was Virgo.

What were his other placements? (I'm guessing in my head-lol)

Whats ur guess? Does Scorpio moon explain it?

😱 Hey! You leave the scorpio moon out of it. If you read you'll actually see that we love sensual things. Kissing is very sensual and I love to kiss

hahaha +1 on the Scorp Moon. I think became addicted to kissing my guy at one point. :x

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Yeah same here. I can't get enough kisses from my scorpio n.n

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Posted by P-Angel
What difference does it make what her lips look like?

::: shakes head :::

He's a Virgo .... why do you keep expecting him to act like he cares enough to bestow you with affection?

If you insist on being with a Virgo then you have to accept the fact that they WANT to shrug off intimacy

not mine. he loves to cuddle, kiss, sex, kinky.. Maybe its due to scorpio rising..I dunno..

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My ex- virgo, always wanted to kiss me. Way more than i ever wanted to kiss him back. Always all over me. Always. So maybe he is just afraid that he is not a good kisser himself.

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Are we talking just kissing on the lips?..cuz you know, there's ways to be intimate with someone without kissing. Be creative. I won't say I can't empathize the frustration of your partner not wanting to kiss you, but I wouldn't feel like it was a deal-breaker.

If he doesn't like affection at all, change your mindset, or do other things that are just as affectionate.

I didn't have the place of birth, but look at his chart, it doesn't seem like there's anything to suggest that he isn't passionate or capable of passion.

Sun Virgo
Moon Virgo
Mercury Virgo
Venus Libra
Mars Aquarius
Lilith in Libra

This is just to start.....but venus in libra, mars in aqua...that's pretty even keel..and since he's a cusper..it sort of enhances other aspects surrounding him.

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Just to add when i started talking to the virguy im talking to now..in the first stages of the relationship he didn't kiss me at all..I used to feel offended...But i think when he got comfortable he did...I used to have to initiate the kisses at first and when i realised he wasn't into it..I started checking my breathe lol...wondering if something was wrong...Now he is initiating the kisses..sometimes i get them out of no where

Just the other day me , his sister and i was having a convo about it and he then acknowledged that if he is not deeply connected with a person he will not kiss...his sister went on to further state that they both believe that kissing is a very expressive and deep part of intimacy ....

Above that some ppl just doesn't like kissing...had i guy who i was dating and i literally hated when he kissed me...for one i thought his mouth was too small and two i dont think he was a good kisser

with that said if you guys are dating that long and he still hasn't find any interest in kissing you maybe he isn't deeply connected to you as you may think..

But to me if its not working out for you ...just leave if i love a man they are certain levels of intimacy imma desire or want

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Wow a Virgo who does not like to kiss..new one for me. Then again not everyone is into the physical as mentioned. I was going to ask if he knew how to kiss since that does happen, but reading on it seems like he is in an ok place.

Some Virgo men are hot then frost then hot again. Some are hot hot then find a spark somewhere then hot again. Them of coruse some are a volcano of passion taht never dims and those are fantastic.

It is a great challenge figuring out a Virgo, one they are an Earth sign and 2 not stable signs so you get a conundrum there. If in your gut it is wrong, and if you are getting red flags it may be a sign from the universe to step off. Or at least detach yourself. This may be hard, after some time Virgo magnetism just overtakes you and you are stuck for the good and the bad.

If it bothers you so much let him know. I am sure he will tell you something considering you two are dating. And it is good to guess and wonder but there comes a time where it does more harm and find out the information straight from him. You also do not want to make a mistake and hurt both you and him.