So, I was briefly dating a Virgo man for about a month or so. We've known each other since we were kids. We both self admittedly through the years have thought about one another but never reached out to contact each other. Yet, here we are years later talking. It started as catching up then it turned into more. A few weeks ago we hung out. He came over to my house watched movies, cuddled, and spent the night. However, that night he met my son's dad. The next day, we ended up having a family dinner over at my friend's house then ended up going out. He drove us all home back to my place where he spent the night again. Some play started but it didn't end very well. The next day, he didn't leave until after 2 that day. He kept in contact but slowly started to push away it seemed. I got some unnerving news that made me snippy towards everyone including him. He had stated that things between us needed to slow down and I agreed with him. Come that Thursday, he said he needed space. Which I didn't understand what I had done when I had agreed that we needed to slow the relationship down. Then, he dropped off the planet that Friday night after telling me that his phone hadn't been paid he thought it was another day when it was the day it was turned off. So, that Sunday came and he contacted. We talked and agreed that we would start over from the basics like we'd never seen each other in years. Then come Monday, where he finds out that I know someone that he knows and has known this person for a long time. He asks me how I know this person, how long I've known him, and such things like that. Then when I answer the questions he claimed I got defensive which I don't believe I did, and if I did it was because of the way he asked the questions. Then Tuesday we talked a little bit where he told me that his feelings haven't gone away 100% , are they ever going to or is he always going to hold onto me? Then after saying that he abruptly ends the conversation and haven't heard from him since. I texted him Friday to say that I hope him and his grandma are doing alright (not expecting a response) and then again on Sunday (Easter) and said the kids and I wish you and your family a happy Easter. And hours later I sent a text saying don't get it twisted I just want to be friends (yet again not expecting a response from him) I truthfully would rather have him in my life as my friend than nothing at all. I don't have as many feelings for him as I once did. However, I'd like to know if he's ever going to come back to be in my life and if his feelings will ever go away? Or if this is him shutting me out to get space and when he's done getting his space and figuring things out, will he show up again? Sorry, it's long. But if you could please help, I'd really appreciate it. Thank you.
