@christinelovessnickers
13 Years1,000+ Posts
Nitpicking
You claimed that you know you're annoyed ... while speculating that he's annoyed.
since you really don't know if he is indeed annoyed ... it's like you projecting your annoyance onto him
If you can't handle the heat ... then get out of the kitchen.
Posted by christinelovessnickers
... drives me nuts!
Seems like whatever I do is wrong ....
... because I am just annoyed.
... he says something that just annoys me.
None of that is him ... it is all you.
You are the one who is feeling less than happy ... yet, make the implication that he is suppose to make it so that you are.
You are the director of your life ... it's not his responsibility to make your decisions for you.
I am not expecting him to make me happy. I know it is only something I can do. P Angel, you may be right, maybe I am projecting....but it just seems that he is nitpicking more.
Ixion, he always seems to find something. Now I will admit I have been kind of moody.
Our last conversation he kept saying I called too late. I told him I had been busy. he proceeds to tell me I couldn't have been that busy that I couldn't have called him sooner.
Posted by Ixion120
Does he have reason to nitpick?His big Vagina told him so?
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That made me laugh. 🙂
I know that doesn't seem too significant, but when it Id something every time. I know I haven't been as nice as I can be. Maybe P Angel is right and I am projecting or he is feeding off of me.
Maybe I just need to pull whatever stick out that is up my ass? Lol.
lxion, and I have been failing recently. Lol. Oh well. He did tell me I am amazing when I am not rubbing him the wrong way with my mouth. I have tried being better about it, but recently it feels like whatever I say is wrong. I know my attitude towards him has changed...I am not as friendly as I could be. Maybe I just need to let it all roll off my back and see what happens. Just hard when it seems as if I do nothing right, despite trying.
Lxion, turns out he was "upset" that I called another guy earlier than him. So, he was being that way.
Fried (R)Lice Anyone?
That was meant to be a Joke, LOL!
Hilarious... :p
Posted by christinelovessnickers
Seems like whatever I do is wrong and it is to the point I can't seem to even have a friendly conversation because I am just annoyed.It starts off well enough and then he says something that just annoys me. Probably a personal issue. What's the deal though? Appears to me that he finds me just as annoying, so why call me?
Hee hee
The Virgo I dated with Sag Merc-- omg the shit that would come out of his mouth.
He had a habit of pointing out "imperfections"-- I told him that if he kept that up, I wasn't going to hang around him, anymore.
He quit-- but he was able to laugh about it-- I honestly don't think he realized how it sounded.
Another Virgo, however, was the opposite-- he had Merc in Leo.
That man had a silver tongue... Sweetie, you look fabulous! All the men want you.. and most of the women.
We still talk, today. 😄
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Ugh!I don't have any issues with other Virgos. Well, maybe one. The nitpicking drives me nuts! Seems like whatever I do is wrong and it is to the point I can't seem to even have a friendly conversation because I am just annoyed. It starts off well enough and then he says something that just annoys me. Probably a personal issue. What's the deal though? Appears to me that he finds me just as annoying, so why call me?