Normal Virgo behavior after breakup?

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Milani
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Hi All,

So I just ended a wonderful relationship with an Aqua guy I still care for. He had too much drama in his life and also broke my trust - This being the reason why I broke things off with him.

So usually after a breakup, I am anxious to have a 'cleanse' Since I smoke, I decided to quit cold turkey, and in the mindset of dedicating myself to losing weight and getting 'hot'... Mostly for a healthy body and mind, but also so when I come across my ex, they can wish they hadn't lost "this"

Looking back at my dating life, I have never gone back to an ex of mine (Unless it was a recent breakup and they pulled out all the stops to keep me)... But if time had passed and I'm completely over it - I wont go back.

I've done these kind of things several times before after a breakup (Both as a male Virgo and now a female Virgo)... Does this sound like normal Virgo behavior?
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Except for one, who is my Aqua ex, I never went back to an ex. I had an on/off relationship with the Aqua, but at the time I was deeply in love. Unless there was something worthwhile or a long term investment, returning to an ex was never in my mind. I’m not one to easily give up. However, once I’ve checked out of a relationship it’s rather high I’m looking for an exit and if I reach that stage then that means I’ll no longer return.
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Milani
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Posted by Virgorean
Except for one, who is my Aqua ex, I never went back to an ex. I had an on/off relationship with the Aqua, but at the time I was deeply in love. Unless there was something worthwhile or a long term investment, returning to an ex was never in my mind. I’m not one to easily give up. However, once I’ve checked out of a relationship it’s rather high I’m looking for an exit and if I reach that stage then that means I’ll no longer return.
Yes, my Aqua guy is the only one I've went back to... and I know, if he came back for me, I would probably give in.
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Milani
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Posted by AquariusBeauty
Posted by Virgorean
Except for one, who is my Aqua ex, I never went back to an ex. I had an on/off relationship with the Aqua, but at the time I was deeply in love. Unless there was something worthwhile or a long term investment, returning to an ex was never in my mind. I’m not one to easily give up. However, once I’ve checked out of a relationship it’s rather high I’m looking for an exit and if I reach that stage then that means I’ll no longer return.
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What is it about Aquarius that makes you reconsider though?
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Well the Aqua guy I was seeing was very charming and gave me affection that I absolutely loved. We had wonderful conversation and connected well. He is the second Aquarius that I've became friends with, first one being a female co-worker... So far, I've always had a great relationship (friends or lovers) with Aquarius'.
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Milani
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Posted by Sagg101
Posted by MilaniKisses
So I wasnt expecting it - but I just shed my first tears about the break off since I had initially done it. Crud, I hate this part!
This soon shall pass 🙂 All the best with the healing process. Im not a Virgo but I think a lot of people aim for self development and improvement after a break up. Mine took me 4 years!
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Thank you Sagg101!
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Sounds Virgo .

This is how it goes for me. I go through I very painful phase of laying in bed and cry , not motivated to do anything if I love the guy. It's really damaging , I hate this phase.

Then..

I analyze my situation and where I could possibly have been at fault

Then I put it down into a mental note as something to work on for my future husband

Then I start my gym going routine where I workout to stop thinking and focus on myself . With every lift and stride I'm working toward something for me.

Sometime I wish more people broke my heart . I would have an amazing body by now . I wouldn't be able to deal with the initial break up phase though .

But in your case, you made the decision to let go, most Virgo are sure of their decision when they make one, I'm just a very emotional Virgo
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Very virgo. I'm was a serial dater before I met my Taurus moon hubby :''D lol and in those past relationships I had, I always had a cleanse after. Either I changed something about myself like my hair or did my make up differently.. it was always something had to change. One time I had to change my curtains just because I needed something new. I think its just a way of making ourselves feel better by cleaning ourselves up from being a crying mess on the floor. 🙂