Need Feedback on a Virgo Woman

Hi all, I have some questions that I hope you can guide me in. I know a sun sign is just a small part of the big picture, and I also believe that your fate is not entirely ruled by the stars, but there are some definite trends I'm seeing that have me wondering.

I am a 40 year old Capricorn who met a really wonderful Virgo gal some months ago. We met through friends and did not actually begin dating till early February. Partly due to my own nature and history in life, and certainly due to being a Cap, it takes me a while to open up and really show any signs of emotion (Virgo/Caps definitely have this in common). However, months into seeing her and I am beyond hesitancy in this. In fact, from what I understand about Virgos, this is something I really need to control, as they don't appear to be quick with emotional communication or gushy outbursts (verbally, anyway).

Knowing this, I broached the subject of advancing the relationship when we had some quiet time to spend together Friday night. I wasn't overboard on it, and in fact mentioned that I was terrified of coming on too strong and pushing her away. She just smiled and said she liked it, that "we are on the same page", and mentioned that she doesn't really say much when it comes to emotions. So in a sense we determined the relationship, at least in terms of not seeing anyone else.

I should be happy, right? I know deep down that letting her open up on her own terms will come with time and trust, and I'm happy to give her that. I am well-past any desire for flings at this point in my life, and what I want is the real thing, forever. I sense this in her, too, of course, otherwise I wouldn't pursue this further. The fact is that I am head-over-heels for her, and truthfully have never had a feeling of this kind of depth before, especially after dating for just under three months.

Can any of the Virgo ladies out there provide any insight or advice? I have read that Virgo women may one day be very into it, and the next somewhat aloof. Again, as a Cap I understand this, but my feelings are beyond that now, and it's very easy (too easy) for me to really open up and talk. It's like I'm a teenager all over again; if I send a text wishing her good night and don't get a response till well in to the next day I get nervous, like "did I say too much? Is she having second thoughts?"

My question is, will there ever be a time, if I continue earning her trust, that she opens up emotionally? Onc

Sorry - didn't realize there was a text limit. Any insight, guidance, or advice is tremendously appreciated - thanks!

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Regarding your question: Yes, we do open up emotionally. I enjoy the progression with Virgo and Cap..you guys sound like me and my ex Cap. Everything happened organically between us..we didn't need to have talks about it. I don't want to project of my past relationship because I don't know your Virgo Woman so that was just my experience.

So far, so good from what you shared.

You seem to pursue this with integrity and there doesn't seem to be any drama between you. Steady, cozy, comfortable is great for earth sign pairings. We don't need strong displays, just the feeling that someone is in our corner and we are a team working towards a mutual goal.

Pacing out is great in the long run. Like I said, no red flags going by what you described here.

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For an astro perspective, this mirrors my experience:

http://sbioak.org/HOROSCOPE2/Linda-Goodman-Love-Signs.pdf<BR>
^Pages 618 - 621

Ah, thanks Damnata. That is very reassuring. I'm usually a pretty secure guy, but this is really getting me. I appreciate the link, too, by the way.

OK, so keep it steady and secure, go easy on the emotional talk for now, and let it progress. Might be a bit of a challenge with my suddenly-sappy brain, but I think I can manage. How long it takes is irrelevant - I care for her that much.