Patience & Criticism

For some bizarre reason, I always assumed virgo's were patient due to their earthy nature..

Lately, during conversations I have noticed that you aren't. Being a scorpio neither am I, however I was a little taken back and started analysing. I always question somebody wanting to rush anything..

So guys and girls, are you a patient lot? or does it depend on the situation? Do you make your minds up pretty quickly about something/someone?

Criticism - I also read almost everywhere (lol) that you guys do this a lot too..so far, this new guy has criticised a couple of important things. I just shrug it off and make a joke out of it, it doesn't bother me..in a weird way I see it as constructive..lol..if they didn't care they wouldn't bother..Its sweet in a way. Is this the case? Do you criticise someone you like?

Patience depends on the situation... and criticism, your right on, people I like get criticized, people I don't like, I don't even bother (does that make any sense?)

Sometimes... I think I'm being more stubborn than patient.

Hi Missmorals -

I am not a Virgo but I am involved with one. He is very patient. He knows what he wants and he will patiently wait for it. I also have a girlfriend who is a Virgo and she has a bit of a difficult time being patient. I truly feel that through life experiences we grow and these qualities do develop - all in the right time.

Also what I have found to be of some interest is what we notice in others we tend to have those same qualites (mirroring effect). When another person enters our life they have become our teachers and we their teachers (if we are open to this and to growth). It's a wonderful adventure/opportunity to see yourself through anothers eyes -

In-joy the ride and your Virgo man MissMorals....they are awesome peoples those Virgos!

"Do you criticise someone you like?" Virgo sign or anyone? I choose not to cricise anyone. They are who they are.

Eh, it's not like I'm a constant critic, I just have my moments.

Thanks vmoon.

Freebird - what sign are you?

"Also what I have found to be of some interest is what we notice in others we tend to have those same qualites (mirroring effect)."

Yes I am seeing that now. I criticise everything, am a bit of a perfectionist too. If somethings not perfect, I become irritable until it is. Sometimes I go about it in the wrong way, i.e. my way or the high way!..lol..but thats just me being stubborn. However, it depends on the situation and person. I can be very compromising too.

I have a Virgo female friend. Whilst on holiday in Canada last year, my pisces friend told me that she was mirroring everything I did. I can't say I noticed but now come to think of it she was always asking my opinion on everything..We ended up buying a lot of the same stuff. Apparantly she worshipped me. Hmm..Well I didn't notice or wasn't bothered by it. Pisces obviously was!..lol..

MM, I am an Aries😉

I see you are located in London 🙂 My Virgo man surprised me with a trip to your lovely city for my B-Day last year along with tickets to The Phantom of The Opera. AWESOME!!!! Better than the U.S. shows by far! I am soooo looking to another trip there soon...after Italy of course which is coming up soon!

*looking FORWARD to* ugh....stuff just happens!

Freebird - Aww how nice of your Virgo to do that..how very romantic..How long you guys been together? Mines in Spain for the bank holiday weekend. I go to Spain 2 weeks after he returns..Can't wait. We aren't exclusive yet so can't really call him mine..lol..Scorpio possessive nature coming out to play there..lol

Yeah I love living in London. Moved here 10 years ago for studies and work and never looked back. Couldn't imagine living anywhere else..Never a dull moment in London (apart from the weather..lol). Theatre is by far my favourite past time. Can you believe, I STILL haven't seen Phantom of the Opera. I am waiting for a great star lead for Chicago the musical..Wow..can't wait for that..