I have been dating a Virgo man for two years now. He has never really opened up to me fully, sometimes acts distant, and can appear unemotional and disconnected. He says that he was not always this unemotional. He tells me that he loves me, that I have never done anything wrong and have been nothing but perfect. He says that I am an angel and have been put in his life for a reason. Yet he still seems to hide his emotions and feelings from me and when I ask him about how he feels or why he closes off and says few words or nothing at all. Lately he has seemed more standoffish and I confronted him about it. He said that he always saw a future with me but lately he has been feeling anxious about something and he doesn’t know what it is. He said that he just has a gut feeling that something isn’t right but he doesn’t know what it is. He said he can’t explain it but it’s just a feeling that he has. He said that he loves me and wants to be with me but not if he can’t be himself around me and open up to me. He said sometimes he just doesn’t feel comfortable opening up to me. He told me that he doesn’t know what he wants (he still technically did not break up with me) but he said maybe he just needs more time to think about things and figure it out. I can’t tell if he is really confused or knows that he doesn’t want to be in this relationship but just doesn’t know how to say it. I have no idea when I will hear from him again since he can sometimes take a while before he contacts me when there’s an issue. we barely have fought in the relationship. He has mentioned that we don’t have good communication but then he still remains shut down toward me. What should I do? Is there any chance that he will still want to be with me and work things out? How can I get him to open up to me? I love him so much and really dont want to lose him and he knows this. I told him that I’m here for him whenever he’s ready to talk but that I love him and don’t want to lose him and I’m willing to work on things if he is. He said that he doesnt know what to do because he doesn’t want this to keep happening.
Please help me
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